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To judge parents who do not even tell their children Easter is a religious festival

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Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 15:59

I'm shocked that 12 out of 20 children in my childs class had no religious knowledge of the meaning of Good Friday or Easter Sunday for Christians.
All aged 9yrs old.

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Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 05:44

tnorfotkcab · 04/04/2026 22:57

From the RSPCA link you posted, it says "around 88%"...

...not entirely sure why my comment got deleted
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Edited

Maybe you should read it again using some comprehension skills ?

DeftGoldHedgehog · 05/04/2026 05:53

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

Ireland is also a multicultural, multifaith and no faith country these days, whether you like it or not. Kids not knowing about Easter signifies to me that it has moved on significantly from the country that was under the thumb of the Catholic church. A positive thing.

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 06:25

Tuliptana · 02/04/2026 16:45

I know i should not say this but i wonder how many of these posters who blatantly mock christianity and Catholics, were first to try to get an Irish passport after Brexit.
Christian values are very much upheld in Ireland. So you don't want to respect snd uphold our beliefs, you just want to grab the passport!

You can say what you like, because it could well be true. Some atheists seem to be very self-serving.
There has certainly been a huge demand for Irish passports recently.

https://www.irishtimes.com/ireland/2025/02/24/irish-passport-applications-from-uk-hit-post-brexit-peak/

QuietComet · 05/04/2026 07:46

My 4 year old asked what Easter was. I didn't want to tell her the Christian version, so instead I told her the pagan origins, that it's a festival of spring, rebirth and the end of winter. After all, this celebration has been around ages before the Christian version.

QuietComet · 05/04/2026 07:58

Daffodildahlia · 04/04/2026 15:57

How many and which Eid?

I celebrated Eid in my own way, by baking a cake for my Muslim colleagues (and non-muslim colleagues!) to enjoy at work.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:00

Daffodildahlia · 04/04/2026 23:08

But is that a full stun or what is known as "reversible stunning" which leaves the animal conscious and alive until the throat is cut ?

https://halalification.com/knowledge-base/food-beverages/ethics-culture-religious-beliefs/halal-and-humanitarian-animal-treatment/can-halal-slaughter-include-reversible-stunning/

It doesn't matter. The animals die soon after.

And, once again, very very few people care about the animals before the point of slaughter.

People happily eat caged eggs used to make a cake at the local fete, don't check the provenance in their burger at their friend's BBQ, don't bat an eyelid at consuming milk when they order their latte from CostaBucks.

And then there's the vegans/veggies, tucking into tofu and drinking soya milk, ...they don't care that swathes of rainforests are being cleared for the increased global soya production etc

It's bizarre that the only time people seem to care is when someone mentions halal meat 🤔🤔🤔

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:02

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 05:44

Maybe you should read it again using some comprehension skills ?

Maybe you can explain what efforts you go to ensure animal welfare at all points of their life in the products your purchase and consume. And if you're vegan, what efforts you go to ensure you aren't eating soya products/bit milks etc that have been ethically grown and without destroying natural habitats etc.

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:04

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:02

Maybe you can explain what efforts you go to ensure animal welfare at all points of their life in the products your purchase and consume. And if you're vegan, what efforts you go to ensure you aren't eating soya products/bit milks etc that have been ethically grown and without destroying natural habitats etc.

I don't have to explain anything to you if you have basic comprehension skills.

It's all on the Vegan Society's website, so do your own research and educate yourself.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:11

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:04

I don't have to explain anything to you if you have basic comprehension skills.

It's all on the Vegan Society's website, so do your own research and educate yourself.

Oh so.. you don't then. That's obvious.

Nobody cares about animal welfare until someone mentions halal.

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:20

@tnorfotkcab
It doesn't matter.

Not to you maybe but I'm sure it does to the animal.

The animals die soon after.

It takes about 2 minutes for an animal to bleed out. That is assuming that the major blood vessels are severed.
Cattle are an anatomical anomaly in that they have a vertebrral artery. The vertebral artery lies close to and above the spinal cord, and will continue to supply blood directly to the brain, even if the major carotid arteries of the neck are cut, provided some cardiac output is maintained.

You think that 2 mins qualifies as "soon" ?
Try timing it and imagine what it would be like to be hung upside down by one leg, with your throat cut and your head in a drain for 2 mins while fighting for breath.

