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AIBU to find the Met Gala outfits self-indulgent and ridiculous?

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SheThinksShesAllThat · 06/05/2026 09:24

The met gala…. I can’t get over how self indulged these celebrities are!

80% of you look ridiculous in your ‘high’ fashion outfits!

I absolutely LOVED Hugh Grants interview…
”what are you wearing???…... ‘a suit’

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coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:17

I am no Met Gala fan, but isn't that sort of the point of it? Over the top, and weird and wonderful costumes? I don't think it's going to get the same attention if Lady Gaga is wearing an off the rack from Zara!

WoodlandApril · 06/05/2026 12:19

Needmorelego · 06/05/2026 10:50

I have never had an interest in fashion.
I have frequently thought fashion show or "red carpet" outfits look ridiculous.
But this year I was interested about the Gala because of a couple of actors I like being there.
I really did find it fascinating. The craziness of the outfits. What some were representating or meant to be. I've watched a lot of behind the scenes features and interviews online which explains the costumes and how they are created.
It's a whole new thing for me to be interested in. I am even thinking of going to the V+A museum to look at some of the fashion stuff there.
Isn't that the point of art? To be interesting?

Connor & Hudson? Or is that just me?

AgentPidge · 06/05/2026 12:20

I watched the David Attenborough programme the other night - an hour of funny, interesting and hair-raising stories from a team who really were innovative, going above and beyond to bring ground-breaking natural history to our living rooms. And yet most of them, we won't know their names. Brave, self-effacing...

Compare those men and women with the self-centred nonentities on the red carpet. I know who I'd rather have dinner with.

wecangoupupup · 06/05/2026 12:21

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:17

I am no Met Gala fan, but isn't that sort of the point of it? Over the top, and weird and wonderful costumes? I don't think it's going to get the same attention if Lady Gaga is wearing an off the rack from Zara!

Yes but people like to pretend they’re better than people who watch/indulge in this type of thing

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:23

wecangoupupup · 06/05/2026 12:21

Yes but people like to pretend they’re better than people who watch/indulge in this type of thing

I just find it odd to question something which isn't trying to be anything other than what it is?

It's like going to Vegas and complaining it's tacky and over the top. Well yes, obviously!

SapphOhNo · 06/05/2026 12:26

I'm glad some people didn't attend now Bezos is so heavily involved. That said, this year's looks are all uninspiring many didn't even bother with the brief.

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:27

SapphOhNo · 06/05/2026 12:26

I'm glad some people didn't attend now Bezos is so heavily involved. That said, this year's looks are all uninspiring many didn't even bother with the brief.

What's wrong with good old Bezos?

Untailored · 06/05/2026 12:31

You could argue most forms of art - and the costumes are works of art in themselves- are pointless and unnecessary uses of money. Movies, sculptures, artworks that have £££ spent to create them

Exactly this.

Untailored · 06/05/2026 12:32

There are other types of art than paintings on canvas you know.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 06/05/2026 12:36

I didn’t watch it - zero interest TBH - but there are plenty of photos in today’s Times. The ones I’ve seen are - to me anyway - vulgar, or ridiculous, or just blatantly attention-seeking. Or all three.

I dare say there were some beautiful, elegant, classy dresses, but unsurprisingly I haven’t seen any publicity about those.

ProudAmberTurtle · 06/05/2026 12:36

AccordingToWhom · 06/05/2026 12:12

Shades of AOC in her 'Tax the Rich' dress. Errr...have you forgotten where you are and who you're socialising with and how much money you have, love?

I don't think anything has summed up the modern left better than her wearing that dress.

It said 'Tax The Rich' while she was eating at a table that cost $275,000 to book, and everything from the dress to her table was paid for by her uber capitalist sponsors.

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:38

ProudAmberTurtle · 06/05/2026 12:36

I don't think anything has summed up the modern left better than her wearing that dress.

It said 'Tax The Rich' while she was eating at a table that cost $275,000 to book, and everything from the dress to her table was paid for by her uber capitalist sponsors.

The far left never fail do they?

ChocolatesAndRainbows · 06/05/2026 12:39

WoodlandApril · 06/05/2026 12:19

Connor & Hudson? Or is that just me?

