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AIBU to refuse extra hours when most of the pay goes in tax?

186 replies

oldFoolMe · 12/05/2026 11:46

Would you work extra hours if you had to pay 67% tax on it? Thats without additional childcare, or commuting costs.

OP posts:
ElizaMulvil · 13/05/2026 21:25

Araminta1003 · 12/05/2026 18:23

I do not think you are redistributing wealth though, just decreasing it for all. If I work less and pay less tax and consume less overall, I am simply doing a bit of potential value destruction. Like clean my own house, buy less luxury goods, decide to not move house and pay stamp duty again, wear same old clothes, buy less expensive food. My quality of life is the same, but less purchasing is leading to fewer jobs not more. And my employer isn’t getting anyone else in either.
And for many people, going officially part time actually translates to cash in hand jobs and increasingly includes people like teachers who are tutoring.
There comes a point when the tax system is so ridiculous and politicians do not pay their taxes (looking at Rayner and now Polanski) and plenty of people find ways to not pay the full amount.
Hence all the research has always showed that a simple tax system and not too high rates actually leads to greater tax take overall.

Angela Rayner has not refused to pay her tax. She referred herself in order to get a definitive answer about what is a very complex situation and she was getting different advice. She is trying to provide a secure home for her seriously handicapped son by putting her previously owned house in trust for him so he will always have a home. He was born very prematurely and is blind.

Theolittle · 13/05/2026 21:37

I work in public sector and when you earn over a certain amount (think it’s about £40k) you don’t usually get overtime. You are paid for the responsibility level to get the work done. So I’m not feeling much sympathy.

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 05:52

“Angela Rayner has not refused to pay her tax.She referred herself in order to get a definitive answer about what is a very complex situation and she was getting different advice.”

I am 100 confident if I had bought a second flat I would have paid additional stamp duty. And then seen if I could claim it back as there is a mechanism from what I recall. It is there as some people sell their main residence later on. If it is complicated, you figure it out later if you can get it back legally!
For a politician and person in the public eye to not do that sets a very bad example. There are no excuses.

Theyneverknow · 14/05/2026 05:59

Araminta1003 · 12/05/2026 12:22

It does affect the 95% because the top 10 per cent are funding the country disproportionally. So if they do not and become inefficient deliberately due to tax policy, then the bottom suffer the most and so do services. It is why you get recessions.

You are absolutely correct 👍👍👍👍👍🙌

Darking · 14/05/2026 06:21

january1244 · 13/05/2026 09:46

Unfortunately my job doesn’t really allow for part time in a meaningful way, and my childcare for two preschoolers is almost £5k a month now (we get 15 free hours for my eldest now which helps) and so I can’t sacrifice anything to my pension

In the old days when my dd was born, childcare tax credits could be relieved at 40% as they were taken out of your pre-tax income. This then frozen so if you already paid into the scheme at 40% relief then you could carry on doing so, but if you stopped paying you couldn’t return.

The other weird rule was that you didn’t have to have children to pay for childcare tax credits! The amount went into a fund and when you wanted to spend it, you gave your code to whichever childcare provider who could claim the tax credit and it was paid to them.

So dh and I joined when we started ttc and had six months of childcare funds saved by the time dd1 arrived.

That was a good scheme and it offset the “cliff edge” problem that has always been there.

Cmm324 · 14/05/2026 06:37

PrettyDamnCosmic · 13/05/2026 09:12

You not however paying £85K tax on £150K earnings but moving from paying tax of less than £60K per annum in arrears to paying £60K per annum in the current tax year. It's a cashflow issue not an increase in tax.

Seems you really are PrettyDamnCosmic 😊

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 06:46

The moving over described - how much has this temporarily and artificially boosted the Treasury coffers? What it is the overall figure in billions? And how will it impact our creditworthiness as a country?

MidnightPatrol · 14/05/2026 06:48

@Darking ”That was a good scheme and it offset the “cliff edge” problem that has always been there.”

In what way has the cliff edge always been there?

Pre-2018 childcare vouchers had no upper earnings threshold. The 15 free hours and tax free childcare situation has been an issue since 2017 - and the real horror show cliff edge situation has been created by 30 free hours from 9 months, introduced in September 2025.

