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To wonder how the hell people are paying for this?!

322 replies

Ifrreoo · 07/05/2026 18:59

I have an average car and cost to service it is 525. My home insurance has gone up to 450 and my car insurance is 540 (yes I’ve called round endlessly). I have 18 years no claims.

I am a higher earner. I am going to massively struggle to pay for this. I don’t understand how someone on the average income could afford this? Am I going wrong somewhere? Why am i struggling to make ends meet? How do others do it?

OP posts:
Yourmywifenow · 07/05/2026 21:00

My DH does my car himself! But he also has a mechanic friend it he get struck.
Check on an old checklist and check the items yourself.

newname999999999 · 07/05/2026 21:01

People saying you don’t need to service your car are talking nonsense. You absolutely do, but the main thing is getting your oil changed. Just go to Halfords or Kwik Fit. If you ignore it you might get away with it for a couple of years but you’ll end up with a much bigger bill down the line when your engine is knackered! It’ll also severely effect the resale/part exchange value when you want to change.

Also on car insurance - it’s very dependent on where you live. I relocated from a city to a small town and my car insurance halved in price, with exactly the same car.

Serencwtch · 07/05/2026 21:01

Ifrreoo · 07/05/2026 19:03

@tiramisugelato i don’t know anyone who doesn’t have a car, I’m not saying people dont but most do.

And how would you save that much on minimum wage for example?! I don’t buy it (no pun intended)

Pay for it monthly & go without other things. Priorities.

1 shared car for the household.

Where's all your money going if you are a higher earner & can't spread that across a year.

PeoniesAreMyFavouriteFlowers · 07/05/2026 21:01

It’s so expensive. You’re right op. Even if you do put money aside each month. If you can. Not everyone can.

RedRiverShore6 · 07/05/2026 21:02

People that don't have house insurance will either be renting or paid off their mortgage. Mortgage lenders will want the property to have buildings insurance.

Thechaseison71 · 07/05/2026 21:03

Howmanycatsistoomany · 07/05/2026 20:59

Well when your brakes fail you need to top up the brake fluid!
FFS of course you need to have your car serviced. It's not necessary to have it done at a dealership though (unless your warranty is affected).

Unlikely on a 7 year old car

asdbaybeeee · 07/05/2026 21:03

My car insurance is 220 I have 13 years no claims. My house insurance is 260 a year and we had a 200k claim 4 years ago.
do you go on compare the market or go compare?

Littlecrake · 07/05/2026 21:04

My insurance is under £300 and I’ve got 3 points. You can faff around adding and removing other drivers, mileage (low isn’t always best) and make sure you buy it a month in advance. It’s always more if you buy within a couple of days of the policy starting.

I get a service every 2 years. Small local garage - not a dealership. It’s about £300 with oil.

If you don’t have enough upfront then see if you are eligible for a 0% card. We’ve struggle to save for big things the last few years so insurance, glasses, dental goes on a 0% card. I save monthly for Christmas and into an emergency fund

Hicupping · 07/05/2026 21:05

I service my car myself, changed the oil and oil filter last week, checked fluid levels. Installed a cleanable air filter under the bonnet when I bought it and replaced inside air filter. It's now 11 years old and I've had it 8 and it's never broken down. Failed one MOT due to a wiper so every 2-3 years I change the wipers now.
Insurance is £250 inc breakdown and extra cover in case of accident and unable to work.
But I have all mod cons small car, heated seats, auto lights & wipers, android auto etc etc but in a hatchback. Prefer feature to size and I'm not rich enough to justify both.

Would never not get home insurance - that's bonkers, I don't have accident cover, it's for emergencies such as house fires, the big stuff, I wouldn't claim for knocking over the telly.

But yes all prices going up and it's tough, parking permit up 33%, for what? Water up 40% last year, 20% ish this year. Energy set prices is due to end in May that's going to be fun, CT has gone up about £300 over last 8 years. And to cap it all company has been very quiet about April pay rises. Oh an no NHS dentists either.

Skater78 · 07/05/2026 21:06

2017 ford , dealership service is £280 for 100,000 mile service + the £54 Mot.
car insurance £277
house insurance £1200… thatched property (don’t recommend doing this)

2Hot2Greedy · 07/05/2026 21:09

Ifrreoo · 07/05/2026 19:03

@tiramisugelato i don’t know anyone who doesn’t have a car, I’m not saying people dont but most do.

And how would you save that much on minimum wage for example?! I don’t buy it (no pun intended)

We don't have a car, simply can't afford one. Can't afford insurance either. We have about £4k savings and have to hope that if we ever need to replace anything that'll cover it.

