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AIBU to question criticism of a female MP’s outfit in maiden speech?

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Browningpers · 13/03/2026 20:52

Spectator article asking whether Hannah Spencer’s outfit detracted from her maiden speech. Seen similar elsewhere too.

I can’t ever recall the same being asked of a male politician.

Article by a woman too.

AIBU?

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Cloudysky81 · 15/03/2026 10:25

The cynic in me makes me think she deliberately chose an outfit which would have her criticised by the right wing, generating publicity.

It wasn’t bad, just very colourful which makes it stand out in politics.

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 10:27

sadmillenial · 15/03/2026 00:36

Is wearing a colourful scalloped waistcoat with another colourful shirt somehow unprofessional?
is it more or less unprofessional than a previous PM not tucking his shirt in or brushing his hair??
I know which one i feel projects disrespect, and its not the former...

I dont think anyone who actually cares about MPs doing their job cares about what they are wearing.

And anyone pretending this is important has a (not very well hidden) alternate agenda to belittle women with left-leaning political beliefs.

Caroline Lucas, Diane Abbott, Rachel Reeves, Yvette Cooper and many other left female politicians dress professionally and appropriately.

A MP votes on decisions that may cost lives or severely impact livelihoods. It’s not just a corporate job. It’s running a country. It’s statesmanship. She is not going to approve a marketing budget or a new inkjet supplier, it’s one very serious notch above.

Would you like for her to attend your wedding in a dirty tracksuit or to show up to your parents funeral dressed in sequinned pink, or to vote for or against war looking as if she spent serious time picking an outfit?

Some events, some circumstances require a bit of gravitas. HoC is one of these.

And why is so crucial that women need to dress to express their sense of style at work? You’re not there to seduce or to be yourself, you’re there to get the job done.

Even if they don’t dress for the male gaze anymore, they still dress for the gaze somehow, they still show the world that they place an inordinate amount of attention and value on their looks, like the patriarchy wants them to.

If you can’t be in the world without being dressed one way or the other, may it be like a TA on a sugar high and a Popsy addiction, or like one of Trump’s dolls in bodycon dresses, high heels, and Botox, or if you need a face full of makeup before you go out, you re not the free agent, feminist spirit you think you are.

I suppose you’re all young, brought up on social media, the dictatorship of appearance, told to bring your best self to work, made to center everything around yourself and your feelings (peddled to you as agency and autonomy), and a total ignorance of civic duty.

quantumbutterfly · 15/03/2026 10:29

mrswomblesbusy · 15/03/2026 10:24

That says a lot more about them than her.

Her campaign literature exhorted voters to "Punish Labour for Gaza", so I'm not sure what they think she will achieve on their behalf ?

That's disappointing. Perhaps she's more about division than unity after all. She won't be the first politician to say what people want to hear to get themselves elected.

sadmillenial · 15/03/2026 10:31

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 10:27

Caroline Lucas, Diane Abbott, Rachel Reeves, Yvette Cooper and many other left female politicians dress professionally and appropriately.

A MP votes on decisions that may cost lives or severely impact livelihoods. It’s not just a corporate job. It’s running a country. It’s statesmanship. She is not going to approve a marketing budget or a new inkjet supplier, it’s one very serious notch above.

Would you like for her to attend your wedding in a dirty tracksuit or to show up to your parents funeral dressed in sequinned pink, or to vote for or against war looking as if she spent serious time picking an outfit?

Some events, some circumstances require a bit of gravitas. HoC is one of these.

And why is so crucial that women need to dress to express their sense of style at work? You’re not there to seduce or to be yourself, you’re there to get the job done.

Even if they don’t dress for the male gaze anymore, they still dress for the gaze somehow, they still show the world that they place an inordinate amount of attention and value on their looks, like the patriarchy wants them to.

If you can’t be in the world without being dressed one way or the other, may it be like a TA on a sugar high and a Popsy addiction, or like one of Trump’s dolls in bodycon dresses, high heels, and Botox, or if you need a face full of makeup before you go out, you re not the free agent, feminist spirit you think you are.

I suppose you’re all young, brought up on social media, the dictatorship of appearance, told to bring your best self to work, made to center everything around yourself and your feelings (peddled to you as agency and autonomy), and a total ignorance of civic duty.

well this got weird quickly, lol

I'm in my 40s, im not "young", i just dont think a working MP should be judged by colourful clothing. I really dont see that it impacts her work.

