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.. to think this would blow some minds?

134 replies

BeepBoopBop · Today 07:56

….. standing next to my van, loading my stuff into it when a black Volvo pulls up behind me and the female driver asks if I’m leaving. I tell her no not yet so she thanks me and reverses back a little and stops and asks if the two men in a van (having a tea break) are leaving. They tell her the same thing, so she asks if it’s okay to leave the car in front of the van as she only needs five minutes. They say it’s fine and she says great, I’ll leave the keys in it just in case they need to leave and then off she pops.
Two minutes later, a car opposite starts up and the driver can’t manoeuvre out. as her car is in the way. Van driver jumps out and gets in her car to move it. At which stage, two startled heads pop up in the back. She had left the keys and her two young kids in her car.
Van driver lets the other driver out and neatly parks Volvo in the now vacant space.
Could you see this happening in the UK? By this time it was about 10 minutes - I wonder what she thought as she came back to the car park and saw her car wasn’t sitting where she left it?

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VickyEadieofThigh · Today 16:35

Natsku · Today 16:30

Our lock kept sticking in the cold winter so my OH had the bright idea of gluing the snib thing open in case the lock broke altogether and we wouldn't be able to get in at all. Now the cold is not an issue but its impossible to lock the door sigh (We do have an inner door that can be locked but need another key cut for DD before we can start locking it) but we do have very nosy neighbours which is basically as good as a lock Grin

As long as they're actually in and can get the police there really fast when the intruders open your door and go in to trash your house and rob you.

Bundleflower · Today 16:40

VickyEadieofThigh · Today 16:34

I care about people - even those I don't know - suffering the trauma of intruders in their house. I've known several people it's happened to (not one in a city or dodgy town) and I cannot for the life of me understand why you wouldn't lock your door.

Anyone going to bed and leaving their door unlocked astonishes me.

Even those saying "people pop in" - they knock or ring the doorbell!

Well, of course that’s a risk. But people could also come through a smashed window. If someone is determined to hurt you a door won’t bloody stop them! A serial killer doesn’t get to a locked door and think ‘ah fuck it - that’s a shame’ and walk off.
There’s also a risk in a locked door delaying you leave a burning building.
Theres risks in many things. I think an intruder planning to hurt me and my door being the obstacle that will surely prevent them is a small risk.

MyCottageGarden · Today 16:42

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MyCottageGarden · Today 16:44

@BundleflowerChrist, I lock our doors whilst we’re IN the house, not just whilst we’re out and we live in what is supposedly the ‘happiest’ and most crime free town in the country. We still have crime!

Natsku · Today 16:46

VickyEadieofThigh · Today 16:35

As long as they're actually in and can get the police there really fast when the intruders open your door and go in to trash your house and rob you.

I know its a risk, that's why I'm annoyed about the gluing but the likelihood where I am is very slim, there hasn't been any burglaries in my area the entire time I've lived here.

TheDenimPoet · Today 16:53

Some people just don't seem to think. A woman once asked would I keep an eye on her sleeping baby while she nipped into the shop, as I was waiting in the car next to them. I said I would, but with respect, she shouldn't leave him with me as she didn't have the foggiest who I was!! She still went!

Dunnocantthinkofone · Today 18:07

DontReplyAll · Today 08:16

Thankfully the baby was fine, slept through the whole thing.

The car thief abandoned the car a short distance away on discovering the baby. The poor Mum was very, very shocked of course.

Why on earth would anyone describe someone so stupid as this moronic mother as ‘the poor mum’ ?
I know on MN a woman can do no wrong but fgs that’s a pretty low bar to set even in here

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · Today 18:21

I was left in a pram outside a shop in another European country and my mum came out to find someone running off with me, claiming that I was a child of that particular nation. Luckily, she had enough of the local language to argue with her and wrestle me back (despite being heavily pregnant at the time). It might have been common in the 1970s, but it was a terrible idea, even then.

AzureFinch · Today 18:44

Jfc

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