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Family friends around for dinner Saturday night- can i do a roast?

164 replies

hmmmwhattoeat · 04/03/2026 21:55

I will start with the fact i love a good roast, and i know logically you can have one any time,BUT it seems odd to eat one on a Saturday night for some reason.

Apart from the fact i like a roast, another benefit it brings is that i can prepare most of it in advance so it still enables me to drop kids to and from their clubs and I know they will also eat it!! Win win

Would you think its a strange choice if you went around for an evening dinner and were served a roast dinner???

Unreasonable- you can not serve a roast for saturday night dinner
Reasonable- stop being silly thats perfectly fine

OP posts:
stapletonsguitar · 05/03/2026 06:59

Oops, I pressed unreasonable by mistake! You absolutely can do a roast and if I was your guest I’d be delighted!

tutugogo · 05/03/2026 07:03

It’s possible to do a roast with a twist eg I’ve done leg of lamb Greek style with roasted potatoes with oregano then a big Greek salad with it. I’ve also cooked leg of lamb basted in Indian spices served with a selection of vegetarian curries plus raita

JustMyView13 · 05/03/2026 07:04

The two things better than a Sunday roast, is a roast, not on a Sunday. And a roast that you haven’t had to cook yourself. I’d be delighted. Don’t forget the Yorkies!

Westfacing · 05/03/2026 07:06

I love roasts but somehow it's not the right vibe for a Saturday night - along the lines of you wouldn't serve guests pizza or fish & chips for Sunday lunch!

As a pp has said, I would do a slow-roasted middle eastern-style lamb shoulder/leg with roasted peppers, couscous etc. Like a traditional roast most can be prepped and cooking during the day.

SkinnyOatFlatWhiteForMePlease · 05/03/2026 07:10

stapletonsguitar · 05/03/2026 06:59

Oops, I pressed unreasonable by mistake! You absolutely can do a roast and if I was your guest I’d be delighted!

Me too, I am still half asleep.

Ducksurprise · 05/03/2026 07:18

Parrlorwarrior · 05/03/2026 01:36

Oh yes, good old exciting cottage pie!

😂 I thought the same
I actually class cottage pie in the same group as roasts- meat, potato and veg.

But I don't understand why people think roasts have to be boring- there are so many ways you can cook vegetables, and so many different veg.

I find the 'ooh look I'm cooking middle Eastern style' much more boring and without thought.

Westfacing · 05/03/2026 07:24

50Balesofgrey · 04/03/2026 22:08

How about toad in the hole, with all the sides? Saves buying a joint.

Toad in the hole? I'd be very disappointed to be served this as a guest!

Astra53 · 05/03/2026 07:26

Most people I know would jump with joy at being served a roast dinner, anytime and anywhere! YANBU.

SpringIsSpringing2026 · 05/03/2026 07:28

ThiagoJones · 05/03/2026 06:56

Well I still host dinner parties and I’m pretty sure I don’t live in a 1970’s sitcom 😬. Same thing anyway isn’t it, just different wording? Dinner party/having friends for dinner? It doesn’t change my point anyway. I can change it to ‘it’s a bit dull and heavy for having friends for dinner on a Saturday night’, if that helps.

Yes, people still have 'dinner parties' but generally not what you call having friends around for dinner.

friends having dinner with us doesn't need to be showy & exciting. It needs to be (for me/us) tasty food & great company. But maybe we're more comfortable without friends & no need to impress with 'exciting' food.

SpringIsSpringing2026 · 05/03/2026 07:30

Westfacing · 05/03/2026 07:24

Toad in the hole? I'd be very disappointed to be served this as a guest!

Ooh I wouldn't (as long as it was veggie) at a friends house, I'd be surprised at a 'dinner party' but not disappointed!

Missingducks · 05/03/2026 07:32

Yes please to a roast but not lamb thanks. Especially if you offer Yorkshire puds whatever the meat. My favourite veg is roast cauliflower ...

ThiagoJones · 05/03/2026 07:32

SpringIsSpringing2026 · 05/03/2026 07:28

Yes, people still have 'dinner parties' but generally not what you call having friends around for dinner.

friends having dinner with us doesn't need to be showy & exciting. It needs to be (for me/us) tasty food & great company. But maybe we're more comfortable without friends & no need to impress with 'exciting' food.

Ah I’m very comfortable with my friends and feel no need to try and impress them, but thank you for the dig 😁.

ImpatientlyWaitingForSummer · 05/03/2026 07:32

I would have a roast everyday if I could so it would be a definite yes from me!!

