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To refuse viewings once I’ve given notice

227 replies

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 11:43

Once I’ve given notice, I’ve always felt that my time and space should be mine.

In the final weeks I’m usually packing, organising a move, working and trying to keep life ticking over. Having people come in and out for viewings feels disruptive and stressful, especially when it’s framed as an expectation rather than a request.

My view has always been that landlords or agents are free to show the property once it’s empty, on their own time but that I’m not obliged to facilitate viewings while I’m still living there.

AIBU?

OP posts:
FryingPam · Yesterday 14:13

I don’t know what it is about landlord-tenant relationships that always makes the tenant go ‘I want to cause my landlord as much trouble as possible’. Somehow, when people borrow something that isn’t a flat, they remain decent people, but all decency goes out of the window in this situation.
OP, if the landlord was a nightmare and unfair to you, then go ahead. If the landlord was decent and you just want to be difficult for the sake of it because they’re a landlord and you’re their tenant, then get a grip!

KeepPumping · Yesterday 14:15

Morepositivemum · Yesterday 12:38

I voted yabu because you’re messing with people who are desperately searching for a place to live as much as you’re messing around the landlord

People are not desperately searching, that is a myth, they are taking their time and finding the best deals.

https://landlordassociation.org.uk/rents-fall-and-a-supply-surge-weighs-on-house-prices/

Rents fall and a supply surge weighs on house prices

Rents fall and a supply surge weighs on house prices - The Landlord Association (TLA)

Rising Supply and Falling Rents Put Pressure on UK House Prices in Early 2026

https://landlordassociation.org.uk/rents-fall-and-a-supply-surge-weighs-on-house-prices

Ahazelwand · Yesterday 14:15

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

It is her home and space while she is renting it.

Anonbakerylady · Yesterday 14:15

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:04

That rather agrees with my point. If landlords have to factor in extra time where the property will be empty because the tenant might refuse viewings, then the landlord will not "just have to fund it themselves", they will simply increase the rent to accommodate the anticipated extra loss. OP might care about that because it means increased rent generally. But maybe she is happy for everyone, including herself, to pay more ¯\(ツ)

Quiet enjoyment is a very old legal right of tenants. Landlords should already be prepared for tenants to exercise this right. With the lack of available rental properties, Landlords will have no problem getting someone else in so that void time should make little difference.

The problem is too many Landlords go into the rental market without doing their homework, they think they can contract out of statutory rights when they can't. If you are going to be in a business, you have to know your rights and responsibilities and be prepared.

bigdecisionstomake · Yesterday 14:16

Manchegomango · Yesterday 12:38

YANBU. LLs already profit from nothing. They can go without their one weeks passive income to do viewings on their own time.

Laughing my head off at the ignorance in this comment. And no, I'm not a landlord.

KeepPumping · Yesterday 14:17

FryingPam · Yesterday 14:13

I don’t know what it is about landlord-tenant relationships that always makes the tenant go ‘I want to cause my landlord as much trouble as possible’. Somehow, when people borrow something that isn’t a flat, they remain decent people, but all decency goes out of the window in this situation.
OP, if the landlord was a nightmare and unfair to you, then go ahead. If the landlord was decent and you just want to be difficult for the sake of it because they’re a landlord and you’re their tenant, then get a grip!

Following the law on a business agreement is not "causing trouble", if a landlord has not costed for voids they should not be a landlord (and in many cases probably won"t be for much longer with rising interest rates)

JustAnUdea · Yesterday 14:18

As a landlord... we need vvoid periods. Its a change to decorate, check for damage/wear and tear update things etc without a tenants belongings in the way.

We plan for them fiancially because you can never predict when they may happen.

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 14:19

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:10

The market does take into account landlord costs and losses. It is two way, based on the amount that tenants can or will afford to pay, and the amount that landlords can or will afford to accept.

That’s not relevant to your point. If the market dictates the property can charge £900 a month, the landlord can’t expect £950 because they have additional costs they didn’t factor in

voids costs should already be factored into the rent. So you need to make your mind up whether the landlord will need to increase the rent to cover void periods, or not.

Happyjoe · Yesterday 14:21

Never used to have viewings when I rented, it's proper disruptive and an invasion of privacy. I wouldn't allow anyone in, no way.

Brideofclover · Yesterday 14:22

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

It is their home until their last day of their tenancy!!!!!

EarthSight · Yesterday 14:22

I've been a tenant for years, but I'm afraid this is a reminder that it isn't your house.

Until the last day that you're there, yes, things should remain as they otherwise would and not be disruptive as you're presumably still paying full price until you leave. However, they're running a business. Many landlords will want to get other tenants in asap because even a week of it being empty could mean a loss of £100 - £400, at the very minimum.

MrsBroccolini · Yesterday 14:23

I totally understand how viewings are disruptive but I do absolutely think that this is unreasonable. I think you could create firm boundaries (offering e.g. 2 fixed mornings a week max, and you won't be there), but I think it's just a bit shitty to say I don't want to live here anymore but I'm not going to let you find someone to take the property promptly, thereby potentially putting your mortgage (or other general running bills/costs) or your own financial position in a precarious place.

