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AIBU to feel annoyed about discounted attractions for benefit claimants?

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Sheldonsheher · 10/04/2026 10:01

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15721199/Benefit-claiming-families-UK-attractions-working-Brits.html

I know I’ll get slated as the origin is the daily fail but, but this kind of annoys me too! I mean as a single parent I don’t want to pay £60 to go to the zoo either.

Benefit-claiming families pay just £4 for top UK attractions

More than 80 attractions give discounts to benefit claimants, with MPs reacting furiously with one saying the system created a 'two-tier system that punishes work'.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15721199/Benefit-claiming-families-UK-attractions-working-Brits.html

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MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:07

SmallHoneLiving · 10/04/2026 15:04

Venues have to balance the books. If for example NI payments increase they are legally obliged to meet the shortfall. Ticket prices go up. Just not the £1 ones.

Ticket prices going up to account for NI increases is a different argument to ticket prices going up to account for UC discounted tickets.

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 15:07

DH and I worked our bones from literally nothing, moved to this country (from a developing nation) in the late 90s and just worked.

We've always paid our own way through life and not lived on handouts.

DreamyJade · 10/04/2026 15:07

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 14:58

I'm more surprised by the people who spend their entire life on "piss poor wages" and need UC top ups for their entire working life (not just a temporary help). Like did you not pay attention at school?

Like how can a grown adult never cross £30k p.a. in their entire working life. My son is was always academic he's slap bang in the middle of his 20s and earns around this much. Most of his uni mates earn a lot more are are on £50k - £70k. One of his best mates works in a hedge fund and regularly clears £100k. Cambridge economics graduates.

Even the less academic people he went to school with thrived. One dropped out just before a levels. Didn't bother doing the exams just worked worked worked, moved abroad, moved back and set up his own business. Some have done apprenticeships and now earn around £100k in a corporate role. She did big4 left and is now a SM elsewhere. Another girl become a pilot without even uni and earns a £65k plus. And these were the kids who weren't as academic.

You always hear how well it pays to do a trade or to do something practical over uni. Builders, bricklayers, plumbers. There was a thread about how well off the women in hairdressing are.

So barring major health issues for you or for DC you need to care for. This just baffles me. I also don't think anyone is entitled to live off the income of another.

Edited

This post reeks of privilege. Honestly, spend a month on a sink council estate and might begin to understand the poverty trap. 🙄 You sound completely naive.

“God knows how children with an IQ of 90, who have grown up in abject poverty and never been supported to aspire to anything more than what they see around them every day (their ‘normal’), with 2 GCSEs, a strong regional accent and few or zero social skills, can’t all end up working for KPMG. I mean, there’s absolutely nothing stopping them other than laziness”.

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:09

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 15:07

DH and I worked our bones from literally nothing, moved to this country (from a developing nation) in the late 90s and just worked.

We've always paid our own way through life and not lived on handouts.

congratulations - glad to hear neither you nor your DH had any life limiting conditions, nor a relative to care for that did. Your medal is in the post.

SmallHoneLiving · 10/04/2026 15:09

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:07

Ticket prices going up to account for NI increases is a different argument to ticket prices going up to account for UC discounted tickets.

It really isn’t. You are conceding that only full price customers have to meet increased costs. This process then repeats constantly.

SmallHoneLiving · 10/04/2026 15:10

DreamyJade · 10/04/2026 15:07

This post reeks of privilege. Honestly, spend a month on a sink council estate and might begin to understand the poverty trap. 🙄 You sound completely naive.

“God knows how children with an IQ of 90, who have grown up in abject poverty and never been supported to aspire to anything more than what they see around them every day (their ‘normal’), with 2 GCSEs, a strong regional accent and few or zero social skills, can’t all end up working for KPMG. I mean, there’s absolutely nothing stopping them other than laziness”.

IQ of 90? They should stand for parliament!

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:12

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 14:58

I'm more surprised by the people who spend their entire life on "piss poor wages" and need UC top ups for their entire working life (not just a temporary help). Like did you not pay attention at school?

Like how can a grown adult never cross £30k p.a. in their entire working life. My son is was always academic he's slap bang in the middle of his 20s and earns around this much. Most of his uni mates earn a lot more are are on £50k - £70k. One of his best mates works in a hedge fund and regularly clears £100k. Cambridge economics graduates.

Even the less academic people he went to school with thrived. One dropped out just before a levels. Didn't bother doing the exams just worked worked worked, moved abroad, moved back and set up his own business. Some have done apprenticeships and now earn around £100k in a corporate role. She did big4 left and is now a SM elsewhere. Another girl become a pilot without even uni and earns a £65k plus. And these were the kids who weren't as academic.

