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To have been “racially” profiled by HR

496 replies

Donotfitin · 16/03/2026 10:10

I don’t have a British name (like at all), so HR assumed I needed a right to work code, so asked for one, rather than asking if I was a citizen or not.

As a UK citizen I only need to provide my passport, so the whole thing took me completely by surprise!

Its the first time in my whole life that it was assumed that I wasn’t a citizen. I’ve

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Megifer · 16/03/2026 11:14

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 16/03/2026 11:09

I’m white. With a “British” name. I’ve been asked this.
It’s just a box to tick.

Did you have a share code to give them?

youalright · 16/03/2026 11:15

Why do people look for things to be offended about these days. Like what do you gain apart from winding yourself up

SidekickSylvia · 16/03/2026 11:16

SeekOIt · 16/03/2026 10:45

So just tell them you don't have or need a share code, you have a British passport and here's the copy..

That's what I would do, then I wouldn't give it another thought.

But... I don't consider that being assumed to be Not British is insulting and offensive.

EasternStandard · 16/03/2026 11:18

Waterbaby41 · 16/03/2026 11:04

Obviously not the job for you. Move on.

Not sure I’d kick out a job at the stage the op is at over what could be an error.

A post on mn sure, people are agreeing it’s not great but a job is hard to come by these days.

What will you do op?

RosesAndHellebores · 16/03/2026 11:21

If you have a British passport they would still have to make an appointment to meet you on screen for the identity/imposter check if they had never met you, even if you had oresented your original passport to an interviewer.

The external id checkers do this as well as providing proof of share code and I think it avoids having to pitch up in person.

The HR department are not working according to best practice but racism is a leap, I think. Rather than starting on a stroppy foot, lean into it and find out what needs to be done for a British Citizen and perhaps very gently suggest the email could be clearer.

Probably a very junior member of admin staff trying to clear a huge backlog of pre-employment checks and to make sure everything is done in time for your start date.

If the employer holds a sponsorship licence they will be paranoid about their record keeping.

I think you are seeing offence where none was intended.

BruisedNeckMeat · 16/03/2026 11:22

The most likely thing from what you’ve described is that they have made an assumption, based on your name and asked for the wrong thing.

I guess you can either make a huge fuss and get someone into trouble or accept that people make mistakes which can be annoying and get on with your day.

MyDeftDuck · 16/03/2026 11:23

Very presumptuous of your HR department….. up to you whether you make a formal complaint or not. Alternatively, send an email back to the HR head of department and recommend some in-house training for the HR team.

Weeklyreport · 16/03/2026 11:23

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 16/03/2026 11:09

I’m white. With a “British” name. I’ve been asked this.
It’s just a box to tick.

What exactly have you been asked for? Because if its proof of rtw, rather than explicitly being asking for your share code, then that's different to the OP's issue.

OVienna · 16/03/2026 11:23

No one is really listening to the OP.

Yes, OP, it was stupid and a gaffe on their part to ask for only the share code, not just proof of the right to work in the UK.

I do think it is a reasonable learning point for the HR practitioner who did this to understand how it might come across and understand why it's important to phrase the request in an alternative way.

I would want to know if a member of my team had did this.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 16/03/2026 11:24

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 16/03/2026 11:09

I’m white. With a “British” name. I’ve been asked this.
It’s just a box to tick.

You've been asked for a share code specifically rather than asked to provide proof of right to work which could be a passport or a share code depending on status?

Lamelie · 16/03/2026 11:25

Ariela · 16/03/2026 10:57

We check everyone too. You have to be so careful these days to ensure right to work. We say 'Please provide proof of your right to work in UK.'

Which isn’t what happened. 🙄

youalright · 16/03/2026 11:26

MyDeftDuck · 16/03/2026 11:23

Very presumptuous of your HR department….. up to you whether you make a formal complaint or not. Alternatively, send an email back to the HR head of department and recommend some in-house training for the HR team.

