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AIBU to consider reporting a possibly false school catchment address?

219 replies

Annoymo · 17/05/2026 11:27

I just found out a boy in DS’s class is going to a certain school that I know has an extremely strict catchment policy. I have a feeling they gave the in-laws address as the in-laws live near the catchment. We actually live close to this school than this boy so I’m really surprised they got a place. There is no SEN or sibling reason they got priority.

Morally I feel this is really bad of them but then I’m thinking why get involved. What would you do? How would you even report this?

OP posts:
BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 12:59

Tel12 · 17/05/2026 12:58

Stay out of this, there could be a lot more going on that you have absolutely no knowledge.

@Tel12 in which case the school will know to dismiss the report immediately. So what’s the problem with reporting it?

MandarinLime · 17/05/2026 13:00

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 12:54

@ThankYouNigel I think you’re missing the point. If there is a reason this child got their place, then OP’s report will be immediately disregarded. No harm done. But if it’s just someone cheating the system, at the expense of a more legitimate case, then they should be called out on it.

Exactly.

Mapletree1985 · 17/05/2026 13:01

If my kid had been turned down for that school and I'd really wanted him to go there, I'd probably be out for blood.

Otherwise, I'd mind my own business.

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:02

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 12:58

@spekky maybe OP’s child, or a child OP knows, has missed out on a place despite being in catchment, because someone is fraudulently claiming to live even nearer to the school. That makes it her business.

It doesn’t sound as though that’s the case. And if that’s occurred, it’s for the parents to appeal. OP has no idea why the place has been given. It may well be due to other needs.

notacooldad · 17/05/2026 13:02

They won't need weeks of stress gathering evidence. If they've applied from where they live it will be quick and easy to prove that
It doesn't mean they investigation is instantly over with and officers say kk then

From the minute they get the phone call the worry begins. Even if they took bills to the council office the same day the case isnt immediately shut down. It can take 2 to 6 weeks for a formal letter closing the case depending on council back log.

Even if you know you are in the clear, not that many people can honestly say it wouldn't cause them some anxirty until they got a case closed letter, I'll bet.

notacooldad · 17/05/2026 13:03

in which case the school will know to dismiss the report immediately. So what’s the problem with reporting it?
There's loads of reasons.

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 13:04

MandarinLime · 17/05/2026 13:00

Exactly.

So I take it you both with be personally investigating and reporting all the illegal immigrants currently taking up secondary school places? Anyone on benefits who hasn’t paid taxes into our education system? Those who can no longer afford private school due to VAT increases? Or would you prefer them to fiddle things financially to stay private and out of good state schools? Where do you draw the line on following the rules?

Once Mr Farage is out next PM there will be plenty more secondary places, so these dilemmas will become obsolete.

KitKatPitPat · 17/05/2026 13:04

notacooldad · 17/05/2026 12:26

If you’re wrong and there’s a priority reason that you don’t know about then the authorities will check, conclude there’s no problem and the family won’t even be aware of the check.
Of course the family will be aware of the check. It’s an investigation that will take place and they will have to provide prove of address. Sometimes home visits are conducted.

No - if the authority checks its records, notices that the child is in fact a long term foster child and therefore gets priority, then they won’t even need to approach the family. There are lots of reasons this child might get a priority place that the OP would be totally unaware of.

Growingaseed · 17/05/2026 13:04

spekky · 17/05/2026 12:54

But it’s quite frankly none of OP’s business? She doesn’t know what’s going on in that child’s life and it doesn’t impact her life in any way.

It impacts a child though. One who will now have to travel much further or go to a much worse school.

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:07

Growingaseed · 17/05/2026 13:04

It impacts a child though. One who will now have to travel much further or go to a much worse school.

Which is shit but OP has no idea why that child has been admitted to that school.

Growingaseed · 17/05/2026 13:09

notacooldad · 17/05/2026 13:02

They won't need weeks of stress gathering evidence. If they've applied from where they live it will be quick and easy to prove that
It doesn't mean they investigation is instantly over with and officers say kk then

From the minute they get the phone call the worry begins. Even if they took bills to the council office the same day the case isnt immediately shut down. It can take 2 to 6 weeks for a formal letter closing the case depending on council back log.

Even if you know you are in the clear, not that many people can honestly say it wouldn't cause them some anxirty until they got a case closed letter, I'll bet.

Incorrect.

In this case the school will look at the address used on the application.

If the family didn't lie about their address, are out of catchment but legitimately got in on other grounds then no further investigation.

If the parents lied then there will be an investigation and 'anxiety'. This is entirely the families own making.

Another family might have anxiety about their child travelling miles each day and will rightfully get the place they should have been given. Anxiety removed.

FlagDay · 17/05/2026 13:09

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 12:59

@FlagDay in which case the school will know to dismiss the report immediately. So what’s the problem with reporting it?

No problem with reporting it.

