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parkrun defending their position

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Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 11:52

I used to be a parkrunner and do not understand how parkrun can defend their position of allowing trans identfying males into the female category.

I read that 280 published race winners in the female category are actually men identifying as women. How is this fair to women? Some women don’t care about this but some women do, just as some men take it as a race and care about the rankings and some men don’t

The other option of course is they could stop the timing, stop recording winners and records?

AIBU to genuinely not understand why parkrun claim not to be a race when they time the runners, publish times by category, rank times and runners, and have record holders by category.

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DuchessofStaffordshire · Today 15:12

WeMeetInFairIthilien · Today 15:10

One would use a decibel metre, a piece of kit that measures the volume of a sound. And therefore, has a clear definition of loudest - the fart with the highest number of decibels

Yes, objectively measured. Just like the winning time in a Parkrun event.

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:13

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:59

No, because - as I've said upthread - I am actually fairly gender critical. I just think it's ruined feminism by working with the hard right and alienating minority groups, so don't get involved in GC forums any more. Also because, as you've demonstrated, any 'discussions' quickly turn into personal insults and ad hominem attacks and I can't be arsed with that.

So you're a political purist. If the hard right were against animal abuse, would you take a contrary position simply because they are the 'hard right'.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 15:13

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:56

So basically no Parkrun. You're suggesting we just get rid of it completely as that's the only way to be fair to women?

To be fair to some Uber Competitives and screw everybody else.

Funtime2 · Today 15:13

BananaPeels · Today 15:12

But that is not what park run was set up for. You have completely changed the premise of the whole thing.

if people want that then they need to set up a completely new thing and revert park run back to its original purpose of time trials.

It was set up as a time trial

trial

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Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:13

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:11

No! I am suggesting it be a general run/walk. That's all. With no timings or anything like that.

It's not our fault we can't have nice things because men hate women and cheat

And that's better than...what exactly?

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:13

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:00

It isn't though.

Yes, as proven, it most certainly is. And you and everyone on this thread knows it.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:14

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:13

So you're a political purist. If the hard right were against animal abuse, would you take a contrary position simply because they are the 'hard right'.

Yawn.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:14

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:13

Yes, as proven, it most certainly is. And you and everyone on this thread knows it.

Please don't tell me how I think.

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:14

WeMeetInFairIthilien · Today 15:01

How can there be a world record, if it isn't a competition?

EXACTLY! 'It isN't A comPetItiOn' is bullshit. And everyone on here knows it.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 15:15

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:14

Please don't tell me how I think.

👏👏

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:16

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:08

Why has it been ascertained that men won't cheat? And why does this mean we should abolish Parkrun to make things fair for women? I don't follow your reasoning here.

Goodness, this is getting ridiculous. No one has said parkrun should be abolished. Just that it should merely be a run in the park with no details taken. That's all.

Is that really so incredibly hard to understand?

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:18

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:12

It's a big community thing. Lots of the regulars do 'Parkrun takeovers' where they run it, and I am also volunteering next month with a local charity that's doing a takeover. I really love that aspect of it - it feels important in today's society when we're all set against each other half the time. To me, making a big (pointless, seeing as it wouldn't be policed anyway) issue out of the trans thing does actually make it less inclusive, which spoils some of the focus on community. Others may disagree and that's their right but I think it works pretty well as it is.

The 'inclusive' word again. It's not about 'trans'. It's about male vs female. Having no rankings, timings, categories makes it more inclusive (as much as I detest that hateful misogynistic term).

givemushypeasachance · Today 15:18

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:16

Goodness, this is getting ridiculous. No one has said parkrun should be abolished. Just that it should merely be a run in the park with no details taken. That's all.

Is that really so incredibly hard to understand?

How would every run or walk in the park not then be "a parkrun". You haven't acknowledged that I'm parkrunning now! It's not timed or recorded, but I am! I'm now the world record holder for the most parkruns, I've done thousands since I discovered that I am only counting them myself and I didn't need to time anything or scan anything.

