I'm more surprised by the people who spend their entire life on "piss poor wages" and need UC top ups for their entire working life (not just a temporary help). Like did you not pay attention at school?
Like how can a grown adult never cross £30k p.a. in their entire working life. My son is was always academic he's slap bang in the middle of his 20s and earns around this much. Most of his uni mates earn a lot more are are on £50k - £70k. One of his best mates works in a hedge fund and regularly clears £100k. Cambridge economics graduates.
Even the less academic people he went to school with thrived. One dropped out just before a levels. Didn't bother doing the exams just worked worked worked, moved abroad, moved back and set up his own business. Some have done apprenticeships and now earn around £100k in a corporate role. She did big4 left and is now a SM elsewhere. Another girl become a pilot without even uni and earns a £65k plus. And these were the kids who weren't as academic.
You always hear how well it pays to do a trade or to do something practical over uni. Builders, bricklayers, plumbers. There was a thread about how well off the women in hairdressing are.
So barring major health issues for you or for DC you need to care for. This just baffles me. I also don't think anyone is entitled to live off the income of another.