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To wonder why people choose to live in London?

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Cantbloodyrememberthenameonthread · 12/05/2026 09:36

I always wonder. And reading a recent thread prompted me to ask the question. Why do people do it by choice? People complain about the house prices (rightly), ulez, nursery fees, cost of everything being more expensive, commutes, tubes etc.

if you’re not absolutely tied to London for work or health or I guess family. Why do you choose to live there when there are so many cheaper easier lifestyle options in the country?

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Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:23

crackofdoom · 14/05/2026 08:13

Well, Middle Eastern/South Asian/ Eastern European corner supermarkets would count as "independent foodie shops", so I'd beg to differ! The selection of fresh vegetables, spices and herbs at my local Turkish shop in Hackney would have made your average Waitrose shopper weak at the knees- and for much cheaper too!

Again, do you not think those exist in other cities, I have access to all of that where I live. I mean jeez, my MIL lives in a market town nowhere bear London and they have a Polish supermarket with the most amazing cakes I've been told.

My relatives who live in London can afford it, have it all on their doorstep, would and do go to these independent shops but the reality is they also go to Waitrose and from the looks of it, as it is heaving so do many others on a Saturday in London just like the rest of the country, who would have thought that life could be so pedestrian in London 🙄

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

allchange5 · 14/05/2026 07:50

Why live in London? Because, if you are used to London, every other U.K. city feels boring and limited by comparison.

Obviously, 10 million or so people live in London (or is it more?) and their experiences vary dramatically. What are you even talking about OP? Someone who lives in a £20 million home in Chelsea will be living in a very different London to someone in a high rise in Catford (no offence to Catford)!

The weather is better in London and SE - noticeably so.

You do realise that London is not just the West End and places you are likely to visit on a shopping trip or whatever? London is a sprawl of hundreds of communities, like villages really. All have their own character. Some are green and leafy 'pram jam' communities. Some are streets of stunning stucco homes. Some are more 'hipster' with great markets, street food, etc etc etc. And yes, some are a bit grotty. But still, I'd take grotty in London to grotty in a northern city any day of the week. At least communities in London are always shifting and don't feel as 'stuck' economically or culturally in the way too many places in the U.K. do, sadly, Basically, London is a world city. It's exciting, diverse and always changing. If you can afford to live well here, why the hell would you want to move out, unless it was to another comparable city like Paris. The suburbs, or some boring village or smaller U.K. city would drive many people to depression, if they are used to London - for so many reasons.

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

GlamDress · 14/05/2026 08:39

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

Do you object to ‘outsiders’ coming to make their lives in London?

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 08:51

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

London hasn't always been a 'world city'
It has though.

beasmithwentworth · 14/05/2026 08:53

@Goldenbear

I agree with your points. It’s not some sort of utopia and yes it’s unacceptable that some people who grew up here are not in a position to live here any longer. My own DC are an example of that and I could never buy the house I live in now and there are far worse situations than mine.

However in the context of the question posed in this thread ‘Why do people choose to live in London’ - people have answered the question with responses saying what they like living in London, not the downsides or negatives as that’s not what was asked.

If someone started a post asking what people dislike about living in London then yes of course you would get a completely different set of answers, some from the same people who have given the reasons why they choose to live In London on here!

nomas · 14/05/2026 09:01

JHound · 13/05/2026 17:17

Diversity existing. Most big UK cities are very diverse.

I agree but as a child immigrant, I’m not sure if I would have been offered the same opportunities as I was in London.

nomas · 14/05/2026 09:04

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

London’s strength is in its diversity . It’s been a city for newcomers from around the world since its foundation by the Romans (who were also immigrants).

Greenwitchart · 14/05/2026 09:09

I lived in London for 30 year. I really enjoyed when I was young: the freedom, the culture, the variety of restaurants, the clubs, the diversity, the street fashion...

I studied and worked there and loved the city.

