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To think compulsory national service for young people could be helpful for many?

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Jane379 · 17/05/2026 20:50

The recent thread on benefits generational cycle got me thinking...could compulsory national service period help some young people, including ones like these?

Or would it make things worse?

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BrownBookshelf · 18/05/2026 08:58

Jane379 · 17/05/2026 23:03

Might you elaborate on this? I have recently been researching NI but shamefully didn't consider that angle on this...

Course.

You probably know that the population in NI contains a large group of people who self-identify only as Irish and don't accept that it should be part of the UK. The concept of compulsory national service to the British state would itself be inflammatory- it did not go down well when the Tories proposed it in 2024, social media was aflame! The times in the past when we've had national service, it was never enforced in NI the government was afraid of teaching a load of military aged Catholic men how to fight.

So there would either need to be a formal exemption for NI or the system just not be enforced there. Which creates an avenue for people who don't want to do it to move there, or at least pretend to.

It does also raise the question of what you do with non British citizens residing legally in the UK, which is a lot of people not just in NI. I'm not sure the citizens having to do compulsory national service whilst say those with settled status or limited leave to remain being exempt is necessarily going to go down too well.

McSpoot · 18/05/2026 09:01

Jane379 · 17/05/2026 22:04

Have I done it? I'm older Gen Z : no. I would be happy to, though.

Edited

Nothing stopping you from volunteering today.

Missey85 · 18/05/2026 09:19

This comes up a lot but why should the little brats become the Army's problem?

Natsku · 18/05/2026 09:32

It does also raise the question of what you do with non British citizens residing legally in the UK, which is a lot of people not just in NI. I'm not sure the citizens having to do compulsory national service whilst say those with settled status or limited leave to remain being exempt is necessarily going to go down too well.

Citizenship has responsibilities as well as rights, everyone ought to understand that. Non-citizens don't have to do national service in my country and that's not an issue, but if they want citizenship then they have to do it (if male under 30).

Sartre · 18/05/2026 09:40

Bikenutz · 17/05/2026 20:51

The National curriculum and post 18 education need a radical overhaul. This would probably make a more positive difference.

Post 18 is fine, I don’t see what needs altering here at all. Plenty of opportunities to get into uni, more people than ever are going now and also lots of apprenticeships out there for those who don’t want to go to uni.

Agree on the curriculum and welcomed Becky Francis’s review. I hope the government take heed, particularly around arts and humanities subjects but also getting girls into computer science.

pointythings · 18/05/2026 09:40

ProudCat · 18/05/2026 05:41

Which other countries:

Sweden
Norway
Denmark
Finland

All have a better education system and standard of living

And much higher taxes. And in Denmark it isn't everyone, there's a lottery system. The Finnish system pays for everything, including benefits for families so is expensive. You can't have this on the cheap.

And if you want people off benefits, do something about low wages and high housing costs first.

Sartre · 18/05/2026 09:42

I don’t think making it compulsory would fly nowadays. Not because Gen Z’s are little delicate snowflakes, I teach them and disagree with this wholeheartedly, BUT I think their parents often weirdly are. Most of them are Gen X, some older millennials and they can be so full on. It’s the ones who turn up to open days asking us 5000000 inane questions while their child looks completely mortified. So I reckon the parents would have a thing to say about little Harry being forced into the army somehow. Harry probably wouldn’t mind but his mum would.

BrownBookshelf · 18/05/2026 09:43

Natsku · 18/05/2026 09:32

It does also raise the question of what you do with non British citizens residing legally in the UK, which is a lot of people not just in NI. I'm not sure the citizens having to do compulsory national service whilst say those with settled status or limited leave to remain being exempt is necessarily going to go down too well.

Citizenship has responsibilities as well as rights, everyone ought to understand that. Non-citizens don't have to do national service in my country and that's not an issue, but if they want citizenship then they have to do it (if male under 30).

