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To refuse viewings once I’ve given notice

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WryJadeWren · Yesterday 11:43

Once I’ve given notice, I’ve always felt that my time and space should be mine.

In the final weeks I’m usually packing, organising a move, working and trying to keep life ticking over. Having people come in and out for viewings feels disruptive and stressful, especially when it’s framed as an expectation rather than a request.

My view has always been that landlords or agents are free to show the property once it’s empty, on their own time but that I’m not obliged to facilitate viewings while I’m still living there.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 13:28

JuliaRobHurts · Yesterday 13:21

As long as their was a reasonable amount of advanced warning I'd try and acccomdate the request.

Obviously you don't have to but equally the landlord doesn't have to return your deposit in a timely manner. They could get into a dispute with OP for deducations for property damage etc that would delay the deposit return.

Ulimately OP should base it on the relationship with the landlord. If the landlord has responded promptly to broken utilities etc and has been pleasant throughout the tenancy I'd try and accommodate the requests. However, if the landlord has been unreliable, quick to increase rates and you suspect they might try and unfairly withhold a portion of the deposit then I would not allow any viewings.

Edited

The worst threats of this thread are about the landlord making life difficult for a tenant who doesn’t do something they have zero obligation to do.

not giving a reference or delaying the release of a deposit is ridiculous, vengeful, unprofessional and unfair behaviour

luckily the TDS will release it anyway, but yes in theory a difficult landlord can delay it a bit.

best to rent through agencies so the landlord doesn’t control any of this.

WerzMyHedAt · Yesterday 13:30

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

It is, until the end of her tenancy.

She has a legal right to "peaceful enjoyment" of her home until the end of the tenancy.

I was a landlord for 10+ years but I am totally on the tenants side in that scenario. I would hate there to be viewings on my home while I was living there.

OP refuse if you want. Landlord will just have to cover a void period. That's just the nature of the landlord business, they'll have to just get over it.

PopcornPoppingInAPan · Yesterday 13:31

As long as you’re happy that if tenants generally take this approach then landlords will increase the rent, then fill your boots OP. Personally I’d rather not pay more rent to cover the increased void periods that your approach will lead to 🤷‍♀️

ByWittyGoose · Yesterday 13:33

It would depend entirely on what sort of landlord they have been.

I've had excellent landlords that I have bent over backwards to accommodate.

Current one, I've been waiting 2 years for a fairly important repair so I'm much less inclined.

SpaceRaccoon · Yesterday 13:33

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

It very much is their home while they rent it - it's not their property, but the law certainly sees it as their home for the duration.

Looking4Summer · Yesterday 13:38

No, I think it's the price of being a landlord, to cover the gap between tenants. It's odd when landlords say they 'make nothing' from a property as rent covers the mortgage etc. Well in that case you're gaining a huge financial asset that is costing you very little or nothing. That's not nothing.

I have never viewed a rental property with someone still living there. It would be very awkward.

When we left our rental (to buy our own house) we had been there for 7 years, so turned down viewings. The house was empty for 6 weeks after we left.

KeepPumping · Yesterday 13:43

Greenwitchart · Yesterday 12:03

The law says that you don't have to.

But do you need a good reference from your current landlord?

If so you might want to be a bit flexible and maybe allow viewings once a week because your current landlord might be petty and give any further landlord a reference including the fact that you refused to allow viewings which might put them off.

Most landlords just want (need?) the money, if you have been at the previous place say five years and never missed a payment they are going to take you, what sort of bad reference could someone possibly give if they had you living in their flat for years?

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 13:46

canthavetoomanylights · Yesterday 12:49

I think it depends whether you want to be a reasonable decent person, or deliberately make life harder for your landlord by being so awkward and selfish.

She's not just making life harder for the landlord, she's making it worse for the future tenants too. If her refusal to accommodate viewings means that the property is empty for, say, an extra two weeks then the landlord will likely need to mitigate their losses by incorporating the lost rent into the following 12 months rent. Contrary to popular belief, most landlords are far from "raking it in".

Also, it means that tenants will not be able to view and secure their tenancy well in advance. Instead, the viewings and contract acceptance will all need to happen in a space of 1-2 weeks, so very rushed and inevitably creating a race between tenants for the property, even more so now that many landlords are leaving the rental market.

Given the timing of the post I can't help but wonder whether the OP gave notice herself or was given a Section 21 notice by her current landlord.

PlummyAndFruity · Yesterday 13:47

JustAnotherWhinger · Yesterday 13:07

I’ve never once asked my tenants to facilitate viewings on properties.

They’re paying for the property from the day they arrive until the day they leave. It’s their home.

Plus any decent landlord should be going in once the property is empty to check condition and do basic maintenance (and any upgrades) before having new people look around.

Any landlord who threatens a bad reference over viewings should be banned from being a landlord. Too many landlords thing various pieces of law don’t apply to them.

