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parkrun defending their position

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Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 11:52

I used to be a parkrunner and do not understand how parkrun can defend their position of allowing trans identfying males into the female category.

I read that 280 published race winners in the female category are actually men identifying as women. How is this fair to women? Some women don’t care about this but some women do, just as some men take it as a race and care about the rankings and some men don’t

The other option of course is they could stop the timing, stop recording winners and records?

AIBU to genuinely not understand why parkrun claim not to be a race when they time the runners, publish times by category, rank times and runners, and have record holders by category.

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Funtime2 · Today 14:48

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:46

Park Run isn't the sodding Olympics. It's not even a competition. And as a 'mid table' woman, I don't even bother looking at any of the other scores. I don't care. I run with a bunch of other middle aged women and the whole trans thing has never come up. I never even thought about it until I saw this thread.

If it's about fairness or women's safety, then yes it's important but changing a tickbox on a Park Run form won't change/achieve either of those things. And if it goes from changing a tickbox to actually policing it, that's the fun sucked out of one of the few things in life that's free, fun and inclusive.

I, I and I

Not everyone is you

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givemushypeasachance · Today 14:49

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:46

If women having fairness puts anyone off volunteering? Then that says more about them. And they're not the type of people who should be volunteering anyway.

So you want me as a run director to police whether someone who has ticked the "female" box when they registered is really a woman? Or if not me, parkrun HQ? has this very long thread suggested how that would be done, are we going full producing copies of birth certificates?

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:49

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 13:42

Anything, ANYTHING rather than having to say no to entitled men who want women's stuff

Again with the assuming on here that all women think the same way.
People, including women, are telling you they like the inclusive, non competitive atmosphere of on the day what it's like before you go home and scrutinise everyone else's score but yet, still, it's all about entitled men to some.

The word 'inclusive' almost always means excluding women from fairness. It's a word that is the enemy of womens rights. Womens categories are not meant to be 'inclusive' of males. That's the whole point.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 14:49

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:47

People really don't. Every week I encounter first timers to parkrun who have never run before, never been to this kind of event. Parkrun isn't meant to be just for runners with sports watches!

Exactly!! ♥️

TheKeatingFive · Today 14:49

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:46

Park Run isn't the sodding Olympics. It's not even a competition. And as a 'mid table' woman, I don't even bother looking at any of the other scores. I don't care. I run with a bunch of other middle aged women and the whole trans thing has never come up. I never even thought about it until I saw this thread.

If it's about fairness or women's safety, then yes it's important but changing a tickbox on a Park Run form won't change/achieve either of those things. And if it goes from changing a tickbox to actually policing it, that's the fun sucked out of one of the few things in life that's free, fun and inclusive.

It's not important for you. It hasn't come up for you.

But surely you can see that if 280 men have been declared 'best female' it is an issue for some women.

Why don't these women deserve the right to top their category without being elbowed aside by men?

Funtime2 · Today 14:50

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:49

So you want me as a run director to police whether someone who has ticked the "female" box when they registered is really a woman? Or if not me, parkrun HQ? has this very long thread suggested how that would be done, are we going full producing copies of birth certificates?

No, how many times!

Do you police age??
No

Then why would police sex??

It’s about fair rules for registration

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Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:50

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 14:48

As keeps getting repeatedly ignored though - how is that going to be policed? Are you relying on other runners deciding whether or not someone else "looks womanly" enough?
Volunteers probably aren't going to want to, or be able to do all that.

I volunteer now and absolutely would not if I was expected to do anything like that.

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:50

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:49

So you want me as a run director to police whether someone who has ticked the "female" box when they registered is really a woman? Or if not me, parkrun HQ? has this very long thread suggested how that would be done, are we going full producing copies of birth certificates?

No. I want all categories, rankings and timings removed. And it just be a fun run. If anyone wants to track their PBs, they can do that with their phone or watch. Those still exist in 2026.

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:51

Funtime2 · Today 14:47

I just took them form the website and screen shot this morning

The course records used to be on the bottom of every event page, those were removed. So it's no longer "promoting" them. Are you looking on the event history page and filtering the finish times?

WeMeetInFairIthilien · Today 14:51

Many things in life rely on trust, truth and honesty.

We should be able to expect that trans identifying men should be capable of telling the truth, just as the majority of people are who have no gender identity.

If you say - the category is biological sex, and yet you are expecting trans identifying men to lie, then you are assuming the worst of them.

And if the category is biological sex, then breaches of this can be removed, just as breaches of the age categories are.

I would expect the doctor treating me to be honest about their training. I expect parents registering their children for my school to tell the truth about their age. I would trust the train company to have appropriately trained drivers.

