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PIP for Anxiety

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IntelligenceIsFree · 24/04/2026 13:18

AIBU to clear things up?

The current nasty rhetoric around disabled people at the moment is astounding. Society needs to be reminded that we are ALL one illness or accident away from disability.

Everyone knows someone who is gaming the system, yet the PIP fraud rate is extremely low. The public demonising, does not match the reality.

The hot topic is “anxiety” and how people with “anxiety” are gaming the system, getting “free” cars and robbing tax payers; this is being constantly fed through media, news articles and so on.

This is simply not true. The people spouting this nonsense clearly have no idea how PIP works. Nobody gets PIP without strong medical evidence. Nobody.

Before anyone posts “my neighbour got PIP just by telling lies”. No, they did not. That’s not how it works.

People need to be educated properly on how benefits work, how they are awarded and what the criteria for mobility cars actually is; the cars are not in fact free.

People need to be educated on the fact that there is anxiety, which every human suffers from at some point, and then there are anxiety DISORDERS which are entirely different and can be life changing and debilitating. Hence, the need and entitlement for PIP.

Brenda down the road who feels too anxious to go to Bingo on a Friday night is NOT getting PIP ❌

Mary up the lane who has such severe OCD that she cannot leave her own home for fear that she will die, IS getting PIP .✅

There’s a huge difference.

The current turning on disabled people is shameful and we are living in a country full of hate because Bob (and his Uncle) are annoyed that they are paying tax to “support all of these scroungers”.

Bob (and his Uncle), needs to hope that they never get cancer, or suffer life changing trauma or have an unfortunate accident to avoid being served a huge scrounged humble pie.

I do not suffer from anxiety but as a human, I am pleased we have a system in society to support the most vulnerable people who need it. Life can happen to anyone.

OP posts:
youalright · 24/04/2026 18:54

cathome64 · 24/04/2026 18:47

My point is it should not be a disability in and of itself for a lot of people claiming PIP for it. There is such a a culture of despondency in this country and I blame the benefit system for a lot of this. People seem to just give up and are happy to live off benefits forever which means disabled people who actually need financial help get denied a fair amount of help because the financial pot is being distributed across far too many people.

But cf absolutely is a thing usually caused by things like post viral syndrome, ptsd, cancer patients et etc but I don't think you're understanding how these figures work firstly people usually have multiple conditions and secondly 54% of what 2 people 200 people 2 million people these figures aren't helpfull as figures alone

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 18:54

neilshair · 24/04/2026 16:40

She got PIP for being bipolar without being diagnosed and with zero evidence? Nah

Absolutely did. I don't know why you need to be so dismissive just because it doesn't suit your narative.

I was there when she had her telephone assessment and was disgusted at how she put it on. And her laughter afterwards when she had finished. I was disgusted to be honest.
I didn't think for one minute that she would get the award but she did and it is for 5 years.
She needs no help with any aspect of day to day care and no issues going out alone.
She calls it her 'pamper' money.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 18:56

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 18:54

Absolutely did. I don't know why you need to be so dismissive just because it doesn't suit your narative.

I was there when she had her telephone assessment and was disgusted at how she put it on. And her laughter afterwards when she had finished. I was disgusted to be honest.
I didn't think for one minute that she would get the award but she did and it is for 5 years.
She needs no help with any aspect of day to day care and no issues going out alone.
She calls it her 'pamper' money.

I smell bullshit!

So she has no bipolar diagnosis or evidence she has it- okaaaay.

youalright · 24/04/2026 18:56

Rainbow1901 · 24/04/2026 18:52

I get PIP but only recently claimed it in the last couple of years. I could have had DLA/PIP for 40+ years but never claimed it as I thought I'd never get it as I was too independent and stubborn.
Increasing old age has chipped away at my independence and I now rely on my DH for so much now. It was DH saying that I didn't see how much help or assistance that I actually had or was getting - that made me apply. It's been useful for disability aids at home and knowing that I can pay for outside help when it is good too.

This is similar to me my condition progressed to far i couldn't afford it anymore alone when I had to reduce my hours at work

LondonLady1980 · 24/04/2026 18:57

nearlylovemyusername · 24/04/2026 18:47

so how did your neurologist and councilor know the impact on your life? you telling them so?