You always hear how well it pays to do a trade or to do something practical over uni. Builders, bricklayers, plumbers. There was a thread about how well off the women in hairdressing are.

So barring major health issues for you or for DC you need to care for. This just baffles me. I also don't think anyone is entitled to live off the income of another.

Edited

I earn in excess of £30k and receive UC. Paid attention at school and university. Not sure the link between the two.

Regardless, you do understand that we do need people to do the jobs paying "piss poor" wages, do you? Or is your suggestion that we pay everyone in excess of £30k per year - I'm not clear from your post.

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 15:12

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:05

I don't think I've seen anyone say that - might've missed it though.

Is your suggestion that no one receives any perks in life, on the basis that some aren't eligible. There are a multitude of discount schemes throughout the UK. Do we stop blue light cards because not everyone can work for the NHS for example?

Surely better to help some, than none.

A discount for working and contributing is different than a discount for not working and being a burden.

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:13

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 15:12

A discount for working and contributing is different than a discount for not working and being a burden.

And yet this thread is about discounts for UC claimants, who often are working and contributing as well as claiming.

Nice to know you think those medically unfit for work and their carers are a burden though. What should we do with those people? Euthanise them? Or only allow the rich to have disabilities?

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 15:15

nearlylovemyusername · 10/04/2026 14:59

there are not enough jobs because ever increasing taxation kills businesses, SMEs in particular. Taxation ever increases to pay for growing benefits bill. Rinse and repeat.

Reducing taxation would generate growth and jobs.

But it's still irrelevant as a lot of jobs, especially at a lower pay scale, are filled by immigrants whom we have to attract here if we want these jobs done. And there are still about 1m unfilled vacancies

Cut taxes for business. Cut taxes for individuals. Housing costs are high due to restrictive planning laws. Change the laws, make it super easy to build houses.

We might have to rethink energy policy and look again removing those green levies and work to bring our energy costs down.

LarkspurLane · 10/04/2026 15:15

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:02

It’s amazing how many people feel bad at the thought of children from a family that are on benefits missing out on a luxury day out yet the same people aren’t the slightest bit bothered that a child from a family not receiving benefits doesn’t get a day out (because tickets prices are so expensive not everyone can afford them)

I feel bad for them too. We were in that group and always used 2 for 1 vouchers, took picnics, had a couple of annual memberships over the years.

It doesn't mean I want to stop people on benefits from going though. And stopping them from going is not going to make the attractions significantly cheaper.

Spaghettea · 10/04/2026 15:17

"There are 2.6m more disability claimants in the last six years,"

A pandemic, ageing population and increased pension age will be contributing to that.

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:18

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:05

I don't think I've seen anyone say that - might've missed it though.

Is your suggestion that no one receives any perks in life, on the basis that some aren't eligible. There are a multitude of discount schemes throughout the UK. Do we stop blue light cards because not everyone can work for the NHS for example?

Surely better to help some, than none.

They may not of used the words they ‘feel bad’ but I’ve obviously got that impression from some comments for me to say that.

I don’t believe I have made any suggestions that there should be no perks in life. However the system needs to change. Just look at the amount of working families not on benefits that’s can’t afford to go on these days out and they get no help yet working (and non working) families on benefits get to go.
Working for the services that allow someone a blue light card is fair, so no I wouldn’t suggest stopping that

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:20

LarkspurLane · 10/04/2026 15:15

I feel bad for them too. We were in that group and always used 2 for 1 vouchers, took picnics, had a couple of annual memberships over the years.

It doesn't mean I want to stop people on benefits from going though. And stopping them from going is not going to make the attractions significantly cheaper.

I’m not saying I want to stop people from going, it’s a luxury so I do think if people want to go they should use the offers available to everyone. (2for1 etc) and save up for them.

nearlylovemyusername · 10/04/2026 15:25

Spaghettea · 10/04/2026 15:17

"There are 2.6m more disability claimants in the last six years,"

A pandemic, ageing population and increased pension age will be contributing to that.

this has nothing to do with ageing population. It's working age adults only.
Pandemic was six years ago. It can't be over 6% of working age population

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:32

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:18

They may not of used the words they ‘feel bad’ but I’ve obviously got that impression from some comments for me to say that.