The cost of everything is ridiculous. I've never been on holiday in my life and was hoping to before I turned 50 but that was scuppered.

Life feels like a huge expensive slog if I'm honest.

SabrinaThwaite · 07/05/2026 21:12

RedRiverShore6 · 07/05/2026 20:49

In the old days people just used to change the oil and filter themselves, that the main thing that needs doing

In the old days, you needed to do that every few hundred miles.

FIL used to drive between Turkey and the UK in the 1960s and would change the oil and filters at the side of the road.

Happyjoe · 07/05/2026 21:12

You must have an expensive car or a job that insurers don't like? My car, from new (cost me £18k) is only £320 a year insurance. 18+ years of no claims. I just got a renewal quote, gone up 7p.

Crispynoodle · 07/05/2026 21:13

edwinbear · 07/05/2026 19:08

My home insurance is £400 a month…I’d be delighted with £450 a year! We just pay it monthly by direct debit.

What? Mine is nothing in comparison for a big detached that had 50k worth of Reno done by the insurance company only 2 years ago!

ExOptimist · 07/05/2026 21:15

inmyhair · 07/05/2026 20:51

I never have my cars serviced and I don't buy home insurance either.

Then you're an absolute and total fool.

Think you're saving a few quid, but what will you do if there's a bad storm and your roof blows off, or you have a house fire? It can and does happen even in well maintained houses.

Sensiblesal · 07/05/2026 21:16

BringBackCatsEyes · 07/05/2026 20:51

Who is your post meant to help?

The post is how do people afford it, poster is clearly saying they can’t so don’t have those things

not everyone can afford it!!

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 07/05/2026 21:17

DavesGirl90 · 07/05/2026 19:10

It is all ridiculously expensive and I’m
not arguing with that. But if you really are a high earner you must have other very high costs if you would truly massively struggle to pay a few one-off bills coming to around £1500 total.

If you have a large mortgage or something, there’s your answer - others might not have. Or will have saved more, or simply will not be able to afford it and will give up their car.

Different circumstances is the answer.

I do believe cars, like every luxury and convenience, will eventually be for the 1% only. It is depressing.

This.

I've been a high earner for about years now and whilst I roll my eyes and sigh, one off unexpected costs of £500 don't make a financial dent because all my other costs are low.

And you keep saying "just a Skoda" - I had a quick look at Skoda insurance groups and lots of them are 20+. My Toyota Yaris is group 8 and I pay £290.

Shecameshesawandsheconquered · 07/05/2026 21:17

ObliviousCoalmine · 07/05/2026 19:08

You don’t, but you should.

It’s generally just an oil change/air and fuel filter change etc though, all things that can be done with YouTube and a free Saturday.

Which is how it used to be!

SabrinaThwaite · 07/05/2026 21:17

RedRiverShore6 · 07/05/2026 21:02

People that don't have house insurance will either be renting or paid off their mortgage. Mortgage lenders will want the property to have buildings insurance.

If you’ve paid off your mortgage of course you still have insurance - buildings cover at the absolute minimum.

WimbyAce · 07/05/2026 21:18

We hardly ever have car serviced. My insurance was about £140 with M&S. Partner's was even less with Aviva. Do you have a v high risk job or live somewhere extremely dodgy?

Steeleydan · 07/05/2026 21:19

Ifrreoo · 07/05/2026 19:05

@Offherrockingchair which company has insured that?! It’s only a Skoda so pretty basic 2019 reg

Go on compare the market

RedRiverShore6 · 07/05/2026 21:20

SabrinaThwaite · 07/05/2026 21:17

If you’ve paid off your mortgage of course you still have insurance - buildings cover at the absolute minimum.

Well most people will, we do but these are the circumstances where people don't have to have insurance, it's their choice

Balloonhearts · 07/05/2026 21:20

Where the fuck are you taking your car? I just had mine serviced by a local mobile mechanic, full service with oil and filter changes, spark plugs changed etc £191. And he picks it up and drops it back to me. You need to shop around.

JacknDiane · 07/05/2026 21:21

Others do it cos there's no bloody choice. We go without. We compromise.
We give up other stuff.
Its not rocket science.
Posts like this piss me off
" oh how do the poor people manage"

Sod off with the faux sympathy

SapphireSteel28 · 07/05/2026 21:22

Ifrreoo · 07/05/2026 19:05

@Offherrockingchair which company has insured that?! It’s only a Skoda so pretty basic 2019 reg

My Skoda 2014 Roomster costs under £300 fully comp with 15 years no claims.

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