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To think some people are so thick it’s almost beyond parody

256 replies

Annecydrone · 10/04/2026 09:22

Photo on local history Facebook group. A beautiful Georgian mansion, taken in the 1930s. The post clearly explains that the mansion was demolished in the 1950s after a devastating fire destroyed most the structure, at which time it was in private hands. There’s a second photo of the shell of the building post-fire, clearly showing all but one wall standing.

Comments underneath include people
blaming the council for not preserving the mansion, demolishing it for “profit” at the behest of “developers” (despite the council not owing it, selling it or giving permission to build on it); how the failure to preserve the mansion was “woke” and shows the left’s disrespect for our heritage; several entirely serious posts about the land probably being used for a Mosque.

The land where it stood is still empty and still privately owned (as far as I can see).

Are people genuinely this stupid or are they keen to shoehorn their political views into literally anything?

OP posts:
ChocolateCinderToffee · 10/04/2026 17:03

NavyNorris · 10/04/2026 16:12

You're not wrong and Facebook is rife with comments like this.

You don't have to look long on a for sale page to find a "chester draws" 😂

We should have a separate thread- "What's the stupidest thing you've heard or read recently?"

I would bet real money that it's on Mumsnet!

ChocolateCinderToffee · 10/04/2026 17:06

Buscobel · 10/04/2026 16:45

I love ‘delusions of competence’!

Thank you. I think I got it from a colleague a couple of decades ago.

mrsCtheRed · 10/04/2026 17:07

Yep, ALOT of the public are thick as mince.

Many celebs, such as those on Love Island, TOWIE etc have made a career out of it.
I blame Jade Goody. She was the first person I can recall on TV, who celebrated the fact that she was ignorant and not very bright, and made alot of money doing so.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/04/2026 17:17

Liverpool52 · 10/04/2026 16:25

Is that them just being too lazy to read the post? Happens hundreds of times a day on here "AIBU to give X punishment to my 16 year old DD who stayed out 15 minutes after her curfew"

First post: how old is your DD.

Second post: how long did she stay out after her curfew.

And on and on and on

Yes, and when it's pointed out to them that they have not read the OP properly or are replying to the OP after fifty million people have already made the same point, hours, days, weeks, years or decades earlier, they either ignore it or they respond huffily that they are far too busy to bother reading anything properly and what's it to anyone else anyway. Sigh.

For what it's worth, I'm not sure people are any stupider than they ever were, it's just much more visible now, as somebody said upthread. Everybody feels entitled to have their say even when it's not worth saying.

Boomer55 · 10/04/2026 17:31

Read any forum/site/message board for a few minutes, and you can confirm that the really thick walk amongst us. 🙄😂😂😂

BeebeeBoyle · 10/04/2026 17:45

50% of the population are average or below average intelligence, which is a horrifying number of people. Many of these people have access to the internet.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 10/04/2026 17:53

I always used to think that the 'thick' people were others, somehow, a long way away from me. And then I went out with a man who was genuinely - not thick, he could function perfectly well, but he had some quite extraordinarily uninformed shall we say, ideas. He used to look at the mugshots in the paper of people arrested for various offences and say 'well, you can tell they were no good, just look at them.' I pointed out that a) he already KNEW they'd been arrested so was biased, and b) NOBODY looks good in a mug shot! But no, he maintained that you could tell the bad guys just by looking.

I did point out that if this was true the police could save themselves a lot of time by just arresting all non-smiling, tattooed men with short hair. He did not get it.

xino · 10/04/2026 17:54

I used to manage holiday cottages before I retired. I honestly don’t know how some people get through life. Many, many people are utterly dense.

GarlicFind · 10/04/2026 18:08

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 10/04/2026 10:55

Or they will post 'ChatGPT says...' as though asking a robot is a valid choice!

Equally prevalent are the ones who refuse to believe that humans can write meaningful prose, so it must be a chatbot.

And the ones who, when someone says they used a bot to clarify their ideas (often because they're EFL), will just keep going on at them for using the technology.

Thinking about it, it's probably more that 'ChatGPT invalidates everything!' is one of their many fixed ideas, which they feel impelled to post on endless repeat.

I genuinely love the variety of humans but, gods, it's hard to take sometimes!

GarlicFind · 10/04/2026 18:11

Menopausio · 10/04/2026 11:27

I live in Southern Europe, in a holiday ish place. I have, just this morning, witnessed a Brit in the pharmacy demanding that they fill his NHS prescription. They speak perfect english and were very patiently explaining that he needs a prescription from this country when he shouted that the NHS covers ALL countries. 🤦‍♀️

Oh. My. God 🤦‍♀️

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 10/04/2026 18:16

GarlicFind · 10/04/2026 18:08

Equally prevalent are the ones who refuse to believe that humans can write meaningful prose, so it must be a chatbot.

