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AIBU to think it was never that complicated to define a woman.

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Abisequer · 26/03/2026 14:51

The International Olympic Committee (IOC) has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category of Olympic events will now be limited to biological females, starting from the LA 2028 Games.

AIBU to think the category ‘women’ was never complicated and the obfuscation by certain governing bodies has compromised fairness in sport for women.

Examples of obfuscation include claims that genital checking would be needed or that biological men with lowered testosterone would be on an even playing field with biological women.

AIBU to think it was never complicated to define a woman and a cheek swab is all it takes.

Article

Transgender women banned from female Olympic events in new IOC ruling

The International Olympic Committee has ruled that eligibility for the women’s category will now be limited to biological females

https://www.independent.co.uk/sport/olympics/transgender-ban-ioc-female-category-gender-eligibility-b2946193.html

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AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 27/03/2026 10:12

You know what, it's pointless even going ahead with all the actual races and tournaments in the first place, let alone the training and dedication.

Why can't somebody just identify as a gold medal winner in every category and in every sport and just be given all the gold medals in a wheelbarrow, then we can be done with it?

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:13

TwistedWonder · 27/03/2026 10:12

Yep. I posted a comment in response to a FB post on this and every response back at me was from a man, all in an aggressive manner (one even in capitals) basically saying ‘STFU woman you’re wrong’ . Very much the vibe was ‘man here to put you in your place’

This topic has brought all the misogynists to the yard 🙄

ThatCyanCat · 27/03/2026 10:17

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:13

This topic has brought all the misogynists to the yard 🙄

The lure of being able to exclude, attack, name call, overrule and silence women, all while being lauded as progressive and liberal, was far too tempting for them.

SSAW2026 · 27/03/2026 10:20

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 27/03/2026 09:59

In so many of these cases, it's like actual women don't even register to them as having any kind of importance, value or right to fairness as people themselves.

Women's literal only purpose is to validate them in what they want and in what makes them feel important.

The self entitlement of trans "women" is off the scale. Woe is them.

On Jeremy Vine, a bloke Amy, says its unfair, difference is nuanced. He went through male puberty, we see male, he is male, wa wa wa poor trans "women" its not fair. He is built like a brick shithouse, whinging because he cannot cheat by being in with biological females, he is male 100%. They have given him so much air time. Why is the male view eg trans "women " more valid than actual real women. Its completely wrong.

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:22

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 27/03/2026 10:12

You know what, it's pointless even going ahead with all the actual races and tournaments in the first place, let alone the training and dedication.

Why can't somebody just identify as a gold medal winner in every category and in every sport and just be given all the gold medals in a wheelbarrow, then we can be done with it?

Yes. It can be extrapolated to that level of argument.

The whataboutery is really fuckwittery.

Meaning it is actually meaningless distraction using misinformation which has been addressed over and over and the cycle just continues.

ThatCyanCat · 27/03/2026 10:27

And nobody believes it anyway. Because despite all the "but Phelps, but intersex, but not binary male/female, but where do we draw the line but but but"...

...they NEVER, but NEVER, want a fully, openly unisex category for everyone, which is literally the only option that makes sense if they believed what they were saying. They NEVER want this. They still want a female category to exist, purely so men can enter it.

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:34

Not that I think all the people here, who are beside themselves with excitement at the thought of policing gender, will read it - but for the watchers who do understand that biology is more complex than GCSE level - here's an article opposing the testing from Andrew Sinclair (who discovered the SRY gene).

Surprisingly (not!) he doesn't agree with the various mediocre 'academics' who've made a living from bigotry.

https://www.mcri.edu.au/news/insights-and-opinions/world-athletics-sry-gene-conversation

MentilLentil · 27/03/2026 10:37

ThatCyanCat · 27/03/2026 09:42

No, Phelps having a good swimmer's body doesn't negate the need for female sport. This is the Phelps Fallacy and it's been debunked for years. Do keep up. If Phelps were a woman he wouldn't have that physique; no woman, however well built for swimming, can have that physique. The male advantage runs as deep as hamoglobin levels, bone density, fast twitch muscle and more. Without a protected female category there will be no female champions.

This "Phelps has feet like flippers so men should compete with women" is embarrassing by this stage, we thrashed all this out years ago even if you weren't listening. You never "wondered how to draw the line" until men started claiming to be women and taking women's medals and opportunities and smashing them in boxing rings. Stop it.

Im under 20 years old, you MIGHT have been thrashing it out for years when i was a child. Im new and im leaening but continue being pompous i guess ?

