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Airbnb host refusing to send AirPods without me paying?

302 replies

moryn · 17/03/2026 16:31

Recently got back from a short break in Paris.

I left my AirPods on the bed, the host refuses to send them back unless I pay £50 plus postage.

AIBU to think this is ridiculous?

OP posts:
AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 18/03/2026 18:19

catipuss · 18/03/2026 17:15

How much are they worth? I agree if someone has to go and retrieve them, insure, pack and post it will cost a bit. Of course they may have 'gone' if the b&b/hotel/airbnb/etc was immediately re-let.

To be honest, if the Air BnB host happened to stumble across this thread and saw what a terrible, scammy person they supposedly were for doing a time-consuming task for a stranger and charging for it, they'd probably wish they'd just said they hadn't found the lost item in their property, so it must have been lost/put/left elsewhere, accidentally binned, taken by a subsequent guest or whatever - whether that was true or not.

Tryagain26 · 18/03/2026 18:19

sunsetsites · 17/03/2026 16:33

They aren’t really responsible for posting anything back to you.

No but a £50 charge on top of postage is unreasonable!

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 18/03/2026 18:27

FastFood · 18/03/2026 18:06

Well I'm actually parisian so yes I know, mailboxes and post-offices are everywhere.

I have never lived more than 5mins walk from a post-office and 1min away from a mailbox.

£50 is extortion.

But the host may not live anywhere near Paris - and be reliant on contractors to do everything necessary to get the place ready for handover to the next guests. Factoring in a fee for cleaning each time, or for arranging major repair works is a predictable part of the standard balance sheet; but if they have a standard call-out fee for every time they have to attend, if numerous guests end up leaving items and wanting them to be posted back to them, that could easily be the difference between making a modest profit (or breaking even to keep the asset going) and making an actual loss over the year.

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 18/03/2026 18:37

Tryagain26 · 18/03/2026 18:19

No but a £50 charge on top of postage is unreasonable!

You can take it or leave it, though, you aren't forced to pay: if the cost is not worth it to you of getting your item back, you're perfectly at liberty to tell them to just keep/bin/get rid of it.

I've been called smug on here for saying so, but it really is why taking two minutes to glance over the whole place just before you leave is basic common sense and part and parcel of staying in holiday/temporary accommodation. Everybody knows that Airpods are both tiny and valuable, so why it wouldn't automatically occur to you to put them somewhere unmissable on your last night absolutely baffles me.

vickylou78 · 18/03/2026 18:58

£50 seems steep but I guess if they don't live in Paris they may have to pay an employee overtime (the cleaner maybe) to package and label and go to the post office etc.

ScreentimeInTheMeantime · 18/03/2026 19:01

£50 seems a bit steep

Could understand charging an admin if explained eg “it’ll be £30 which represents an hour of my property manger’s time”

NemesisInferior · 18/03/2026 19:25

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 18/03/2026 18:12

I and several others have clearly described how long it would/could take to complete all the tasks needed to post a restricted hazardous item to somebody in a foreign country; so if you're still insisting that it's a job that only takes anybody a couple of minutes, it sounds like you're only just proving what I said. You may as well claim that going and doing a month's worth of family food shopping at the supermarket takes no longer than the time it takes to stick your bank card in the machine and press five buttons to pay for it.

I don't recall which poster said about it taking 3 working days - however that clearly doesn't mean that it actually takes 22.5 hours nonstop to do something, but just that a normally busy person might not have chance and the available free time to do a random errand as a favour for a stranger for three days... which is actually quite a short lead time, I would say.

I'm presuming that most people don't have lives and livelihoods with nothing whatsoever going on, with them just waiting to be given a random errand to do to bring a bit of excitement to their long empty hours.

No, you and others came up with a ridiculous justification for charging £50 for a job that most people would 1) do for free because that's just the nice thing to do and 2) can do in about 10 minutes flat. Other people do have busy lives and yet most people manage to nip to the postbox without it being akin to a trip up Everest.

Airpods aren't restricted, by the way, by La Poste or indeed by most or indeed all couriers. The issue comes with Li batteries that are not connected/ incorporated into a device and this isn't the case here.

If I was OP I would tell the host to do one and buy a new pair rather than let them profit off something like this, because that is all it is.

RawBloomers · 18/03/2026 19:33

most people would 1) do for free because that's just the nice thing to do

These things aren't done for free. When the owner doesn't charge, the costs either come out of their profits or are folded into the rental price and shared out amoung all renters, whether they leave things behind or not.

Summer23 · 18/03/2026 20:26

Poor response from the host without explaining the reason for the £50 fee.

Winemeup · 18/03/2026 20:40

As others have mentioned it’s just not a matter of nipping to the post office. This is an EU to non-EU shipment and has extra paperwork and customs charges

Lmnop22 · 18/03/2026 20:42

Itsafactitsactual · 17/03/2026 16:36

Well how much of their time would be involved in doing this? Would they have to spend time travelling to the AirBnB and then time to the shop for postage supplies then time to the post office, parking maybe, plus home again. Is the post office even open outside their working hours. Honestly the whole thing is a pain in the arse. It's always the people wanting the favour that play down how much work is involved.