Well my neurologist has seen me and supported me through years of ill health/hospital admissions with my chronic condition and she knows exactly how my mental health has been affected by my disability, and my counsellor has been working with me for over a year and I’m pretty confident she can tell that the fragility of my mental health is genuine.

Owninterpreter · 24/04/2026 18:57

cramptramp · 24/04/2026 18:47

How do you know that pip fraud is really low? Surely we only know about the people caught, not about those not caught.

They do regular statistical sampling of claims where they do a review. They do the same for other benefits and find more issues with other benefits. So this method has universal credit at 8% and pip at 1.4% (its gone up) it was at o.4% not king ago.

youalright · 24/04/2026 18:59

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 18:56

I smell bullshit!

So she has no bipolar diagnosis or evidence she has it- okaaaay.

It makes me laugh these threads people don't even lie convincinly id love to know how she filled the form in without sending in her scr with all her diagnosis on and without a recent prescription and no secondary care letters

nearlylovemyusername · 24/04/2026 18:59

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 18:53

You don’t know the details of his claim or the outcome because as the quoted poster said- it’s none of your business.

it is very much her business if she's a tax payer

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 24/04/2026 19:01

Saying that PIP fraud is non-existent doesn't help anyone.

It does exist, however it is hard to prove.

I've reported my FIL multiple times, he's been investigated multiple times, and he's never been sanctioned.

He knows that if he makes multiple doctors appointments to review his medication and talk about new symptoms after looking up the side effects of the last medications, and about how the medication isn't working and he's having flashbacks that keep him awake at night and gets them to keep prescribing him different doses of different antidepressants and benzodiazepines that he can keep playing on it.

The paper trail says he is ill, when he's perfectly well.

And I'm not a disability denier, I claim PIP, my partner also claims PIP. We are both substantially disabled people.

I do think the government is wasting it's time with punitive proposals towards disabled people simply because they know there's no way they can realistically identify the true measure of fraud and it still disproportionately will impact those who genuinely rely on disability benefits, but it serves nobody to deny that fraud is occurring.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:03

nearlylovemyusername · 24/04/2026 18:59

it is very much her business if she's a tax payer

We could say that about everything. Private medical details are just that- private.

Many recipients of pip are tax payers.

cathome64 · 24/04/2026 19:04

BrokenWingsCantFly · 24/04/2026 18:53

Who are you to know so confidently that no one is playing the system? How would you possibly know that?

Living where I do currently in a more deprived area, it is very common here for many to live on benefits for life. People in areas like mine see it all the time. People they know are physically fit, know do not have anxiety levels to the point that it stops them doing things, as we see them out and about having a more active social life than the rest of us. I know many people like this. With a physical diagnosis it is harder to fake. Those who have read what the tick boxes are and are claiming for mental health reasons can very easily say to the dr they are struggling to do cooking, look after themselves, keep the house tidy. They get anxiety from doing xyz. Then go to claim pip for this saying the same thing. What evidence do you think is asked that they can't provide. Noone is going to check on them at random to see if they are really living like this.

Unfortunately those which genuinely need it for physical reasons are easier targets if looking to cut down on claims. They will never be able to prove otherwise if someone says their mental health are preventing them from doing anything

People in my estate seem to be at very high risk of strokes and fractures going by the amount of mobility scooters and walking sticks I see every day . It's so puzzling.

I think the problem is if people do not know anyone gaming the system then they assume it can't possibly be going on.

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:05

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 16:37

'Nobody gets PIP without strong medical evidence, NOBODY'

Well yes they do. I have a friend who wanted to retire on medical grounds but the company would not let her.
She went to the doctor and said she felt 'Hopeless' and 'Down all the time'- her words. Got signed off work. Got put on anti depressants.
Then told the doctor she was high as a kite some days and low other days. She asked him if she may be Bi-Polar. Doctor agreed it was possible and at that point she announced to everyone that 'Im bipolar and Im not going back to work.
After 3 months she applied for PIP and was given full care and standard mobility.
She said she cant wash or dress herself as she has no motivation.
Cant be bothered cooking a meal. Wont leave the house without her husband. All untrue.
She only had a telephone assessment and said she pretended to cry and could hardly speak because of nerves.

In reality she meets non of the PIP criteria, happily admits that and laughs that she played the system.
So yes it can and does happen.