Ok. In the case of NI we have one of the constitent countries of the UK where the acceptance that people who live there don't have to be British citizens and need to be treated equally nonetheless is vitally important. So we need some provision for that, and the specific situation of the UK as compared to Finland means this is liable to be much more of an issue.

Though as someone who doesn't live in NI, the idea that compulsory national service is one of the responsibilities of British citizenship is one that, shall we say, needs some work.

Sartre · 18/05/2026 09:43

pointythings · 18/05/2026 09:40

And much higher taxes. And in Denmark it isn't everyone, there's a lottery system. The Finnish system pays for everything, including benefits for families so is expensive. You can't have this on the cheap.

And if you want people off benefits, do something about low wages and high housing costs first.

Agree and I think we should increase taxes here to have a better standard of living. They’re healthier, wealthier, better educated and happier despite paying more in taxes. Says it all.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 18/05/2026 09:46

Cherry8809 · 17/05/2026 21:10

I think national service is a positive thing.

It works well in other countries, and teaches young people discipline, resilience, teamwork and respect.

I think that’s a great thing for all youths, including SEN.

I was coming on to post this. Other countries seem to manage it and funnily enough they also have bright kids going to uni. The country/society adapts.

Contrarymary30 · 18/05/2026 09:48

Generallychill · 17/05/2026 21:06

Why should kids who have their goals and plans laid out have their lives disrupted by this? My Dd is 17 got a year at college left then has plans for university after. Her schooling was already impacted due to covid I'd rather not derail her plans any more.
What would be helpful is more home economic lessons in school mandatory for everyone, basics like cooking, banking running a household, life skills in general as a lot of kids leave school not knowing how this works.

I agree , in my school kids who weren't academic had the opportunity to go to the school house ! They did practical things like cooking , dealing with finances and don't dare say but also how to keep a house clean . This was the 1960s and an all girls school . It was very popular . It would be called sexist now 🙄 .

BrownBookshelf · 18/05/2026 09:49

socialdilemmawhattodo · 18/05/2026 09:46

I was coming on to post this. Other countries seem to manage it and funnily enough they also have bright kids going to uni. The country/society adapts.

It's because they've pretty much all got at least one of a more authoritarian state than we do, neighbours who like attacking regularly enough to make the population see the benefit in widespread military training or a better social contract than we have. And even states with one or more of those often have a problem enforcing it.

ValenciaOrangeJawline · 18/05/2026 09:53

Littlebitpsycho · 17/05/2026 21:11

Life skills should be taught by PARENTS. It's called PARENTING. Problem is there seems to be generations of people who shouldn't have bloody well become parents in the first place, because they can't be arsed to actually bring up their kids to become productive members of society.

Schools are for education, they can't do everything that parents should be doing on top!

And so the sins of the fathers (and mothers) should be visited on the children?

I don’t think old style National Service is the answer, but this kind of lazy, blinkered thinking is part of the problem we face as a society.

Perhaps some kind of compulsory community and life skills thing should be introduced for anyone not in FT education or employment post-18.

Nospecialcharactersplease · 18/05/2026 09:53

I did a research study on compulsory military service in other countries (admittedly a long time ago) so I have a few insights to share.

Short story - yes, military service could be a fantastic mechanism for upskilling young people and addressing social inequities, whilst of course contributing to our preparedness for war and national disasters. It would benefit disadvantaged young people by giving them structure and opportunities, but it would also benefit young people who are already high achieving by rounding out their leadership skills. And it could address some of the very serious issues with Gen Z not being able to afford their life goals if it was linked to reduced university fees and preferential rates on mortgages etc, as it is in some countries.

A few caveats -

  • It needs to be for every young person, regardless of sex, race, creed, disability etc. Otherwise you end up widening the gaps between those who do it and those who don’t.
  • It needs to be focused on roles/activities that actually give young people work relevant skills. The best forms of service last 12, 24 maybe even 36 months and young people come out as flight engineers, computer programmers etc. This cadre of young people can then drive innovation in specialist industries - these days probably AI. Just having young people standing guard in town centres does nothing for them or for society.
Netcurtainnelly · 18/05/2026 09:54

People aren't disciplined today to do it. They wouldn't last.

