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AIBU to feel disheartened by earning into the higher tax band?

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Chocolateapot · 10/05/2026 22:19

I have finally after many many years of studying progressed in my career to just slightly above the 40% tax threshold. Unfortunately I’ve realised this now means any additional income I earn is now taxed at 40%, student loan 9% and 2% national insurance, essentially giving a marginal tax rate of 51%.

Not sure why I bothered tbh

OP posts:
Aninabertsi · 11/05/2026 12:58

What a stupid thing to say

5128gap · 11/05/2026 12:58

Snorerephron · 11/05/2026 12:47

Exactly that. It's very definitely a lifestyle choice in some communities and I fail to see why we should all have to be ok with that

So what's the picture here then, so we know how concerned or annoyed we should be by it...?
What are the numbers of people who are claiming benefits as a lifestyle choice, as oppose to those genuinely in need? And what criteria has been used by those who have gathered the data to differentiate between the two groups. And how much do this group actually cost?
When we have the answers to those questions we can decide whether we actually have a problem that needs a solution, rather than vice versa.

Aninabertsi · 11/05/2026 12:59

Echobelly · 10/05/2026 22:30

It's possible to just... not think like that. I just don't think about how much I'd have if I didn't have to pay tax, because everyone pays it. I was happy to finally move to the higher rate relatively late in life and didn't waste energy thinking about 'Oh but it would have been more if the tax rate was lower' - like death, it's inevitable, and it's not even that high in the UK. It's the price we pay to, for example, not have to pay several hundred a month for health insurance that might not even cover costs like they have to in America.

Sorry forgot to tag you in my previous response

StandFirm · 11/05/2026 13:00

Feelslikeaneternity · 10/05/2026 22:46

Yeah. I worked very hard, got lots of qualifications and experience and went over £100k. Immediately lost the £12k personal allowance and instead that amount was taxed at 40% (so paid another £4800 in tax instantly)
, the 30 hours childcare (translates to about £12k per year) and the tax free childcare (translates to another £4800 per year). You can see why people don’t want to change tax bands when the take-home pay difference for someone in my setting is reduced by over £20k when you go from £99k to £101k). It’s totally disheartening when you’ve worked hard.

(and yes I could put the difference in pension and I did for a while to avoid this problem, but now I earn more so I accept the hit to my take home pay as we need the money for the mortgage)

(and yes I know I am lucky and people will say I shouldn’t complain but it is frustrating when you’ve always been told to work hard and it will pay off: I have a lot of student debt, have given up evenings and weekends to studying and extra career progression projects for over a decade at this point).

And don't forget that as soon as you hit the £100K salary ceiling, work-related stress tends to double...

TheChiffchaff · 11/05/2026 13:02

One of my DC is a band 8 in the NHS. When he went onto the higher tax band he put some into a SIPP and did a salary sacrifice for an extra week annual leave.

Dragracer · 11/05/2026 13:13

Quit and go on the dole then 🤷 if life as a high earner is so hard.

SixLeggedSugarBug · 11/05/2026 13:19

Chocolateapot · 11/05/2026 06:07

I am more than happy to pay tax and “pay my way” but as others have stated, I’m getting a bit sick of being seen as a cash cow with the biggest shoulders.

When I was 17, I had no idea that a student loan would mean that I paid 9% of my earnings over the threshold or that this threshold would be frozen so that it starts to impact on my wage significantly (it’s more than my car loan every month). None of my family have ever been to university or have earned into the higher tax band so we didn’t really have any idea what it would mean.

I also work in the NHS so every day see the appalling state of the public services so no I’m not “grateful” to be contributing, it’s a disgrace.

Sorry but I think this is a bit dramatic - you are being seen as a cash cow with the biggest shoulders.

What do you actually earn? You say you have just hit the 40% tax rate and only marginally? So actually very little of your salary is taxed at 40% yet you are a cash cow, ok!

Plugg · 11/05/2026 13:21

ColourThief · 11/05/2026 12:57

Was wondering how long it would be before people started bitching about benefits.

Don’t you think it’s an issue, that the benefits bill is massively rising? The whole premise here is that OP is paying a shit tonne of tax for minimal public services while looking at benefits rising ever higher. Surely you can see that taxes rising, public services falling but benefits rising might be linked?

Stressymcstress · 11/05/2026 13:25

Surely these are all things you knew? Did you not realise a student loan needed paid? Are you unaware how interest works? Tax brackets aren’t exactly a new and confusing phenomenon.

if you don’t like it then you could always change job and early below the 40% if it makes you better off financially.

AgingLikeGazpacho · 11/05/2026 13:26

I was a bit disheartened by a recent salary increase where my salary increased by 40% but my take home only increased by 25%. But then had to give myself a wobble - I now focus just on the fact that I have a good wage, prospects to earn even more in the future and it's in exchange for a more interesting job and the satisfaction of climbing the career ladder. Plus I do want to live in a society where the most vulnerable are looked after.

