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Met police are erasing the third victim of the Golders Green stabbing

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tulippetals · 02/05/2026 09:54

https://x.com/metpoliceuk/status/2050114417405132857?s=46

I am actually horrified. A third, Muslim, man was stabbed in the attack but he isn’t being mentioned anywhere. How is this allowed?!

Metropolitan Police (@metpoliceuk) on X

A man will appear in court today charged following a Counter Terrorism Policing investigation into two men stabbed in #GoldersGreen: https://t.co/BgK04EQmyX

https://x.com/metpoliceuk/status/2050114417405132857?s=46

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Namingbaba · 02/05/2026 14:14

If he’d just stab someone in a personal dispute it likely wouldn’t have made the national news whereas if he had just stabbed the Jewish people it likely would.

It’s not that people who are stabbed don’t matter it’s just what grabs the headlines.

It’s like when school shooters kill their parents then go to kill at the school, it’s reported as a school shooting as that’s the main headline that grabs people. People can often forget there was a killing elsewhere.

inamarina · 02/05/2026 14:15

justanotherpassword · 02/05/2026 11:15

I was responding to the comment that Jewish people have been subject to attacks at a far higher scale than any other group. That isn’t accurate.

Or doesn’t it count when it’s someone from a different group? I don’t see Starmer giving 25 million to protect against homophobia or trans people’s rights. What about protecting them from attacks.

This was pp’s post:

'What is the narrative? That Jewish people have been subject to racially aggravated attacks in this country at a far higher scale per head of population than any other group?'

Did you miss the highlighted parts? Is pp’s statement still inaccurate if you include them?

samthepigeon · 02/05/2026 14:16

Raquelos · 02/05/2026 10:06

While that may be correct, it doesnt negate the fact that the second two stabbings were racially motivated does it? He was clearly unbalanced and violent when he stabbed the first victim, a muslim man who was known to him and with whom he had a disagreement. He was then unbalanced, violent and racially motivated when he went on to stab two Jewish men who were not known to him and who had not interacted with him at all. With no other information currently available the supposition is that the later victims were targeted because they were visibly Jewish.

Edited

It can be the supposition. But we need to wait to find out more.

Whysnothingsimple · 02/05/2026 14:17

nomas · 02/05/2026 14:07

due to an argument at their home

Again, the BBC have reported that the attacker went to the victim’s home, where the attack happened.

Edited

It’s v ch immobile now to use the word “their” in a singular - apparently you shouldn’t assume someone’s gender. It’s a point that’s been discussed move back to the fact the two men had a 20 year relationship

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:18

BreatheAndFocus · 02/05/2026 14:12

The media haven’t failed to mention him. The first reports were about the stabbings in Golders Green, then once the alleged perpetrator was identified, there were articles about him, and every one I read mentioned his earlier victim. This was across a wide range of media.

Starmer has been accused of not taking anti-Semitism seriously. His statement addressed growing anti-Semitism and the fears of the Jewish community after the stabbing of these two Jewish men, and other recent attacks on the Jewish community.

Of course the Muslim man he stabbed earlier matters! No-one has said he doesn’t!

It’s such a silly position to take. It’s like some of those awful school shootings in the US. A number of times the perpetrator has killed one or more members of his family prior to going to attack a school. Politicians then talk about how to make schools safe, the dreadful deaths of children and so on, but that doesn’t mean they think it’s just fine he killed his mum/dad/other adult relative! I can’t believe that even needs saying.

The growing anti-Semitism in the U.K. is shocking.

The problem is trying to link anti-Semitism to peaceful protest so you can ban peaceful protest.

TheGander · 02/05/2026 14:18

Both the perpetrator and his first victim live in supported accomodation for people who have recently left psychiatric inpatient care. The address was not disclosed when he went to court die to this fact ie to protect identity of other residents. There may have been a delay in naming 1st victim due to these confidentiality issues. To say there is an equivalence between the 1st attack and the second , racially motivated hate crime and that the 1st victim is ignored because not Jewish, is stretching things to breaking point.

Hoardasurass · 02/05/2026 14:20

nomas · 02/05/2026 13:37

Nobody should be living in fear and I don’t doubt the Jewish community is scared.

I’m referring to the early attempts on the thread to minimise the attack on Ishmael Hussein (who the thread is about) as a domestic dispute.

When someone attacks a long standing friend (in this case 20+ years) it is normally classified as a domestic dispute because of the relationship.

AngryHerring · 02/05/2026 14:20

Whysnothingsimple · 02/05/2026 14:17

It’s v ch immobile now to use the word “their” in a singular - apparently you shouldn’t assume someone’s gender. It’s a point that’s been discussed move back to the fact the two men had a 20 year relationship

cannot understand what you meant to write.

It is now, and always has been, perfectly correct English to write "their" when referring to a person.

RafaistheKingofClay · 02/05/2026 14:21

TheGrimSmile · 02/05/2026 14:08

More than Muslims? Come off it!

Yes, per capita. Something like almost 9 times as many.

nomas · 02/05/2026 14:21

AngryHerring · 02/05/2026 14:20

cannot understand what you meant to write.

It is now, and always has been, perfectly correct English to write "their" when referring to a person.

I think he was agreeing with you.

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:23

The definition of a terrorist is someone with a clear political or ideological intent, I don"t think you can have that clear intent if you are mentally unwell. This is primarily a mental health incident and about the failure of mental health services in this instance. Even if the individual did have a focus on a certain section of the population for whatever reason that can"t be generalised to the whole country as some people seem to be doing, or used to stop people peacefully protesting against ethnic cleansing and genocide.