Thechateau · 15/03/2026 10:36

She looked fine, what she was wearing was actually pretty smart, just more colourful than we're used to. And I am not a supporter of the Green party

watchingthishtread · 15/03/2026 10:38

If she was a man I think the colour choice would have also raised questions although I suspect it would be a considerably shorter article as an aside to what 'he' was saying rather than over shadowing it.

AIBU to question criticism of a female MP’s outfit in maiden speech?
crackofdoom · 15/03/2026 10:39

FaceEatingLeopard · 13/03/2026 22:27

This is the look all the frothing beserkers are getting their tits in a twist about? Seriously? This? With shit flying all over the world, lunatics in charge left, right and centre and the continued belittling of women for any or no reason and this is what's upsetting you? Speechless.

That photo had me wondering if they'd planned their outfits together beforehand, because magenta, lime green and royal blue made for a stunning colour combination.

Probably a coincidence, but it's lovely to see such a blast of colour in our increasingly greige world.

crackofdoom · 15/03/2026 10:40

watchingthishtread · 15/03/2026 10:38

If she was a man I think the colour choice would have also raised questions although I suspect it would be a considerably shorter article as an aside to what 'he' was saying rather than over shadowing it.

God I would love it if male MPs dressed like that!

Dweetfidilove · 15/03/2026 10:43

I comment on men and women.
She looks ridiculous, and almost as untidy as Boris.

Folks were commenting on Marco Rubio's ill-fitting shoes this week too 🤷🏾‍♀️.

Wolmando · 15/03/2026 10:44

She still didn't manage to look as much as a sight as Angela Rayner did in that green trouser thing she wore.

mrswomblesbusy · 15/03/2026 10:49

Wolmando · 15/03/2026 10:44

She still didn't manage to look as much as a sight as Angela Rayner did in that green trouser thing she wore.

Whahey!
Kermit the Frog for Deputy Leader of the Labour Party !

quantumbutterfly · 15/03/2026 10:51

Wolmando · 15/03/2026 10:44

She still didn't manage to look as much as a sight as Angela Rayner did in that green trouser thing she wore.

Interestingly I think Hannah is more conventionally attractive than Ange, and that is something where women are still more unfairly judged than men. Weirdly, a lot of politicians found domineering Maggie T very attractive...then again Edwina Currie said John Major was very sexy. The eye of the beholder & all that.

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 11:07

sadmillenial · 15/03/2026 10:31

well this got weird quickly, lol

I'm in my 40s, im not "young", i just dont think a working MP should be judged by colourful clothing. I really dont see that it impacts her work.

If you shouldn’t be judged on your clothes and only on your work, which I agree with.

Why spend mental energy and time on them? Why make them part of your professional persona?

This week, the world is in a pretty shaky state, but what visibly mattered to her was to show that she could colour block.

MasterBeth · 15/03/2026 11:17

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 11:07

If you shouldn’t be judged on your clothes and only on your work, which I agree with.

Why spend mental energy and time on them? Why make them part of your professional persona?

This week, the world is in a pretty shaky state, but what visibly mattered to her was to show that she could colour block.

Such a bizarre take.

Do you think this ex-plumber has a wardrobe full of grey corporate business wear that she can just slip into?

Have you not considered that rather than spending lots of mental energy on her outfits, she may have been putting her "best smart clothes" on?

RobinInTheCrabApple · 15/03/2026 11:17

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 10:27

Caroline Lucas, Diane Abbott, Rachel Reeves, Yvette Cooper and many other left female politicians dress professionally and appropriately.

A MP votes on decisions that may cost lives or severely impact livelihoods. It’s not just a corporate job. It’s running a country. It’s statesmanship. She is not going to approve a marketing budget or a new inkjet supplier, it’s one very serious notch above.

Would you like for her to attend your wedding in a dirty tracksuit or to show up to your parents funeral dressed in sequinned pink, or to vote for or against war looking as if she spent serious time picking an outfit?

Some events, some circumstances require a bit of gravitas. HoC is one of these.

And why is so crucial that women need to dress to express their sense of style at work? You’re not there to seduce or to be yourself, you’re there to get the job done.

Even if they don’t dress for the male gaze anymore, they still dress for the gaze somehow, they still show the world that they place an inordinate amount of attention and value on their looks, like the patriarchy wants them to.