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 14:24

CMMM · Yesterday 13:59

Our landlord was reasonable so we said we'd go out for one Saturday and they fitted in back to back viewings. Easily sorted for the landlord and very little impact on us...would something like that work?

That honestly sounds much more reasonable to me because it’s structured, limited and mutually agreed rather than constant ad hoc disruption. I think that’s very different from tenants being expected to remain perpetually available/open for repeated viewings over weeks while still living there.

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KeepPumping · Yesterday 14:25

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:04

That rather agrees with my point. If landlords have to factor in extra time where the property will be empty because the tenant might refuse viewings, then the landlord will not "just have to fund it themselves", they will simply increase the rent to accommodate the anticipated extra loss. OP might care about that because it means increased rent generally. But maybe she is happy for everyone, including herself, to pay more ¯\(ツ)

With immigration falling and unemployment rising "increased rent generally" is not going to happen, many landlords just want to cover their mortgage debt now.

EarthSight · Yesterday 14:26

Happyjoe · Yesterday 14:21

Never used to have viewings when I rented, it's proper disruptive and an invasion of privacy. I wouldn't allow anyone in, no way.

We had viewings when the owner was selling our house. It wasn't too descriptive, but I don't think there was that may of them because they can usually fill them fast, such is the poor state of the U.K housing market.

I do find it absolutely cheeky though when landlords try to sell houses to regular, non-landlord people when they have tenants still in them.

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 14:26

darksideofthetoon · Yesterday 13:59

What if the LL paid you for the inconvenience?

I’d probably feel differently about it if there was some genuine acknowledgement/compensation for the inconvenience rather than it simply being treated as an automatic expectation. Part of my issue is the assumption that tenants should just absorb unlimited disruption because it benefits the landlord commercially.

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StrictlyCoffee · Yesterday 14:27

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

Well it is her home if she pays the rent

Wickedlittledancer · Yesterday 14:28

Legally you can refuse, you may get a bad reference, personally I’d recommend negotiating set times, when it suits you.

Wickedlittledancer · Yesterday 14:28

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 14:26

I’d probably feel differently about it if there was some genuine acknowledgement/compensation for the inconvenience rather than it simply being treated as an automatic expectation. Part of my issue is the assumption that tenants should just absorb unlimited disruption because it benefits the landlord commercially.

I don’t think that’s right, you can simply say to them every Friday at 3 or whatever works for you.

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 14:29

BatchCookBabe · Yesterday 14:01

Sorry @WryJadeWren but I think YABU. How is your landlord supposed to get someone else into your property (as soon as you leave) if people can't view it while you're still there? We were in private let for about 2 years some one and a half decades ago, and 3 families came to have a look around in the last 10 days we were there... I warned the landlord to warn them that the place was upside down, but the landlord and the prosepctive tenants were all OK with it. Only 3 sets of people came anyway, as the third lot decided to take the property!

Maybe you don't HAVE to let people in, but YABU to not do so IMO.

I think this is probably where the “reasonable in practice” point comes in tbh. A few pre-arranged viewings towards the end is very different to feeling like people may constantly be in and out while you’re still actively living there. As I’ve said, my issue is more with the assumption of automatic unrestricted access rather than every possible viewing under all circumstances.

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KeepPumping · Yesterday 14:29

MrsBroccolini · Yesterday 14:23

I totally understand how viewings are disruptive but I do absolutely think that this is unreasonable. I think you could create firm boundaries (offering e.g. 2 fixed mornings a week max, and you won't be there), but I think it's just a bit shitty to say I don't want to live here anymore but I'm not going to let you find someone to take the property promptly, thereby potentially putting your mortgage (or other general running bills/costs) or your own financial position in a precarious place.

But people keep telling us that there is massive demand for rental and people are "desperate" and "lining up for rentals"? Obviously this is all shite if landlords can barely allow time to re-paint the place between tenants because they will lose money if they don"t immediately grab another tenant.

gostickyourheadinapig · Yesterday 14:29

EarthSight · Yesterday 14:22

I've been a tenant for years, but I'm afraid this is a reminder that it isn't your house.

Until the last day that you're there, yes, things should remain as they otherwise would and not be disruptive as you're presumably still paying full price until you leave. However, they're running a business. Many landlords will want to get other tenants in asap because even a week of it being empty could mean a loss of £100 - £400, at the very minimum.

Well, pass me a torch and an electron microscope, because I need to go up to the attic and look for the world's smallest violin.

Feis123 · Yesterday 14:29

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

In these days of utter entitlement it is refreshing to read this point of view.

Crikeyalmighty · Yesterday 14:37

I’ve always allowed a general open day/afternoon once a week, usually a Saturday - when there can be multiple viewings - luckily as tenant I’ve only ever needed the first one as someone always took it - what I don’t want is multiple viewings every other day etc

user1471538283 · Yesterday 14:38

When I gave notice I had contractually obligated viewings that annoyed me but I had to. I was there because our DGirlcat is so nervous. The viewers tried to ask me questions! I'm not interested mate.

But you could ask for the viewings to be back to back for a hour rather than taking up days?

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