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Anger at forth coming COL crisis

426 replies

MyCheekyEagle · 09/03/2026 20:27

Of course I understand that the ME war is going to have an impact on oil prices & that will get passed onto the already struggling families; but when things stabilise again & maybe oil prices reset the greedy corporatez never pass this saving back to customers fo they. They just think as we've got used to these new higher prices we'll just keep them there. This thought has given me the rage most of today!
Just needed to vent somewhere, thanks if you listened..

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Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 10/03/2026 08:34

SuzyFandango · 10/03/2026 08:24

Its not that simple.

There's a raft of people (including children) with milder levels of disability that never would have qualified for state support in the past. The criteria have been widened to a point where too many people are eligible.

Then you get a load of people "caring" for these people with "disabilities".

We can't afford to have this many stay at home mums. A chunk of them will be affording to be at home because they are eligible for various benefits (including pip). Pip and DLA are at the root of it because eligibility for those unlock a lot of access to other things - lifting benefit caps etc. Too many people are getting pip & dla.

Isn't Carers allowance something like 60 quid? Hardly worth gaming the system for.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 10/03/2026 08:36

Ihateboris · 10/03/2026 08:32

"No one needs to drink anything else "..oh come on, by that logic, no one NEEDS to eat anything apart from baked beans. No one NEEDS to have anymore than one pair of shoes... .
It's come to something when we are working every hour god sends just to survive on water and gruel.

People can happily survive on non-ultra-processed crap. I do. You get used to it and start enjoying it.

rockinrobins · 10/03/2026 08:37

Helen1625 · 09/03/2026 21:45

You are not alone. It's infuriating. Especially as I've been reading that we could have lower energy bills if we started drilling in the North Sea. Instead, Norway drills, and we buy it back from them at a high rate. There is so much more that could be done to help us, instead they keep bleeding us dry! (Can always find money for some foreign cause or other though!!) Apparently, not content with the rise in fuel costs at the pumps, Ms Reeves is going to increase fuel duty too! I'm sick to the back teeth of working just to keep giving it away on every increasing bloody bills.

"Can always find money for some foreign cause or other though!!"

The UK foreign aid budget has been cut from 0.7% to 0.5% of GNI since 2021, and will likely be cut to 0.3% in 2027 (so more than halved).

Please do not spread misinformation that encourages further hatred and racism. Foreign aid is important and what we do in other countries also impacts our own country and our own lives. We are all connected.

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 10/03/2026 08:38

Ilovemyshed · 10/03/2026 08:01

Its getting ridiculous. Water costs are much more than they were, we are on oil so vulnerable to those price rises and food costs are bonkers.

At the moment we are saving water if we can, we recently filled the oil tank at 59p a litre which will now last to September hopefully, and the freezer and cupboards are pretty full. When that runs out we’ll be struggling.

And you're one of the lucky ones able to stock up, with a freezer and cupboards to fill!

frozendaisy · 10/03/2026 08:39

Ihateboris · 10/03/2026 08:32

"No one needs to drink anything else "..oh come on, by that logic, no one NEEDS to eat anything apart from baked beans. No one NEEDS to have anymore than one pair of shoes... .
It's come to something when we are working every hour god sends just to survive on water and gruel.

I NEED coffee yes it’s an addiction
I don’t care

Thereissnowinmywellies · 10/03/2026 08:41

Cerezo · 10/03/2026 08:05

Are the any actual facts or research to back this up?

The largest benefits bill by far goes to pensioners. Are they the idle beggars you refer to? Or the millions of people on benefits also in full time work so the government can subsidise shit pay in private enterprise?

Which socialist policies have any government in our lifetime put into practice would you describe as rampant?

Most people on here will prpbably be pensioners one day, myself if included, MN will still be blaming pensioners for exsisting. Like they do with regards to the older generation buying their homes, but are only too happy to take a resulting inheritance. 🙄

Chickenlittlesmum · 10/03/2026 08:43

@Clubbiscuit "Billionaires are the problem"

Really ?

The top 25% of income taxpayers will pay more than three quarters (76%) of all income tax this year.
In 2024-25, the top one per cent of income tax payers earned 13.3 per cent of total income and paid 28.2 per cent of income tax. This is up from 22.7 per cent in 2005-06, a full 20 financial years ago.
The top ten per cent of income tax payers earned 35.1 per cent of total income in 2024-25 and paid 60.2 per cent of income tax, up from 52.9 per cent in 2005-06.

35.6 per cent of the adult population paid no income tax at all in 2023-24.

Thereissnowinmywellies · 10/03/2026 08:46

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 10/03/2026 08:38

And you're one of the lucky ones able to stock up, with a freezer and cupboards to fill!

Christ, it's ideas like this when it gets in the public domain starts stupid panic buying. Better to add a few things each week to your shop if you can.
Anyone remember the Great Loo Roll panic? Now that was really stupid.😁

frozendaisy · 10/03/2026 08:47

I think Starmer is a calm steady hand at the helm right now.
At least he understands and respects international law. And so far is refusing to be dragged into the Middle East insanity.

As for the cost of living, we can only buy what we can afford. We have two teens they are the only things I have the bandwidth to worry about, I honestly don’t care how much petrol costs as long as we don’t end up with them being conscripted.

Ihateboris · 10/03/2026 08:48

frozendaisy · 10/03/2026 08:39

I NEED coffee yes it’s an addiction
I don’t care

Me too. .it gives me the energy to go to work!

