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AIBU to question recovering divers’ bodies

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SP2024 · 26/05/2026 21:55

The case of the divers who have perished underwater is very sad. The company clearly didn’t have the right equipment. Went too deep and couldn’t get back. However I can’t understand why they risked other lives - and someone did die - trying to recover the bodies. Why not leave them to nature like ship wrecks and those who fall overboard from the small boats? It surely cost loads as well. What am I not understanding?

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SP2024 · 27/05/2026 17:28

Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 07:53

I’m struggling to comprehend your focus on money here, you’re repeatedly asking.

if it was your child or spouse would you leave them down there, or would you want to give them a proper send off and understand what happened.

try to have some empathy and not focus on money.

I’m not focused on the money alone. The other aspects of my questions have been addressed and I’ve learned some things. But no one had addressed this aspect. Whilst I agree families will want their loved ones back I assume they are not the ones paying for the recovery mission. I wonder if there is some kind of insurance that covers this or a government fund etc. It must be very expensive. But just because I’m asking the question doesn’t mean I don’t have empathy for the families. They are not mutually exclusive.

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Notsosweetcaroline · 27/05/2026 17:29

SP2024 · 27/05/2026 17:28

I’m not focused on the money alone. The other aspects of my questions have been addressed and I’ve learned some things. But no one had addressed this aspect. Whilst I agree families will want their loved ones back I assume they are not the ones paying for the recovery mission. I wonder if there is some kind of insurance that covers this or a government fund etc. It must be very expensive. But just because I’m asking the question doesn’t mean I don’t have empathy for the families. They are not mutually exclusive.

I would assume the Maldivian government is paying for it. Does it really matter, the money isn’t important.

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:32

My mum and I regularly have this conversation about the bodies on Everest - there are circa 200 bodies up there, the world's highest graveyard.

GasPanic · 27/05/2026 17:45

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:32

My mum and I regularly have this conversation about the bodies on Everest - there are circa 200 bodies up there, the world's highest graveyard.

I think they will be cleaned up probably within the decade.

They are already starting to use drones to take supplies up Everest, and on the way down they carry rubbish etc.

Arlanymor · 27/05/2026 17:53

GasPanic · 27/05/2026 17:45

I think they will be cleaned up probably within the decade.

They are already starting to use drones to take supplies up Everest, and on the way down they carry rubbish etc.

This is a really interesting article and fairly contemporary: https://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/everest/mount-everest-dead-bodies-2024/

The use of industrial/commercial drones is really important for Everest and the transportation of equipment and removal of waste - but you still need people to load/offload. Even though drones can fly in the death zone - you'd still require humans to go up there and risk their own lives. It's not a fully automated process. Not that most people who perish are in the death zone, but there is a significant percentage and it would require human intervention to retrieve them.

Crews remove a body from Mount Everest following a deadly avalanche in 2015.

Removing Dead Bodies from Mount Everest Is Dangerous and Expensive. Here’s Why.

Recovery missions on the world's highest peak aren't easy. Here's why they come with a soaring price tag and a heightened potential for disaster.

https://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/everest/mount-everest-dead-bodies-2024?scope=anon

Keepoffmyartichokes · 28/05/2026 07:47

My husband and son are divers so we've been watching this story and it appears they wanted to recover the bodies and the equipments which includes cameras to determine what happened. There was a theory that a current may have dragged them into the caves and if that's the case then knowing this they can warn other divers of the dangers of that area. I also second what others have said because in diving you have to have a buddy who could save your life if it went wrong there is a strong mentality of no one left behind. It does seem like the group who were experienced made a lot of wrong decisions and sealed their fate.

Restlessdreams1994 · 28/05/2026 07:53

For the families it gives them a body for burial and also to try and answers as to what happened by post mortem examinations, inspection of dive computers and equipment etc. This might help to prevent future similar accidents, which in turn may help the family feel something positive has come out of it.

Most bodies are retrieved by volunteers or by people being paid to do so. Similarly on Everest, some families will pay specialist teams to retrieve bodies of loved ones if it is possible to do so.

My brother travels remotely a lot and has always said not to pay to retrieve/repatriate his body if he dies abroad because he doesn’t want us to have the stress and what he feels is unnecessary expense.

Restlessdreams1994 · 28/05/2026 07:56

This New York Times article about the retrieval of bodies from Everest is fascinating (it is also very graphic so don’t click if you might find it too upsetting):

Deliverance from 27,000 feet

Brank · 28/05/2026 08:01

I’m not sure why you think bodies from ship wrecks and small boats are just “left to nature”. There’s usually a proportionate search for any bodies. If anything in this situation it makes more sense to go and get them because they know where they are.

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