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To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous

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LindyFoo · 22/03/2026 10:17

AIBU to consider this is a healthy daily diet (not looking to lose weight as already a healthy weight). I want to feel more energetic and fabulous :-). Don't eat meat or drink alcohol. In my 60s, fit and well, very minimal stress.

AM
Smoothie with banana, kale, milk, peanut butter, avacado, skimmed milk powder, greek yoghurt
SNACK
Sourdough bread with peanut butter
MIDDAY
2 egg with onion, peppers, cheese and a mixed salad with olive oil dressing
5PM
Salmon with salad or brown rice with prawns and lots of vegetables and spices

What is missing? Or not helping?

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Mythoughts1 · 24/03/2026 12:06

Maybe make an appointment to see a dietician. They can be very helpful.

Delatron · 24/03/2026 12:08

Yes I was under the impression that fibre is really important for all those reasons.

RoseField1 · 24/03/2026 12:12

takealettermsjones · 24/03/2026 08:35

There is so much to unpack here, but the long and short of it is that you're still peddling potentially dangerous "advice" on the internet.

Firstly, nobody is misled about the grains point. You seem to think you are vastly more intelligent and informed than the rest of us, but please rest assured that everyone knows you are talking about grains and you're still way off.

"[carbs] have nothing you need".....that you can't get from other food groups...

Right. So your original statement was wrong? Will you edit it now, in case someone reads your incorrect diet "advice"?

You could also say this about many other foods. Mushrooms don't contain anything that you can't get from other food groups either. It's just a silly argument. Foods are building blocks to an overall diet.

Your whole shtick about whether something is natural or not is equally bizarre. Grains are plants. I don't know what your definition of natural is but the idea that something isn't natural if you have to husk it first is at best unusual and at worst ridiculous.

You can't chew on an ear of wheat.

So what? You can't chew on an egg with shell either, or a raw sweet potato, or a whole coconut, or a raw chicken breast. Again, silly argument. And it just shows how much kool aid is being drunk on the extreme fringes of the anti-UPF movement.

As for your personal anecdata - well, surely with your science degrees you can see that the experience of one person doesn't constitute robust evidence that can be repeated across a population, so again, you're completely out of order to start handing this out as "advice" on the internet.

Besides, I'll point out some of the ways in which your logic is questionable:

  1. if My Fitness Pal says that your maintenance calories are 1400 but you were losing weight on 1600, then there's a flaw in the system somewhere;

  2. if your maintenance calories are indeed 1400 then you are either shorter, slighter, or far more sedentary than most of the adult population, meaning that again, you shouldn't be trotting out your "advice" as though it would apply to everyone;

  3. if you were so healthy and thriving on a low-carb diet, why are you speaking about it in the past tense?

It is just calories

Well no, as I stated upthread. But even so, calories aren't evil. They provide energy to do work, which most of us need.

You're coming across as a zealot.

Very science degree, much knowledge

BitOutOfPractice · 24/03/2026 13:03

@takealettermsjones have you read “ultra processed people”? It might help you better understand the difference between processed food and ultra Processed food.

takealettermsjones · 24/03/2026 13:06

BitOutOfPractice · 24/03/2026 13:03

@takealettermsjones have you read “ultra processed people”? It might help you better understand the difference between processed food and ultra Processed food.

What makes you think I don't understand the difference?

BitOutOfPractice · 24/03/2026 13:09

Because you seem to think brown rice and kit Kats are both processed. 🤷‍♀️ one of them is, one is ultra processed.

takealettermsjones · 24/03/2026 13:11

BitOutOfPractice · 24/03/2026 13:09

Because you seem to think brown rice and kit Kats are both processed. 🤷‍♀️ one of them is, one is ultra processed.

I didn't say that.

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 13:13

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 01:38

So, firstly I have already clarified I meant grains, and not fruits and vegetables. (I've stopped thinking of them of carbs now). Even starchy ones like sweet potatoes. I realise that's mislead people. (I'm not even going to go there with sugar. I'd already assumed people know I don't mean Kit Kats!). I will also acknowledge that I stated the point flippantly, and that was unhelpful. It was intended to be brief and conversational.

I am talking about eating meat, vegetables (not potatoes) fats and dairy. I don't eat fruit myself. (Dairy is controversial, but I'm not giving it up and I don't care what the evidence says)

"[carbs] have nothing you need".....that you can't get from other food groups with less processing, in higher quantities, without a lot of carb.