Maaate · 10/03/2026 08:49

No.
Most pensioners have contributed into the system

What about those that haven't?

Chickenlittlesmum · 10/03/2026 08:50

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 10/03/2026 08:32

It would be better if we had invested in renewable energy properly.

That way we wouldn't be so reliant on oil at all.

How so?

If the sun don't shine and the wind don't blow you get zilch.

And electricity storage is still a problem.

Have you seen the size of the battery/ies on electric cars ?

Dragonflytamer · 10/03/2026 08:53

I bet the Government will just give out more cost of living top ups. The thing we always seem to be be to afford in this country is more handouts.

frozendaisy · 10/03/2026 08:54

Maaate · 10/03/2026 08:49

No.
Most pensioners have contributed into the system

What about those that haven't?

We would rather live in a society which supports people past working age to not starve on the streets. Or be forced upon younger relatives, usually female if they are available let’s face it, because not all pensioners deserve to be dependent on their family members.

We have known for decades now the state pension will pay bills and feed you just, if you want more that’s up to you.

So we don’t mind the pensions bill, pensioners whinging they should get more and more and more grates a bit, but they’re not going to do we can largely ignore that.

CantBreathe90 · 10/03/2026 08:55

Chickenlittlesmum · 10/03/2026 07:55

I disagree.
It's rampant Socialism fueling a "nanny state" and throwing money at idle beggars who won't work.
That and treating illegal immigrants better than our own people in terms of benefits, healthcare and housing.

Food for thought though, if 35% of claimants are also working (a lot of benefits are top up for housing or similar), is this not also to do with Cost of Living issues? If people are working, but still unable to afford rent and food without subsidies, personally I also see that as a failure of the system / artificially inflated costs.

More than half of benefits claimants spend is for retired people too, that I don't think most people begrudge. I think the amount of people who are claiming who actually aren't working too, or retired, is the minority. Out of those, the amount who are able bodied and could indeed work, is smaller still. It's just that the few able-bodied, non-working, benefits cheats are so annoying! Which is why they stand out in people's minds. But the actual spend on them, doesn't explain away the hardship most people face.

Nannyfannybanny · 10/03/2026 08:56

Chickenlittlesmum,we have 12 solar panels,2 batteries. There's a wind farm, I can see from the road,last few days,no wind. O sun.

Chickenlittlesmum · 10/03/2026 08:57

Nannyfannybanny · 10/03/2026 08:56

Chickenlittlesmum,we have 12 solar panels,2 batteries. There's a wind farm, I can see from the road,last few days,no wind. O sun.

So how much energy did you get ?

Julen7 · 10/03/2026 08:58

Dragonflytamer · 10/03/2026 08:53

I bet the Government will just give out more cost of living top ups. The thing we always seem to be be to afford in this country is more handouts.

Yeah always enough money for a handout or a top up.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 10/03/2026 08:58

I don’t feel poor, but the last two years are the first time since I was a child (in poverty) that I’ve had to really think about if I need certain things. We are definitely eating less meat and cheaper cuts. We are going out less and opting for free stuff. We definitely don’t drive as much. I think because I have been poor I am somewhat at an advantage because I know the ropes and all the tips and tricks to make things go further, but it is scary how much things have gone up.

Papyrophile · 10/03/2026 08:58

Snoken · 10/03/2026 06:45

I’m surprised geothermal heating still isn’t really a thing in the UK. Where I live over 70% of households use it. It’s so much cheaper to run but costs a bit to install. Is it not being talked about or encouraged? Maybe the government need you to be reliant on oil and gas even for you basic needs such as heating and warm water.

Most of the UK's geology is unsuited to geothermal apparently. A deep geothermal plant started operations last week in Cornwall, but the only other one mentioned in on the thread I started on the subject is in Southampton.

Gladioli7 · 10/03/2026 09:01

Happyjoe · 09/03/2026 22:56

And.. then you hear about MP's giving themselves a 5% pay rise. Utterly tone deaf.

This is a huge part of the problem, our politicians are not paid well compared to the industries that attract our best talents, so you end up with successive governments of mediocre over promoted people.

Finaly · 10/03/2026 09:02

Ilovemyshed · 10/03/2026 08:01

Its getting ridiculous. Water costs are much more than they were, we are on oil so vulnerable to those price rises and food costs are bonkers.

At the moment we are saving water if we can, we recently filled the oil tank at 59p a litre which will now last to September hopefully, and the freezer and cupboards are pretty full. When that runs out we’ll be struggling.

@Ilovemyshed I filled my oil tank up 3 weeks ago and it was 57ppl, it's now around 130ppl (Scotland). I usually fill up Dec/Feb/May/Sep. If the price doesn't drop I can see me only being able to fill half the tank in May.

I see the Martin Lewis has been looking at this and Ed Miliband has written to the Fuel Distributors Ass to warn against misleading practices etc. Who knows if that will make any difference.

Our village petrol station is normally a bit more expensive than others, on Sunday it was £1.31 a litre, I happened to pass an Esso service station of the motorway, just 10 miles away and they were charging £1.61 a litre for unleaded, its shocking.

frozendaisy · 10/03/2026 09:07

@Chickenlittlesmum

Schools try and teach this but if it isn’t demonstrated at home what can they do?

Chickenlittlesmum · 10/03/2026 09:10

@rockinrobins Please do not spread misinformation that encourages further hatred and racism.

Since when has putting your own country first been seen as "racism".?

There are sadly many people in the world living in appalling situations but
we cannot help them all, neither can we bring them all here.

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