AIBU to share a hotel room with my adult children?

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I have been divorced for over 20 years and have had no interest in finding another partner. I occasionally go on holiday with my adult children, DD27 and DS25. We sometimes stay in Airbnbs and sometimes in hotels. AIBU to share a hotel room with them? We each have separate single beds and each get changed and washed in the bathroom with the door closed. I can afford to pay to take them away (I like 5* hotels which my DC couldn’t afford to pay for themselves) but I couldn’t afford to pay for multiple rooms. Everyone is happy with the arrangement. AIBU?

Not only I have I shared hotel rooms with my 2 adult sons but we shared a cabin on the QM back from New York.
We are all compatible in our different ways.

Nothing unreasonable about it. Although if you're able to afford actual 5 star hotels, I would have thought you'd all prefer the comfort and space of multiple rooms or a suite in a 4 star hotel.
Perhaps you mean hotels with a 5 star rating on booking.com or similar?

Totally normal. Don't knwo anyone who would get 3 separate rooms.

YANBU. I do exactly the same thing.

I'm assuming you are their father, if your daughters are ok with it then I can't see anything wrong with it so long as beds are seperate.
Personally I can't sleep with anyone about so I wouldn't go if I had to share with anyone, but that's just me.

I do the same. It’s fine!

I don’t see the big deal. Why is this even an AIBU?

Good grief no! I'm going away with my AC and I'm having my own room.

If you're all happy with it then why do you need strangers to validate your choice?

Hell would freeze over a million times before I'd share a hotel room with either my brother or my mum, and I'd be seriously weirded out if it were suggested!

No it’s shocking and deplorable and I find it bizarre that you would even contemplate such a scenario.

To have a parent and their children in the same room on a holiday (that I assume everyone wanted to be on) and all agreeing with the arrangement is so obviously unreasonable that I don’t see why you posted.

Next time you go away book everyone their own suite or don’t go and that way no one can criticise.
If you can’t afford it then look for a cleaning job that pays in Tesco vouchers.

The things I read on this site sometimes makes me wonder if I’m living in a different world from everyone else 😆.
Maybe I’m just having a bad day and a bit jealous that my problems aren’t more trivial.

Totally fine an unless anyone not happy about it. In which case they stump up for the cost of an extra room.

Obviously that’s fine. If my adult kids want their own room they can pay for it

Plot twist... It's their father posting.

There's been some weird posts of late on the step/father theme.

Why is that a plot twist? Either way the parent is a different sex to one of the adult DC. Either way they are all happy with the arrangement.

I've shared a bed with my 19 yr old. It doesn't bother him at all

We do afford each other privacy to shower get dressed etc.

We regularly share a room. Not Premier Inn as the bastards won't let three adults in a room and we can no longer sneak him in

Why on earth have you started a thread about something that everyone involved with is happy about?

What are you going to achieve?

Can't ser any thing wrong with that as long as everyone is OK with it .

No it’s fine, if your DC are happy then I don’t see a problem

You're right and I misread!

I'm 40 and love a weekend away with my Mother. We not only share a room but usually spend an evening drinking wine in the room and complaining about our respective men folk. We love it 😂

I wouldn’t share a room with either of my parents as they are both such terrible snorers

DH and I shared a room a triple room at a Travelodge with our DS (19) only last weekend. The accommodation cost us just over £100 instead of over £200.

Yep we've end d up in a few Travelodge recently as they still allow three adults

It’s only like all sleeping in a caravan. You have your privacy for changing but just share a room. If you are all happy with the arrangement then that’s ok.

YANBU. I had a weekend away with 3 female cousins. We booked a Hilton and it was 4 adults in one room, with breakfast. It worked out so cheap and great quality accommodation.

As long as you all feel comfortable sharing a room and bathroom it’s fine.