I wish my landlord was like you. We're moving next week and have had to accommodate 6 viewings in the last 3 weeks. It's been a pain to be honest, and they still haven't found any takers. They've been fine as landlords, but I'm tempted to say no more viewings while we're here.

KeepPumping · Yesterday 13:47

Looking4Summer · Yesterday 13:38

No, I think it's the price of being a landlord, to cover the gap between tenants. It's odd when landlords say they 'make nothing' from a property as rent covers the mortgage etc. Well in that case you're gaining a huge financial asset that is costing you very little or nothing. That's not nothing.

I have never viewed a rental property with someone still living there. It would be very awkward.

When we left our rental (to buy our own house) we had been there for 7 years, so turned down viewings. The house was empty for 6 weeks after we left.

Not sure all landlords are "gaining a huge financial asset". If they have mortgage debt on the flat, voids, lease problems, non-paying tenants, the fact that most recently bought flats are falling in value etc. etc. mean they could have a money pit, landlording is strictly for those who know exactly what they are doing, and favours people who bought the properties many years ago.

thinkingofachange · Yesterday 13:48

coneyislandoldspot · Yesterday 11:53

I think YABU.

It is inherently not your home or your space.

It is her home

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 13:51

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 13:46

She's not just making life harder for the landlord, she's making it worse for the future tenants too. If her refusal to accommodate viewings means that the property is empty for, say, an extra two weeks then the landlord will likely need to mitigate their losses by incorporating the lost rent into the following 12 months rent. Contrary to popular belief, most landlords are far from "raking it in".

Also, it means that tenants will not be able to view and secure their tenancy well in advance. Instead, the viewings and contract acceptance will all need to happen in a space of 1-2 weeks, so very rushed and inevitably creating a race between tenants for the property, even more so now that many landlords are leaving the rental market.

Given the timing of the post I can't help but wonder whether the OP gave notice herself or was given a Section 21 notice by her current landlord.

But landlord who hasn’t already factored in void time to their current rent is stupid

theyll just have to fund it themselves if they made a mistake in their calculations.

why should OP care what they do either way?

UpDownSplit · Yesterday 13:51

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 13:46

She's not just making life harder for the landlord, she's making it worse for the future tenants too. If her refusal to accommodate viewings means that the property is empty for, say, an extra two weeks then the landlord will likely need to mitigate their losses by incorporating the lost rent into the following 12 months rent. Contrary to popular belief, most landlords are far from "raking it in".

Also, it means that tenants will not be able to view and secure their tenancy well in advance. Instead, the viewings and contract acceptance will all need to happen in a space of 1-2 weeks, so very rushed and inevitably creating a race between tenants for the property, even more so now that many landlords are leaving the rental market.

Given the timing of the post I can't help but wonder whether the OP gave notice herself or was given a Section 21 notice by her current landlord.

Erm no. It’s not all OP’s fault.

If landlord puts a premium on the next tenant’s rent, that’s on them.

Later viewings will benefit another potential tenant who’s leaving two weeks later.

Im a tenant in the process of buying myself, as a is LL who served their eviction notice. LL has of course asked for the survey to be done in my home and as a tenant, you either agree to their terms or worry about your deposit and they’ll screw you over later (references). Good on OP for saying no, not convenient.

Brokentoes85 · Yesterday 13:54

WhichBigToe · Yesterday 12:08

I do think it's worth taking into account what kind of landlord you have. I'm an accidental landlord with only one flat. We've kept it only to have a chance of affording if our children want to study in London or take poorly paid starter positions/internships. We try to treat our tenants impeccably because when they leave, we have to cover the bills and mortgage until new tenants move in. Having someone stay for years is so valuable to us. Yes, we are enormously fortunate to be in a position to even contemplate keeping our old flat when we left London, but we make absolutely nothing on it. The rent just covers the mortgage and tax. That is increasingly the position good small time landlords are in. We would never want to make the last weeks in the flat hellish for our tenants, but having as small a gap as possible before the new tenants move in is the difference between having to put the rent up and not. As a system, both landlords and tenants will benefit from treating one another with thought and respect.

You're making plenty on it

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 13:56

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 13:46

She's not just making life harder for the landlord, she's making it worse for the future tenants too. If her refusal to accommodate viewings means that the property is empty for, say, an extra two weeks then the landlord will likely need to mitigate their losses by incorporating the lost rent into the following 12 months rent. Contrary to popular belief, most landlords are far from "raking it in".

Also, it means that tenants will not be able to view and secure their tenancy well in advance. Instead, the viewings and contract acceptance will all need to happen in a space of 1-2 weeks, so very rushed and inevitably creating a race between tenants for the property, even more so now that many landlords are leaving the rental market.

Given the timing of the post I can't help but wonder whether the OP gave notice herself or was given a Section 21 notice by her current landlord.

Don’t do that. My OP clearly says I gave notice because that’s what happened.
If I’d been given a Section 21, I would simply have said that.

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 13:56

Brokentoes85 · Yesterday 13:54

You're making plenty on it

This. Reluctantly Needing a flat as it’s the only way your children could do poorly paid work is fucking hysterical.