100% this.
I used to work in PIP claims for DWP.
Whole system is f*d.
There were claims where I totally knew it was a case like this poser has written. But "technically" it ticked certain boxes. So I had no choice but to grant the claim.
Meanwhile, I had a claim once for someone autistic so I granted 10 years.
10 years was the maximum allowed.
I couldn't see why they wouldn't qualify in 10 years if they qualified today
Seemed like a waste of everyone's time going back and forth on it.
Well, I got disciplined for granting 10 years when it was not an exceptional case. (Though that was not in the guide as a rule)
Literally nothing about the system makes any sense whatsoever.

Also, whilst people do have mental health difficulties - I have done myself -claiming benefits for anxiety long-term is doing no one any good, really.

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:07

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 24/04/2026 19:01

Saying that PIP fraud is non-existent doesn't help anyone.

It does exist, however it is hard to prove.

I've reported my FIL multiple times, he's been investigated multiple times, and he's never been sanctioned.

He knows that if he makes multiple doctors appointments to review his medication and talk about new symptoms after looking up the side effects of the last medications, and about how the medication isn't working and he's having flashbacks that keep him awake at night and gets them to keep prescribing him different doses of different antidepressants and benzodiazepines that he can keep playing on it.

The paper trail says he is ill, when he's perfectly well.

And I'm not a disability denier, I claim PIP, my partner also claims PIP. We are both substantially disabled people.

I do think the government is wasting it's time with punitive proposals towards disabled people simply because they know there's no way they can realistically identify the true measure of fraud and it still disproportionately will impact those who genuinely rely on disability benefits, but it serves nobody to deny that fraud is occurring.

Have you ever thought your fil is lying to you rather then psychiatrists and psychologists. Like I said previously none of my family know about my bpd a handful know about my bipolar only my partner knows about suicide attempts and only a handful know about me being sectioned. People are embarrassed about this stuff its easier to say im playing on it to get pip then to say im really struggling I have these flashbacks and they're taking over my life and I struggle to look after myself. Especially in a man from an older generation who was brought up with the tough upper lip and men don't cry. Mh isn't real etc etc

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 24/04/2026 19:11

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:07

Have you ever thought your fil is lying to you rather then psychiatrists and psychologists. Like I said previously none of my family know about my bpd a handful know about my bipolar only my partner knows about suicide attempts and only a handful know about me being sectioned. People are embarrassed about this stuff its easier to say im playing on it to get pip then to say im really struggling I have these flashbacks and they're taking over my life and I struggle to look after myself. Especially in a man from an older generation who was brought up with the tough upper lip and men don't cry. Mh isn't real etc etc

I'm pretty sure the man who drives across the country, alone for his job, manages his own appointments in his diary, does his own accounts, cooks his meat and 2 veg dinners every night, and climbs up and down ladders for a living and showers after every day at work isn't lying to us.

AirborneElephant · 24/04/2026 19:12

IntelligenceIsFree · 24/04/2026 17:08

@Chewbecca I think you’ve misunderstood.

Unless you know exactly what these friends/relatives put on their forms, have full access to their entire medical history, have seen all of their medical paperwork and attended their PIP assessment AND saw their resulting claim letter, you cannot truly know that they are gaming the system, even if they tell you that .

And yet YOU feel able to confidently say they aren’t gaming the system? It must be so nice in your world……. The official statistics are meaningless, because they assume that if the government doesn’t officially know about it it doesn’t happen. There is zero adjustment for fraud that people are getting away with.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:13

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:05

100% this.
I used to work in PIP claims for DWP.
Whole system is f*d.
There were claims where I totally knew it was a case like this poser has written. But "technically" it ticked certain boxes. So I had no choice but to grant the claim.
Meanwhile, I had a claim once for someone autistic so I granted 10 years.
10 years was the maximum allowed.
I couldn't see why they wouldn't qualify in 10 years if they qualified today
Seemed like a waste of everyone's time going back and forth on it.
Well, I got disciplined for granting 10 years when it was not an exceptional case. (Though that was not in the guide as a rule)
Literally nothing about the system makes any sense whatsoever.

Also, whilst people do have mental health difficulties - I have done myself -claiming benefits for anxiety long-term is doing no one any good, really.

Edited

So you had zero evidence for said claimants?

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 19:13

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 18:56

I smell bullshit!

So she has no bipolar diagnosis or evidence she has it- okaaaay.

You are incredibly rude. I wonder why? Have you got such low self esteem that you feel the need to dis anything you dont agree with.

