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Would this bother anyone or am I just being petty? Neighbours walking past

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thebakera · Today 10:51

I recently moved into a house which is a modern new build with 2 allocated parking spaces outside my living room and front door.
So it isn't a driveway as such but 2 parking bays designated for this property.

A few of the neighbours use it as a short cut to go from A to B and they literally are walking right by my living room window multiple times a day.

At times they will even have conversations.

The kids do it as well and it is really annoying me.

I want to kindly ask them to stop as I feel it's invading my privacy but feel petty doing so.

Would this annoy anyone else?

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Franjipanl8r · Today 12:07

It’s just bad housing design - not putting paths and walkways where pedestrians want to walk. Slim tall planters would be best as I bet the housing designers haven’t bothered designing any green space in either!

Atruthuniversallyacknowledged2 · Today 12:08

While this is very annoying, it's simply how your house was built and there's really not a lot you can do about it.
Some people live in rows of small terrace houses that just open directly onto the pavement, with Joe Public walking right past their living rooms windows day and night.
It's just the set up you have and it can't really be changed.

PeanutButterYoghurt · Today 12:09

Yes, it would annoy me, but that’s a me problem I think. Unless I wanted to be one of ‘those’ neighbours who tells people not to stand near their house/car - which I don’t as I abhor those kind of people - live and let live. Unfortunately new build estates aren’t built with privacy in mind.

ParmaVioletTea · Today 12:10

If they're on your land, block it off.

Oldraver · Today 12:17

Like a previous poster has said, you need th planters with trellis attached

PeanutButterYoghurt · Today 12:19

ParmaVioletTea · Today 12:10

If they're on your land, block it off.

GERROFF MY LAND!!!

he he he he he

Purplewarrior · Today 12:26

So it’s just people from 14 and 16? How often is this happening?

It looks like a shit design, and it’s human nature not to choose to walk in the road.

Do you not have cars parked there? Park really close to the wall so they don’t pass through, and put big plant pots right outside your window.

TempestTost · Today 12:28

To me this is the same as any houses that open right into a pavement or road. You just get used to people walking past or even standing there.

thebakera · Today 12:29

It happens every day multiple times a day after school.
It houses 8, 14 and 16.
The parents all do it as do their kids who all play together.

I have a car parked there and OH dosent get back from work until 8pm and by that time they have all gone in.

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DeskGnome · Today 10:57

Have you posted about this before?

There was a very similar thread a little while back where the advice was huge flowerpots or small fences if you're allowed.

Yes there was a similar one (with a diagram!!) about a month back.

I'd say either a planter, or if you can't "block the path" I'd put a window box planter under the window to A) make it more awkward to walk that way and B) have tall plants which make it a bit more private for you

Hankunamatata · Today 12:41

Would somehting like this work

Would this bother anyone or am I just being petty? Neighbours walking past
MrsSlocombesCat · Today 12:43

I used to live in a studio flat on the ground floor where my main window was right on the A5. I didn't mind people walking past my window, talking or not I soon got used to it. Heavy traffic too. But one night there was a minor car crash right outside and that was scary, felt like the building was going to fall down!

eyeballer · Today 12:44

I don’t get this so if neighbour at no 14 parks in the bay, they get out of the car they should not go forward but go behind the car & in between the two bays to reach their house?

And if no 16 goes for a walk rather than turning left down the street they should walk past the cars to the road & then turn left.

CoffeeBeansGalore · Today 12:44

As pp have said, planters may be an answer. I was lookiing yesterday & Aldi have some large planters/pots on offer from 7th May. Put one or 2 large ones each side of your house & then smaller ones running across the front which you can park up close to.
This will block the "easy access" route your neighbours are using as a pathway.
Although I do like the set up a pp showed with posts, chain & wooden trough planters. That could look really pretty.

eyeballer · Today 12:46

And plenty of houses open up to the pavement so I would have thought this was a fairly normal set up.

DangerQuakeRhinoSnake · Today 12:51

Just park your car as close to the house as you can (like 10cm), then they'll have to walk round the back, which creates distance.

If you're out, it won't bother you if they do walk close.

Charel2girl5 · Today 12:57

I live in quite a rural area, there are 6 houses on our lane. Two women used to walk past and literally approach my living room window to peer in. I only realised this when I was at home off sick for 2 days.
i couldn’t understand the sheer hard necks of both of them. The next day I opened the window and asked for their addresses. When they queried it I said I wanted to look through their windows as they seemed to think it acceptable to look through mine. I also said you are incredibly nosy and rude, do it again and I’ll let my German Shepherd out to chase you off! I don’t have a GS by the way but funnily enough it never happened again! Wishing you the best of luck, some people just don’t have a clue!

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