Unfortunately it lost its appeal for me when it became too expensive, stressful. crowded, lost a lot of its quirkiness and saw increased anti social behaviour.

I left it 4 years ago for a Kent seaside town and loved it here. I feel much healthier and happier.

I think now London is the type of place where you can be happy if you have a high income, don't rely on public transport and live in your own home in a safe and leafy part of town.

It really is not a city where you can have a good quality of life anymore unless you are fairly privileged.

Greenwitchart · 14/05/2026 09:15

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

Really?

I think you need to properly look the history of the city.

It was diverse from the start under the Roman Empire with people from across Europe and the Middle East then it was a hub for migrants for centuries (French, German, Irish, Jewish) and people from the Caribbean, South Asia, and the Commonwealth after that.

ThatLemonBee · 14/05/2026 09:16

Flamingojune · 14/05/2026 08:12

I guess that depends on how far you drive.

Far but no traffic

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:39

Greenwitchart · 14/05/2026 09:15

Really?

I think you need to properly look the history of the city.

It was diverse from the start under the Roman Empire with people from across Europe and the Middle East then it was a hub for migrants for centuries (French, German, Irish, Jewish) and people from the Caribbean, South Asia, and the Commonwealth after that.

A diverse city with many ethnicities - yes! Not Global city status though- commercialisation, foreign investment with high net worth individuals pricing Londoners out, I know I grew up there in one of those diverse cities, DH and I have that background!!

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:47

GlamDress · 14/05/2026 08:39

Do you object to ‘outsiders’ coming to make their lives in London?

Lots of 'outsiders' like my DH's family you mean 😂 lots of people born in London from diverse ethnic backgrounds have been forced out of London - like Brixton, like large parts of North London, yea, I do object to that!

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:49

nomas · 14/05/2026 09:04

London’s strength is in its diversity . It’s been a city for newcomers from around the world since its foundation by the Romans (who were also immigrants).

Yes, many of whom were pushed out in the 00s

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 09:52

Greenwitchart · 14/05/2026 09:09

I lived in London for 30 year. I really enjoyed when I was young: the freedom, the culture, the variety of restaurants, the clubs, the diversity, the street fashion...

I studied and worked there and loved the city.

Unfortunately it lost its appeal for me when it became too expensive, stressful. crowded, lost a lot of its quirkiness and saw increased anti social behaviour.

I left it 4 years ago for a Kent seaside town and loved it here. I feel much healthier and happier.

I think now London is the type of place where you can be happy if you have a high income, don't rely on public transport and live in your own home in a safe and leafy part of town.

It really is not a city where you can have a good quality of life anymore unless you are fairly privileged.

I think now London is the type of place where you can be happy if you… don't rely on public transport

I don't get this reasoning at all. I absolutely rely on public transport. It's one of the things that makes London so liveable (in comparison to, say, a village with a couple of buses a day and none on Sundays and/or a bus service like the one I described earlier, where a 45-min journey costs over £6 one-way.)
You can also, easily and affordably, get to e.g. Epping Forest, Box Hill and Walton on the Naze on public transport. As well as to all the much-discussed airports that may or may not be 'London airports' , which seems to matter so very much to some posters🙄

nomas · 14/05/2026 10:04

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:49

Yes, many of whom were pushed out in the 00s

Who was pushed out in the 00s? What era does 00s refer to?

nomas · 14/05/2026 10:05

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:47

Lots of 'outsiders' like my DH's family you mean 😂 lots of people born in London from diverse ethnic backgrounds have been forced out of London - like Brixton, like large parts of North London, yea, I do object to that!

Who are these original Londoners? Romans?

user73654823 · 14/05/2026 10:46

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:23

Again, do you not think those exist in other cities, I have access to all of that where I live. I mean jeez, my MIL lives in a market town nowhere bear London and they have a Polish supermarket with the most amazing cakes I've been told.

