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School as child care

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Differentforgirls · 07/04/2026 18:45

From another thread.

A poster said that state schools are there for helping parents to work. Therefore teachers are childminders. Teachers!

I think schools are there to educate our children and, though the staff go above and beyond these days, that is their primary function.

AIBU?

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:35

Denim4ever · 08/04/2026 12:13

The explanation is actually a text book level of exactly what school is.

Yes. I was wrong to that particular poster but she got her own back!

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:44

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:34

But that fact it allows parents to work means it is actually childcare. That doesn’t mean people think teachers are babysitters but part of the deal is that they are caring for your children in addition to educating them.

Ok. Childminders/Nurseries. Ratios 1:3, 1:5, 1:8, 1:10, depending obviously on children ages.

Teachers ratios 1:30. Tell me how a primary teacher can do his/her job while providing child care?

They are there to educate.

For the record and aimed at the people who insulted my son in their race to insult me, my son is a secondary teacher. Not a primary teacher.

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TheKeatingFive · 08/04/2026 12:47

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:44

Ok. Childminders/Nurseries. Ratios 1:3, 1:5, 1:8, 1:10, depending obviously on children ages.

Teachers ratios 1:30. Tell me how a primary teacher can do his/her job while providing child care?

They are there to educate.

For the record and aimed at the people who insulted my son in their race to insult me, my son is a secondary teacher. Not a primary teacher.

Providing childcare to 10 year olds is very different to providing it for babies, as I'm sure you already know.

Answer the question you've been asked multiple times. Who IS providing childcare in the classroom?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:48

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:44

Ok. Childminders/Nurseries. Ratios 1:3, 1:5, 1:8, 1:10, depending obviously on children ages.

Teachers ratios 1:30. Tell me how a primary teacher can do his/her job while providing child care?

They are there to educate.

For the record and aimed at the people who insulted my son in their race to insult me, my son is a secondary teacher. Not a primary teacher.

Teachers are not childminders but they are caring for children. They are responsible for them while they are in school. Otherwise parents would have to be present throughout the school day.

Why is that such an offensive concept?

If teachers are not responsible for the children throughout the school day, who is?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:51

TheKeatingFive · 08/04/2026 12:47

Providing childcare to 10 year olds is very different to providing it for babies, as I'm sure you already know.

Answer the question you've been asked multiple times. Who IS providing childcare in the classroom?

We are talking four year olds in England.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:52

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:51

We are talking four year olds in England.

Who is looking after them while they are in school?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:52

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:48

Teachers are not childminders but they are caring for children. They are responsible for them while they are in school. Otherwise parents would have to be present throughout the school day.

Why is that such an offensive concept?

If teachers are not responsible for the children throughout the school day, who is?

It’s like everything I post goes completely over your head so sorry, ignoring you now. Take care.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:55

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:52

It’s like everything I post goes completely over your head so sorry, ignoring you now. Take care.

Eh?
I’ll take that as you not wanting to answer my questions. It’s like you can’t cope with being challenged. Hilarious.

and FYI I train primarily school teachers

TheKeatingFive · 08/04/2026 12:56

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:51

We are talking four year olds in England.

So who is providing their care while they are in school?

Whenisitmyturntorest · 08/04/2026 13:02

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 12:52

It’s like everything I post goes completely over your head so sorry, ignoring you now. Take care.

Surely someone that values education likes to learn and broaden their mindset and knowledge, values critical thinking and the opinion of others. So why are you shutting posters down or ignoring them when they try to have a discussion as you have invited them to here?

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:07

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 12:55

Eh?
I’ll take that as you not wanting to answer my questions. It’s like you can’t cope with being challenged. Hilarious.

and FYI I train primarily school teachers

Are you a university lecturer?

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:07

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:07

Are you a university lecturer?

Yes

Nonunifiedworkerworking · 08/04/2026 13:07

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 09:25

That people seem to view as baby sitters.

It's childcare whilst teaching. If you choose to be a teacher you are aware of this element of the role. This differs greatly by school year, so those that have issues would probably be better off with college or university year groups. Lots of teachers love the younger years.

rc22 · 08/04/2026 13:08

I'm a primary school teacher. I am a graduate and my profession is education. There are other people (childminders, nannies, nursery staff) whose profession is childcare and whose status in society should be greater than it is. Not least because they are making a massive contribution to the early education of children.
However, the primary purpose of schools is to educate children. Of course, the children are in my care too and it's very important to me and my colleagues that they are well looked after during the school day. It's also fantastic that the provision of education in this country gives parents time in the day to work. However, the fact remains that children go to school to learn and people need to go into parenthood understanding that outside school hours they will be responsible for the care of their children.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:09

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:07

Yes

Kudos. Really admire you for that actually.