And the ones who, when someone says they used a bot to clarify their ideas (often because they're EFL), will just keep going on at them for using the technology.

Thinking about it, it's probably more that 'ChatGPT invalidates everything!' is one of their many fixed ideas, which they feel impelled to post on endless repeat.

I genuinely love the variety of humans but, gods, it's hard to take sometimes!

It's when they've used ChatGPT to answer a question where the answer is painfully bleedin' obvious that gets me. 'What time is the six o clock news on tonight?' 'ChatGPT says....'

Nottodaythankyou123 · 10/04/2026 18:37

A good rule of thumb is to remember how stupid our population is on average, and then remember that half of those people are even more stupid than you think to get to the average.

Elsvieta · 10/04/2026 18:38

Whyarepeople · 10/04/2026 16:10

I think the poster's point was that she was correct. 50% of the population are of below average intelligence. That's how averages work.

The poster still thinks she was correct, but she wasn't, and that's not how averages work.

There are three terms to understand here: mean, median and mode.

Mean is the mathematical term for average.
Median is the one right in the middle of any group of numbers, if you lined them up in order.
Mode is the number that occurs most frequently.

Let's suppose we have eleven people and they all have some buttons. The number of buttons they have is:

5,6,8,8,9,9,9,9,10,11,12.

The mean (average) number they have is all those numbers added together (96) divided by the eleven people you have. So 8.72 (for these purposes we can stop at 2 decimal places). Look at the list of numbers above. Four of those people are below the average and seven are above it. The median number is the one in the middle (so 9) and the mode is the one that occurs the most often (also 9).

Now let's say the numbers of buttons are as follows:

2,2,3,3,3,3,8,9,14,18,19.

The mean is 84 divided by 11, so 7.63. Look at the list: 6 people below the mean (average), 5 above. The median is 3 and so is the mode.

One more group of eleven and their buttons:

2,3,4,5,6,8,9,10,11,14,14.

The mean is 86 divided by 11, so 7.81. Five people below that number and six above. The median is 8 and the mode is 14.

It might sometimes be exactly half the people (or numbers, or whatever it is) are above the average and half below. But usually not. Because the people (or numbers, or whatever) don't all deviate from the median by the same amount. That's the key to understanding it. (I think. It can be hard to understand why others don't understand things that seem obvious to oneself. But I think so). And sometimes mean and median can be the same, or median and mode, or mode and mean, or all three, etc. But by no means always.

The median is the one in the middle (i.e. if you could line up everyone in the country by IQ, the one stood at the exact halfway point would have the median IQ). Exactly half of people are above / below the median. Not the mode.

GarlicFind · 10/04/2026 18:56

@Elsvieta, I keep reminding myself not to reply to this in any of its manifestations. Sometimes the urge's too strong.

The IQ bell curve is symmetrical. This is because the test is designed explicitly to give half the results below 100, half above (ignoring the 100s). Since you like stats, it's easier to remind you that 100 is an INDEX, not an absolute score of any sort.

And everyone scoring 100 or below is thick. I said it 😏

Meetmeunderthemoonlight · 10/04/2026 18:58

YANBU

Honestly it scares me at times.

Elsvieta · 10/04/2026 19:11

Well yeah - didn't want to derail the whole thing too much by getting into the problems with the IQ test, which is a slightly different category to entirely quantifiable and provable things like your height / salary / number of buttons etc etc. I've heard it said that what it really measures is "adaptation to modernity"; those of us who do well on IQ tests would probably score poorly on the things that matter in life if you are, say, a Masai tribesperson living a traditional nomadic life. There's a lot of cultural bias, before we even get started on the purely mathematical issues with it.

Yeah, anyone under about 120 seems frustratingly slow to me. But then I struggle with a lot of the stuff that lots of people seem to find easy... there are many different kinds of intelligence.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 10/04/2026 19:32

Whyarepeople · 10/04/2026 16:10

I think the poster's point was that she was correct. 50% of the population are of below average intelligence. That's how averages work.

No it’s not, intelligence is distributed along a bell curve. So if the average IQ is 100, then 50% of people won’t be below that a a lot of people will have an IQ of 100 and will be exactly average intelligence. In fact, 68% of people have an average IQ.

(I have a maths and statistics degree, PP is massively oversimplifying how averages work. It’s highly likely that the mode, mean and median averages of intelligence will be close to each other, and if we use mode, then by definition 50% wouldn’t be below it).

The temperature in my house averages 18 degrees across a year. It’s not less than 18 degrees Celsius in 50% of the days, it’s in fact 18 degrees on almost every day of the year, and on the odd day it’s 17 or 19.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 10/04/2026 19:35

Elsvieta · 10/04/2026 18:38

The poster still thinks she was correct, but she wasn't, and that's not how averages work.

