Just had a baby 2 weeks ago so I don’t know whether I’m being too hormonal here. DP stayed up drinking last night so this morning I still got up with the kids etc. but he did come down and do half the breakfast before going back up for a nap, and he’d left a present on the table. After waking up (about 2 hours later) he then tidied whilst I dealt with the kids all day (and then he went to take his kids to a relatives house an hour away as they were all going out for a family meal. He was gone for around 4 hours because he apparently went to the shops and then stopped at the pub on the way back to watch football.
AIBU to be annoyed about this? He’s not a big celebration guy so I suppose I shouldn’t be annoyed that he didn’t put much effort in on Mother’s Day. And I don’t know whether that’s partially what’s wrong, as baby has been unsettled all day so dealing with a toddler as well has been a bit stressful, especially bedtime and cooking with baby crying the whole time. And I do generally make a big deal of occasions so I was probably a bit sad that my day has felt harder work than normal with him not really present.
I had to ask him where he’d been as well as he strolled in and said nothing. And he is now pissed off at me as he thinks I’m checking up on him and doesn’t understand why it matters that I didn’t know he was doing a couple of ‘pit stops’. So AIBU here and just being too sensitive? He’s currently now in a mood with me and I’m sat here crying like a possible idiot and I can’t tell!