They don't. Really. You NEED fat. You NEED protein. You NEED fibre. You NEED vitamins and minerals. If you cut them out you'll die. You don't NEED carbs themselves. You can derive energy from fat and protein. Yes, they have energy, and yes you CAN use the energy from them. But it's not necessary. You can derive what you need from protein, fat and fibre. And while they do have smaller quantities of other micro-nutrients, they are not the best sources of any of them. If you're eating vegetables instead of carbs, you're getting plenty of fibre. If you're eating red meat you're getting plenty of B vitamins and protein. And you're not getting carb as well. Which IS just joined up sugar. That your body breaks down into sugar. The carbs don't add anything else.

"[carbs] are not a natural food group" bearing in mind I am talking about grain. Not fruits and vegetables.

I've covered this quite a lot above. But they aren't, as we produce them now. If Stoneage man ate a mammoth, he got fat and protein in a pretty similar format to if we eat meat now. But you can't say the same about rice. Even if its brown. Let alone cornflakes. It didn't exist. You can't chew on an ear of wheat. Even if you cook it. But THAT didn't exist. It was just grass seed. That hairy stuff you see in grass fields. You'd spend a lifetime picking out the itty bitty grass seed, or chewing on hairy grass. And we aren't ruminants. We can't digest grass.

"all carbs are heavily processed"

Again, bearing in mind I'm talking about grain, not fruits and vegetables. And they are. They are all at least threshed, hulled, and milled. Even the brown stuff. Even Quinoa. And that's AFTER the agricultural point above. I've grown quinoa. I've actually processed it (it takes ages. Don't do it. It's a right pain) grains are very processed. Sure brown stuff is LESS processed. But its still not much like the stuff on the plant.

"grains ... really do have limited nutritional value"

The difference between complex carbs and simple ones is largely fibre, but not a lot. And yes fibre is a good thing in itself, but mostly to mitigate the bad carbyness. But if you don't have the bad carbyness you don't need to slow down glycemic load with fibre. Because you don't have the glycemic load. And they don't ADD anything to a diet that already contains enough fibre and vitamins from vegetables which don't have the carbs (in anything like the same quantities) and aren't processed (even a sweet potato or a squash. You can just bake them and eat them) and protein and fat from meat and dairy.

Carbs just don't do anything other foods don't do better, without the drawbacks.

A typical days food for me on low carb would have been

Breakfast: Two large coffees with full fat lactose free milk. I hate breakfast.

Brunch: 2 egg omelette with spinach and ricotta (11 ish)
Dinner: steak, mushrooms in butter, peas, onions in olive oil, steamed broccoli, courgettes, with garlic and herbs. (5ish)
snack - cheese and cashew nuts (10ish)
cocoa with full fat lactose free milk and no sugar.

I drank water and herbal tea. Occasionally had dark chocolate. I didn't eat any carb substitutes (except the lactose free milk). Sometimes I'd have soup for lunch as well, with cheese. or cooked veg with herb butter or oil ( I'm not really a salad fan)I was STUFFED.

That is 112g of protein. 84g of fat and 66g of carbs 15g fibre. I'm happy with that. It's not 'massive slabs of meat' just normal amounts. Plenty of veg. Fibre is fine for me. Yes, there is extra fat, but it's not swimming, and it's below my recommended cholesterol intake. And it's around 1600 calories - 200 more than my fitness pal reckons I need. It's actually really hard to overeat in terms of calories if you don't eat grains and sugar. You just can't put away enough food! Apparently this doesn't meet my iron (75%) or calcium (56%) RDAs. (There's two pints of milk in there! I don't know how accurate MFP is for micrinutrients though) Let's add these ESSENTIAL complex carbs and see if that fixes it....

A cup of brown rice adds 238 calories I don't need in the form of 46 grams of carbohydrate. 5g of protein I don't need. 1.98g of fat I don't need. 2g of fibre I don't need. no vitamin C, 2 percent of my calcium RDA, which isn't significant. 5 percent of my iron RDA, which isn't a game changer. Really why would I bother? It its just calories. And I had enough energy. I have never felt better. And DD didn't sleep through then.