More uninformed garbage from someone who has probably never been near a slaughterhouse in their life.

pointythings · 05/04/2026 08:23

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:20

@tnorfotkcab
It doesn't matter.

Not to you maybe but I'm sure it does to the animal.

The animals die soon after.

It takes about 2 minutes for an animal to bleed out. That is assuming that the major blood vessels are severed.
Cattle are an anatomical anomaly in that they have a vertebrral artery. The vertebral artery lies close to and above the spinal cord, and will continue to supply blood directly to the brain, even if the major carotid arteries of the neck are cut, provided some cardiac output is maintained.

You think that 2 mins qualifies as "soon" ?
Try timing it and imagine what it would be like to be hung upside down by one leg, with your throat cut and your head in a drain for 2 mins while fighting for breath.

More uninformed garbage from someone who has probably never been near a slaughterhouse in their life.

All perfectly valid points, but it doesn't explain why you jumped straight to attacking Islam rather than mentioning in general religious faiths where non-stunned slaughter is practised. Like Judaism. You can't have it both ways.

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:25

@tnorfotkcab "Nobody cares about animal welfare until someone mentions halal."

And what proof have you got for that conclusion?

Strawberries86 · 05/04/2026 08:27

My children have learned about different religious festivals at school but keep your judgement to yourself. Your religious fantasies are about real as the Easter bunny. I’m just here for the bougie eggs.

QuietComet · 05/04/2026 08:28

P0cketP1g · 03/04/2026 13:36

So many verses being taken out of context here and that is just as sad as not understanding that the origin of Easter is, in fact Christian, and nothing to do with a Pagan holiday. A quick internet search debunks that prevailing myth very quickly.

Turning the other cheek does not mean that Christians are supposed to, ignore, allow or condone being disrespected. It actually means the opposite.

Judge not lest ye be judged does not mean Christians shouldn't judge. It is actually Christian duty to judge righteously and correct error so that others are not led into or fall into sin.

They know not what they do is in reference, specifically, to those killing the Messiah. It has nothing to do with the general population of believers and how they are supposed to view others.

These are just some of the verses I've seen taken out of context and quoted by atheists, non believers etc as a means and ways to try to judge and correct Christians thoughts and behaviours.

The internet is our friend regarding bible verses, as far as understanding context if someone is a non believer but actually reading the Bible before quoting it would make for much more educated discussion. In addition, there is a reason that Christians have priests and pastors. Reading the bible doesn't allow context where there is bias or ignorance about history. There are phrases that are rich with context and not to be used in isolation.

Also, it's okay to reach out to a Christian for assistance who will, if you are with good intent, clarify teachings and verses and reasons for tradition etc.

Happy Easter all.

(Edited for spelling mistakes - may not have caught them all!)

Edited

What internet are you using that says Easter isn't linked to Eostre / Ostara?

Ooh I found an interesting article here;

https://www.christianity.org.uk/article/the-history-of-easter

The history of Easter - Christianity

Easter commemorates the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ in Jerusalem 2,000 years ago, although the word 'Easter' actually has nothing to do with Christianity.

https://www.christianity.org.uk/article/the-history-of-easter

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:36

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:25

@tnorfotkcab "Nobody cares about animal welfare until someone mentions halal."

And what proof have you got for that conclusion?

Because.... They don't....

Majority of people won't ensure they are eating high welfare animals that have been looked after all their lives, they don't check the source of the eggs when they take a piece of cake someone made, no or do they care about the butter used in the roll they bought from a cafe they aren't ensuring that the animal that died for their sausage was well looked after. They don't actually care how the animal was slaughtered...
They just go "ohhhhhh what about the poor animals" whenever someone mentions halal..

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:39

@tnorfotkcab Because.... They don't..

Well that's a very erudite and comprehensive explanation for your post.

A small word of advice - you may want to brush up on that next time you go to a debating society 🙄

EwwPeople · 05/04/2026 08:41

QuietComet · 05/04/2026 08:28

What internet are you using that says Easter isn't linked to Eostre / Ostara?

Ooh I found an interesting article here;

https://www.christianity.org.uk/article/the-history-of-easter

Jesus wasn’t born on December 25th either , yet here we are. They are all dates picked for various reasons by man and decided and changed by man to suit whatever was going on. It is all symbolic .Faith or no faith, it’s not a hard concept to grasp.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:45

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:20

@tnorfotkcab
It doesn't matter.