My relatives who live in London can afford it, have it all on their doorstep, would and do go to these independent shops but the reality is they also go to Waitrose and from the looks of it, as it is heaving so do many others on a Saturday in London just like the rest of the country, who would have thought that life could be so pedestrian in London 🙄

My not liking supermarkets has triggered you something fierce, I see. Do you want to mention it a few more times?

Don't worry, it's just personal preference. I doubt I'm starting a trend that's going to send Sainsbury's (majority shareholder Qatar Holdings LLC) to the poorhouse (I assume those were a regular feature of London life, back when London was your oyster?). But I like my local shops/high street and want them to flourish, and dislike supermarkets, so I'll just keep on living the way I want and can afford, and your friends and relatives on the north circular can live the way they want and can afford.

So, basically, you're just full of sour grapes and want to push back the small amount of economic prosperity in the country? I mean, I have news for you. A lot of people in a lot of places can't afford to live where they were born. New York, Cornwall, etc.

Do I think successive governments have failed on social and affordable housing? Yes. Do I think successive government have been way too soft on people parking their money in empty properties? Yes. And I don't like the tax loopholes that allow people to perch here and get out of paying. But at the same time, push newcomers out of London and this country will be so far down the shitter before you can blink it will never come out.

And those people from diverse ethnic backgrounds were once newcomers themselves. But they're the ok newcomers? What about where you live now? You're a newcomer or 'outsider' there, if you're from London. Aren't you pushing up house prices/destroying connections by being there?

Flamingojune · 14/05/2026 10:48

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:31

London hasn't always been a 'world city', the erosion of original Londoner's sense of connection to the place and being priced out of where they grew up is not something to be celebrated IMO.

Whats an 'original' londoner

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/05/2026 10:56

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 08:51

London hasn't always been a 'world city'
It has though.

I think it has! London always had people coming to trade or make their living from all over the world going back centuries.

Flamingojune · 14/05/2026 10:56

Greenwitchart · 14/05/2026 09:09

I lived in London for 30 year. I really enjoyed when I was young: the freedom, the culture, the variety of restaurants, the clubs, the diversity, the street fashion...

I studied and worked there and loved the city.

Unfortunately it lost its appeal for me when it became too expensive, stressful. crowded, lost a lot of its quirkiness and saw increased anti social behaviour.

I left it 4 years ago for a Kent seaside town and loved it here. I feel much healthier and happier.

I think now London is the type of place where you can be happy if you have a high income, don't rely on public transport and live in your own home in a safe and leafy part of town.

It really is not a city where you can have a good quality of life anymore unless you are fairly privileged.

More than 10 million public transport journeys are made in london daily. That sounds like a pretty robust system and that doesnt include the numerous bike hire schemes

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 10:57

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/05/2026 10:56

I think it has! London always had people coming to trade or make their living from all over the world going back centuries.

It's not me saying it hasn't!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/05/2026 10:59

It’s quite a wonderful place, with amazing people.

I love the fact that people here come from all over the world, or if they don’t often their very near ancestors have. It’s almost like travelling the world without the expense and time out of work.

There’s so much going on here too - theatres, museums, concerts, everything you could want. And there’s a beauty about it.

It’s very easy to drive or get the train out to the countryside when you want that balance - easier than doing the reverse I think.

The only time I really haven’t liked it is during the lockdowns.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/05/2026 10:59

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 10:57

It's not me saying it hasn't!

Oh I know I’m agreeing with you but you were the last commenter

ConstanzeMozart · 14/05/2026 11:04

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 14/05/2026 10:59

Oh I know I’m agreeing with you but you were the last commenter

Oh, I see! Sorry.

GlamDress · 14/05/2026 11:26

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 09:47

Lots of 'outsiders' like my DH's family you mean 😂 lots of people born in London from diverse ethnic backgrounds have been forced out of London - like Brixton, like large parts of North London, yea, I do object to that!

Yes you made that point clearly, whilst not answering my question.

I am wondering if you are the poster that once said that people who are not born here can’t call themselves Londoners?

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