Ophy83 · 05/03/2026 07:42

I'd roast the meat but serve with a few interesting salads, probably middle Eastern inspired e.g. roast cauliflower with a tahini sauce and pomegranate, carrots with cumin, a good green leaf salad and some small potatoes roasted in their skins alongside some garlic cloves. All can be made ahead (just pop the potatoes back in the oven when the meat is resting)

WhatsConfusingYouIsTheNatureOfMyGame · 05/03/2026 07:48

I think fine, albeit I don't usually have one on a Sunday.

It's also a practical choice for guests as long as you don't mind the prep, since you're serving several different things. Someone who doesn't like potatoes might have extra broccoli instead

Travelcrazy · 05/03/2026 07:50

I did flattened turkey breast stuffed with sausage meat stuffing and wrapped in pancetta and served sliced (you wrap about 4 breasts at a time into a roll) served with roast spuds etc and brussel sprout gratin and everyone loved it. You can prep in advance and just bung in the oven.

DurhamDurham · 05/03/2026 08:03

I’d be disappointed but maybe that’s because I wouldn’t even choose a roast dinner on a Sunday.
Saturday nights with friends tends to be curries, Mexican, Thai or even just pizza and salad if I’m feeling lazy. My husband would be happy with a roast but that’s because we never make them at home.

ConstanzeMozart · 05/03/2026 08:05

mindutopia · 04/03/2026 22:10

I personally wouldn’t want a roast on a Saturday evening. I’m not a huge fan of a roast anyway, but Saturday is for something a bit fresher and more exciting than a roast.

But you can absolutely mimic the cooking process - do a leg or shoulder of lamb with Middle Eastern sort of spices, serve with flatbreads, hummus, olives, salad. This is our Easter meal every year. Same easy cooking process but not meat, potatoes, veg and gravy. Or do a stew with new potatoes and greens, again you just have to whack the meat in the oven for a few hours and then the sides take like 10 minutes.

But you can absolutely mimic the cooking process - do a leg or shoulder of lamb with Middle Eastern sort of spices, serve with flatbreads, hummus, olives, salad.
I ca me on to say DP and I do something similar on Christmas Eve: we roast a really good free-range chicken (have done a large whole fish before too). It definitely feels 'special' enough for a Saturday dinner. We usually have quinoa with flaked almonds, herbs and pomegranate seeds, which looks beautiful. And salad/veg, yoghurt, harissa, olives etc.

Growlybear83 · 05/03/2026 08:14

JustMyView13 · 05/03/2026 07:04

The two things better than a Sunday roast, is a roast, not on a Sunday. And a roast that you haven’t had to cook yourself. I’d be delighted. Don’t forget the Yorkies!

Nooooo! The one thing better than a Sunday roast is NO Sunday roast. The day I left home at 18 was the day I swore I would never eat another Sunday roast again - even though my mum was an excellent cook roast meat, potatoes, and gravy turn my stomach. Fifty years later I eat roast turkey at Xmas and Easter and roast chicken maybe twice a year, but I’ve never willingly eaten a traditional roast apart from that. I’ve never been tempted by my husband’s roast beef, lamb, or pork, and I don’t think I could eat a roast potato if my life depended on. It.

LaurelSorrel · 05/03/2026 08:15

I think it’s too heavy for an evening meal tbh, I need a few hours of either vegging out on a sofa or going for a country walk to feel like I’ve digested a roast?

birdglasspen · 05/03/2026 08:17

Nonsense, not everyone can have a roast on a Sunday. Mine are usually a Saturday as it suits our life’s better!

saveforthat · 05/03/2026 08:26

I think the answers you are getting depend on whether people love a roast or not. I am in the former category. In fact I often cook a roast on Saturday night and then have another one on Sunday or Monday with the left over meat. My mouth is watering now. Laughing at how the middle eastern cuisine is somehow superior. I love all cuisines but you can't beat a roast and it's definitely not just for Sundays.

itsthetea · 05/03/2026 08:29

I love the advice to avoid a roast by doing a roast with different carbs and veggies as somehow not a roast and so magically lighter

Fogwood · 05/03/2026 08:35

I'd do a piece of roast meat but different sides. So maybe spiced roast lamb with potatoes wedges and a Greek salad and tzatziki. . Or slow cooked pork with dauphinois potatoes and tender stem broccoli. Something like that.

Samesame47 · 05/03/2026 08:41

I love a roast any day of of the week, even better if I hadn’t had to cook it myself, go for it