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To think that people should be quiet in the quiet coach of the train?

56 replies

HighlandTERF · 01/04/2026 11:44

I have autism. When traveling, I always pick the quiet coach to avoid getting overstimulated.

However, the quiet coach always seems to attract those that are performatively loud! Phone calls, music, and chit chat seem are drawn to it like a magnet! If you sit there and aren’t quiet, why are you there? There are seven other carriages where you can make as much noise as you like!

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NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 01/04/2026 20:08

I'd drop them now and just have lots of signs about wearing headphones and say it, don't bray, that (brave) people could point to...

Picklelily99 · 04/04/2026 15:40

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 01/04/2026 11:49

This is exactly why I try and avoid the quiet carriage - it annoys me too much when people ignore it; it’s better for me to sit in a non quiet carriage with noise cancelling headphones.

Being charitable, on trains where seats are reserved people sometimes just get seats assigned there. But otherwise, I think it’s just a lot of people are inconsiderate arseholes.

That last sentence sums it up perfectly!

PeonyPatch · 04/04/2026 15:42

YES

ThisIsTheAge · 04/04/2026 15:44

I asked two ladies having a full blown conversation at the table I was sat at to be mindful we were in the quiet zone. They gave each other a look but to be fair shut up. I was trying to concentrate on some work hence deliberately sat in the quiet zone. I even had my earbuds in to block out the background noise. Honestly people just shouldn't sit there if they don't want to be quiet or just suck up being quiet for the sake of sitting in the least busy carriage.

Heyhelga · 04/04/2026 15:45

Law and order in society has broken down basically. Zero deterrence for anyone abusing the quiet zone of the train.

Flamingojune · 04/04/2026 16:32

Heyhelga · 04/04/2026 15:45

Law and order in society has broken down basically. Zero deterrence for anyone abusing the quiet zone of the train.

Altbough to be fair most people abide by the rules

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