BananaPeels · Today 15:19

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:16

Goodness, this is getting ridiculous. No one has said parkrun should be abolished. Just that it should merely be a run in the park with no details taken. That's all.

Is that really so incredibly hard to understand?

But again, park runs funding depends on numbers. Take away the timing, competitive element and you will lose at least half the runners overnight. I expect it will no longer be viable

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:20

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:18

The 'inclusive' word again. It's not about 'trans'. It's about male vs female. Having no rankings, timings, categories makes it more inclusive (as much as I detest that hateful misogynistic term).

You don't like the word 'inclusive'? Colour me shocked.

So abolish Parkrun in the name of fairness. Gotcha.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:21

BananaPeels · Today 15:19

But again, park runs funding depends on numbers. Take away the timing, competitive element and you will lose at least half the runners overnight. I expect it will no longer be viable

I assume TheBlackCat is being disingenuous. At least, I hope so.

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:22

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:20

You don't like the word 'inclusive'? Colour me shocked.

So abolish Parkrun in the name of fairness. Gotcha.

The word 'inclusive' almost always means unfairness to women. Colour me shocked that you don't have a problem with that.

If parkrun is unfair, then it should be abolished, yes.

Funtime2 · Today 15:22

27 pages of a handful of people arguing for men’s rights.

“It’s just fun so women don’t need to have the same access to data as men"
“It’ll be too difficult to police the cheating men so we should just keep the rules unfair towards women"

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ThatBlackCat · Today 15:23

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Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:23

ThatBlackCat · Today 15:22

The word 'inclusive' almost always means unfairness to women. Colour me shocked that you don't have a problem with that.

If parkrun is unfair, then it should be abolished, yes.

Nah, it doesn't. But I don't think there's any point in discussing anything further with you.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 15:23

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:12

It's a big community thing. Lots of the regulars do 'Parkrun takeovers' where they run it, and I am also volunteering next month with a local charity that's doing a takeover. I really love that aspect of it - it feels important in today's society when we're all set against each other half the time. To me, making a big (pointless, seeing as it wouldn't be policed anyway) issue out of the trans thing does actually make it less inclusive, which spoils some of the focus on community. Others may disagree and that's their right but I think it works pretty well as it is.

That's what I like so much about it - the community aspect. People in general, altogether, not male v female. There's plenty of races you can go get that at if racing is more to your thing.

Funtime2 · Today 15:24

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 11:53

To Add

The arguments seem to be that’s it’s not competitive but it is very much competitive for some people and parkrun facilitate this competition by posting times and winners as well as everyone starting together and having barcode timings.

Another argument seems to be that they can’t check or police the categories, but that is not a reason to make the rules unfair. Most people abide by rules and I’m fairly certain trans identifying men wouldn’t break the rules if parkrun required everyone to register by biological sex.

Another argument is that it is inclusive for everyone and by this they mean that everyone should be able to run, which is fantastic but registering your actual sex on the form wouldn’t mean a trans identifying person couldn’t run would it? It would still be open to all.

I basically wrote all this in my opening post.

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ThatBlackCat · Today 15:24

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 15:23

Nah, it doesn't. But I don't think there's any point in discussing anything further with you.

Yes, it does. Every.single.time. But you are right there is no point discussing it further with you.

givemushypeasachance · Today 15:24

Funtime2 · Today 15:22

27 pages of a handful of people arguing for men’s rights.

“It’s just fun so women don’t need to have the same access to data as men"
“It’ll be too difficult to police the cheating men so we should just keep the rules unfair towards women"

Edited

Feel free to come to a parkrun and carry out a survey of participants asking if we should remove all times and records of peoples' runs (and volunteers? in case men are cheating and trying to become the woman volunteer with the most volunteer credits I guess?).

Funtime2 · Today 15:25

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 15:23

That's what I like so much about it - the community aspect. People in general, altogether, not male v female. There's plenty of races you can go get that at if racing is more to your thing.

But men can race at park run.
Women can’t see meaningful data

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