Whysnothingsimple · 02/05/2026 14:24

nomas · 02/05/2026 14:06

So on a thread about the third victim where people are saying it was just a domestic dispute, you have an issue with me pointing out that that’s minimisation?

It isn’t minimisation though, it’s a distinguishing factor. Whilst it’s terrible that anyone got attacked, the second attack of two men in a religiously motivated terror attack is more news worthy than the stabbing of a man by someone personally known to him for 20 years. But for the link to the terror attack this world have been one of many assaults where the victim and suspect knew each other which happened on the same day. Minimal amounts of probably none of those other assaults would have been reported on, this one was because a person who committed an act of terror had assaulted a person. Known to him.

it’s really not difficult to distinguish the situation, my sympathies lie with anyone experiencing violence, including those who were attacked that day we will never hear about, unfortunately assault is so common most victims go unknown.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 02/05/2026 14:24

nomas · 02/05/2026 12:19

Nice attempt to minimise, they weren’t in the same house.

The murderer went to Ishmael Hussein’s flat and attacked him.

Why are you trying to imply they lived together?

I’m not sure why you are trying to misdirect with this.

Bluegreenbird · 02/05/2026 14:26

For anyone wanting to minimise the anti-semitism in this country. A test.
Do you honestly think you’d be more likely to get abuse from walking in a Jewish area as a visible Muslim or walking in a Muslim area as a visible Jew?

nomas · 02/05/2026 14:26

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 02/05/2026 14:24

I’m not sure why you are trying to misdirect with this.

The thread is about this. Read the title.

Whysnothingsimple · 02/05/2026 14:26

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:23

The definition of a terrorist is someone with a clear political or ideological intent, I don"t think you can have that clear intent if you are mentally unwell. This is primarily a mental health incident and about the failure of mental health services in this instance. Even if the individual did have a focus on a certain section of the population for whatever reason that can"t be generalised to the whole country as some people seem to be doing, or used to stop people peacefully protesting against ethnic cleansing and genocide.

Ah thank you for that, although Pressumably you are the psychiatrist who has examined him and this has been agreed in a court, don’t you have any concerns about breaking your patients right to privacy.

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:26

TheGander · 02/05/2026 14:18

Both the perpetrator and his first victim live in supported accomodation for people who have recently left psychiatric inpatient care. The address was not disclosed when he went to court die to this fact ie to protect identity of other residents. There may have been a delay in naming 1st victim due to these confidentiality issues. To say there is an equivalence between the 1st attack and the second , racially motivated hate crime and that the 1st victim is ignored because not Jewish, is stretching things to breaking point.

But focussing exclusively on the second and third victims because they are Jewish is equally absurd?

BackToLurk · 02/05/2026 14:27

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:23

The definition of a terrorist is someone with a clear political or ideological intent, I don"t think you can have that clear intent if you are mentally unwell. This is primarily a mental health incident and about the failure of mental health services in this instance. Even if the individual did have a focus on a certain section of the population for whatever reason that can"t be generalised to the whole country as some people seem to be doing, or used to stop people peacefully protesting against ethnic cleansing and genocide.

Yea. Only sane people stab Jews.

nomas · 02/05/2026 14:28

Hoardasurass · 02/05/2026 14:20

When someone attacks a long standing friend (in this case 20+ years) it is normally classified as a domestic dispute because of the relationship.

“A domestic dispute is a verbal or physical altercation between people living in the same household, often involving partners, ex-partners, or family members.’

Met police are erasing the third victim of the Golders Green stabbing
MurkyMo · 02/05/2026 14:28

tulippetals · 02/05/2026 09:54

https://x.com/metpoliceuk/status/2050114417405132857?s=46

I am actually horrified. A third, Muslim, man was stabbed in the attack but he isn’t being mentioned anywhere. How is this allowed?!

It's being ignored because it doesn't suit the narative.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 02/05/2026 14:28

nomas · 02/05/2026 12:21

It’s not a domestic disputewhen you travel to someone’s home and attack them.

That’s just minimisation.

The first person he stabbed was a long time friend so would count as domestic as they had known each other for 20 years.
What exactly is your angle for trying to misdirect on this.

AmberSpy · 02/05/2026 14:29

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:23

The definition of a terrorist is someone with a clear political or ideological intent, I don"t think you can have that clear intent if you are mentally unwell. This is primarily a mental health incident and about the failure of mental health services in this instance. Even if the individual did have a focus on a certain section of the population for whatever reason that can"t be generalised to the whole country as some people seem to be doing, or used to stop people peacefully protesting against ethnic cleansing and genocide.

Why do so many people on this thread seem to think they know more than the police and security services who are conducting the investigation about the attacker's mental state and his motivations?

PatriciaRocks · 02/05/2026 14:29

KeepPumping · 02/05/2026 14:26

But focussing exclusively on the second and third victims because they are Jewish is equally absurd?

The focus was understandably on the terror attack as this has been escalating and it's a concern.
The stabbing of the other person is a concern, but not terror linked.

PatriciaRocks · 02/05/2026 14:29

AmberSpy · 02/05/2026 14:29

Why do so many people on this thread seem to think they know more than the police and security services who are conducting the investigation about the attacker's mental state and his motivations?

It's bizarre. It's like the people who get their "news" from tiktok.

PatriciaRocks · 02/05/2026 14:30

MurkyMo · 02/05/2026 14:28

It's being ignored because it doesn't suit the narative.

What "narrative" would that be?
This claim has been made on this thread many times. What do you mean by it?

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