There are three terms to understand here: mean, median and mode.

Mean is the mathematical term for average.
Median is the one right in the middle of any group of numbers, if you lined them up in order.
Mode is the number that occurs most frequently.

Let's suppose we have eleven people and they all have some buttons. The number of buttons they have is:

5,6,8,8,9,9,9,9,10,11,12.

The mean (average) number they have is all those numbers added together (96) divided by the eleven people you have. So 8.72 (for these purposes we can stop at 2 decimal places). Look at the list of numbers above. Four of those people are below the average and seven are above it. The median number is the one in the middle (so 9) and the mode is the one that occurs the most often (also 9).

Now let's say the numbers of buttons are as follows:

2,2,3,3,3,3,8,9,14,18,19.

The mean is 84 divided by 11, so 7.63. Look at the list: 6 people below the mean (average), 5 above. The median is 3 and so is the mode.

One more group of eleven and their buttons:

2,3,4,5,6,8,9,10,11,14,14.

The mean is 86 divided by 11, so 7.81. Five people below that number and six above. The median is 8 and the mode is 14.

It might sometimes be exactly half the people (or numbers, or whatever it is) are above the average and half below. But usually not. Because the people (or numbers, or whatever) don't all deviate from the median by the same amount. That's the key to understanding it. (I think. It can be hard to understand why others don't understand things that seem obvious to oneself. But I think so). And sometimes mean and median can be the same, or median and mode, or mode and mean, or all three, etc. But by no means always.

The median is the one in the middle (i.e. if you could line up everyone in the country by IQ, the one stood at the exact halfway point would have the median IQ). Exactly half of people are above / below the median. Not the mode.

And of the half below the median, many of them will be exactly as intelligent as the median (eg the number set 2,7,8,8,8,8,8,8,10,15).

Forthesteps · 10/04/2026 19:37

Both thick AND determined to push an agenda.

Namingbaba · 10/04/2026 19:41

It’s everywhere. People don’t read things properly but get angry about issues nonetheless.

I have to stop myself from replying to such ignorant replies as it’s just a waste of my time.

665theneighborofthebeast · 10/04/2026 19:57

665theneighborofthebeast · 10/04/2026 10:28

I once posted that 50 % of the population are of below average intelligence.

There was a bit of a "pile on" denying this and abusing my intelligence for not understanding statistics. 🙄

Before this goes any further let anybody who would like to focus on the semantics of statistics like to pause and consider if there is an accurate and universally agreed numeric definition of intelligence? And no . I.q. is not that.
Sometimes it's the question that is flawed and it makes the subsequent argument inconsiquential.

Forthesteps · 10/04/2026 20:00

nousernametodaytoday · 10/04/2026 14:09

It is extremely, extremely rude to call people thick, stupid
Also it could be held to be disablist and abusive
I find it incredible that people posting here are not aware of that
So YABU as are all the posters agreeing with you - being 96 percent or so which I find both shocking and not shocking at the same time

It would have been better if you had written "unbelievable how many people post rubbish and nonsense and don't bother to read things properly" as that is what you meant, your insults, abuse, name calling were not be necessary to make your point. HTH

Rude, possibly. Ableist, no. Being stupid is not a disability. Having a learning disability is. Different things.
HTH.

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 10/04/2026 20:05

I voted YABU for the reason you gave ie: Are people genuinely this stupid or are they keen to shoehorn their political views into literally anything?

Teenthree · 10/04/2026 20:07

I notice a trend amongst some women younger than me, locally - quite an affluent area, lots of Defenders and sports cars etc - who actively cultivate a persona of Trophy Wag. Identikit faces and an utterly active aversion to expressing an opinion on anything beyond aesthetics. Their partners are not dissimilar - a hefty dash of toxic masculinity thrown in, and I’m very certain, a lot of coke.

I find them horrifically fascinating.

bumblingbovine49 · 10/04/2026 20:20

665theneighborofthebeast · 10/04/2026 10:28

I once posted that 50 % of the population are of below average intelligence.

There was a bit of a "pile on" denying this and abusing my intelligence for not understanding statistics. 🙄

Classic!

I would not say that many people are stupid exactly, just that the majority of hunans are often shallow, unthinking, and lack curiosity for anything outside what they already know about. They often have an instictive, emotion driven initial reaction to something and dont think beyond that.

Although we like to think humans are rational logical creatures, with some exceptions , we mostly are not. We are generally motivated and driven by instinct, emotion and stories, rather than logic, and facts.

It is hard work to go against our nature and most people cant see the value in putting in that work . I'm reluctant to call it lazy as many people who are like this, work very hard at things they value.. They just see no value in putting in the effort to understand things that are hard to understand. They think of it as boring.

This lack of thinking then becomes a habit and they really can't think properly and critically about what this sentence
actually means.