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AIBU to spend £2k of £35k savings on a holiday?

115 replies

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:16

AIBU to think if you have 35k in savings that it’s ok to use 2k towards a holiday?

OP posts:
Worralorra · 22/05/2026 10:32

If your savings are not for anything in particular, spending just under 6% of them doesn’t seem bad - after all, most people save for a holiday annually, at least.

Get some financial advice though, and start investing at least with £20,000 - your savings should increase better that way…

MrsOni · 22/05/2026 10:34

Surely paying for a holiday is literally what savings are for.

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 22/05/2026 10:35

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:31

well it’s done now and I feel guilty 🤣🤣

So are you having second thoughts 🤔

EmailsaysOOO · 22/05/2026 10:35

Of course you can/ should. Carpe diem

iamtryingtobecivil · 22/05/2026 10:37

Just posted on another thread about how we have only recently got better at being in a saving mindset and so I do struggle to spend on holidays.

i have my eye on a four day holiday which I really want to do as it’s an experience too different to what we’ve done before but it’s just over 2k and I’m still pondering it

sorry not much help…

MrThorpeHazell · 22/05/2026 10:37

I wouldn't but then I think holidays are a waste of money anyway.

WhitegreeNcandle · 22/05/2026 10:37

Depends. You say you’re overpaying on a mortgage. That’s great. Do you save monthly for a pension? What would be 6 months of bills for you. If the answer to those is yes and less than 30k then go for it. If no, get those things in place first then go on a holiday

iamtryingtobecivil · 22/05/2026 10:38

LOL just seen update, maybe that’s a sign for me then☺️

Imaginary86 · 22/05/2026 10:38

Absolutely if I had that much in savings I would use 2k to go on holiday. I would go on a holiday with a lot less savings than that. Are you saving for something specific which is making you hesitant to use the money?

TigerRag · 22/05/2026 10:39

Stealth boast?

nomas · 22/05/2026 10:42

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:24

It’s not really retirement savings. I’m nowhere near retirement age it’s just savings. rainy day fund or big emergency fund, job loss fund etc. I just thought it would be easier to take the 2K out of it and now I feel a bit bad.

If you're 40, what's ypur pension fund looking like?

I would go on the holiday and pay some of the savings into a private pension.

Lindy2 · 22/05/2026 10:45

Yes. That sounds absolutely fine.

You need a balance between financial security and enjoying life in the current moment.

It won't leave you short of money and you will continue to top up your savings.

Have a wonderful holiday.

Jafferz · 22/05/2026 10:46

Is the 35k your emergency fund (sounds like it is)? If it is, would you have six months expenses left in there after the holiday? If yes then absolutely go ahead!

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 22/05/2026 10:58

A good rule of thumb might be to spend it slower than you saved it. Is this going to be your only holiday this year? If yes then no problem, you've said you'll replace it in 6-8 months, so you're up. Holidaying every 3 months at £2k a time? Maybe not such a good idea!

pinkspeakers · 22/05/2026 11:01

Instinct is yes! 2k isn't really that much for a holiday.
But of course it depends what else you might be saving for eg house, school fees, cost of uni, pension...
But if it's just your rainy day fund, then yes.

JustMyView13 · 22/05/2026 11:04

You can’t take it with you.
Also, girl math, if you pay it now, and you’re repaying your savings over the year before you go. The holiday is paid for before you depart, so that’s free, and your savings are back up to £35k, so you’re in the same position you are today. So basically the whole holiday is free. And if it’s all inclusive, even more free stuff.

All joking aside, there’s no point saving all your life and forgetting to live. Book it!

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 11:05

WhitegreeNcandle · 22/05/2026 10:37

Depends. You say you’re overpaying on a mortgage. That’s great. Do you save monthly for a pension? What would be 6 months of bills for you. If the answer to those is yes and less than 30k then go for it. If no, get those things in place first then go on a holiday

Yes I make my pension contributions separately. My DP has savings too. My savings would cover over a year of my half of expenses

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pinkspeakers · 22/05/2026 11:05

I don't really understand the "guilt" here tbh! Why do you feel it is "wrong" or "guiltworthy". Where has that idea come from?

This is coming from someone who has never borrowed for anything other than buying a house and spends very well within her means with plenty of savings and pension, and even I think you are reacting a bit strangely here!

JustMyView13 · 22/05/2026 11:06

pinkspeakers · 22/05/2026 11:05

I don't really understand the "guilt" here tbh! Why do you feel it is "wrong" or "guiltworthy". Where has that idea come from?

This is coming from someone who has never borrowed for anything other than buying a house and spends very well within her means with plenty of savings and pension, and even I think you are reacting a bit strangely here!

It’s pretty common for people who have grown up in a household where money was tight. Not saying that’s the case for OP but speaking from experience.

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 11:06

Jafferz · 22/05/2026 10:46

Is the 35k your emergency fund (sounds like it is)? If it is, would you have six months expenses left in there after the holiday? If yes then absolutely go ahead!

Yes I definitely would have enough to cover

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Newyearawaits · 22/05/2026 11:06

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 10:22

Yes my savings, I have cash flowed another 2k throughout the year. But I’m paying the balance now and taking it from savings. I will be putting it back in over the next 6-8months

Brilliant, enjoy your holiday.
You can have too much in savings and there are no pockets in shrouds.
Enjoy your day

TheSandgroper · 22/05/2026 11:06

I would only ever pay for a holiday if I had the money in hand to do it - which you do. The alternative is to go into debt - which you don’t need to do.

I have just come back from a holiday. We paid for it with the bank balance we had and no one said “oh, but, what if”.

Ladygregory1 · 22/05/2026 11:07

pinkspeakers · 22/05/2026 11:01

Instinct is yes! 2k isn't really that much for a holiday.
But of course it depends what else you might be saving for eg house, school fees, cost of uni, pension...
But if it's just your rainy day fund, then yes.

No I have separate savings for the dc.

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Diamondsword · 22/05/2026 11:07

Well I’ve just spent £3.5k out of our £25k general savings for a holiday and don’t feel guilty one bit!

Currently on maternity leave with my youngest and want to do a holiday before the eldest starts school.

As long as you have responsible buffer for life’s unexpected events then enjoy yourself. You’ll remember the memories of the holiday far more than the feeling of looking at your saving account statement in future years time 😁

Northermcharn · 22/05/2026 11:08

Hopefully you're saving into an ISA too (tax free savings), S&S best (you choose the risk level)

(Enjoy the holiday!! Good decision)

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