I know the UK is facing problems at the moment, I'm deeply saddened by the state of the NHS, the police force, lack of investment, poor job market etc. I like to think at least my tax contributions help make it slightly less shit, I just wish more millionaires and billionaires (and their corporations) thought similarly and would pay their tax dues too

Meadowfinch · 11/05/2026 13:33

When I reached that point, I paid 40% tax, 12% NI, and, as a single mum, they removed £1 of my child benefit (for my one child) for every £10 I earned. So I was paying 62% incremental tax.

And then if I spent the remainder on anything other than food, I paid 20% VAT plus fuel tax, insurance tax, alcohol tax......

It got so silly, I chose to take a lower paid job. Now I have a 5 minute commute and have regained an hour a day and £250 a month train ticket. I have time to make my own lunch so I'm not giving custom to coffee shops or sandwich bars or the station car park, and I buy less petrol. I buy everything else second hand if I can.

I am better off to the tune of about £350 a month. I think the tax man is £100 a month worse off and other businesses by £250.

Plugg · 11/05/2026 13:42

AgingLikeGazpacho · 11/05/2026 13:26

I was a bit disheartened by a recent salary increase where my salary increased by 40% but my take home only increased by 25%. But then had to give myself a wobble - I now focus just on the fact that I have a good wage, prospects to earn even more in the future and it's in exchange for a more interesting job and the satisfaction of climbing the career ladder. Plus I do want to live in a society where the most vulnerable are looked after.

I know the UK is facing problems at the moment, I'm deeply saddened by the state of the NHS, the police force, lack of investment, poor job market etc. I like to think at least my tax contributions help make it slightly less shit, I just wish more millionaires and billionaires (and their corporations) thought similarly and would pay their tax dues too

Thry pay their taxes too. Theres no one to blame but the government that the tax take in the UK is so poor. Getting rid of the marginal tax bands and increasing the tax rates to compensate would boost the tax take immeasurably but Keir is too chicken to do this. This is the issue. Try giving £100k + earners their tax allowance back and the little socialists in his party throw their toys out of the pram and whine about tax breaks for the rich even though having such big marginal tax rates is deeply damaging to the Uk economy and addressing it would boost the tax we take.

AgingLikeGazpacho · 11/05/2026 13:47

Plugg · 11/05/2026 13:42

Thry pay their taxes too. Theres no one to blame but the government that the tax take in the UK is so poor. Getting rid of the marginal tax bands and increasing the tax rates to compensate would boost the tax take immeasurably but Keir is too chicken to do this. This is the issue. Try giving £100k + earners their tax allowance back and the little socialists in his party throw their toys out of the pram and whine about tax breaks for the rich even though having such big marginal tax rates is deeply damaging to the Uk economy and addressing it would boost the tax we take.

I actually agree with you - many ways to drive up revenue and productivity. I'm also on 6 figures and went down to part time as financially and work/life balance wise it just made more sense - I have the same household income working 4 days a week as I do working 5. Which is silly really

RosieHosie · 11/05/2026 13:56

thesealion · 11/05/2026 00:06

No, I don’t feel like this. Yes, I earn in the 40% tax band. Tax is what we have in a civilised society and it’s only right that those who can, pay more to ensure those who can’t can be housed, fed and access services. And I say this as a self employed person whose tax is paid in one colossal lump sum every year. Trust me, that’s a lot worse than having it deducted by PAYE. Billionaires also need to be taxed and yes, I do vote in accordance with my beliefs. Edited to say I also make frugal choices like staying in a much smaller property than I can afford so I’ve got more disposable income to do things I enjoy. The problem is a lot of high earners max out their lifestyles then complain that expensive choices means they can’t afford a holiday or a new car.

Edited

Why do you pay your tax as one lump sum? DH is self employed and makes two payments per year, but we put money by every month to pay for it. At least then we get savings interest on that amount.

Faceonthewrongfoot · 11/05/2026 13:58

TheWordWomanIsTaken · 11/05/2026 12:24

Not most, some
32% of UC claimants are in work as at Dec 2025.
Of that 32% most are working part time (the 18 hours or so a week).
Leaving 68% not in work.
To be fair, why would someone work full time when they can work part time and have their wages 'made up'. Two women I work with do this - that is the system.

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/universal-credit-statistics-29-april-2013-to-8-january-2026/universal-credit-statistics-29-april-2013-to-8-january-2026#:~:text=Figure%2012%3A%20Proportion%20of%20people,employment%2C%20Great%20Britain%2C%20December%202025&text=Source%3A%20UC%20Collection%20Page%20–%20Latest,for%20December%202025%20is%2032%25.

Right, but at the top of that page it states that 50% of people claiming UC are in the 'no work requirements' category, so people who are severely disabled, or a full time carer of a family member. So that actually only leaves 18% who are considered able to work but are not.

JuliettaCaeser · 11/05/2026 14:00

Also those that work hard and are good at what they do maybe they don’t want to “live a frugal lifestyle” and not go on holiday 🙄. Whats the bloody point otherwise!

confusedlots · 11/05/2026 14:11

Definitely put the additional income into a SIPP. You’ll get that tax back and if you are young it will have the benefit of compounding over time, you’ll thank yourself massively in retirement. And you can access your SIPP 10 years before state pension age so you might even use it to retire early or reduce your hours well before you reach 67.