This will go down great as a new hire. Great advice

Lamelie · 16/03/2026 11:26

SidekickSylvia · 16/03/2026 11:16

That's what I would do, then I wouldn't give it another thought.

But... I don't consider that being assumed to be Not British is insulting and offensive.

Does being assumed not British happen to you?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 16/03/2026 11:27

crumpet · 16/03/2026 11:14

I also had to confirm my right to work in the UK as part of the recruitment process. am British.

Sure, that's reasonable. However, unless you were only asked for the share code rather than being asked for proof of rtw then that's a completely different situation.

Megifer · 16/03/2026 11:28

Op i think id message back that you dont have a code, but you do have a passport you can provide per UK RTW checks.

Id expect the person would feel pretty sheepish and wouldnt make that mistake again anyway.

RosesAndHellebores · 16/03/2026 11:28

OVienna · 16/03/2026 11:23

No one is really listening to the OP.

Yes, OP, it was stupid and a gaffe on their part to ask for only the share code, not just proof of the right to work in the UK.

I do think it is a reasonable learning point for the HR practitioner who did this to understand how it might come across and understand why it's important to phrase the request in an alternative way.

I would want to know if a member of my team had did this.

Gosh, if we're talking learning points, I'd want to know if a member of my team had done it.

@Donotfitin improvement is clearly needed but do try not to go in all guns blazing before your first day. My team would draw it to my attention, I'd implement improvements but I would also note your tone and whether you brought it up collaboratively or confrontationally.

OVienna · 16/03/2026 11:29

I think if @Donotfitin just says: "Sorry, not sure what you mean by a share code is, but here is my passport." she will get her point across in a way that isn't outright insulting to the HR team and provides the information they need.

PigletJohn · 16/03/2026 11:33

OVienna · 16/03/2026 11:29

I think if @Donotfitin just says: "Sorry, not sure what you mean by a share code is, but here is my passport." she will get her point across in a way that isn't outright insulting to the HR team and provides the information they need.

Or she could be less subservient and say "I am a British Citizen so I do not have a share code. Would you like to see my passport?"

There is no need to spare their blushes by pretending not to know exactly what they mean.

Happyjoe · 16/03/2026 11:34

I think with the recent reporting on the hidden economy and the gov seeing to be doing something about it (even if not much), I presume companies are now being asked? At least I would much prefer that to be the reason why.

MrsMoastyToasty · 16/03/2026 11:35

Is it a share code for a DBS certificate?
its pretty standard for most UK employers irrespective of whether they are born in the UK or not. Some will pay for it and some leave it to the employee to obtain.

PigletJohn · 16/03/2026 11:35

Happyjoe · 16/03/2026 11:34

I think with the recent reporting on the hidden economy and the gov seeing to be doing something about it (even if not much), I presume companies are now being asked? At least I would much prefer that to be the reason why.

They asked the wrong question.

Shinyhappyapple · 16/03/2026 11:36

CoffeeCakeAndALattePlease · 16/03/2026 10:19

Some places do this for ALL employees…. My work asked me and I’m a white British citizen.

I do some interviews and checks and have to ask everyone.

Yes. I worked in public service and we had to do this - even when changing department within the wider organisation. They did explain this being because the procedure wouldn’t have been in place when many people joined originally.

Megifer · 16/03/2026 11:36

Happyjoe · 16/03/2026 11:34

I think with the recent reporting on the hidden economy and the gov seeing to be doing something about it (even if not much), I presume companies are now being asked? At least I would much prefer that to be the reason why.

Right to work checks have been in place for around 30 years. Ops point isnt that she was asked to provide her right to work.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 16/03/2026 11:37

I’d be interested what they ask other employees for.

Scout2016 · 16/03/2026 11:37

I would be tempted to just reply and say thanks but you don't have a code.

Hopefully they will twig their error and then ask about your passport, and not reply making things worse by telling you you need a code.

Sorry OP, if this is a new job it's not the start you'd want.