KeepPumping · Yesterday 13:57

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 13:46

She's not just making life harder for the landlord, she's making it worse for the future tenants too. If her refusal to accommodate viewings means that the property is empty for, say, an extra two weeks then the landlord will likely need to mitigate their losses by incorporating the lost rent into the following 12 months rent. Contrary to popular belief, most landlords are far from "raking it in".

Also, it means that tenants will not be able to view and secure their tenancy well in advance. Instead, the viewings and contract acceptance will all need to happen in a space of 1-2 weeks, so very rushed and inevitably creating a race between tenants for the property, even more so now that many landlords are leaving the rental market.

Given the timing of the post I can't help but wonder whether the OP gave notice herself or was given a Section 21 notice by her current landlord.

Tenants are leaving the sector faster than landlords, a tenant can very simply not be part of the renting sector by continuing to live with parents or if overseas not coming to the UK, a landlord with mortgage debt on the other hand will have a much harder time leaving the market as they have to find a buyer and pay back their debt, many landlords will just want to cover their debt, they won"t be trying to bump rents to cover past losses in case they lose the new tenant.

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CMMM · Yesterday 13:59

Our landlord was reasonable so we said we'd go out for one Saturday and they fitted in back to back viewings. Easily sorted for the landlord and very little impact on us...would something like that work?

darksideofthetoon · Yesterday 13:59

WryJadeWren · Yesterday 11:43

Once I’ve given notice, I’ve always felt that my time and space should be mine.

In the final weeks I’m usually packing, organising a move, working and trying to keep life ticking over. Having people come in and out for viewings feels disruptive and stressful, especially when it’s framed as an expectation rather than a request.

My view has always been that landlords or agents are free to show the property once it’s empty, on their own time but that I’m not obliged to facilitate viewings while I’m still living there.

AIBU?

What if the LL paid you for the inconvenience?

BatchCookBabe · Yesterday 14:01

Sorry @WryJadeWren but I think YABU. How is your landlord supposed to get someone else into your property (as soon as you leave) if people can't view it while you're still there? We were in private let for about 2 years some one and a half decades ago, and 3 families came to have a look around in the last 10 days we were there... I warned the landlord to warn them that the place was upside down, but the landlord and the prosepctive tenants were all OK with it. Only 3 sets of people came anyway, as the third lot decided to take the property!

Maybe you don't HAVE to let people in, but YABU to not do so IMO.

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:04

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 13:51

But landlord who hasn’t already factored in void time to their current rent is stupid

theyll just have to fund it themselves if they made a mistake in their calculations.

why should OP care what they do either way?

That rather agrees with my point. If landlords have to factor in extra time where the property will be empty because the tenant might refuse viewings, then the landlord will not "just have to fund it themselves", they will simply increase the rent to accommodate the anticipated extra loss. OP might care about that because it means increased rent generally. But maybe she is happy for everyone, including herself, to pay more ¯\(ツ)

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 14:06

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:04

That rather agrees with my point. If landlords have to factor in extra time where the property will be empty because the tenant might refuse viewings, then the landlord will not "just have to fund it themselves", they will simply increase the rent to accommodate the anticipated extra loss. OP might care about that because it means increased rent generally. But maybe she is happy for everyone, including herself, to pay more ¯\(ツ)

It doesn’t agree at all. The market doesn’t tolerate the landlord charging above market price because the want to recover a few months void.

the market dictates the price they can achieve, not what they fancy covering.

SnappyUmberLion · Yesterday 14:10

BatchCookBabe · Yesterday 14:01

Sorry @WryJadeWren but I think YABU. How is your landlord supposed to get someone else into your property (as soon as you leave) if people can't view it while you're still there? We were in private let for about 2 years some one and a half decades ago, and 3 families came to have a look around in the last 10 days we were there... I warned the landlord to warn them that the place was upside down, but the landlord and the prosepctive tenants were all OK with it. Only 3 sets of people came anyway, as the third lot decided to take the property!

Maybe you don't HAVE to let people in, but YABU to not do so IMO.

Just because you were happy to waive your rights, doesn’t mean others ABU for not doing so.

Poppy123xyz · Yesterday 14:10

Coeliacsmum · Yesterday 11:47

YANBU but sometimes allowing early viewings can be a lever you can use re your actual move out date etc. Have you already got a definite date for your new place? It also depends on whether your landlord has treated you fairly. Why be awkward just for the sake of it?

Its not awkward for the sake of it, its a huge disruption to arrange your life around landlord/agent needs.

GrumpyButOk · Yesterday 14:10

Backedoffhackedoff · Yesterday 14:06

It doesn’t agree at all. The market doesn’t tolerate the landlord charging above market price because the want to recover a few months void.

the market dictates the price they can achieve, not what they fancy covering.

The market does take into account landlord costs and losses. It is two way, based on the amount that tenants can or will afford to pay, and the amount that landlords can or will afford to accept.