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:38

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:34

Not that I think all the people here, who are beside themselves with excitement at the thought of policing gender, will read it - but for the watchers who do understand that biology is more complex than GCSE level - here's an article opposing the testing from Andrew Sinclair (who discovered the SRY gene).

Surprisingly (not!) he doesn't agree with the various mediocre 'academics' who've made a living from bigotry.

https://www.mcri.edu.au/news/insights-and-opinions/world-athletics-sry-gene-conversation

Do you actually understand the point of testing for SRY gene?

Because it is an indicator of whether further testing is needed for male puberty.

Perhaps you should be the person doing further reading

Imdunfer · 27/03/2026 10:38

BelBridge · 27/03/2026 09:42

It is all about men. It always has been. If we did not live in a violent, patriarchal society then single sex spaces would never have needed to exist in the first place. Women would not have spent millennia being the unpaid carers of the planet. Our society would not have been designed on such binary sex-based lines for the benefit of men. That’s the problem - this has never been about sex but about power.

I think what you write about is a related issue, but different.

I don't think this is all about men, it's just the AGPs shouting loudest.

The trans person I am best acquainted with is female to male and their situation has as more to do with female originating stereotypes than with men.

nolongersurprised · 27/03/2026 10:39

Not that I think all the people here, who are beside themselves with excitement at the thought of policing gender

To be honest, the double pleasure of males finally being excluded from female sport AND the meltdowns of people pretending no one knows what sex anyone is has made it a brilliant day.

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:40

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:34

Not that I think all the people here, who are beside themselves with excitement at the thought of policing gender, will read it - but for the watchers who do understand that biology is more complex than GCSE level - here's an article opposing the testing from Andrew Sinclair (who discovered the SRY gene).

Surprisingly (not!) he doesn't agree with the various mediocre 'academics' who've made a living from bigotry.

https://www.mcri.edu.au/news/insights-and-opinions/world-athletics-sry-gene-conversation

What a truly ridiculous post.

No one is policing 'gender'. They are upholding women's rights to sex specific sports. Why don't you think women should have that right?

There is nothing complex about the fact that there are only two sexes.

Two pathways for development, two gametes that can be produced. No third gamete. No 'in between' gamete. No one producing both gametes.

The testing, if you'd bothered to read it, is quite rigorous to accommodate any DSDs in the mix.

But ultimately, why take this position? Why try to muddy the waters for women by sneaking men into their sports through the back door?

NotMyRealAccount · 27/03/2026 10:41

It's not complicated. Having the IOC do a complete turn-around and acknowledge this to be the case is massive. I expect to see wailing and flailing from the usual places, but the statement appears to be sound and well safety-netted.

BelBridge · 27/03/2026 10:42

Imdunfer · 27/03/2026 10:38

I think what you write about is a related issue, but different.

I don't think this is all about men, it's just the AGPs shouting loudest.

The trans person I am best acquainted with is female to male and their situation has as more to do with female originating stereotypes than with men.

And where do you think those stereotypes come from? Patriarchy.

ThatCyanCat · 27/03/2026 10:43

MentilLentil · 27/03/2026 10:37

Im under 20 years old, you MIGHT have been thrashing it out for years when i was a child. Im new and im leaening but continue being pompous i guess ?

I don't care if I'm pompous, the point is I'm right. You know exactly who the women are, you know which of your parents is your mother and if you're 19 (or even old enough to be on the internet alone) you know which sex you are (if you have never had a period and believe you're female, you should have seen a doctor years ago).

There's no third sex. There's no third gamete.

Anyway, if this is all you've got now, that's a pretty clear indication of where it's all at. Just stop trying to confuse and bend reality and everything will be fairer and clearer. You absolutely know who the women are.

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:43

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:38

Do you actually understand the point of testing for SRY gene?

Because it is an indicator of whether further testing is needed for male puberty.

Perhaps you should be the person doing further reading

Oh yes I understand that you are in favour of policing women's bodies - you make that clear every time you post.
And suddenly you're acknowledging that it's not just a 'simple cheek swab'.

For people who are genuinely interested I would urge you to go do your own research rather than believe what a group of self appointed 'experts' (spoiler they're not) are pushing on this site.

Also it may be useful to ask yourselves what other aspects of women's sports e.g. sexual assault, rape, they ever post about, as to whether they really care about women.

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:44

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:40

What a truly ridiculous post.

No one is policing 'gender'. They are upholding women's rights to sex specific sports. Why don't you think women should have that right?

There is nothing complex about the fact that there are only two sexes.