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Enko · 08/04/2026 13:09

I view teachers as educators. However within that I see child care as a part of that education. While a teacher is in charge of a class of children they are educating them AND providing care for the children.

The two are not mutually exclusive for me.

Childcare provided by nursery staff are also educators not "merely" providing child care.

In answer to your earlier question as to when nursery workers started to need qualifications

Nursery workers in the UK started needing regulated, mandatory qualifications to meet staff-child ratios following the Childcare Act 2006, which introduced the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS) in 2008 While the NNEB certificate was established in 1945,

So quite some time ago.

I do not think it is as black and white as you clearly want it to be op.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:11

rc22 · 08/04/2026 13:08

I'm a primary school teacher. I am a graduate and my profession is education. There are other people (childminders, nannies, nursery staff) whose profession is childcare and whose status in society should be greater than it is. Not least because they are making a massive contribution to the early education of children.
However, the primary purpose of schools is to educate children. Of course, the children are in my care too and it's very important to me and my colleagues that they are well looked after during the school day. It's also fantastic that the provision of education in this country gives parents time in the day to work. However, the fact remains that children go to school to learn and people need to go into parenthood understanding that outside school hours they will be responsible for the care of their children.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:12

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:09

Kudos. Really admire you for that actually.

Thank you.
it’s a job I can only do because DS goes to school and we use some wraparound care.
I take his education very seriously while also appreciating that I can work while he is being cared for by responsible teachers and TAs at school.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:14

Enko · 08/04/2026 13:09

I view teachers as educators. However within that I see child care as a part of that education. While a teacher is in charge of a class of children they are educating them AND providing care for the children.

The two are not mutually exclusive for me.

Childcare provided by nursery staff are also educators not "merely" providing child care.

In answer to your earlier question as to when nursery workers started to need qualifications

Nursery workers in the UK started needing regulated, mandatory qualifications to meet staff-child ratios following the Childcare Act 2006, which introduced the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS) in 2008 While the NNEB certificate was established in 1945,

So quite some time ago.

I do not think it is as black and white as you clearly want it to be op.

I didn’t ask about qualifications, I asked about degrees.

I‘m fully aware of the qualifications needed to be an early years worker.

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Chigreenen · 08/04/2026 13:15

rc22 · 08/04/2026 13:08

I'm a primary school teacher. I am a graduate and my profession is education. There are other people (childminders, nannies, nursery staff) whose profession is childcare and whose status in society should be greater than it is. Not least because they are making a massive contribution to the early education of children.
However, the primary purpose of schools is to educate children. Of course, the children are in my care too and it's very important to me and my colleagues that they are well looked after during the school day. It's also fantastic that the provision of education in this country gives parents time in the day to work. However, the fact remains that children go to school to learn and people need to go into parenthood understanding that outside school hours they will be responsible for the care of their children.

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I don’t think anyone disagrees with this.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 08/04/2026 13:22

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You say in jest, this seems a thing that applies to non working parents too.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:24

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:12

Thank you.
it’s a job I can only do because DS goes to school and we use some wraparound care.
I take his education very seriously while also appreciating that I can work while he is being cared for by responsible teachers and TAs at school.

I know that teachers and all education staff are caring.

FWIW, over the course of my 43 years working I have worked in Early Years, Primary, Secondary, ASN, Behavioural Units, Community Learning and Youth and Family Learning.

However, I am now apparently a woman who relies on a man and whose son is useless as a teacher.

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HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:31

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:24

I know that teachers and all education staff are caring.

FWIW, over the course of my 43 years working I have worked in Early Years, Primary, Secondary, ASN, Behavioural Units, Community Learning and Youth and Family Learning.

However, I am now apparently a woman who relies on a man and whose son is useless as a teacher.

I didn’t say that’s who you were so not sure why you kept putting it in your replies to me.

Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:32

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 08/04/2026 13:31

I didn’t say that’s who you were so not sure why you kept putting it in your replies to me.

Ok. Sorry.

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Differentforgirls · 08/04/2026 13:33

Shatteredallthetimelately · 08/04/2026 13:22

You say in jest, this seems a thing that applies to non working parents too.

I think that’s what bothers me tbh. The double standards.

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