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Why is maternity leave from work 1 year but from UC it is 2 years?

223 replies

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:36

this isn’t a benefit bashing thread, I believe that people should claim what they’re entitled too. I just don’t understand why all mothered aren’t entitled to the same amount of time off with their children.

I’m currently on maternity leave, and obviously we have up to a year off work.

i was just wondering why parents in UC don’t have to look for work until their baby is 2?

But why doesn’t the government make maternity leave 2 years, so that all mums can spend an equal time with their children before returning to work?

there’s 30 free hours from 9 months now, so there’s really no excuse mums of UC to not have to look for work at age 1, the age when working mums return to work by?

Obviously I know it would differ between SMP/OMP/unpaid part of mat leave, but even if the extra year was unpaid some working mums would be able to take it!

OP posts:
MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 20:53

SanctyMoanyArse · 14/03/2026 20:37

Don't get me wrong, I'm not slagging off the devolved governments. I actually don't agree with any parent being pushed to put a 9 month old baby into childcare and get back into full time work - yes they should have the choice, but it should be a choice. I have no issue at all if the devolved governments choose to spend money elsewhere instead of on trumpeting an underfunded childcare policy!

My mum had me when she was at uni. When her marriage ended she came back to her home town. We lived in a homeless unit for a while and then moved in with my mum's parents. My mum then tried to get a council house and was told no because my dad who had never lived in our area might want a house here -then she was told by a housing officer that if she fucked him she would get a house

The reason that I am not down on single parents who get UC. Is because of how he hard my mum had it

No UC back then. If there had been life would have have been easier

My dad has another family he cares and provides for btw -just not us. He's rich and he got away with paying my mum 2 quid a week

Coffeeandbooks88 · 14/03/2026 20:56

Pickledonion1999 · 14/03/2026 17:04

Yes it's poor for single people but others get thousands a month. Why shouldn't benefits be taxed if they get above the tax threshold. We've become a nation of mugs to let this current situation continue for so long.

Edited

Mainly if they have a disabled child or disability or high rent. Mainly disability though.

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 20:59

So if UC helps lift people out of poverty. I applaud it. Better than my rich feckless cunt of a dad who didn't care about me and let my mum struggle knowing she was struggling -He just walked away from us.

Btw. I didn't mean to offend anyone. This thread has just touched a raw nerve

Btw. I got in touch with my dad when I was 16 and he told me to fuck the fuck off as he has another family. So he really didn't care on every level

Night

Tinychihuahua · 14/03/2026 21:01

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:40

I think it should be equal for all parents. Either 1 year for all or 2 for all. Why is there a difference depending on if you work or not?

what do you mean, why?
Because the working mums need to be working to pay for the UC mums’ UC. That’s why.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 14/03/2026 21:04

Tinychihuahua · 14/03/2026 21:01

what do you mean, why?
Because the working mums need to be working to pay for the UC mums’ UC. That’s why.

Doubt they pay enough tax to cover it.

Isekaied · 14/03/2026 21:05

Overthebow · 14/03/2026 10:43

I agree op, it should be up to 1 or 2 years for all. If the government will pay for those on UC to have 2 years, they should pay SMP for those working to have 2 years.

Agree

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 21:07

Coffeeandbooks88 · 14/03/2026 20:56

Mainly if they have a disabled child or disability or high rent. Mainly disability though.

Or both

Velumental · 14/03/2026 21:08

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:36

this isn’t a benefit bashing thread, I believe that people should claim what they’re entitled too. I just don’t understand why all mothered aren’t entitled to the same amount of time off with their children.

I’m currently on maternity leave, and obviously we have up to a year off work.

i was just wondering why parents in UC don’t have to look for work until their baby is 2?

But why doesn’t the government make maternity leave 2 years, so that all mums can spend an equal time with their children before returning to work?

there’s 30 free hours from 9 months now, so there’s really no excuse mums of UC to not have to look for work at age 1, the age when working mums return to work by?

Obviously I know it would differ between SMP/OMP/unpaid part of mat leave, but even if the extra year was unpaid some working mums would be able to take it!

Take a second year off and make a UC claim if you're convinced it's a better deal.

bittertwisted · 14/03/2026 21:08

SurelyNotShirley · 14/03/2026 10:45

This is such an ignorant and tone-deaf post, I don't even know where to start.

Yet another woman bashing women because of how the system works.

No - Your employer is not going to pay you for more than a year...to not work. You chose that situation, nobody else chose it for you. You know how MA works. Other women not looking for work when their child turns 1 will not be in the same situation as you. I'm guessing you have a partner who supports you in life? Not all women have that. Educate yourself before you speak.

Another crass post from the world of Mumsnet. Shock horror.

