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Emergency row seating - pregnant

41 replies

sunshinebelieve · 26/05/2026 17:55

We booked our holiday with easyJet at the beginning of the year, before I found out I’m pregnant. We always book extra legroom seats and chose the emergency row over the wing as per previous years.

I’ve just checked and pregnant women aren’t allowed to sit in these seats as it may involve opening heavy doors etc.

So what do I do? I’ll be 18.5 weeks on the way out, 19.5 weeks on the way back. WIBU to think a baggy jumper could disguise it - I have two tall, strong adult men with me in our row.
Or should I fess up and face being moved on my own? Or possibly worse if no one agrees to swap?

YABU - fess up and move seats
YANBU - just wear the baggy jumper and say zilch!

OP posts:
SnappyOchre · 26/05/2026 17:57

Would you be unable to sit on your own, even nearby? They usually ask people in the vicinity of the exit to volunteer for a swap.

redboxerclub · 26/05/2026 17:57

It’s not implausible to not be aware you are pregnant so I’d just roll with it. No one is going to ask unless you are visible heavily pregnant

OnTheBoardwalk · 26/05/2026 17:59

I’ve just checked and pregnant women aren’t allowed to sit in these seats as it may involve opening heavy doors etc.

this surely answers your own question does it not?

redboxerclub · 26/05/2026 17:59

Although if you don’t want to sit there deal with it at the gate or on the plane. Say you didn’t realise and ask them to swap with someone who want the leg room.

SummerInSun · 26/05/2026 18:01

At less than 20 weeks no one is going to be able to tell whether you are pregnant or just a bit pudgy round the tummy.

kohlrabislaw · 26/05/2026 18:02

Usually the cabin crew will ask the people in those seats to confirm that they are willing and physically able to help in an emergency. I assume you won’t be able to do that and will need to inform them. And they’ll move you to a different seat.

Monty36 · 26/05/2026 18:07

Why would a passenger be opening a heavy door ?

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 18:09

Monty36 · 26/05/2026 18:07

Why would a passenger be opening a heavy door ?

In case of an emergency landing you might need to open the exit door to allow people to escape. Not all emergency landings are ‘planned’

Twasasurprise · 26/05/2026 18:10

Someone will bite your arm off for the extra leg room, I wouldn't worry about a swap.

jackstini · 26/05/2026 18:12

Can you get row 1 seats?
They have extra legroom but no emergency exit requirements

BigYellowBus · 26/05/2026 18:27

Monty36 · 26/05/2026 18:07

Why would a passenger be opening a heavy door ?

I doubt it's very common but it does happen. I read an account of the flight that landed in the Hudson River soon after 9/11 (the one in the Tom Hanks film Sully) and a lot of passengers owed their lives to the guy in the emergency exit who realised their was a problem and carefully rehearsed how to open the passenger door so he was able to do it quickly when instructed

Lemonfrost · 26/05/2026 18:29

You need to tell the cabin crew. You already know you shouldn't be sitting there.

Maybeitllneverhappen · 26/05/2026 18:29

Get the 2 men to sit next to the door and they probably won't even be interested in you. They ask the people right next to the door if they are fit and able to manoeuvre it in my experience.

Delphiniumandlupins · 26/05/2026 18:43

You will have no problem finding someone to swap to the extra leg room seat. When we flew with 15 year old, 6ft 3 DS he wasn't allowed to sit in emergency exit seat for take off and landing but was allowed to move once in the air.

GinaandGin · 26/05/2026 18:45

Monty36 · 26/05/2026 18:07

Why would a passenger be opening a heavy door ?

In the event of an emergency

Londonrach1 · 26/05/2026 18:48

You know the rules if they say no pregnancy and an accident happens...they could refuse you to board or move you of you are lucky...is tell them..it's important

Allthecustardcreams · 26/05/2026 18:52

YABVU. Rules are there to protect the safety of you and other passengers.

CoverLikelyZebra · 26/05/2026 18:59

If your medical records show that you have spoken to any professional about being pregnant and you haven't declared it to your insurer, then your travel insurance will be invalid and they won't pay up if there is any incident during your holiday.

If you do declare your pregnancy to your insurer but don't declare it to the airline and sit in a row that is forbidden fir pregnant passengers, then im the event of any incident on the plane that leads to a claim, your travel insurance will be invalid and they won't pay up.

Or are you a happy-go-lucky traveller who plans to use a crowd-funding platform to make other people pay if there's an expensive holiday incident rather than paying for insurance?

Lapplach · 26/05/2026 19:03

Allthecustardcreams · 26/05/2026 18:52

YABVU. Rules are there to protect the safety of you and other passengers.

I'm very confident that when pregnant I'd be far more capable of opening the door than many non-pregnant women. I'd swap because I'm a rule follower but it wouldn't necessarily be logical. There are some tremendously unfit people about.

latetothefisting · 26/05/2026 19:11

I thought it was just the passenger nearest the door that needed to be able to open it, not the whole row needing to get involved! I was sat on that row on a recent flight and nobody asked me anything. I'm 5 foot nothing too with no upper body strength so probably less capable of opening a heavy door than your average taller pregnant woman.

If the 2 men you are with sit in the window and middle seat I doubt they will be bothered about you at all.

PurpleThistle7 · 26/05/2026 19:12

I am intensely risk adverse couldn’t do it. Not because I think pregnant people are incapable, but because I hate doing anything risky re insurance. Just too many ways they can avoid paying out and I don’t want to hand them another.

JugglingMyNuts · 26/05/2026 19:13

latetothefisting · 26/05/2026 19:11

I thought it was just the passenger nearest the door that needed to be able to open it, not the whole row needing to get involved! I was sat on that row on a recent flight and nobody asked me anything. I'm 5 foot nothing too with no upper body strength so probably less capable of opening a heavy door than your average taller pregnant woman.

If the 2 men you are with sit in the window and middle seat I doubt they will be bothered about you at all.

The times have been in exit rows (a lot as we book them for leg room) the whole row is asked specifically that they can open the door in an emergency.

Miyagi99 · 26/05/2026 19:13

I wasn’t showing at that stage, I suppose it depends how big you’re going to look!

Feelingshocked26 · 26/05/2026 19:13

SummerInSun · 26/05/2026 18:01

At less than 20 weeks no one is going to be able to tell whether you are pregnant or just a bit pudgy round the tummy.

Ha! You never saw me pregnant then 🤣

Miyagi99 · 26/05/2026 19:15

Monty36 · 26/05/2026 18:07

Why would a passenger be opening a heavy door ?

Because they’re by the emergency exit, you’re told that could be your responsibility in an emergency.