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Emergency row seating - pregnant

41 replies

sunshinebelieve · 26/05/2026 17:55

We booked our holiday with easyJet at the beginning of the year, before I found out I’m pregnant. We always book extra legroom seats and chose the emergency row over the wing as per previous years.

I’ve just checked and pregnant women aren’t allowed to sit in these seats as it may involve opening heavy doors etc.

So what do I do? I’ll be 18.5 weeks on the way out, 19.5 weeks on the way back. WIBU to think a baggy jumper could disguise it - I have two tall, strong adult men with me in our row.
Or should I fess up and face being moved on my own? Or possibly worse if no one agrees to swap?

YABU - fess up and move seats
YANBU - just wear the baggy jumper and say zilch!

OP posts:
Gloriia · 26/05/2026 19:15

Just keep quiet. 18weeks won't even be noticeable.

Miyagi99 · 26/05/2026 19:16

latetothefisting · 26/05/2026 19:11

I thought it was just the passenger nearest the door that needed to be able to open it, not the whole row needing to get involved! I was sat on that row on a recent flight and nobody asked me anything. I'm 5 foot nothing too with no upper body strength so probably less capable of opening a heavy door than your average taller pregnant woman.

If the 2 men you are with sit in the window and middle seat I doubt they will be bothered about you at all.

Definitely whole row.

Gloriia · 26/05/2026 19:17

Miyagi99 · 26/05/2026 19:15

Because they’re by the emergency exit, you’re told that could be your responsibility in an emergency.

It's the staff's responsibility. I've sat in the emergency exit row and been told in an emergency I'd need to help others. I'm sure if it came to it anyone sat there would straight down the slideGrin.

TeaPot496 · 26/05/2026 19:21

There's nothing incapable about you, I'd crack on.

ItsTimeGo · 26/05/2026 19:22

Gloriia · 26/05/2026 19:17

It's the staff's responsibility. I've sat in the emergency exit row and been told in an emergency I'd need to help others. I'm sure if it came to it anyone sat there would straight down the slideGrin.

What airline was that?? That’s very unusual. I’ve only ever been asked if I’m able to open the door if required and to read the instructions about how to do it. I’m pretty sure they can’t put responsibility for others on another passenger.

Miyagi99 · 26/05/2026 19:27

Gloriia · 26/05/2026 19:17

It's the staff's responsibility. I've sat in the emergency exit row and been told in an emergency I'd need to help others. I'm sure if it came to it anyone sat there would straight down the slideGrin.

The staff might be dead at that point, which is why you need to be prepared to open the door.

kohlrabislaw · 26/05/2026 19:34

ItsTimeGo · 26/05/2026 19:22

What airline was that?? That’s very unusual. I’ve only ever been asked if I’m able to open the door if required and to read the instructions about how to do it. I’m pretty sure they can’t put responsibility for others on another passenger.

I was flying either Ryanair or EasyJet and my family had been split up and my 12 year old had been randomly allocated an emergency exit seat. They asked me to swap with her which I did. They definitely asked the entire row if we would help with the door and other passengers in an emergency.

Jellox · 26/05/2026 19:34

Just get DH to book himself a different seat and swap halfway through so you can both enjoy the extra leg room.

Yes you could hide it but if something happens and you need to claim on travel insurance etc - is it really worth it for extra leg room.

Dbank · 26/05/2026 19:39

Whilst unlikely you're more likely to be an obstruction and put other people at risk, hence the rule. The reasonable thing to do is move, not moving is selfish.

GinaandGin · 26/05/2026 19:44

ItsTimeGo · 26/05/2026 19:22

What airline was that?? That’s very unusual. I’ve only ever been asked if I’m able to open the door if required and to read the instructions about how to do it. I’m pretty sure they can’t put responsibility for others on another passenger.

They can which is why people with disabilities can't sit in that row

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 26/05/2026 19:45

SummerInSun · 26/05/2026 18:01

At less than 20 weeks no one is going to be able to tell whether you are pregnant or just a bit pudgy round the tummy.

I was very very obviously pregnant by 18 weeks both times

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 19:53

I hope I don’t get any passengers as selfish as the commenters on here on my next flight! The rules are there for a reason. Just tell them.

ohtowinthelottery · 26/05/2026 19:54

Last time we flew with Jet 2 we had emergency exit seats. We were definitely asked by the crew if we were willing and physically able to assist with the door in an emergency. If you feel your pregnancy will compromise doing this then you should declare and they will swap your seat.

dudsville · 26/05/2026 19:59

It just says "pregnant women"? If so, I would assume they're not considering the difference in health and abilities across the pregnancy and how this varies woman to woman. If you feel well and healthy, I would not worry.

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 20:00

dudsville · 26/05/2026 19:59

It just says "pregnant women"? If so, I would assume they're not considering the difference in health and abilities across the pregnancy and how this varies woman to woman. If you feel well and healthy, I would not worry.

Because they can’t make a case by case analysis as you board.

The same as it’s anyone with a physical disability- whether that’s an ex marine who’s missing a leg but stronger than everyone else on board or someone with a spinal cord injury. Or the same as it’s anyone who needs a lap extended, or under a certain age. It’s just the rule.

ItsTimeGo · 26/05/2026 20:36

GinaandGin · 26/05/2026 19:44

They can which is why people with disabilities can't sit in that row

I thought that was so disabled people don’t accidentally get in the way and block the exit. Or if they are disabled enough that they can’t open the door. Not that they have to actually help other passengers etc. But maybe I’m wrong. I’ve only ever been asked if I’m happy and capable to open the door.

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