I’m 45 and really wish I had educated myself better about finances much earlier in life. But I have now started a SIPP and am working on a plan to help me retire before state pension age.

Plugg · 11/05/2026 14:11

Faceonthewrongfoot · 11/05/2026 13:58

Right, but at the top of that page it states that 50% of people claiming UC are in the 'no work requirements' category, so people who are severely disabled, or a full time carer of a family member. So that actually only leaves 18% who are considered able to work but are not.

And we’re supposed to believe that they’re incapable of work? I watched this panorama program that showed articulate, talented people on disability benefits for life, people with skills that could easily get work. Mindblowing that they’re given money not to work in the UK. Mindblowing.

www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m002rwzx

TheWordWomanIsTaken · 11/05/2026 14:21

Faceonthewrongfoot · 11/05/2026 13:58

Right, but at the top of that page it states that 50% of people claiming UC are in the 'no work requirements' category, so people who are severely disabled, or a full time carer of a family member. So that actually only leaves 18% who are considered able to work but are not.

But you said that most people on UC were working.
And they're not

aCatCalledFawkes · 11/05/2026 14:26

Meadowfinch · 11/05/2026 13:33

When I reached that point, I paid 40% tax, 12% NI, and, as a single mum, they removed £1 of my child benefit (for my one child) for every £10 I earned. So I was paying 62% incremental tax.

And then if I spent the remainder on anything other than food, I paid 20% VAT plus fuel tax, insurance tax, alcohol tax......

It got so silly, I chose to take a lower paid job. Now I have a 5 minute commute and have regained an hour a day and £250 a month train ticket. I have time to make my own lunch so I'm not giving custom to coffee shops or sandwich bars or the station car park, and I buy less petrol. I buy everything else second hand if I can.

I am better off to the tune of about £350 a month. I think the tax man is £100 a month worse off and other businesses by £250.

This is my experience too when I got a pay rise in the corporate sector as a single parent that was nowhere near the pay rise I thought it was going to be.

MummyWillow1 · 11/05/2026 14:32

PurpleCoo · 10/05/2026 22:30

It feels really unfair. 51% is a huge amount to have deducted. Once you hit that threshold they get more of your earnings than you do!

Pension contributions are taken off first if it's through your employer, so that helps a bit

‘They’ do not get more of your earnings than you do. It is only 51% of anything over £50271. So if you earn £50272, you get 51p deducted from the extra £ rather than 31p. And extra 20p per £. You would need to be earning considerably over to see a large change in the amount of tax you pay. And if you earn over £50k you can afford it.

You also get a lot of services for that money.

patate10 · 11/05/2026 14:35

NoGarlic · 11/05/2026 12:39

Good. The obvious reply to this complaint is "Tell them you don't want the extra pay, then". So you've found a way to do this while gaining time off. You win! Your promotion was more than worthwhile!

Your complaint about your student loan's equally irrational. That's how loans work, they accrue interest. Ever looked at how much of your mortgage payments actually go to repay the capital?

Edited

Umm, student loans are on very different terms to standard loans and the interest rate increases when you hit a good salary. They are punitive and disgraceful.

Well done for the most condescending post though!

Anyahyacinth · 11/05/2026 14:51

SquirrelSoShiny · 11/05/2026 12:31

People really have no understanding of how much some people make in benefits, often without ever paying anything in. Meanwhile people who HAVE contributed to paying everyone else's benefits have ill health or job loss and believe there is a safety net. There isn't ANY safety net for anyone who has done any of the 'right things' (including staying married / home ownership with mortgage / trying to work even if seriously ill / having some savings in the bank / limiting family size). All of the things listed will become a stick to beat you with so that money can be handed to others who make really bad choices. In the meantime you will be taxed until your pip squeaks for the benefit of people who contribute little to nothing to society and never will because there is no incentive.

I work with people with learning disabilities...what should happen to those people in your world? They haven't paid in...how should they live??

Your understanding is incorrect too...most people have paid in. Virtually epvery time they buy something they pay taxes.

If you have assets then you benefit from not paying rent and your assets rising in value.

This is a divide and rule distraction...the entities not paying their way are the huge corporations...but yeah attack societies most vulnerable

Anyahyacinth · 11/05/2026 14:54

Plugg · 11/05/2026 14:11

And we’re supposed to believe that they’re incapable of work? I watched this panorama program that showed articulate, talented people on disability benefits for life, people with skills that could easily get work. Mindblowing that they’re given money not to work in the UK. Mindblowing.

www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m002rwzx

Is it hard to understand that people who would participate in a documentary would be the best or better communicators? 🤦‍♀️

Zebedee999 · 11/05/2026 15:25

Plugg · 10/05/2026 22:35

Yup come to Scotland! My marginal tax rate is 67%. Those grads from England living here add 9% on top for student loan repayment. Imagine only seeing 24% of your overtime or pay rise? And they wonder why people go part time.

Just imagine the tax rate if Scotland went independent. You can add more tax due to lack of UK gvernment subsidies, funding the massive immigration the SNP say they want, etc. Any actual net tax payers there would soon be deserting the place.