If you can’t be in the world without being dressed one way or the other, may it be like a TA on a sugar high and a Popsy addiction, or like one of Trump’s dolls in bodycon dresses, high heels, and Botox, or if you need a face full of makeup before you go out, you re not the free agent, feminist spirit you think you are.

I suppose you’re all young, brought up on social media, the dictatorship of appearance, told to bring your best self to work, made to center everything around yourself and your feelings (peddled to you as agency and autonomy), and a total ignorance of civic duty.

This post has strong incel/manosphere/anti feminist vibes.

Anyone looking for a little balance after this rant might like to look at Hannah's instagram page where you can see her working hard whilst wearing clothes. Contraray to @inkognitha's thinking it is possible to chose and outfit and do a job (be it politics or plumbing). Some women can even walk and chew gum.

https://www.instagram.com/hannahtheplumbermcr/?g=5

Floisme · 15/03/2026 11:18

I suppose you’re all young, brought up on social media, the dictatorship of appearance, told to bring your best self to work, made to center everything around yourself and your feelings (peddled to you as agency and autonomy), and a total ignorance of civic duty.

I'm 69 @inkognitha , retired, not even a Green Party supporter or admirer.

I still like to see people express themselves through their clothes and I think it's particularly interesting when they're trying to juggle their personal style with a serious job. It's a very fine line to walk - I think she managed to stay on it and you don't, but I think the point is that she's reaching people precisely because she doesn't look like a conventional politician.

BlueJuniper94 · 15/03/2026 11:31

@Browningpers Trump got a lot of flack recently for wearing a cap to the funeral of servicemen killed in his war. Both left and right condemned this lack of respect

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 11:44

MasterBeth · 15/03/2026 11:17

Such a bizarre take.

Do you think this ex-plumber has a wardrobe full of grey corporate business wear that she can just slip into?

Have you not considered that rather than spending lots of mental energy on her outfits, she may have been putting her "best smart clothes" on?

@MasterBeth @Floisme @RobinInTheCrabApple

I don’t base my personality on my appearance or my clothes.
I respect the circumstances for which I dress above my feelings.
I care about not giving the signal that women are looks-obsessed and vain to men and the general public.

I firmly disagree that it makes me anti-feminist, quite the opposite.

MunicipalDarwinism · 15/03/2026 12:07

Dweetfidilove · 15/03/2026 10:43

I comment on men and women.
She looks ridiculous, and almost as untidy as Boris.

Folks were commenting on Marco Rubio's ill-fitting shoes this week too 🤷🏾‍♀️.

The story behind Rubio's shoes is why people have been commenting.

Trump has taken to guessing people's shoe size and then sending them shoes which he wants them to wear. It turns out that Trump is not very good at guessing shoe sizes.

Floisme · 15/03/2026 12:18

inkognitha · 15/03/2026 11:44

@MasterBeth @Floisme @RobinInTheCrabApple

I don’t base my personality on my appearance or my clothes.
I respect the circumstances for which I dress above my feelings.
I care about not giving the signal that women are looks-obsessed and vain to men and the general public.

I firmly disagree that it makes me anti-feminist, quite the opposite.

I don’t base my personality on my appearance or my clothes.
You have every right not to do so but some of us prefer to do it differently.

I respect the circumstances for which I dress above my feelings.
So do I. I've said that I think Hannah Spencer is treading a fine line. In my opinion, she pulled it off on this occasion. You don't.

I care about not giving the signal that women are looks-obsessed and vain to men and the general public.
And I care that a love of clothes is so often disparaged and looked down on in a way that other creative interests are not.

I firmly disagree that it makes me anti-feminist, quite the opposite.
I don't think I have said anything of the kind and I don't appreciate the suggestion that I have.

Anyways I think it's time I took a break from this thread. It's going round in circles, as am I.

mrswomblesbusy · 15/03/2026 12:21

MsGreying · 15/03/2026 12:06

Martin Bell wore white suits to make a point.

He was voted in on a "no sleeze" ticket as I recall.

AgentPidge · 15/03/2026 12:30

I thought she looked great. Seeing female politicians wear suits is the norm, but it's not a uniform. I especially don't want to see them tottering around on high heels because it makes them look vulnerable somehow, rather than strong. Same with The Apprentice, where the uniform seems to be body-hugging and tottering.

UniquePinkSwan · 15/03/2026 12:32

Just had a look. She looks like a CBeebies presenter