So if you have a job to go back to your children are less important than those of a mum on UC?
what a pathetic, ill thought out argument

Worriemim · 14/03/2026 21:10

PollyBell · 14/03/2026 10:38

Because being a parent is a lifestyle choice not a community service

@PollyBell hence the OP’s question 🤦🏼‍♀️

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 21:12

Don't you think it's just easier to live and let live

I'm completely sick of benefits bashing. And btw. I bet not every mum on UC sits and does nothing until their child turns three

Smacks of. I'm superwoman. I did three jobs when my child was ten weeks old and and went to uni and meal prepared. Good for you. Some women don't have supportive partners

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 21:15

bittertwisted · 14/03/2026 21:08

So if you have a job to go back to your children are less important than those of a mum on UC?
what a pathetic, ill thought out argument

No one said that. The OP has a job and a supportive partner. Many women don't

But this is Mumsnet where everyone has two parents and good jobs and a lovely life where people on UC are looked at as scum. Even if they work

Viviennemary · 14/03/2026 21:58

The circumstances are differerent. The employed person has a job to go back to. An unemployed person doesn't. I think the present system is perfectly fair and very generous

Usernamechanging · 14/03/2026 22:03

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:40

I think it should be equal for all parents. Either 1 year for all or 2 for all. Why is there a difference depending on if you work or not?

Many people on UC are in work. You know that, right?

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 14/03/2026 22:14

batt3nb3rg · 14/03/2026 20:43

Because that financial support would be better directed at aiding intact families and encouraging childbearing in the optimal conditions, which we know to be two married parents where one does not work until their child has reached school age at minimum. Single parenting causes a myriad of social issues and shoul be strongly discouraged as a lifestyle choice.

ODFOD

slopeyj · 14/03/2026 22:31

Simply wouldn’t work for businesses - keeping a job open for two years, trying to keep the role filled with temp hires etc And not to be an AI bore, but many jobs will transform in two years, not being present to learn the skills needed would be so detrimental to the individual. Yet another headache for working mums looking to take time out.

ItTook9Years · 14/03/2026 22:39

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 20:32

We don't just follow Westminster. How is it that if you live in Scotland you can do a degree part time. For nothing. Same in Wales and NI but not in England

I know. I was responding to the suggestion that what England does, everyone should do. I don’t agree.

sunshinestar1986 · 14/03/2026 23:00

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:40

I think it should be equal for all parents. Either 1 year for all or 2 for all. Why is there a difference depending on if you work or not?

You too have the option on going on a lower income and staying at home with your baby.
I really don't get the, 'if I'm suffering in this way, everyone else should too.
When I was a single mother with my first,
No way I could've worked until my daughter was 4,
Simple as that
First 3 years she was constantly having colds and that meant nursery kept calling me and I was only studying so college and university was a lot more understanding than work would've been.
I had zero support from family or anyone else.
When she started reception She started breakfast club and after school club so was able to work between the hours of 9-5.
Luckily by then she barely had a day of school.
So whereas you have the option to quit work and become a single mother
I certainly did not have the ability to work

Thechaseison71 · 14/03/2026 23:03

Bucdynovehbkfdg · 14/03/2026 10:40

I think it should be equal for all parents. Either 1 year for all or 2 for all. Why is there a difference depending on if you work or not?

Ok but then that would mean that the 2 years were at UC rate which would usually be lower than company ML pay. And you'd get less if your partner works

So would you be happy with that?

Newyearawaits · 14/03/2026 23:27

Unnecessary sarcastic response.
For those people who are solo parenting without support, I really feel for them.
Important to acknowledge that there are people who choose to have children and claim uc as single parents whilst being supported by the state. Very important that there is a welfare state to support those in need.
I am aware of several people claiming to be single parents when in reality, they are cohabiting, thereby abusing the system.
I am friendly with a lady who has had 3 children, claiming uc as a single parent, whilst the children's father has a separate residence. M
Let's not pretend this isn't happening.
As OP has said, this isn't a benefit bashing thread, it's about the differences in maternity leave.
I think that's a reasonable point.

Pryceosh1987 · 14/03/2026 23:55

I suppose it depends in the cirumstances.

figsandstars · 15/03/2026 12:08

PollyBell · 14/03/2026 10:38

Because being a parent is a lifestyle choice not a community service

It quite literally is a community service, these children are your future taxpayers who will pay your state pension one day. No children = no state pension. And that’s just one benefit to the community.

SeekOIt · 15/03/2026 13:30

MauvePombear · 14/03/2026 20:13

I don't care. Please go away. Go away. I explained that some people get extra money because they have severely disabled children. I got extra money due to a life changing accident

Even people who get thousands might need it due to disabilities for them or for their kids
See how you feel when you have an accident that means you can't walk for over a year and then get back to me

I think you are very lacking in comprehension skills... If you're getting thousands in benefits then you should be taxed on them is what that poster is saying. So you don't agree with that? That's fine. But again....the poster wasn't talking about you.

Rosesculinaryskils · 15/03/2026 13:41

Pickledonion1999 · 14/03/2026 17:04

Yes it's poor for single people but others get thousands a month. Why shouldn't benefits be taxed if they get above the tax threshold. We've become a nation of mugs to let this current situation continue for so long.

Edited

It should be a set amount per person. No extras such as housing. Easier to administer.

Rosesculinaryskils · 15/03/2026 13:43

figsandstars · 15/03/2026 12:08

It quite literally is a community service, these children are your future taxpayers who will pay your state pension one day. No children = no state pension. And that’s just one benefit to the community.

Ok. But children of benefit parents should not be given an option of benefits. After all you and many others say they will be tax payers.

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