Two pathways for development, two gametes that can be produced. No third gamete. No 'in between' gamete. No one producing both gametes.

The testing, if you'd bothered to read it, is quite rigorous to accommodate any DSDs in the mix.

But ultimately, why take this position? Why try to muddy the waters for women by sneaking men into their sports through the back door?

So - you, some rando on the internet know more than Andrew Sinclair, who discovered the SRY gene. Good to know!

NotBadConsidering · 27/03/2026 10:47

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 09:53

People who bring up Phelps keep forgetting that Phelps was beaten.

It blows their arguments to bits but they have seen it repeated as Whataboutery and thought that it was convincing themselves, so believe that it is some kind of wise discussion device.

Phelps doesn’t hold a single world record any more. Many men have swum faster than him in recent years. Yet for some reason he’s held up as being some impossible-to-beat super human. He wasn’t. He was just the best of his era.

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:47

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:43

Oh yes I understand that you are in favour of policing women's bodies - you make that clear every time you post.
And suddenly you're acknowledging that it's not just a 'simple cheek swab'.

For people who are genuinely interested I would urge you to go do your own research rather than believe what a group of self appointed 'experts' (spoiler they're not) are pushing on this site.

Also it may be useful to ask yourselves what other aspects of women's sports e.g. sexual assault, rape, they ever post about, as to whether they really care about women.

So now you're just trying to besmirch people because you can't refute their arguments?

Its all so ,,, predictable.

But please answer the question asked. Why don't you want womem to have single sex sports?

Is it just because you are a Male Rights Activust and you object so women having anything of their own? Because that's all I can think of.

ThatCyanCat · 27/03/2026 10:48

This "policing women's bodies" shit is so, so dishonest. It's safeguarding women's rights and safety by recognising that, for all the infinite other ways women vary, the one thing we all share that men don't is biological sex. In a tiny number of people, that needs to be determined by further markers but it's always there and it's always determinable. Recognising what makes women women and not men for the sake of safegaurding their spaces, recognising the one common constant no matter what everything else is like, is so far from "policing their bodies" that it's off the scale.

TheKeatingFive · 27/03/2026 10:48

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:44

So - you, some rando on the internet know more than Andrew Sinclair, who discovered the SRY gene. Good to know!

Read the advice on the testing and you will see any complications regarding the SRY gene are completely accounted for.

Its all there. Educate yourself.

NotBadConsidering · 27/03/2026 10:49

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:44

So - you, some rando on the internet know more than Andrew Sinclair, who discovered the SRY gene. Good to know!

Andrew Sinclair keeps falsely claiming the SRY gene test will be the reason for exclusion. He’s either lying or stupid because this isn’t the case. A detected SRY gene will lead to further testing to determine the actual diagnosis, which may or may not lead to exclusion.

HTH

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:49

rosa17 · 27/03/2026 10:34

Not that I think all the people here, who are beside themselves with excitement at the thought of policing gender, will read it - but for the watchers who do understand that biology is more complex than GCSE level - here's an article opposing the testing from Andrew Sinclair (who discovered the SRY gene).

Surprisingly (not!) he doesn't agree with the various mediocre 'academics' who've made a living from bigotry.

https://www.mcri.edu.au/news/insights-and-opinions/world-athletics-sry-gene-conversation

From this article

The SRY test isn’t cut-and-dried

World Athletics asserts the SRY gene is a reliable proxy for determining biological sex. But biological sex is much more complex, with chromosomal, gonadal (testis/ovary), hormonal and secondary sex characteristics all playing a role.

Using SRY to establish biological sex is wrong because all it tells you is whether or not the gene is present.

It does not tell you how SRY is functioning, whether a testis has formed, whether testosterone is produced and, if so, whether it can be used by the body.

And he is absolutely correct. Hence there is then further testing to be done to establish whether the body is utilising the testosterone or not.

The issue isn’t that this expert is wrong about that test. It seems he is and was wrong about what then happened.

No female person without that gene will be considered not eligible for the category of female sport. Only those people with the gene will need further testing to assess their eligibility.

Where is the confusion ?

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:50

Ah. Crossed with notbad !

Helleofabore · 27/03/2026 10:51

NotBadConsidering · 27/03/2026 10:49

Andrew Sinclair keeps falsely claiming the SRY gene test will be the reason for exclusion. He’s either lying or stupid because this isn’t the case. A detected SRY gene will lead to further testing to determine the actual diagnosis, which may or may not lead to exclusion.

HTH

I saw Tracy Holmes brought this up yesterday in the IOC press conference. I thought Jane Thornton answered it well considering the time constraints.