As an example:

  • when child a went to nursery aged 9 months in 2023, their parents lost £2k in tax free childcare if they earned over the threshold.
  • when child b went to nursery aged 9 months in 2026, their parents lost £2k in tax free childcare plus 30 free hours (this might be worth £12k+ for the hours alone) if they earned over the threshold.
SnipItScrapBook · 14/05/2026 07:04

Yanbu. I dont know why taxes aren't made more motivational - seems crazy that people can earn more on benefits than through work, that high earners also have a disincentive to work more etc

Maybe taxes should be at a flat rate - 25% - then it would always be motivational to earn.

JumpingPumpkin · 14/05/2026 07:40

Araminta1003 · 12/05/2026 11:56

I have paid the highest marginal rate for the last few years but have now cut my hours this tax year and am checking every month. Enough is enough. I am not a modern day Slave and neither are you OP. Sometimes you have to do it out of principle to make a point (assuming you have an actual choice at work and can actually say no without repercussions). If you are working extra to get to a promotion above these ridiculous marginal tax rates it would also be another matter.

Modern day slave?! For being a high earner?

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 10:23

You don’t get to keep your earnings @JumpingPumpkin - hence it is slavery pretty much. What else is keeping only 35 p in the pound? Serfdom to the system.

BorgQueen · 14/05/2026 10:34

Lots of things are an ill thought out disgrace.
For example, why aren’t student loans based on taxable income? DD has to pay 11% in pension contributions ( Teacher) yet pays student loan on the whole of her salary so in effect she pays 50% tax on part of her salary.
She marks exam papers to pay for the summer holidays and will pay 40% tax rather than 20%, the pay for the marking hasn’t risen in 4 years but this year she’ll lose £400 to tax.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 14/05/2026 10:41

BorgQueen · 14/05/2026 10:34

Lots of things are an ill thought out disgrace.
For example, why aren’t student loans based on taxable income? DD has to pay 11% in pension contributions ( Teacher) yet pays student loan on the whole of her salary so in effect she pays 50% tax on part of her salary.
She marks exam papers to pay for the summer holidays and will pay 40% tax rather than 20%, the pay for the marking hasn’t risen in 4 years but this year she’ll lose £400 to tax.

For example, why aren’t student loans based on taxable income? DD has to pay 11% in pension contributions ( Teacher) yet pays student loan on the whole of her salary so in effect she pays 50% tax on part of her salary.

Her pension is part of her salary. It’s effectively deferred salary paid in retirement. If she really feels it’s unfair then she can always opt out of paying pension contributions thus giving herself a very decent pay rise.

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 10:48

Yes @BorgQueen and then they complain they cannot find enough markers or get markers in (from god knows where) who cannot actually mark English language papers. And we get kids sitting their GCSEs whose papers are undermarked by 30 marks (happened to a friend of my DD’s including a marker who annotated correctly spelt language as “wrong” - that is how underqualified some of them are).

And now we have a Government who is infighting again which is going to cost us billions in extra interest due to volatility. And we have Angela Rayner who paid her 40000 stamp duty late but has been let off my HMRC on late interest and fines. Whereas the rest of us would have had to pay? And that is now supposed to fill us all with confidence? That she what did not pay the stamp duty because it was all too confusing for both her and HMRC?

And then anyone is surprised if the middle class revolt translates to stay at home and do not work extra. Or do not go out shopping in your car ever again because you are bound to be flashed by some camera and charged a fine for something.

CotswoldsCamilla · 14/05/2026 10:53

oldFoolMe · 12/05/2026 11:46

Would you work extra hours if you had to pay 67% tax on it? Thats without additional childcare, or commuting costs.

I wouldn’t and I don’t.
I have purposely gone to a 4 day week and put 35% of my salary into my pension via salary sacrifice in order to keep my tax free allowance intact. So I am paying less tax than I otherwise if that unfair cliff edge at £100k didn’t exist. In fact I’m thinking of accepting an internal transfer for a 35% pay cut but a far less stressful roll. I’ve worked out (back of envelope stuff) that if I fiddle about with my pension contributions I’ll only be about £200 worse off. It’s bonkers really.

CotswoldsCamilla · 14/05/2026 10:54

oldFoolMe · 12/05/2026 11:46

Would you work extra hours if you had to pay 67% tax on it? Thats without additional childcare, or commuting costs.