I monitored my blood sugar. It was never low, because I have a functioning pancreas. (That is what it does. If you don't, you are diabetic). I wasn't tired. I didn't get carb flu. I had plenty of energy. I felt a damn sight better than I do now. My unmedicated thyroid wasn't noticeable (bloody is now!). I wasn't anemic. (am now). I lost weight (maybe a stone and a half) until I hit a healthy weight and then I didn't lose any more. Haven't gained it back. I don't have any bloods from the period (which is telling. Because I have bloods so often the surgery phlebotomist knows me by sight and has threatened to put a tap in!) But it actually was the last time I felt well. And that was new.

I know there's no clever citations. I mostly wanted to get the numbers down. I'll look some up tomorrow. If anyone wades through it all.

What was the weight of the ricotta in your omelette and the weight of your steak and the weight of your cheese portion and the weight of your cashew nuts then?

ColdSpringHarbor · 24/03/2026 13:43

What on earth does 'natural' mean in your context, guestsareinvited? Even leaving aside the fact that plenty of 'natural' plants are poisonous to humans, what in our food chain today is 'natural' by your strange definition?

Sure, grains have been developed by centuries of agriculture but so have all the fruits and vegetables we eat today. You know of course that apples today are nothing like Stone Age wild apples, and carrots are very different, and cultivated strawberries are dissimilar to wild strawberries and so on and so on.

The animals we eat today are nothing like Stone Age animals either - even if you buy organic grassfed beef and higher welfare pork. Pigs are not wild hogs, cows are not the bony cattle that were originally domesticated by our ancestors. They've all been bred to human specifications, just like grain.

You have to process olives to eat olive oil, just like you have to process wheat to eat it. As others have pointed out, you also have to cook or soften lots of vegetables and some fruits to make them edible and safe.

I don't think there was some ideal pre-lapsarian age of Food that Humans Were Supposed to Eat as you seem to. Humans have always been moving, adapting, improvising, domesticating, farming.

Helppleasestuck · 24/03/2026 13:49

LindyFoo · 22/03/2026 13:09

Wow! I hadn't expected so many responses - thanks to everyone who's taken the time to respond. To answer a few questions - no idea how many calories I eat as don't count but I'm certainly not aiming for low calorie or to lose weight. The 'fabulous' comment was somewhat tongue in cheek but I would like to feel more lively though I'm not fatigued or ill but could be more active, could drink more water.

About the smoothie for breakfast. I consider this full of goodness and I like to drink it. Although I like oats they give me stomach pains and I couldn't face eggs etc first thing. I could eat toast but wouldn't consider that was nutritious and a good way to start my day.

I dont deprive myself of foods - if I want cake, chocolate etc I have it but generally don't buy it so its not in the house. Might have it when I go out for a coffee. I haven't eaten meat for decades and won't be starting but perhaps need to ensure I'm getting enough from other sources. I could add beans, nuts and seeds to my meals - had forgotten about them.

It sounds broadly healthy.
Smoothie is the only thing that rang a bell because of the thing about eating solid food rather than blended (???), but if that feels better to you than eggs, porridge etc, then it's not exactly terrible like some people seem to think!

I would think about what you eat over a week as much as in a day. Make sure you mix it up a bit day to day, different fruits, veg, protein sources etc. Add seeds and nuts where they work, e.g. a handful of pumpkin seeds to a salad. Make sure your quantities are enough especially if you are active. Make sure your iron levels are normal esp given you are pescatarian and also if you are active. Mine are sometimes on the low side so i supplement with spatone.
And make sure you're hydrated. I sometimes eat two breakfasts, porridge and fruit first thing as that works for me, then scrambled egg, sourdough and avocado/tomatoes mid morning. Light lunch (soup / small portion of dinner leftovers) or snack, then dinner with salmon or a vegetarian/vegan recipe. Riverford have some excellent menu boxes so I make those a couple of times a week to make sure I'm eating a wide range of vegetables. And they are really tasty.

Have you looked at hormones at all? I felt quite a bit better and less fatigued when I got a (private) testosterone prescription.

But yes as some others have said, keep an eye on the whole picture- exercise but not to excess, stay hydrated, chase good quality sleep etc. The best I've ever felt was when looking at the Whole30 diet but it isn't super pescatarian friendly- but in terms of how your plate looks with loads of veg, unprocessed protein sources and fats (nuts, seeds, good olive oil, avocadoes etc). Felt great on that but it costs a fortune and is quite hard to follow if you don't eat meat!