Why, if you say that trans identifying men will just lie about their biological sex, are they not honest?

Women have the right in law to single sex spaces and categories. This is for equity as well as equality.

Women matter too.

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:51

Funtime2 · Today 14:50

No, how many times!

Do you police age??
No

Then why would police sex??

It’s about fair rules for registration

But surely if you have rules and they aren't being policed, that is itself unfair?

Funtime2 · Today 14:52

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:50

I volunteer now and absolutely would not if I was expected to do anything like that.

NO ONE NEEDS TO POLICE ANYTHING

You don’t for age so you wouldn’t for sex.

They just need to change the box and make it clear on registration

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ThatBlackCat · Today 14:52

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 13:46

Exactly. It stops being for everyone, and will put people off.

If there are no categories, no rankings, no timings, then it is for everyone.

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:53

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:50

No. I want all categories, rankings and timings removed. And it just be a fun run. If anyone wants to track their PBs, they can do that with their phone or watch. Those still exist in 2026.

Okay you're back on my I'll get rid of the timekeepers and barcode scanners and 9am start proposal then. Everyone just go and cover 5km in the park at a time of your choosing.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:53

Funtime2 · Today 14:50

No, how many times!

Do you police age??
No

Then why would police sex??

It’s about fair rules for registration

You don't police age because being trans-age isn't a thing. So volunteers know they won't have to police that, whereas they might well end up having to police trans-identified individuals and I would not feel comfortable, as an occasional Parkrun volunteer, doing that. At the moment you don't have to police anything and that's what's best for something as large and non-competitive as Parkrun.

Funtime2 · Today 14:53

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:51

But surely if you have rules and they aren't being policed, that is itself unfair?

I tell what is more unfair having rules that freely allow men to register as women.

Let’s start there shall we.

Or are you saying that trans identifying men en masse will cheat? I don’t think so

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ThatBlackCat · Today 14:54

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 13:48

Seems like some would love to police it. Which would just end up hurting non trans people as well.
Everyone would suffer.

No. You're not getting it. It's not possible to police since men will always lie and cheat.

Having no categories at all, no timings, no rankings, no barcodes (I'm not a chocolate bar, I don't need to be scanned); is the exact opposite of being policed.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · Today 14:54

Funtime2 · Today 14:48

I, I and I

Not everyone is you

Jeez, the irony

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:54

Funtime2 · Today 14:52

NO ONE NEEDS TO POLICE ANYTHING

You don’t for age so you wouldn’t for sex.

They just need to change the box and make it clear on registration

It's a pointless rule if it's not actually enforced.

Funtime2 · Today 14:55

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:51

But surely if you have rules and they aren't being policed, that is itself unfair?

Do you police age at parkrun?

No but the rules are to enter your age not how old you feel, for obvious reasons.

Nobody needs to police anything.

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ThatBlackCat · Today 14:55

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 13:49

You'd be amazed at how - outside Mumsnet - most people never think about this issue at all. In fact - although I broadly agree with gender critical thinking - I normally avoid all 'gender critical' discussion because it ends up a self-righteous echo chamber, but got suckered into this one because I volunteer at Park Run and enjoy it.

As opposed to a pro-trans/anti-women echo chamber? Ever tried Reddit?

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:55

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:52

If there are no categories, no rankings, no timings, then it is for everyone.

Great, on that basis I'm parkrunning right now at my desk! For the second time today, I actually completed one earlier as well. Haven't even left the house. Amazing, this free-for-all untimed non-specific parkrun lark.

Mangelwurzelfortea · Today 14:56

ThatBlackCat · Today 14:54

No. You're not getting it. It's not possible to police since men will always lie and cheat.

Having no categories at all, no timings, no rankings, no barcodes (I'm not a chocolate bar, I don't need to be scanned); is the exact opposite of being policed.

So basically no Parkrun. You're suggesting we just get rid of it completely as that's the only way to be fair to women?

Funtime2 · Today 14:56

givemushypeasachance · Today 14:51

The course records used to be on the bottom of every event page, those were removed. So it's no longer "promoting" them. Are you looking on the event history page and filtering the finish times?

Yes, freely available for men to see their position but women are not afforded the same opportunity

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ThatBlackCat · Today 14:57

JHound · Today 13:54

Not as accurate. Not everybody has a smart watch nor the money to buy one. Why are you whining though? You don’t even go to Park Run.

Who said anything about a smart watch? An ordinary two bob watch will do. Or a stop watch. Which many phones, not just smart phones but non-smart phones have.