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AIBU?

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Aibu - using AI?

149 replies

finsberry · 16/04/2026 12:02

Im using AI for a lot of things and have become very dependent on it. Here are some examples

  • putting ingredients in and asking for recipes
  • translation
  • filtering potentially triggering news stories like the r* academy that I don’t want to google
  • Frequently for work
  • for general quick questions
  • occasionally to rewrite emails/ messages when the situation is sensitive

Aibu to think everyone is using it to this extent? I am using multiple times daily and pay.
yabu - not using it
yanbu - using it

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Morepositivemum · 16/04/2026 15:20

It’s like temu for me, I’d love to try/ use both, but the environmental impact, put with the laziness of them that would switch my brain off (shopping in a shop/ plan ing how to get something at least gets my brain whirring!)

Waitingfordoggo · 16/04/2026 15:23

YABU. Have never used it and haven’t found a need to yet.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 16/04/2026 15:23

For those so confident about how wonderful AI is, often with a weird zealotry usually reserved for religion, the security aspects are also a real concern given our entire infrastructure is dependent on digital networking. Imagine Stuxnet on AI steroids.

RhaenysRocks · 16/04/2026 15:24

AgnesMcDoo · 16/04/2026 13:35

The assumption that people who use AI don’t use their brains or rely on it to be told how to think is a clear example of a lack of understanding and prejudice

I see it in the classroom every single day. I've had to restructure my term plan so that an essay that was planned in class and written at home is now done over several lessons, in front of me using printed resources only. Its the only way I can now be sure they have read the information and then processed it to answer the question. ...like they have to in the exam. They were utterly incredulous that I wasn't going to allow laptop use and huffed and puffed their way through it. Next step is to show them how to gather the resources and critically assess what is credible and reliable and what isn't. Its appalling that the message they are now getting is quick and minimal effort = best.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2026 15:26

RhaenysRocks · 16/04/2026 12:24

No sorry, I barely use it at all. I can write well, I have recipe books, I dont want my news filtered. I hate it. I teach teens and along with scrolling, its adding to the growing cognitive decline of humans. Awful.

I've noticed the school Newsletter is now written using AI, I don't think it is a very good example to the students. I read on the BBC website that schools in Sweden are returning to books, I think we should follow suit.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2026 15:30

MrsOni · 16/04/2026 15:17

The one use case for AI which can seriously, seriously get in the fucking bin is AI art of all kinds. It's literally weaponised plagerism on an industrial scale.

It's just soulless. Bizarrely, our local Garden Centre was selling loads of AI Artwork.

Goldenbear · 16/04/2026 15:33

Interesting read.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 16/04/2026 15:33

MrsOni · 16/04/2026 15:17

The one use case for AI which can seriously, seriously get in the fucking bin is AI art of all kinds. It's literally weaponised plagerism on an industrial scale.

The really sad thing about AI for art is that people think that AI produces better art than they could.

But the point of creativity for me is the benefit of the process of creation, not the result.

IfWhippetsRuledTheWorld · 16/04/2026 15:33

I don't use it at all. Not to my knowledge at all. I don't feel the need for it, I've literally not come across any situation where I've thought I'd need it. People at work use it for work reasons, but it is always obvious and doesn't come across well

IfWhippetsRuledTheWorld · 16/04/2026 15:35

I think as it improves and becomes more intergated maybe everyone will use it, but for now it seems to lead to a lot of badly written materials which have inaccuracies in. I cringe at emails and work materials that are obviously AI produced, I don't think the quality is there yet

MrsOni · 16/04/2026 15:37

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 16/04/2026 15:33

The really sad thing about AI for art is that people think that AI produces better art than they could.

But the point of creativity for me is the benefit of the process of creation, not the result.

Exactly this.

AI art is not art. Art requires creativity and heart, AI has neither. It's just ripping off the work of actual human beings.

FernandoSor · 16/04/2026 15:39

I use Claude Code for work - it's scarily good: I can literally give it a rough sketch of a system design, some coding and governance guidelines, and it will code it all up for me - it even writes the documentation and testcases, something that a lot of human developers are rubbish at. All I have to do is review and tweak the output. If it makes mistakes I tell it and it and it takes on board my suggestions, adds them to its governance or skills files, and doesn't make the same mistake again.

What worries me is that I basically don't need any juniors to assist me with my work anymore, it has effectively made graduate hires in tech superfluous. The cost savings have of course been welcomed by our management and stockholders who can only see as far as the end of the next quarter. The fact that it means that the pipeline of talent from graduate hires to senior developers and architects is no more seems not to bother them one jot.

AI is eradicating entry level and mid-tier human jobs in the tech industry and I imagine it will in many other well-paid white collar industries. Accountancy, law, and other business services will be particularly hard hit: why hire 6 trainee solicitors when 1 can do the same work with AI?

