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AIBU to spend £2k of £35k savings on a holiday?

115 replies

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:16

AIBU to think if you have 35k in savings that it’s ok to use 2k towards a holiday?

OP posts:
Hmmmmwineandchocs · 22/05/2026 12:20

ThisJadeBear · 22/05/2026 10:31

If you are young, healthy, steady employment..
Go on the holiday. You’ve earned it!

This. You only live once.
I save a lot into my savings so i can go on holiday 2-3 times a year.

JustMyView13 · 22/05/2026 12:22

EarthaKittsVoice · 22/05/2026 12:05

The flip side to this is growing up in a home, where money was tight but life was lived. So, bills paid, food on table and more in kitchen, plus being able to put the heating on. Whatever is left is to be enjoyed on experiences. No need for guilt

When I say about money being tight, I’m talking about having nothing left. Rather than little.

Amilliondreamsisallitagonnatake · 22/05/2026 12:27

It depends on circumstances. Is your job relatively stable? Are you a dual income household? Do you foresee any major expenses coming up? Are you insured for emergencies (need less available)?

KnittyKnotty · 22/05/2026 12:40

Totally up to you, some people with £5K of debt would happily bung another £2K on their credit card to go on holiday.

SummerFleurs · 22/05/2026 12:53

After reading your original post and all subsequent ones, it sounds like you financially can afford it and return to your savings amount in a short space of time.

I get how you feel though. I got a new job 8 months ago with a significant pay rise, this meant I could have a substantial budget for both savings and a holiday fund. Yet now I feel guilt of spending my holiday fund. I’ve spent some, but about 50% of what I’d allocated. It’s definitely a mindset and one I need to somewhat adjust too.

Jellox · 22/05/2026 12:56

£33k is a massive amount in savings!!

I don’t know anyone that has that amount.

So yes go on the holiday!! 😁😁

Where are you wanting to go?

ThriveAT · 22/05/2026 12:59

Up to you

Jellox · 22/05/2026 12:59

JustMyView13 · 22/05/2026 12:22

When I say about money being tight, I’m talking about having nothing left. Rather than little.

Yes I agree, when you grow up with very little money it’s natural to not want to ‘waste’ it and feel guilty for doing so.

ilovesooty · 22/05/2026 13:02

You're comfortably off seemingly
Do what you want.

LlynTegid · 22/05/2026 13:04

I think depends on the holiday in my opinion. Visiting somewhere with an event that is rare or you might not be able to get to otherwise would be a definite yes for me.

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/05/2026 13:04

That’s what savings are for

to be used on something nice

or in extreme you die and never enjoy spending them and go to your dc etc

whyohwhyisitalwayswet · 22/05/2026 13:12

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:24

It’s not really retirement savings. I’m nowhere near retirement age it’s just savings. rainy day fund or big emergency fund, job loss fund etc. I just thought it would be easier to take the 2K out of it and now I feel a bit bad.

What are savings for if not for fun experiences! Go for it! And, enjoy!!

cantthinkofagoodusername1 · 22/05/2026 13:14

Sounds to me like you would be striking a nice balance between enjoying life now and planning for your future.

Blondiebeachbabe · 22/05/2026 13:23

Eh? I'm pretty sure that most people who do go on holiday don't have £35k in savings. This thread is weird.

Sensiblesal · 22/05/2026 13:23

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:28

can I ask why? I do feel it’s the wrong thing to do but I can replace it over 6-8months

I think you are being entirely sensible, you have a healthy balance.

if your holiday was in say 8 months, it would effectively be the same as paying for it monthly.

I add an amount to my savings every months for my holiday fund then usually use my bonus for the two main holidays. Put too much away this year into savings whilst I was deciding & I fully understand that mental wrestle you will have been having.

saw you have booked & hope you have the most fabulous time

OriginalPedant · 22/05/2026 13:25

Of course it’s fine. You’re a long time dead.

Freakyfriday777 · 22/05/2026 13:41

PudgeJudy · 22/05/2026 10:24

Just seen you answered my question as I posted. Yes, I’d splash out on a holiday. It’s pointless just saving up for your future and never really enjoying your present.

Agreed. I really don’t understand people who save 10’000’s and are ridiculously strict about touching the money. Completely different if it’s for a purpose requiring large amounts I.e house renovations but to just “have” money for the sake of savings I really don’t get. You could drop down dead next week with £35,000 in the bank and having had missed out on amazing life experiences. With that amount I’d be booking at least £10,000 worth of amazing holidays, and a few city breaks! Enjoy OP!

itsalltoplayfor · 22/05/2026 13:46

I can replace it over 6-8months

Then what the heck is the issue? Enjoy it while you can, you get one life.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 22/05/2026 13:46

If you can and want to build up your savings again then after this holiday then do it. It’s not a huge amount for a holiday.

Flannelfeet · 22/05/2026 13:50

Do it!! In fact take double that and have a great holiday...you never know what could happen tomorrow. Enjoy a little of your money and make some memories.

Sorry if you think thats morbid, but im all for living for today. ❤️

TeenLifeMum · 22/05/2026 13:59

I wouldn’t hesitate for a second. It’s a small percentage of overall savings. We have base savings then spend savings (savings for treats like holidays/new bathroom etc). Base savings is £20k and anything over is for nice things to enjoy life.

Magnoliablossomdream · 22/05/2026 14:17

As pervious people have said, go for it!
You don’t know what’s around the corner…
Enjoy every minute!

Pigeonpoodle · 22/05/2026 14:22

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:30

Not on a low wage, secure employment, own my own home and overpay on the mortgage etc.

In which case you’d be unreasonable not to. Life is for living.

I can pretty much guarantee you that 99% of people at your stage in life who spend £2k on a holiday don’t have £35k in savings!

Pigeonpoodle · 22/05/2026 14:26

Freakyfriday777 · 22/05/2026 13:41

Agreed. I really don’t understand people who save 10’000’s and are ridiculously strict about touching the money. Completely different if it’s for a purpose requiring large amounts I.e house renovations but to just “have” money for the sake of savings I really don’t get. You could drop down dead next week with £35,000 in the bank and having had missed out on amazing life experiences. With that amount I’d be booking at least £10,000 worth of amazing holidays, and a few city breaks! Enjoy OP!

Yes, I had an uncle who lived a frugal life, and surprised us all when he died when he had £200k squirrelled away in savings (he had a works pensions so wasn’t drawing down on it to live).

Be sensible, yes, but don’t be an Ebenezer Scrooge.

Feis123 · 22/05/2026 14:27

My dd was saving and saving and saving, postponing a holiday because he was very young. Very young he had a stroke and we took him on holiday, but it was a nightmare, nobody enjoyed it, least of all he. If you said 'I spent 2K out of my 35K savings on a designer bag', I would have said you were stupid. But a holiday!!!!! I hope you will enjoy it tremendously and after you return you will say to yourself 'how did I even think I should not go, thank God I went!'

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