I know other parents are suspicious about my daughter’s place at her school. But her background is none of their business so I just let them remain suspicious rather than share her personal information.

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:09

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:02

It doesn’t sound as though that’s the case. And if that’s occurred, it’s for the parents to appeal. OP has no idea why the place has been given. It may well be due to other needs.

@spekky I’ll say this again, as people seem to be struggling to understand. If OP reports it, and if this child has a legitimate reason for having a place, OP’s report will be disregarded. No harm will come to the child or their family. They won’t even know about the report. Literally the only loss to anyone is the time it takes for OP to report it and school to check their records.

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:10

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:09

@spekky I’ll say this again, as people seem to be struggling to understand. If OP reports it, and if this child has a legitimate reason for having a place, OP’s report will be disregarded. No harm will come to the child or their family. They won’t even know about the report. Literally the only loss to anyone is the time it takes for OP to report it and school to check their records.

But the point is there’s no reason for OP to report it, and doing so just comes across as spiteful and nasty.

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:11

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 13:04

So I take it you both with be personally investigating and reporting all the illegal immigrants currently taking up secondary school places? Anyone on benefits who hasn’t paid taxes into our education system? Those who can no longer afford private school due to VAT increases? Or would you prefer them to fiddle things financially to stay private and out of good state schools? Where do you draw the line on following the rules?

Once Mr Farage is out next PM there will be plenty more secondary places, so these dilemmas will become obsolete.

@ThankYouNigel you obviously have another agenda. This thread is about a child who lives out of catchment.

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:12

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:11

@ThankYouNigel you obviously have another agenda. This thread is about a child who lives out of catchment.

But as you should know, catchment is actually very low down on the list of reasons why school places are allocated. OP does not know whether there are SEN issues, she’s assumed.

notacooldad · 17/05/2026 13:13

Incorrect.
In this case the school will look at the address used on the application.
If the family didn't lie about their address, are out of catchment but legitimately got in on other grounds then no further investigation.

Incorrect in my expierence supporting a family as I stated further along on the thread. It wasn't as simple as " oh thanks for the utility bill you are showing us, no problem'

It took weeks to get a letter saying the case was closed. The anxiety was caused because the family knew someone was trying to catch them out.

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:14

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:07

Which is shit but OP has no idea why that child has been admitted to that school.

@spekky of course she doesn’t know. And if there’s a legitimate reason, her report will be disregarded and the child will be none the wiser. No harm done. But if the family have lied to steal a place from a child in catchment, then the place may be removed so that the place can be allocated as per the guidelines.

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 13:15

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:11

@ThankYouNigel you obviously have another agenda. This thread is about a child who lives out of catchment.

Nope, but don’t be a hypocrite only having an issue with certain children out of catchment breaking the rules. A child who’s parents say they are living with grandparents, who’ve no doubt spent years paying taxes into our education system, is still far higher up the priority order than those who have zero right to attend school here. But I bet you don’t have an issue with those rule breakers? I cannot abide by hypocrisy.

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 13:16

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:12

But as you should know, catchment is actually very low down on the list of reasons why school places are allocated. OP does not know whether there are SEN issues, she’s assumed.

Exactly. The children of teachers get priority. My teacher friend switched to teach in a private school purely for this reason. Children in care, safeguarding reasons. Absolutely none of OP’s business.

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:17

FlagDay · 17/05/2026 13:09

No problem with reporting it.

I know other parents are suspicious about my daughter’s place at her school. But her background is none of their business so I just let them remain suspicious rather than share her personal information.

@FlagDay no one is asking you to share your child’s personal information. Where did you get that idea? OP is just wondering if she should report this particular case. She’s not asking for reasons why this child might have a legitimate place. How would you feel of your child lost their place because someone lied?

Cheewowa · 17/05/2026 13:18

Report to the Council Admissions Team.
They have procedures in place to investigate.

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:19

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:10

But the point is there’s no reason for OP to report it, and doing so just comes across as spiteful and nasty.

@spekky how do you know there’s no reason to report it? Maybe OP’s child has missed out on a place? Or someone they know has?

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:20

ThankYouNigel · 17/05/2026 13:15

Nope, but don’t be a hypocrite only having an issue with certain children out of catchment breaking the rules. A child who’s parents say they are living with grandparents, who’ve no doubt spent years paying taxes into our education system, is still far higher up the priority order than those who have zero right to attend school here. But I bet you don’t have an issue with those rule breakers? I cannot abide by hypocrisy.

@ThankYouNigel this thread is about reporting a child who lives out of catchment. If you like you can start another thread about school allocations in general.

spekky · 17/05/2026 13:21

BerryTwister · 17/05/2026 13:19

@spekky how do you know there’s no reason to report it? Maybe OP’s child has missed out on a place? Or someone they know has?

If that was the case she’d have said in the OP. It’s really none of her business.