Edited

£50 for an envelope and a trip to the local post office?? 🫣

Lmnop22 · 18/03/2026 20:42

Winemeup · 18/03/2026 20:40

As others have mentioned it’s just not a matter of nipping to the post office. This is an EU to non-EU shipment and has extra paperwork and customs charges

Edited

Why?

Granddama · 18/03/2026 20:42

£50!!!! Flipping heck! It might be time and effort but fifty quid!! What has happened to goodwill, and kindness? A jiffy bag, address and post whilst shopping. Agreed postage a a small gratuity, but they really ar trying it on!

Winemeup · 18/03/2026 20:59

Lmnop22 · 18/03/2026 20:42

Why?

Why is there extra paperwork ? There was a small thing called Brexit. That’s why

From the France post website:
Customs declaration forms, accurate descriptions, and commodity codes are mandatory for all shipments post-Brexit.

Pinkissmart · 18/03/2026 21:01

Londonrach1 · 17/03/2026 16:35

Yabu. Tbh you lucky they offering to do this. The £50 will be time, petrol, staff wages and packaging.

Doesn’t take £50

They are being dicks. Of course they should charge postage, but an extra £50? Nah. They are in a business where people frequently leave things. They shouldn’t be so rigid

Reliablesource · 18/03/2026 21:02

moryn · 17/03/2026 16:31

Recently got back from a short break in Paris.

I left my AirPods on the bed, the host refuses to send them back unless I pay £50 plus postage.

AIBU to think this is ridiculous?

Tough. Be more careful with your belongings. You expect the owner to go to the ballache of : buying a padded envelope, packing the pods, going to the post office, queuing for 15 mins in the post office and spending time communicating with you about the whole thing?

£50 is steep but he/she is probably fed up to the back teeth with guests leaving stuff behind and wanting it returned.

Thechaseison71 · 18/03/2026 21:07

KuanKaKu · 17/03/2026 16:40

Imagine every guest does this...how many extra hours will they spend packaging and posting every lost item...

Like 30 seconds to pop them into a small jiffy bag and 2 mins to book a courier to collect them? £50 seems a bit of a pisstake

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 18/03/2026 21:13

f1mercedesfan · 17/03/2026 16:35

I can understand the postage but not the extra £50 on top

Me too. I think £50 is really expwsive. Rey are obviously on the make and want to keep them

CraftedInIreland · 18/03/2026 21:44

Londonrach1 · 17/03/2026 16:35

Yabu. Tbh you lucky they offering to do this. The £50 will be time, petrol, staff wages and packaging.

£50? Plus postage? - behave!

fetchacloth · 18/03/2026 22:12

At least the hotel is willing to send these back to you.
The last hotel chain I worked in, we only offered to return property if the guest was living in the UK and we had to receive full payment for the postage from the guest before returning the property. We weren't allowed to return anything outside of the UK.

noodlebugz · 18/03/2026 22:21

£50 seems pretty expensive - like they’re being held to ransom.

The figure my brain went to is £20 plus postage. Deters people from asking for daft stuff back but if it’s important you’d pay, but it’s an amount you can probably afford to pay without it affecting you too much.

FasterMichelin · 19/03/2026 12:25

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 18/03/2026 08:06

So if the hosts don't live anywhere nearby, should the staff who end up having to organise the return be expected to do it unpaid?

And how is it 'awful service' when it was never part of the agreed deal in the first place? That's like me leaving a bad review for my MoT garage because, although they did all of the car stuff well and efficiently as agreed, they wouldn't also make me some sandwiches and bring them over to me a week later!

It’s their problem for running a business remotely! No one’s forced them to profitise from a property that’s hours away from where they live. It’s a business, and good customer service would be to arrange the return of goods without charging unnecessarily high costs.

Arlanymor · 19/03/2026 14:52

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 18:49

Im confused! that charge would be in addition to the £50, why would the cost of postage change the £50?

I was explaining how sending lithium battery products from Europe to the UK is very expensive. Not how it literally applies to this situation, I don't know if the French Air BnB has asked for quotes. So I can't answer that question, obviously.

busymomtoone · 19/03/2026 17:03

Postage is ridiculously expensive - I posted a flimsy scarf to France and paid £18 to send it registered / insured - I’m assuming that’s what the Airbnb owner will intend to do. They will need packaging and taking to a post office - which is all a huge faff. Frankly you left them behind - it would be a lovely gesture if the owner only charged you for postage - but with time , nuisance and hassle involved I’m not at all surprised that they are charging £50. Imagine if every guest staying carelessly left items behind?!

igelkott2026 · 19/03/2026 17:05

PineconeBiscuits · 17/03/2026 16:39

Imagine how many customers leave their belongings behind by accident? Are they just supposed to spend all their time posting belongings all over the world for free? They're trying to run a business.
I presume they're charging for their time.

They're charging over the odds already. However, I hate queuing in post offices so I have a certain amount of sympathy with their position.

Maybe send a stamped addressed envelope OP and then they can just post them to you?

Edited: I didn't realise it was overseas. That might make it a bigger job.