Some years ago I made an AIBU post saying that I was shocked that people were not arranging to pay their cleaners during holiday periods.
The cleaner in question was a young EU woman of about 25 (so no family members nearby) and had come to me saying that she was desperately short of money because people were going away during the summer and cancelling their sessions.
This was in a rapidly gentrifying area of inner London, stuffed with finance and IT professionals, where houses were changing hands for £700k plus. So frankly I thought this was pretty poor form of her other clients.
I therefore had her in to do some extra cleaning and also some gardening work, that didn’t particularly need doing, but I wanted to help her out. We could afford it, but it did feel a bit rum to be effectively subsiding other couples to save on their cleaning bills…
For our own part I would always arrange to have her come in and do her usual hours while we were away.
I posted about this on MN AIBU and was told that I was an idiot for feeling sorry for her and giving her the extra work, that no one with any brain should think twice about cancelling cleaning sessions to save money while on holiday, that she should be an independent self-sustaining person and their cleaner probably did better financially than they did themselves…
So which is it Mumsnet? Are cleaners under-paid exploited female labour (as has been suggested on this thread) or high earning professionals who need to deliver a perfect finish every time but can also be cancelled at will, like any other service?
Or is there a case for something in the middle where a reasonable rate is paid but care is taken to give continuity of income, flexibility according to their timetable and tolerance for not being entirely perfect in an imperfect world? That to me seems to be the best approach for a long term relationship.