Whether you believe me or not is of no importance really. Im not in the habit of spouting bullshit and couldnt care less if you think it is.
If you have a valid point to make then crack on but if you are just here to spout sarcasm them butt out.

PropertyD · 24/04/2026 19:14

Why do some people convince themselves fraud is low. It isn’t - no government wants to admit it as they would then have to do something about it.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:14

letmebetheone · 24/04/2026 19:13

You are incredibly rude. I wonder why? Have you got such low self esteem that you feel the need to dis anything you dont agree with.

Whether you believe me or not is of no importance really. Im not in the habit of spouting bullshit and couldnt care less if you think it is.
If you have a valid point to make then crack on but if you are just here to spout sarcasm them butt out.

So she has no bipolar diagnosis or evidence she has it?

youalright · 24/04/2026 19:15

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 24/04/2026 19:11

I'm pretty sure the man who drives across the country, alone for his job, manages his own appointments in his diary, does his own accounts, cooks his meat and 2 veg dinners every night, and climbs up and down ladders for a living and showers after every day at work isn't lying to us.

I work it doesn't mean anything I think you would be amazed at what people cover up. It seems an odd thing to just make up if there is no truth whatsoever in it. How many times do we hear the same line he/she killed themselves there where no signs we just didn't know. If I can hide bpd/bipolar and multiple sections from people he can hide the fact he's struggling from flashbacks

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:15

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:13

So you had zero evidence for said claimants?

Depends what you class as "evidence"...

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:15

PropertyD · 24/04/2026 19:14

Why do some people convince themselves fraud is low. It isn’t - no government wants to admit it as they would then have to do something about it.

People who work for the system are telling you every accusation is investigated.

Kfti48dj · 24/04/2026 19:16

WerzMyHedAt · 24/04/2026 19:15

Depends what you class as "evidence"...

You are professional. What do you class as evidence?

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 24/04/2026 19:17

ArtyFartyCrafts · 24/04/2026 18:14

Thanks for answering. Does the counselling help do you think? I know sometimes it’s hard to find counselling that is suitable for ND people. Have you seen the gummee glove? They do one for older children/adults who are chewers now I think.

DS has stopped self harming, so yes, I think it's helping. The woman he sees is lovely and is autistic herself, which I think has also helped.

I've seen the gloves, he'd never wear it outside or to school. We did buy him some quite expensive hoodies of a band he likes and he's doing well at not chewing them so hopefully we'll only have to replace the t-shirts and he has an outer layer that doesn't make us look like neglectful parents. I have no idea how he destroys his tracksuit bottoms as he's not chewing them, he must pick at them instead.

He's very reluctant to wash or change his clothes, so he wears them for a week (or longer) non stop until I persuade him to have a bath, then they generally need to be chucked. And of course we have to get the right clothes that he feels ok in.

It's all so expensive, after the last time the car broke down DH & I were discussing how we can't really afford a car but can't not have one. DS is also currently really into smoked salmon, which is exciting, because new food he'll eat, but also financially crippling. He's doing really well with trying new foods actually, but we're still at the point where if he asks to try something new I don't want to say no - for a long time he lived mainly on pizza and cheese and ham subs.

Whoomee · 24/04/2026 19:17

ArtyFartyCrafts · 24/04/2026 16:04

Those that do get PIP, what extra living costs do you have as a result of your disability? What extra costs do you use it for? I’m not trying to be rude, nor goady, just asking a question. If it’s a physical disability do you use it for mobility equipment or equipment to help perform daily tasks? If it’s related to mental health, do you use it to pay for therapy or something?

I receive the higher rate for the mobility element of PIP and the lower rate for the care component.

My award payment has been spent on a mobility scooter (but I can't lift it in and out of a car, so to go anywhere that requires a drive, I have to have someone with me). More recently, I have saved as much as I can from the mobility component every month to buy a lightweight carbon, power wheelchair, which I can put in and out of the car myself. This has given me a whole pile of independence back. It was a substantial cost, and not one I could have afforded without the PIP. I am classed as an 'ambulatory' wheelchair user, meaning I can stand and walk for a limited time and distance. Because of this, I would not be entitled to any help with a powered mobility aid on the NHS, so I am very grateful that PIP is available to me.

I also use the care component to pay a cleaner once a week to change my bed, clean the bathrooms, vacuum, and mop the floors. None of these 'simple' chores could I manage by myself.

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