I wouldn’t and I don’t.
I have purposely gone to a 4 day week and put 35% of my salary into my pension via salary sacrifice in order to keep my tax free allowance intact. So I am paying less tax than I otherwise if that unfair cliff edge at £100k didn’t exist. In fact I’m thinking of accepting an internal transfer for a 35% pay cut but a far less stressful roll. I’ve worked out (back of envelope stuff) that if I fiddle about with my pension contributions I’ll only be about £200 worse off. It’s bonkers really.

YowieeF · 14/05/2026 10:59

Are you talking about income tax ? Or are you including extra costs like childcare ?
When both of my kids were in childcare I worked a 40hr week for £200 a month the rest was childcare.
when eldest went to school and youngest had 15hrs funded I paid about £600 a month childcare.

january1244 · 14/05/2026 11:18

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 05:52

“Angela Rayner has not refused to pay her tax.She referred herself in order to get a definitive answer about what is a very complex situation and she was getting different advice.”

I am 100 confident if I had bought a second flat I would have paid additional stamp duty. And then seen if I could claim it back as there is a mechanism from what I recall. It is there as some people sell their main residence later on. If it is complicated, you figure it out later if you can get it back legally!
For a politician and person in the public eye to not do that sets a very bad example. There are no excuses.

Also, I thought the point of the trust was to ensure access to means tested benefits. If the money from the compensation is in a trust, then it doesn’t count as his assets or money, and he’ll be eligible.

Gassylady · 14/05/2026 11:28

lovelydayss · 12/05/2026 13:05

This is exactly why me and the majority of female Drs I trained with are not full time, and some of the male ones too.
I earned approx £150k last year and paid £85k in tax. It doesn’t make sense to see less of my children, family, friends for a system that doesn’t even appreciate what I do.
I now decline the waiting list initiative sessions for locum pay as no point.

So true

Winter2020 · 14/05/2026 11:34

Hankunamatata · 12/05/2026 12:10

Isnt stats wise only 4% of people in england earn over 100k?

I wonder how many would if there weren't incentives to keep below it?

worriedmumofgirls · 14/05/2026 11:39

I used to pay a hell of a lot of tax, but then found out I was pregnant at 42. I took my maternity leave, then got a just above minimum wage job doing just 2 days.

I am not doing it anymore, I’m not killing myself and putting my baby into nursery.

Fuck the lot.

Gassylady · 14/05/2026 11:40

I also do not do extras as I feel I earn well as it is, good luck to colleagues if they are happy to work the extras. The balance of time with my family feels right not sure why I would want to spend yet another weekend in work to take home less than half of the money. When I started many moons ago (a 78 hour week) I worked so many hours with the compulsory overtime paid at a fraction of the base rate.

Certainly locally, and I am sure in many places, the wonderful fall in waiting lists has been achieved by throwing crazy amounts of money mostly at external companies. Not a sustainable solution in the longer term. Most of the doctors employed are doing so as part of a company and therefore have a slightly more favourable tax situation. So less income tax harvested for the price of the publicity wim of a drop in waiting lists 🤦🏼‍♀️

Theolittle · 14/05/2026 12:26

It shocks me that so many people don’t have any loyalty to their job or enjoyment of their job enough to do a few hours for free. I work in public sector and have regularly done 50 hour weeks (paid for 37) at peak times to make sure I meet project deadlines etc., around being a single parent. At the time I was earning £40k ish, but didn’t want to let my colleagues down. And you're on huge salaries, I just don’t get it

There seem to be an inordinate number of mumsnet posters on £100k with young kids who’ve maxed out their pensions 😂

You’ve no idea how lucky you are

Araminta1003 · 14/05/2026 12:39

It is not just those on over 100k. The fiscal drag coupled with inflation is biting thousands of angry workers who are adjusting their behaviour. And hence the lack of productivity.

You cannot just introduce stealth taxes left right and centre and pretend you did not raise taxes! Lots of people about to enter the 40% tax bracket will find out and act out too.

BrownBookshelf · 14/05/2026 12:53

I dont earn anywhere near 100k, but I do know it's not a good thing for loyalty to one's job and unpaid overtime to be conflated. Am too pro worker for that.

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