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 13:54

takealettermsjones · 24/03/2026 08:35

There is so much to unpack here, but the long and short of it is that you're still peddling potentially dangerous "advice" on the internet.

Firstly, nobody is misled about the grains point. You seem to think you are vastly more intelligent and informed than the rest of us, but please rest assured that everyone knows you are talking about grains and you're still way off.

"[carbs] have nothing you need".....that you can't get from other food groups...

Right. So your original statement was wrong? Will you edit it now, in case someone reads your incorrect diet "advice"?

You could also say this about many other foods. Mushrooms don't contain anything that you can't get from other food groups either. It's just a silly argument. Foods are building blocks to an overall diet.

Your whole shtick about whether something is natural or not is equally bizarre. Grains are plants. I don't know what your definition of natural is but the idea that something isn't natural if you have to husk it first is at best unusual and at worst ridiculous.

You can't chew on an ear of wheat.

So what? You can't chew on an egg with shell either, or a raw sweet potato, or a whole coconut, or a raw chicken breast. Again, silly argument. And it just shows how much kool aid is being drunk on the extreme fringes of the anti-UPF movement.

As for your personal anecdata - well, surely with your science degrees you can see that the experience of one person doesn't constitute robust evidence that can be repeated across a population, so again, you're completely out of order to start handing this out as "advice" on the internet.

Besides, I'll point out some of the ways in which your logic is questionable:

  1. if My Fitness Pal says that your maintenance calories are 1400 but you were losing weight on 1600, then there's a flaw in the system somewhere;

  2. if your maintenance calories are indeed 1400 then you are either shorter, slighter, or far more sedentary than most of the adult population, meaning that again, you shouldn't be trotting out your "advice" as though it would apply to everyone;

  3. if you were so healthy and thriving on a low-carb diet, why are you speaking about it in the past tense?

It is just calories

Well no, as I stated upthread. But even so, calories aren't evil. They provide energy to do work, which most of us need.

You're coming across as a zealot.

takealettermsjones I am not 'vastly more intelligent' than anyone, and I certainly don't pretend to be. I'm not flexing, Im trying to establish credibility, because I'm fully aware this not a usual view. I KNOW a lot about carbs. A lot more than most people. That's not a flex. I should probably have a more interesting life and a more balanced interests! But is does mean I'm not just trotting out something I read in the Daily Mail. Why should I not be passionate about it? How should I come across? I this argument is factually correct, so how should I respond when people say 'are you the one with those insane carb theories' or 'you don't know a complex carb from a Kit Kat' and many people won't read the full thread, so I need to prove again and again that I don't mean Kit Kats.

A question first. Tell me why your body needs carbs. Not calories - carbs specifically. What do they add to a diet, nutritionally or physiologically that taking them out would mean is a problem?

There is loads to unpack there, you're right. To respond to the points you chose....

Firstly, this isn't advice. It's information for people make decisions. It's GOOD information. I don't think I've ever said 'don't eat carbs' I've said 'carbs are bad and have nothing you need'.

You are equating a food GROUP with a single FOOD. You can't compare an egg to carbs. You need to compare and carbs to protein. (Or eggs to wheat-flour). And the 'so what' is....Does it make a difference to how the protein is digested and the nutrients extracted if you 'refine' the egg by removing the shell and cooking it? No. Does it make a difference to how the carbohydrate is digested and the nutrients extracted if you husk/hull/mill flour and cook it? YES!

You need the fibre or you get too much glucose hitting the system too fast, and your body is struggling to process it.. Because it's not a naturally-occurring food GROUP. Priotein IS. Fat IS. Vegetables (sort of) ARE. It's not a nutrient our bodies are physiologically evolved to metabolise in the form and quantities we ingest it. And it's causing us harm. Complex carbs have fibre, which helps to slow down glucose release into the bloodstream, so complex carbs are less stress for your body. But 'less bad' doesn't mean 'good' If you don't HAVE the glucose, which you don't need and aren't equipped to process in those quantities, you need the fibre to release a harmful substance into your blood more slowly so that you can process that harmful substance and get it out of your system somewhere safe.

