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To not point out story is an urban legend?

286 replies

StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 22:54

I was in a group earlier of parents of DC's friends at a party. We were chatting away and one of them told an urban legend story (stealing a penguin from the zoo if that's relevant). I just went 'oh really ha ha' and moved the subject on as it felt really awkward.

Would you have politely pointed out that the story was a crock of shit to avoid them repeating it again? AIBU to have ignored it and presumably let them keep on telling it?

Has anyone else been told one of these face to face?

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Mummyoflittledragon · 22/03/2026 03:05

There was even an entire spoof newspaper, which we sort of believed when young, spoofing the population. I can’t remember the title, not the Daily Sport as I don’t think there was any smut in it.

Gluedtogether · 22/03/2026 03:23

Firefly1987 · 22/03/2026 02:38

I've had mine fold up and get stuck right up top but they always come back down again with a bit of manoeuvring. I genuinely thought once they were in your eye they can't dry up, I suppose they could if they end up that far up for long enough though.

I never wear contacts now. Especially after I read about Tori Spelling getting an eye ulcer from them (not an urban legend!) she did sleep in dailies for several days though...

I helped a friend who was new to contact lenses (this was a hard lens, years back) remove one that was stuck - she was on the point of ringing for help. We got it to float off using an eye bath.
I don't know about penguins, but I knew a guy who stole a (non-poisonous) snake from a zoo (he was somewhat drunk at the time). His girlfriend was very angry and told him to take it back, but I heard he simply let it go in the street.

Flannelfeet · 22/03/2026 03:33

Katflapkit · 21/03/2026 23:54

I am 60 now but when I was at school the big urban legend was the couple at the cinema eating KFC in the dark and the young women saying 'This chicken tastes weird'
When the lights went up and she checked the box. It was a rat.

Edited

Jeezo... please dont tell me your in Central Scotland because I have heard this one too 😬

ElenOfTheWays · 22/03/2026 03:58

MarxistMags · 22/03/2026 02:24

The spider story must be true, l read it in the Sunday Post !
(A Scottish Sunday newspaper which your Granny would read)

Was it an Oor Wullie story? 😂

Bellavida99 · 22/03/2026 04:33

Shame you weren’t aware of the BBC article linked on this thread. You could acted have really believed her and said how cruel, you assume it died poor thing. Then say - did you say your sister? What’s her name? I’ll have to check if reward is still on offer and report you so you can give police full details.

marmaladejam1 · 22/03/2026 04:36

Mine is the mum who was staying with her daughter, and was off to the doctors for a pap smear so sprayed some nice smelling stuff down below and headed off tp the doctor. Whilst he was doing the pap smear the doctor commented "you are looking very jazzy today". She was confused but went home. Went to the the bathroom and checked the bottle and it was glitter hairspray.
I was told the exact same story a month later by someone who was from a different group of friends. Very funny though

StormyLandCloud · 22/03/2026 06:04

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 00:32

I repeated an urban legend at work that I genuinely thought was true. I’d been on a first aid course and the guy told us about a colleague who had been volunteering at a rugby match and a player dislocated his hip. The first aider popped it back in and accidentally trapped the guy’s testicle in the hip joint. I was so sure in my retelling of this story that I was pretty embarrassed to be told it was an urban legend. But I was still grateful to be told so I could stop repeating it like an idiot 🙈

I think that would be pretty diffficult physiologically speaking, but nerves can get trapped when reducing a dislocated joint

TonicGinIceFruit · 22/03/2026 06:28

Love a good urban legend! The one that went around on WhatsApp a year or so ago about the joint stag and hen do in Amsterdam is probably the worst 🙈

cobrakaieaglefang · 22/03/2026 06:28

An urban legend I heard lots of was that homeless people got extra benefits for their dogs, hence so many had dogs with them. I worked for DHSS at the time, writing the cheques, I knew very well they didn't. People argued with me that the homeless got double if they had a dog.

PearlSpam · 22/03/2026 06:34

I wouldn’t say anything in this case as it’s harmless. Some urban legends are nothing more than scaremongering however, in which case I may speak up. It would depend on what was being said.