I don’t believe I have made any suggestions that there should be no perks in life. However the system needs to change. Just look at the amount of working families not on benefits that’s can’t afford to go on these days out and they get no help yet working (and non working) families on benefits get to go.
Working for the services that allow someone a blue light card is fair, so no I wouldn’t suggest stopping that

Why is that fair in your opinion? Blue light card holders are paid for their work. My friend who's a consultant psychiatrist and earns in excess of £150k a year, has a blue light card. Does she deserve it more than someone working in Mcdonalds for NMW?

DreamyJade · 10/04/2026 15:33

nearlylovemyusername · 10/04/2026 15:25

this has nothing to do with ageing population. It's working age adults only.
Pandemic was six years ago. It can't be over 6% of working age population

Well it does have something to do with the working population when people who would previously been pensioners at 60/65 are now ‘working population’ until they’re 67. This will obviously see a rise in that particular cohort.

Long Covid affects 3% of the population, mostly working age people.

RachelReevesFringe · 10/04/2026 15:34

Mmkesd · 10/04/2026 14:58

I'm more surprised by the people who spend their entire life on "piss poor wages" and need UC top ups for their entire working life (not just a temporary help). Like did you not pay attention at school?

Like how can a grown adult never cross £30k p.a. in their entire working life. My son is was always academic he's slap bang in the middle of his 20s and earns around this much. Most of his uni mates earn a lot more are are on £50k - £70k. One of his best mates works in a hedge fund and regularly clears £100k. Cambridge economics graduates.

Even the less academic people he went to school with thrived. One dropped out just before a levels. Didn't bother doing the exams just worked worked worked, moved abroad, moved back and set up his own business. Some have done apprenticeships and now earn around £100k in a corporate role. She did big4 left and is now a SM elsewhere. Another girl become a pilot without even uni and earns a £65k plus. And these were the kids who weren't as academic.

You always hear how well it pays to do a trade or to do something practical over uni. Builders, bricklayers, plumbers. There was a thread about how well off the women in hairdressing are.

So barring major health issues for you or for DC you need to care for. This just baffles me. I also don't think anyone is entitled to live off the income of another.

Edited

My partner has two degrees and a Masters. He is in a job related to his field and is on just over £30k. He can't really go any further due to there being no further to go, and he would not be able to manage with more responsibility anyway. But he likes his job, and his employer is supportive of his disability (autism).

He is not entitled to any UC because he is a childless man living alone.

But DFOD with your naivety about how no grown adult should be on "just" £30k. Not everyone starts life on an equal footing.

Sirzy · 10/04/2026 15:47

if People didn’t do the low paid jobs the country would come to a standstill.

in an ideal world nobody working full time should need a top up to make a livable income. Sadly that’s not the case though

dreamiesformolly · 10/04/2026 15:55

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:20

I’m not saying I want to stop people from going, it’s a luxury so I do think if people want to go they should use the offers available to everyone. (2for1 etc) and save up for them.

Out of what? Benefits don’t exactly leave anything over for savings.

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:56

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 15:32

Why is that fair in your opinion? Blue light card holders are paid for their work. My friend who's a consultant psychiatrist and earns in excess of £150k a year, has a blue light card. Does she deserve it more than someone working in Mcdonalds for NMW?

Well yes your friend deserves that more because it’s given as a token of appreciation for the sector your friend works in.
The McDonalds worker will get their own perk which will be either discounted or free food (or both)

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:57

dreamiesformolly · 10/04/2026 15:55

Out of what? Benefits don’t exactly leave anything over for savings.

And yet people on low incomes that don’t qualify for UC and have nothing left over each month themselves are expected to save for the days out?

Usernamechanging · 10/04/2026 16:03

MyNeedyLilacBird · 10/04/2026 14:07

No yanbu at all op. It's frankly a disgrace imo and why there so much upset in this country about benefits. What about the working poor who aren't eligible for benefits. Their kids don't get to go. Working parents have to budget to take their kids in days out, so those on benefits should as well. A discount is fair game but some of these £1 tickers when others are having to pay a lot is ridiculous. If you don't work and you could but are chosing not to then no you shouldn't get to go to these activities imo

It's absolutely messed up in this country that it's at a point were your rewarded for not working. Benefits should not be a lifestyle choice, they should be a safety net.

What does 'working poor.not eligible for benefits' look like in your opinion?

youalright · 10/04/2026 16:03

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:57

And yet people on low incomes that don’t qualify for UC and have nothing left over each month themselves are expected to save for the days out?

If your income is that low you will likely qualify if it's not you won't

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 16:13

Coconutter24 · 10/04/2026 15:56

Well yes your friend deserves that more because it’s given as a token of appreciation for the sector your friend works in.
The McDonalds worker will get their own perk which will be either discounted or free food (or both)

Is the £180k salary not the gesture?

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