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I can't undestand all the hatred for Paris on MN

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2026IsMyYear · 20/04/2026 21:34

Just that really - i just don't recognise the Paris that people post about on here!

I have been many many times & spent a month there not too long ago

I adore it & would happily consider living there.

So much to see & do, so much history & beauty

I am obsessed with modernism & early 20th century literary history. There are amazing museums, galleries & libraries. Love the flea markets & clothes & shoe shops.

Great food & wine!

I've never found it smelly (certainly no worse than major UK cities) & i have never felt intimidated or been followed etc

I am now in my 50s & a v seasoned savvy traveller & I've been visiting Paris since i was 20.

I adore it but often feel like an outlier here!

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MrsKeats · 22/04/2026 19:51

Me neither. I love Paris.

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ArachneArachne · 22/04/2026 20:54

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It’s astonishing people actually think in these terms.

2026IsMyYear · 22/04/2026 21:16

I'm hoping that poster was trolling - trying to wind people up.

The alternative is just too depressing!

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GoatsOfNavahoe · 22/04/2026 21:53

Brussels is much worse

FasterMichelin · 24/04/2026 10:13

2026IsMyYear · 22/04/2026 11:50

I'm always curious about posts like these - where were you in the city that was dirty & grimey?

I spent a month there not too long ago, we were based in the 5th & i walked a huge amount of the city & didn't find it filthy at all. I covered a lot of ground in those weeks.

I mostly walked as its such a walkable city but also used the metro & found it really great for zipping around.

Edited to add: i was in Rome last winter, another city i love. It didn't strike me as any cleaner. Or dirtier than Paris (or Dublin)

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With respect, I’m not lying. I was there around 10 years ago and that was my experience. I didn’t walk every road, just like you didn’t.

Just accept that everyone has different views.

edit - drive through last year from the south of France and the number of homeless people living in tents along the motorway in Paris was shocking. Hidden out of view I’m sure but an awful situation for them.

SquirrelFan · 24/04/2026 14:34

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 21/04/2026 08:30

They do not expect you to speak it. They expect you to at least try some words and phrases and find it rude if you don’t. In fact if you try and are friendly they’ll often be patient with you. So my French friends tell me.

The only time I tried to speak to a local in French in Paris, it was cab driver - who pretended he couldn't understand my (granted, probably butchered) rendering of 'tour Eiffel'. He really was mean. No one else was very kind either. I think there are cities in the world where they are happy to have you, and and Paris isn't one. Which is their prerogative, of course. I'm just as happy to go elsewhere.

raspberrychoc · 24/04/2026 14:52

I like it, it used to be a bit “nicer” but that’s the same as all big cities now that the trend is towards “megacities” with people from all over the world, rich and poor congregating there. There is crime and it can be dirty but it’s also vibrant and exciting. I’m older now and have always been a bit sensitive to sensory overwhelm so while I might enjoy visiting Paris and so on I’m not sure I’d want to live in such a large city again having previously lived in London and Moscow.

I think take the rose tinted glasses off and try to enjoy these places for what they are.

Moanranger · 24/04/2026 15:01

I hadn’t been for years, so we went on a Eurostar City Break - loved it! A lot of Paris has now been pedestrianised so traffic effects are less & I think they incentivise electric vehicles, etc through the tax system, so my memories of smelly gridlocked traffic are now just that. The Eurostar package was a good price & hotel was v nice, though a bit distant, so we used the metro a lot. We were able to eat quite reasonably without much difficulty. Found Parisians generally pleasant, though as a big busy city, people are generally rushed and brisk. I definitely want to return.

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