Paytovote · 18/05/2026 09:59

It’s a no from me.

We have an epidemic of violent men in this country. And you want to train them to use arms? No thank you!

scalt · 18/05/2026 10:01

We can talk about compulsory national service for young people when there's a compulsory "national service" for parliamentarians: they must have worked for at least six months in a minimum wage, customer-facing job, so they have spent some time in the same world that many other people live in, instead of the bubble of wealth which so many of them come from, never having known the world outside private school and Oxbridge.

Natsku · 18/05/2026 10:03

BrownBookshelf · 18/05/2026 09:43

Ok. In the case of NI we have one of the constitent countries of the UK where the acceptance that people who live there don't have to be British citizens and need to be treated equally nonetheless is vitally important. So we need some provision for that, and the specific situation of the UK as compared to Finland means this is liable to be much more of an issue.

Though as someone who doesn't live in NI, the idea that compulsory national service is one of the responsibilities of British citizenship is one that, shall we say, needs some work.

The NI situation is very complicated which is why I only replied to the bit about non-citizens in a general way, I could not even hazard an answer on how to make national service work in NI, making it exempt is probably the best way (similar to how people living on the Ã…land islands are exempt from Finnish national service)

Paytovote · 18/05/2026 10:03

scalt · 18/05/2026 10:01

We can talk about compulsory national service for young people when there's a compulsory "national service" for parliamentarians: they must have worked for at least six months in a minimum wage, customer-facing job, so they have spent some time in the same world that many other people live in, instead of the bubble of wealth which so many of them come from, never having known the world outside private school and Oxbridge.

Ooo that’s a good one!

MrsShawnHatosy · 18/05/2026 10:06

Does it have to be military service? Could it not be community service of some kind?

Somersetbaker · 18/05/2026 10:09

I can't wear the boots, because I've got "bone spurs" so that rules me out.

Periperi2025 · 18/05/2026 10:10

I'm in favour of compulsory national service but not compulsory military service. I think every young person (who physically can) should do a couple of years in a public service role that includes unsocial hours (preferably nights) to contribute to society and act as a leveller.

It could be a large number of roles including NHS (HCAs, ambulance care assitants, porters, cleaners) which would set young people up equally for med school or a career as a carer, education (TAs) a great starting point for teachers, Military, plus registered apprentice schemes within the private sector (Vetinary nurses, social carers, construction etc).

BrownBookshelf · 18/05/2026 10:12

Natsku · 18/05/2026 10:03

The NI situation is very complicated which is why I only replied to the bit about non-citizens in a general way, I could not even hazard an answer on how to make national service work in NI, making it exempt is probably the best way (similar to how people living on the Ã…land islands are exempt from Finnish national service)

And therein lies the rub!

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 18/05/2026 10:28

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 18/05/2026 05:28

And now you'd have all those insane rude people serving your meal at the pub. Brilliant idea.

Most of the insane rude people are older and have obviously never been on the other side of the bar. In the ten years I worked in hospitality it was almost aways older people, youngers cause trouble normally because they can’t handle their alcohol but rarely rude or aggressive to staff.

Anyway anyone who fails the mandatory hospitality national service will be sent to the front lines under my perfect system.

ObelixtheGaul · 18/05/2026 10:41

pointythings · 18/05/2026 09:40

And much higher taxes. And in Denmark it isn't everyone, there's a lottery system. The Finnish system pays for everything, including benefits for families so is expensive. You can't have this on the cheap.

And if you want people off benefits, do something about low wages and high housing costs first.

They also have national service because they don't have the same level of paid, permanent armed forces that we do. Part of the reason we dropped it in the 60s was because we didn't need the extra manpower, partly because have the nuclear deterrent which none of those listed countries have. For those countries, it's an integral part of their military defence strategy.

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