Nope, I really enjoyed watching those two continue to have their moment. And Conner’s arms are always a treat. I loved their outfits

Fluffyholeysocks · 06/05/2026 12:40

Someone posted up thread that 'they dress up and have fun'. Who has fun? I couldn't see anyone having 'fun' amongst the posturing, pouting and gurning? I saw a picture of the red carpet 'set' - loads of scaffolding and platforms covered in tarpulin? It looked bizarre.

wecangoupupup · 06/05/2026 12:40

ProudAmberTurtle · 06/05/2026 12:36

I don't think anything has summed up the modern left better than her wearing that dress.

It said 'Tax The Rich' while she was eating at a table that cost $275,000 to book, and everything from the dress to her table was paid for by her uber capitalist sponsors.

The $275k that went to charity? I admire those who admit they’re privileged

AirborneElephant · 06/05/2026 12:40

SheThinksShesAllThat · 06/05/2026 09:24

The met gala…. I can’t get over how self indulged these celebrities are!

80% of you look ridiculous in your ‘high’ fashion outfits!

I absolutely LOVED Hugh Grants interview…
”what are you wearing???…... ‘a suit’

This comes up every year. It’s a fancy dress party. It’s not meant to be sensible clothing or even fashion, it’s a fundraiser and intended to be entirely OTT. Fashion houses pay to get their creations into the newspapers, celebs like being photographed, the museum gets lots of money, everyone wins. To be honest I find those that just turn up in a suit more “self indulgent” as it’s a statement of “I’m so important / rich I don’t even need to make an effort to be here”

Needmorelego · 06/05/2026 12:41

WoodlandApril · 06/05/2026 12:19

Connor & Hudson? Or is that just me?

Yep 😁
Definitely not just you.
I thought they looked awesome (except for Hudson's after party outfit 😂)

fabstraction · 06/05/2026 12:44

I'm happiest when I ignore these vain, self-important idiots luminaries of the entertainment industry. Yes, they did look self-indulgent and ridiculous, which means it's exactly like every other day of their lives, only this time it was out on display for all to see.

mahiki · 06/05/2026 12:46

I like that it’s a bit different to the usual “how much flesh can I reveal” red carpet looks. It’s interesting to hear though that Anna Wintour’s power might be waning. A number of no-shows due to Bezos and the tables not selling like they used to.

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:46

I really don't get the nastiness on this thread.

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:46

fabstraction · 06/05/2026 12:44

I'm happiest when I ignore these vain, self-important idiots luminaries of the entertainment industry. Yes, they did look self-indulgent and ridiculous, which means it's exactly like every other day of their lives, only this time it was out on display for all to see.

How would you know that?

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/05/2026 12:47

GoldMerchant · 06/05/2026 09:47

The gala raises money for the Costume Institute of the Metropolitan Museum of Art. It supports the preservation of cultural history. It keeps curators and experts employed. The ways that people have dressed across time tells us about lots of other aspects of history. It's not for nothing.

Yes, the outfits are expensive and some are a little bit ridiculous. But most of the people involved in making them were paid a decent wage, because they were made by couture houses. There was likely very little wasted materials and many will be preserved in collections, or sold on. The best are a great display of creativity and imagination that I enjoy looking at! I couldn't come up with those kinds of designs, and I definitely couldn't execute them, and I'm pleased someone can. I also probably couldn't wear the clothes with as much charisma as the celebrities do. Entertainment is part of life, and people who provide it can be rewarded.

None of this disgusts me as much as manufactures making tons of cheap, poor quality clothing from oil-based fabrics, that will be worn once or twice and then sent to landfill, or will never be sold or worn, and end up in a huge pile somewhere where the Western buyers of the clothes can't see them.

This is a really good post, thank you

OttersOnAPlane · 06/05/2026 13:02

@GoldMerchant is bang on. It's a charity event that supports a valuable cultural collection. It's brand new art! It's not supposed to be clothing, it's spectacle and creativity.

I was amused by the number of women who had extra hands on their costume - a very weird coincidence!

Fluffyholeysocks · 06/05/2026 13:07

It certainly doesn't have the same appeal or affection as the London Marathon which raised over £87 million for charity. I think we can admire the bloke running 26 miles with a fridge on his back more than a rich woman dressed up as someones intestines.

HoldMyWine · 06/05/2026 13:11

coulditbeme2323 · 06/05/2026 12:46

How would you know that?

lol indeed, how do you know if you don’t look?!!

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