It drives me insane the way hardworking people are treated.
We both come from working class backgrounds. I worked three jobs to go through uni. Husband went into work through an apprenticeship and did his degree whilst working.
We have both since studied several post graduate qualifications (MSc / PhD) to get us where we are, that's evenings and weekends we gave up, the stress we endured.
We have worked our way up the property ladder by buying houses that needed work, doing it ourselves whilst working full time and studying masters degrees to get us to our house now.
We didn't go abroad, we bought second hand furniture to keep being able to plough money into renovations.
On paper we live a privileged life, good jobs, moderately big house in the country. Kids at pre prep but it's not real because we've been hit from every angle and we aren't "wealthy" We've got to take them all back out of their school at the end of the school year because of 20% fee increase ( 3 adopted children who really benefitted from small class sizes due to their needs). Our mortgage has absolutely soared this year, We've lost our tax free childcare, we don't really see any bonus or pay rise.
I can't help resenting a bit that we've worked ourselves to the bone to get here and we aren't exactly living a high life but now the child benefit cap is lifted so I could live in a house with subsided rent, where all maintenance work is done for me, free prescriptions, cheap universal credit entry into attractions, 30 hours free childcare for my preschool age child. 20% off my wraparound care fees and holiday club (which I wouldn't even need to shell out for if I didn't have a full time job). It doesn't stack up.