But why aim to release a harmful substance slowly. Why not...not eat it? We are all approaching this backwards by trying to mitigate the significant problems of processing a nutrient we could just....not eat. I'm not using the 'it's not natural' argument as a philosophy or a woo-woo lifestyle choice. I am arguing that our bodies are not physiologically evolved to derive energy from a diet where carbs form a large percentage of the calories, and it's creating problems when we do. It is a scientific argument based on biological facts. Why eat them? WHY? When other calories are available (there are actually reasons. They just aren't physiological)

So I stand by my statement that 'carbs have nothing you need'. They don't. I can't edit it, but I've expanded more than enough. I don't know how to say not more accurately in a format anyone would bother to read. There is no physiological advantage TO eat carbs versus other food. And a lot of problems. That's not ridiculous or bizarre. It's not a silly argument unless you reduce it to 'eat like a caveman'. And I'm not. I'm saying carbs are food we are really ill equipped to digest, and struggling to digest it is causing us big problems and making us ill.

Nobody is asking

'why is glucose in the blood so bad?'

'Why do we need to get it out of our bloodstream fast'?

'How do we get it out of our bloodstream fast?'
'Where does they go?'
'If we don't have carbs, what do we use for energy'?

And those are really important questions.

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:09

This conversation is giving me a stomach ache

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:20

takealettermsjones · 24/03/2026 08:35

There is so much to unpack here, but the long and short of it is that you're still peddling potentially dangerous "advice" on the internet.

Firstly, nobody is misled about the grains point. You seem to think you are vastly more intelligent and informed than the rest of us, but please rest assured that everyone knows you are talking about grains and you're still way off.

"[carbs] have nothing you need".....that you can't get from other food groups...

Right. So your original statement was wrong? Will you edit it now, in case someone reads your incorrect diet "advice"?

You could also say this about many other foods. Mushrooms don't contain anything that you can't get from other food groups either. It's just a silly argument. Foods are building blocks to an overall diet.

Your whole shtick about whether something is natural or not is equally bizarre. Grains are plants. I don't know what your definition of natural is but the idea that something isn't natural if you have to husk it first is at best unusual and at worst ridiculous.

You can't chew on an ear of wheat.

So what? You can't chew on an egg with shell either, or a raw sweet potato, or a whole coconut, or a raw chicken breast. Again, silly argument. And it just shows how much kool aid is being drunk on the extreme fringes of the anti-UPF movement.

As for your personal anecdata - well, surely with your science degrees you can see that the experience of one person doesn't constitute robust evidence that can be repeated across a population, so again, you're completely out of order to start handing this out as "advice" on the internet.

Besides, I'll point out some of the ways in which your logic is questionable:

  1. if My Fitness Pal says that your maintenance calories are 1400 but you were losing weight on 1600, then there's a flaw in the system somewhere;

  2. if your maintenance calories are indeed 1400 then you are either shorter, slighter, or far more sedentary than most of the adult population, meaning that again, you shouldn't be trotting out your "advice" as though it would apply to everyone;

  3. if you were so healthy and thriving on a low-carb diet, why are you speaking about it in the past tense?

It is just calories

Well no, as I stated upthread. But even so, calories aren't evil. They provide energy to do work, which most of us need.

You're coming across as a zealot.

As for pointing out my 'questionable logic', feel free to question. It's how we identify gaps in our knowledge. Hopefully, I can address them.

If myfitnesspal says I need 1400 calories and I am losing weight on 1600, what could be wrong? Well, my fitnesspal could be. It almost certainly IS because how much energy anyone needs is way more complex than that. But it's the best we have, so we'll have to go with it. (I am very short and pretty slight).

But I wasn't eating carbs. That changes your metabolism. It fundamentally changes how your body processes calories and what it does with them. I also uses more of them. I will (obviously) happily expand on that, but I want to deal with your other points first, because they are very good points.

I'm talking about low carb diets in the past tense because I am not doing it now. I'd prefer to be and I genuinely believe it is healthier and better for everyone, and it DEFINITELY is for me. But it is HARD. You have to cook every bloody thing yourself, from scratch. It's inconvenient. You can't eat out. You can't buy a meal deal. You pretty much have to eat at home. You have to THINK so much about food. And you can't eat much that's easy. The fridge is always too full because everything is fresh and you have to lug more shopping home. It's also expensive. I'm not saying this is an option open to everyone. And that's a problem. A political one.