Not to you maybe but I'm sure it does to the animal.

The animals die soon after.

It takes about 2 minutes for an animal to bleed out. That is assuming that the major blood vessels are severed.
Cattle are an anatomical anomaly in that they have a vertebrral artery. The vertebral artery lies close to and above the spinal cord, and will continue to supply blood directly to the brain, even if the major carotid arteries of the neck are cut, provided some cardiac output is maintained.

You think that 2 mins qualifies as "soon" ?
Try timing it and imagine what it would be like to be hung upside down by one leg, with your throat cut and your head in a drain for 2 mins while fighting for breath.

More uninformed garbage from someone who has probably never been near a slaughterhouse in their life.

Again, it's two minutes. Then they die.
Also, if people truly cared, they would check everything up to that point... And people just (generally) don't do that. They wang on about the inhumane 2 minutes, but don't care at all about the life leading up to it. They eat a bacon and egg roll not caring the pig kept in a concrete pen with overcrowding, standing in their own filth for months or the sow that bore them, and that the chicken literally lived in a cage with dozens of others chicks with no more than an A4 piece of paper space each. They don't care about the cows that were forcibly inseminated, their calves removed and then milked dry to make the butter for 4-6 years.

People only care when someone mentions Halal... Then all of sudden they're animal welfare experts and really really care.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:46

EwwPeople · 05/04/2026 08:41

Jesus wasn’t born on December 25th either , yet here we are. They are all dates picked for various reasons by man and decided and changed by man to suit whatever was going on. It is all symbolic .Faith or no faith, it’s not a hard concept to grasp.

Yesz but the celebration is linked to paganism... Faith in Christ it not.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:48

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 08:39

@tnorfotkcab Because.... They don't..

Well that's a very erudite and comprehensive explanation for your post.

A small word of advice - you may want to brush up on that next time you go to a debating society 🙄

Oh okay. So you're saying that EVERY person who cares about Halal meat and how terrible it is, is doing their due diligence in how the animals are being raised.... ? Of course they aren't, and you know it, otherwise you'd be able to show me something that counters that statement.

You probably don't even do that and probably eat animal products. And if you don't eat animal products, you most likely don't know where your nuts/soya etc come from. And don't know if they came from the rainforests that are being cleared for soya production etc. you wouldn't prove it then... And now you still won't. Because you don't....

So, yes, people only care about the animals when someone mentions Halal. They do not care about how the pig was raised or the cows or the chickens or the love transport of lamb across the seas etc

EwwPeople · 05/04/2026 08:58

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 08:46

Yesz but the celebration is linked to paganism... Faith in Christ it not.

Paganism, Passover, Julian calendar, Gregorian calendar… does it really matter?

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 09:00

EwwPeople · 05/04/2026 08:58

Paganism, Passover, Julian calendar, Gregorian calendar… does it really matter?

No because it's all just stories and traditions..no one way is correct. But people will get insistent that their way is the only true and correct way.... Hence this entire thread?

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 09:01

@tnorfotkcab You probably don't even do that and probably eat animal products.

^ that comment tells me you having been reading much of this thread, I have already said I am a vegan.

And now you still won't. Because you don't....

What on earth does that even mean? ^ Your rambling diatribes make no sense to me, so I'm done.

Have a nice day.

tnorfotkcab · 05/04/2026 09:25

Daffodildahlia · 05/04/2026 09:01

@tnorfotkcab You probably don't even do that and probably eat animal products.

^ that comment tells me you having been reading much of this thread, I have already said I am a vegan.

And now you still won't. Because you don't....

What on earth does that even mean? ^ Your rambling diatribes make no sense to me, so I'm done.

Have a nice day.

Ok. So where do you get your tofu from or your alternative milks etc?

Do you check the origin of your soya milk to ensure it isn't part of the huge swathes of rainforests being cleared for soya production?

(Or whatever food you eat)

Im guessing you don't know where it comes from, otherwise you would have told us that you indeed do know where your food comes from and that you.are certain that natural habitats aren't being cleared for production of the food you're eating.

Like I said, people don't care about the origins of their food really.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 05/04/2026 10:10

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