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/03/2026 06:42

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 00:32

I repeated an urban legend at work that I genuinely thought was true. I’d been on a first aid course and the guy told us about a colleague who had been volunteering at a rugby match and a player dislocated his hip. The first aider popped it back in and accidentally trapped the guy’s testicle in the hip joint. I was so sure in my retelling of this story that I was pretty embarrassed to be told it was an urban legend. But I was still grateful to be told so I could stop repeating it like an idiot 🙈

His knackers must have been the size of the rugby ball for that to happen.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 22/03/2026 06:50

Twooclockrock · 22/03/2026 00:50

Oh i remember this one

Our shiny new KFC(it was so long ago it had its full name) was built at the side of a sea water lake so the animal ending up battered in ours was seagull. No one questioned why the population wasnt decreasing or how they were capturing enough birds without anyone is seeing.

EmbracingUncertainty · 22/03/2026 07:12

I once called out someone retelling the snake urban legend, they were adamant it was their friend which I found crazy, a few years later I was called out for retelling the David Beckham paying off someone’s mortgage story and felt totally humiliated. I’m normally quite cynical but the story was from an uncle who lived not far from the beckhams so seemed legit!

ExtraOnions · 22/03/2026 07:16

Snopes has a “Penguin in backpack” section

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/birdnapped/

I often check Urban Myths on Snopes … the “classic” section is full of stuff

Kentucky Fried Rat https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/critter-fritter/

URBAN LEGEND: Child Abducts Penguin in Backpack

Did a child smuggle a penguin out of an amusement park?

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/birdnapped/

Moltencheese · 22/03/2026 07:16

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:53

Ours was that someone bit into a McChicken burger and thought it was mayonnaise but it was an abscess on the chicken that burst 🙈 Fell for so much shit when I was younger 🤣

I remember that one

and one about someone buying a Doberman puppy in a pub, taking it to the vets because it wasn’t eating dog food and it turned out to be a Black and Tan guinea pig. Love that one.

cottingleyfairy · 22/03/2026 07:17

I’m a HCP and have been told countless times about the elderly, toothless patient from whom a nurse accepted and ate some Brazil nuts, only to be later told by the patient that he had sucked the chocolate off them.

Moltencheese · 22/03/2026 07:19

Oh and about someone who had a party trick of putting a snooker ball in their mouth, but one day did the cue ball instead (which is either bigger or smaller I can’t remember) and then either had to have all their front teeth out or died… I can’t remember the ending

Toottooot · 22/03/2026 07:19

Lutz Pfannenstiel ‘borrowed’ a penguin.

OneCoralGoose · 22/03/2026 07:21

StingLikeA · 21/03/2026 23:09

I think it was a friend or their sister or something? So not them directly (I guess it never is!). I did really cringe for them which is why I'm wondering if I should have saved them from repeating it to someone else!

Its unlikely she is the one. Involved but multiple penguins have been stolen from zoos. And if she said something smaller chicks and ducking get robbed from pet farms daily.

firstofallimadelight · 22/03/2026 07:26

IAmKerplunk · 22/03/2026 00:40

Ooh wasn’t there one about a snake that laid up next to its owner to check it could eat it? Think I believed that one as a teen too 🤦🏽‍♀️

I saw that one recently on insta so scary

DejaMooo · 22/03/2026 07:26

HelpMeGetThrough · 22/03/2026 06:42

His knackers must have been the size of the rugby ball for that to happen.

Yeah, well, obviously it wasn’t true, hence me feeling stupid. What can I say, I was young and gullible and the guy was a former paramedic who told a convincing story. 😆

firstofallimadelight · 22/03/2026 07:27

I remember the KFC one except it was a mouse not a rat and the spider one!

thewonderfulmrswatson · 22/03/2026 07:29

In primary school back in the 90s, one girl said her and her sister said "the candyman" three times into a mirror and he appeared in it and started slashing her.
Absolute bollocks obviously but a few believed her.

youbizarrehorse · 22/03/2026 07:36

Aw, don’t say anything. It can make people feel a bit shit. I can be quite gullible I must admit. I’m not stupid (I don’t think😆) but I do tend to take things at face value a lot. I’ve showed DP quite a few videos, only to have hm say ‘That’s AI. It’s really obvious.’ Not to me apparently. I suppose his scathing comments have helped me spot fake stuff. But it makes me feel very small. Maybe I’m too sensitive.