Of course I know that my personal experience is not data. BUT people are saying, repeatedly 'you need carbs for energy'. 'complex carbs stop sugar crashes' low carb diets lack'. There's no study to cite to say you don't. So I've used myself as an example. I don't think there will be any studies - there are massive barriers to them. Not least there is no profit in vegetables. Who is going to fund sizeable, quality studies? You can't blind the participants - we know what we're eating! But I wanted to show in a real way that it's not 'massive slabs of meat' or consitpating. Or swimming in fat. That it actually doesn't look as radically subversive as people think. To show what I am actually suggesting she try and that it's not 'dangerous advice' And, the (poor!) OP asked how she could feel more energetic. Which is subjective. And I think that's how.

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:23

But you were eating carbs. Just not the average amount

You quoted, and I suspect you'll agree this fluctuates day to day, 66g of carbs

Thats lower carb.

What was the weight of the items you quoted that are protein based?

Springnorain · 24/03/2026 14:37

Have a look at the protein leverage hypothesis.

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:40

Swimmingatdawn · 24/03/2026 09:53

The difference between complex carbs and simple ones is largely fibre, but not a lot. And yes fibre is a good thing in itself, but mostly to mitigate the bad carbyness.

Grin

Fibre, soluble and insoluble, is an essential part of a healthy diet for many reasons - including reducing cancer risk, impact on cholesterol levels, reduced risk of diverticulitis, increased beneficial gut bacterium, likely beneficial impact on heart disease, reducing inflammation, reducing diabetes risk etc. It's nonsense to suggest that's it's mostly to mitigate against the 'bad carbyness' whatever that might be.

Yes. But as you can see, there is not a bloody lot of fibre added by those complex carbs, is there? In the random day of food I posted, was it 15g of carbs from vegetables? And a cup of brown rice added 2g!!!!

And what causes all of those problems? What causes the cancer, the cholesterol, the inflammation, the DIABETES??? How much of that is coming from carbs? In the case of diabetes, ALL OF IT. In the case of inflammation? Cancer? I don't know. You tell me - I've had to explain how all these things work to back up my assertions. Shouldn't everyone follow those principles?

I think (and this is my personal theory. It's not physiological fact which, mostly I have stuck to so far and I want to make it clear this is distinct from that) We don't eat enough vegetables. And we don't eat them because eat carbs as filler. Eating more vegetables has a protective effect. But what it mostly does is mean you eat less carbs. Carbs REALLY stress your body. And I think that's what's causing the cancer et al. Not necessarily that simply - but the long term physiological strain is resulting in more of all these things.

This is factual - your body is fighting to get sugar out of your blood all the time. It's just not equipped to BE deluged with carbs all day everyday. It can, and it does. But that's not how it functions optimally. The reason people with diabetes lose nerves, have amputations, get kidney failure and don't heal is because they cannot manage carb metabolism and keep their blood sugar normal. In very basic terms, sugar makes your blood acidic and affects every chemical process in it badly. And I just don't think people get this and what it means. I didn't get here easily.

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:46

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:23

But you were eating carbs. Just not the average amount

You quoted, and I suspect you'll agree this fluctuates day to day, 66g of carbs

Thats lower carb.

What was the weight of the items you quoted that are protein based?

I wasn't eating GRAINS. If you read what I've written (and I wouldn't blame you if you hadn't. I've written reams) grains are fundamentally different from vegetables. That is my entire point. And I don't think it makes sense if I don't explain why grains are fundamentally different and I don't know how to convey it more simply and quickly, because it is complex and in depth. Sorry. I didn't design bodies to work like this!

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:50

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 13:13

What was the weight of the ricotta in your omelette and the weight of your steak and the weight of your cheese portion and the weight of your cashew nuts then?

here you go

To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous
likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:51

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:46

I wasn't eating GRAINS. If you read what I've written (and I wouldn't blame you if you hadn't. I've written reams) grains are fundamentally different from vegetables. That is my entire point. And I don't think it makes sense if I don't explain why grains are fundamentally different and I don't know how to convey it more simply and quickly, because it is complex and in depth. Sorry. I didn't design bodies to work like this!

You actually said 'but I wasnt eating carbs'

But I wasn't eating carbs. That changes your metabolism. It fundamentally changes how your body processes calories and what it does with them.

You were eating carbs, so how did that change your metabolism.

