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AIBU to wonder which button people would press to survive?

213 replies

Boxingshibes · 09/05/2026 19:11

Everyone on earth takes a private vote by pressing a red or blue button.

If more than 50% of people press the blue button, everyone survives.

If less than 50% of people press the blue button, only people who pressed the red button survive. Which button would you press?

Red or blue
Red- aibu
Blue-ainbu

OP posts:
Rosebyanothername19 · 11/05/2026 19:58

user1471453601 · 09/05/2026 20:02

And a third reason I'd press blue is I'm sure I would not want to live in a world populated by people who has pressed red. People who had the potential to kill others. Not a world of be prepared to live in.

If everyone on the earth pressed red though then everyone would survive! They all have the same choice as you.

If it was the case that only 50% of people were making the decision for everyone then I would be absolutely in agreement with you.

I looked at it another way: say a plane was going to crash, everyone has a parachute and can jump and will survive, or 50% of people can jump and the plane might be light enough to make it down safely so the rest survive too. Surely the whole plane would jump to ensure they lived rather than taking the risk? Why would you not??

AirborneElephant · 11/05/2026 20:08

Red, obviously. Then you have a 100% chance of surviving. If people want to self select themselves out by pushing blue that’s on them. You need a better example if you’re trying to set up a moral choice

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 11/05/2026 20:23

OtterlyAstounding · 10/05/2026 21:51

I would have to assume that, were this hypothetical actually real, it would probably be treated in much the same way as a real life vote. So:

  • Provisions for accessibility, so assistance for the blind, etc.
  • Information would be provided to explain it clearly in simple language.
  • Only people of the age of majority, who are competent, would be expected to push the button. Everyone else I imagine would either be excluded from the effects of the outcome and only those who pushed a button would be impacted OR they would be expected to have a guardian or caregiver push the button for them.

If you exclude babies and change from the outcome then that isn’t going to be great if all the parents are dead because of the number of people pressing red.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 11/05/2026 20:28

OtterlyAstounding · 10/05/2026 22:09

Well then, if all babies and toddlers are going to die because they can't push buttons, and most very young children would die because they can't properly comprehend the question, the experiment would become the boring 'nearly everyone pushes blue'.

And even with incompetent people not being brought into the matter, it seems that many people would still vote blue, and think it's the only moral option. So I don't think that holds true.

Why would you assume it would be ‘nearly everyone votes blue’ in that circumstance?

Because if enough people press red, and if you exclude babies from the consequences, then you get a lot of parentless children and the ones pressing red aren’t going to step up. So the babies and toddlers will die ultimately

JumpingPumpkin · 12/05/2026 06:41

SnappyQuoter · 09/05/2026 21:57

Who some idiot on twitter has written because they misunderstood game theory and missed out on the actual interesting debate that comes with it.

This is a simple “everyone lives or everyone dies” choice. So everyone would choose red so that everyone can live, with no personal risk to yourself.

Prisoner’s dilemma, game theory, comes with risk no matter what. And it’s about weighing up that risk - choosing for yourself, even though there could be a slightly bad outcome but it’s better than nothing, or choose for the group even though it could mean you get nothing. That’s an interesting discussion. This is just stupid people vs anyone with a brain, because there is an option that has no personal or group risk of everyone goes for it. So everyone would.

It's really quite fascinating that you can't understand that this isn't "game theory".
It's like you're seeing an abstract painting for the first time and keep explaining that the artist failed to make the objects look realistic.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/05/2026 08:04

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 11/05/2026 20:23

If you exclude babies and change from the outcome then that isn’t going to be great if all the parents are dead because of the number of people pressing red.

Wouldn't be great for them if people fell for the framing and opted for blue instead of the everybody wins choice of red, either.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 12/05/2026 09:24

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/05/2026 08:04

Wouldn't be great for them if people fell for the framing and opted for blue instead of the everybody wins choice of red, either.

But they won’t. People may like to think they would risk themselves to save the lives of unknown people but it’s clearly not true in general.

I would still press red and if that makes me a bad person then so be it

NorthXNorthWest · 12/05/2026 13:25

The irony of all these people trying to guilt or shame others into placing blind trust in the altruism of strangers. Blind faith has been exploited throughout history to justify some truly terrible behaviour. There is nothing altruistic about using shame-based pressure to coerce conformity. In fact, knowing / seeing that some people automatically default to that behaviour is enough to ensure that I would press the red, all day long!

NorthXNorthWest · 12/05/2026 13:39

NorthXNorthWest · 12/05/2026 13:25

The irony of all these people trying to guilt or shame others into placing blind trust in the altruism of strangers. Blind faith has been exploited throughout history to justify some truly terrible behaviour. There is nothing altruistic about using shame-based pressure to coerce conformity. In fact, knowing / seeing that some people automatically default to that behaviour is enough to ensure that I would press the red, all day long!

The irony of the blue button people...

Haffway · 12/05/2026 15:09

WaryCrow · 11/05/2026 05:31

I’m waiting for the reveal that this question was run before in the 90s / 2000s before the economic and demographic changes bit hard,.

And most voted blue.

How cultures change and destroy themselves…

It’s fascinating how consistent the outcome of this experiment has been across SM - I feel like Mr Spock watching this strange species acting illogically.

I pushed red, and now I’m pondering whether it would be better to push blue in the knowledge that so many other people would be daft enough to vote blue. I didn’t want daft people to die, tbf, I just assumed that when everyone is handed a life jacket they’d put the bloody thing on. Nowt queer as folk.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 12/05/2026 15:11

Haffway · 12/05/2026 15:09

It’s fascinating how consistent the outcome of this experiment has been across SM - I feel like Mr Spock watching this strange species acting illogically.

I pushed red, and now I’m pondering whether it would be better to push blue in the knowledge that so many other people would be daft enough to vote blue. I didn’t want daft people to die, tbf, I just assumed that when everyone is handed a life jacket they’d put the bloody thing on. Nowt queer as folk.

The naivety would be enough to make me press red even if I had faith in human nature!

RobinEllacotStrike · 12/05/2026 15:28

shall I take personal responsibility and push red and survive?

Or shall I put my life into the hands of unknown masses of people, at a time when being stupid is celebrated like never before, at a time when society feels more divided than ever before, at a time when some people insist men are women and only bigots disagree, at a time when racism is celebrated, at a time when lying is common and also celebrated etc etc etc?

no way. I'll take the personal responsibility route, and so should everyone else.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 12/05/2026 15:46

RobinEllacotStrike · 12/05/2026 15:28

shall I take personal responsibility and push red and survive?

Or shall I put my life into the hands of unknown masses of people, at a time when being stupid is celebrated like never before, at a time when society feels more divided than ever before, at a time when some people insist men are women and only bigots disagree, at a time when racism is celebrated, at a time when lying is common and also celebrated etc etc etc?

no way. I'll take the personal responsibility route, and so should everyone else.

Well said!

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