I don't use any AI at all in my life outside work - as I deal with cutting-edge technology all day I prefer to live an extremely analogue life outside of work hours. I genuinely can't think of a single way in which it would enhance my non-work life.

LightYearsAgo · 16/04/2026 15:41

The AI has raddled your brain if you think everyone is using it for all the things you do

I don't need it for anything and like a PP i specifically don't click on the top AI results on a search

No one in my real life ever mentions it except occasionally at work

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 15:43

usedtobeaylis · 16/04/2026 14:54

It's not even removing the need for people to think for themselves, it's reinforcing how much people can't be fucked to think for themselves but how much they really should.

Do you use Google or any other source on the internet? What's the difference?

InertBird · 16/04/2026 15:43

yanbu

I use it for all sorts on a daily basis and find it to be brilliant. I do double check for accuracy. It's superb for coding if you're into that type of thing.

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 15:47

FernandoSor · 16/04/2026 15:39

I use Claude Code for work - it's scarily good: I can literally give it a rough sketch of a system design, some coding and governance guidelines, and it will code it all up for me - it even writes the documentation and testcases, something that a lot of human developers are rubbish at. All I have to do is review and tweak the output. If it makes mistakes I tell it and it and it takes on board my suggestions, adds them to its governance or skills files, and doesn't make the same mistake again.

What worries me is that I basically don't need any juniors to assist me with my work anymore, it has effectively made graduate hires in tech superfluous. The cost savings have of course been welcomed by our management and stockholders who can only see as far as the end of the next quarter. The fact that it means that the pipeline of talent from graduate hires to senior developers and architects is no more seems not to bother them one jot.

AI is eradicating entry level and mid-tier human jobs in the tech industry and I imagine it will in many other well-paid white collar industries. Accountancy, law, and other business services will be particularly hard hit: why hire 6 trainee solicitors when 1 can do the same work with AI?

I don't use any AI at all in my life outside work - as I deal with cutting-edge technology all day I prefer to live an extremely analogue life outside of work hours. I genuinely can't think of a single way in which it would enhance my non-work life.

Genuine question. What's the difference between Claude Code and AI?

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 15:49

Ferrandorsor. How is one bad and not rhe the other?

MrsOni · 16/04/2026 15:54

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 15:43

Do you use Google or any other source on the internet? What's the difference?

Does google literally write emails? Write code? Create entire powerpoint presentations, songs, art works? Answer interview questions and write essays?

No, it doesn't.

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 16:02

MrsOni · 16/04/2026 15:54

Does google literally write emails? Write code? Create entire powerpoint presentations, songs, art works? Answer interview questions and write essays?

No, it doesn't.

No, true, it doesn't. But Ai is useful for other things.

WannabeMathematician · 16/04/2026 16:26

asrl78 · 16/04/2026 12:57

I find it useful, in my workplace, it will find coding bugs in seconds I would otherwise struggle with for days. I have asked it about recipe variants, astrophysics, movie realism, UK geology, I have constructed a solid resistance training routine and nailed down my technique on the compound lifts with its aid and I am making much better progress than I ever did in the past. It has been good for relationship issues, low self esteem and psychologically dealing with tossers in society who persist in inflicting low level friction on me on a daily basis. It is a tool and a useful one if occasionally flaky but the benefits for me far outweigh the flaws. It can come up with answers to questions far far quicker than I could Google them, and Google is as likely to come back with crappy nonsense as AI. Using it is not a alternative to thinking as some narrow minded people would like to believe and in fact, that is where AI shines, it isn't influenced by stupid irrational emotions.

I agree. For code we have seen it make us much more productive on the smaller jobs which used to not get done because the effort for utility meant it wasn’t worth it.

My team was already understaffed so this is helping us catch up. And if we don’t use it our job is probably on the line anyway.

WannabeMathematician · 16/04/2026 16:28

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 15:47

Genuine question. What's the difference between Claude Code and AI?

Claude code is an AI tool to help write code

WinterOlympics · 16/04/2026 16:33

a) plenty of these things can be sourced just be googling, which has a much lower environmental impact, and a much lower error rate (you can type in -ai or -u before your search term to avoid the AI summary)

b) the more you use it, the more your brain will atrophy and you'll find you're using AI to think through the most basic of processes or decisions. I've seen it happen to a few of my bright and professional friends. It's terrible.

Snorlaxo · 16/04/2026 16:40

I think that l will use it more when the accuracy of free AI programs improve. Atm I find myself checking AI which is a waste of time and environmental resources so I stick to Google.

Terrribletwos · 16/04/2026 16:45

WannabeMathematician · 16/04/2026 16:28

Claude code is an AI tool to help write code

A precursor to AI or still an aid?

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