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:53

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 14:50

here you go

Wheres the cheese and the meat and the nuts

Thisle · 24/03/2026 15:04

UniquePinkSwan · 22/03/2026 10:21

You’re eating a lot of carbs. It’ll give you an initial energy boost then make you tired a couple of hours later. Where’s the meat? Meat contains all the vitamins you need and it’s bioavailable unlike plants

No she isn't and no, brown rice will not do that.

ColdSpringHarbor · 24/03/2026 15:14

Carbohydrates are a naturally occurring food. They occur naturally in fruit and vegetables as well as grains. Most people throughout the last millennium ate loads of bread, rice, maize, cous cous, millet etc. as well as fruit and vegetables. They didn’t all have diabetes.

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 15:38

ColdSpringHarbor · 24/03/2026 13:43

What on earth does 'natural' mean in your context, guestsareinvited? Even leaving aside the fact that plenty of 'natural' plants are poisonous to humans, what in our food chain today is 'natural' by your strange definition?

Sure, grains have been developed by centuries of agriculture but so have all the fruits and vegetables we eat today. You know of course that apples today are nothing like Stone Age wild apples, and carrots are very different, and cultivated strawberries are dissimilar to wild strawberries and so on and so on.

The animals we eat today are nothing like Stone Age animals either - even if you buy organic grassfed beef and higher welfare pork. Pigs are not wild hogs, cows are not the bony cattle that were originally domesticated by our ancestors. They've all been bred to human specifications, just like grain.

You have to process olives to eat olive oil, just like you have to process wheat to eat it. As others have pointed out, you also have to cook or soften lots of vegetables and some fruits to make them edible and safe.

I don't think there was some ideal pre-lapsarian age of Food that Humans Were Supposed to Eat as you seem to. Humans have always been moving, adapting, improvising, domesticating, farming.

I feel like I've dealt with that, but it IS a very key point. And it relies on the misconception that humans are always evolving, domesticating, and so on. Yes, they are. But not in the time frame you're considering for something so basic and complex as glucose metabolsim. In recent evolutionary history, humans evolve by changing our environment with our brains and our technology. We don't change our bodies. And where we do, we haven't had long enough to change something this big. This isn't my take on evolution and biology. It isn't a strange or wacky theory. This IS how it is. Your pancreas and liver are the same as they were in stone age people. You need the same food. Your brain is different. But your body isn't. Take, say, skin colour. That's pretty simple. It's just a pigment, and it's visible, so it's a quick and dirty fix in evolutionary terms. But it's thought that has only diversified in response to people moving away from the equator in the last ten thousand years or so. Something like digestion simply isn't going to change in that time frame.

We feel very different to pre-agricultural people, and we have lives that look very different. But our BODIES are not very different. Farming is evolutionary VERY recent. Only 12000 yers ago to begin, and only as we really know it in the last few hundred. You are right that other plants have been modified and selected and they yield, look and taste different, and that animals have been bred to be bigger and meatier. Thats why I have said vegetables are only sort of the same as pre-agriculture, because they do look different. But it isn't the same as they way grains have been radically changed to form huge parts of our diets. If you eat a modern pig or a stoneage boar, the protein and fat is nutritionally the same, and is processed the same way. If you eat a plate of pasta, it's not. And there is no stoneage equivalent nutrionally. Literally none. It's what agriculture revolutionised. That's why it's not a 'natural' food group. It literally does not occur in a nutritionally comparable form or quantity without human agriculture. It seems so small and insignificant to eat grains. But it's a real sea change.

Vegetables and animals have only changed superficially. We need marginally less of them to get the same nutrients. But they are the same nutrients they have always been and we process them the same way as we always have. There IS A Way Humans Have Evolved To Eat. And it's without grains as we know them. That's not a moral assertion or a bonkers cult. It's a physiological one.

guestsareinvited · 24/03/2026 15:46

likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 14:53

Wheres the cheese and the meat and the nuts

Sorry. MFP has turned into a REALLY horrible app since I was using it. I can't get them all less than about five screens.

To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous
To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous
To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous
To not understand why my healthy (I think) way of eating isn't making me feel energetic and fabulous
likelysuspect · 24/03/2026 15:53

ok, Im curious because its flying in the face of you saying you dont eat slabs of meat, I personally think thats a large chunk of meat but horses for courses

Its not quite as much protein as you said by the way (ball park figure)

Your fibre is likely storing up trouble for the future.

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