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To think ChatGPT is the best thing ever?

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ColliLass · 01/03/2026 09:06

So far it has:

sorted a problem with my emails that I would never EVER have been able to work out
Found a book I haven’t been able to remember for years
diagnosed a problem on the car and accurately estimated the probable cost
found recipes

and many many more little helpful day to day offerings when i can’t remember things or I wonder things.

I loathe the AI videos and pictures that seem to be everywhere but ChatGPT is amazing.

OP posts:
Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 11:24

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 11:21

Well it did for me! Why would I make this up?

To sound outraged by how useless chat gpt is?
Just for fun this is what it told me :

If you hadn’t had a period for a few months and now you’re bleeding, there are a few possible reasons. I’ll walk you through the most common ones so you can see what might fit your situation.
1️⃣ Irregular cycles (very common)
It’s normal for periods to skip for:

  • Stress
  • Major weight change
  • Illness
  • Travel
  • Big changes in routine
  • Intense exercise
When your body finally ovulates again, you get a period — sometimes it’s heavier or more painful than usual because the lining built up longer. 2️⃣ Pregnancy-related bleeding If you’ve had sex in the last few months, take a pregnancy test — even if you’re bleeding. Sometimes:
  • Early miscarriage can look like a late, heavy period.
  • Hormonal shifts in early pregnancy can cause bleeding.
If the bleeding is very heavy (soaking a pad/tampon every hour), or you have severe one-sided pain, dizziness, or shoulder pain — seek urgent care to rule out ectopic pregnancy. 3️⃣ Hormone imbalance Missing periods for months can be caused by:
  • PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome)
  • Thyroid problems
  • High prolactin levels
  • Coming off birth control
  • Perimenopause (if you’re 40+)
When hormones fluctuate, your period may suddenly return. 4️⃣ Birth control changes If you:
  • Stopped hormonal birth control
  • Missed pills
  • Switched methods
Your cycle can disappear for a few months and then restart. 🚩 When to see a doctor urgently Get medical help if you have:
  • Extremely heavy bleeding (soaking a pad every hour for 2+ hours)
  • Large clots bigger than a golf ball
  • Severe abdominal pain
  • Fever
  • Fainting or dizziness
💬 I need a bit more info to guide you better:
  • How old are you?
  • Have you had sex in the last few months?
  • Are you on birth control?
  • How heavy is the bleeding right now?
  • Are you having strong pain?
Tell me those and I’ll help you figure out what’s most likely going on ❤️
SupremeGeneticBee · 01/03/2026 11:24

IdentityCris · 01/03/2026 11:06

You've admitted this only worked for you because of your unusual experience in data annotation, and even then you and your husband still had to put in endless hours to make it work. These things aren't "amazing" unless and until they can be used by the general public reliably on a day to day basis irrespective of their individual past experience.

It is demonstrable nonsense to say that problems haven't happened since 2024 when people are telling you that they are dealing with the results of those problems on a daily basis now. If someone quotes the wrong legal principles and makes decisions on that basis, it can have disastrous consequences. There are no warnings on ChatGPT telling people that unless they take hours carefully honing their prompts the information it will produce may well be utter bollocks.

My experience in working for DA (a side hustle by the way and on the non-coding side of things) made me ahead of the game somewhat in recognising the importance of the prompt. That's it.

And yes, of course we had to put in hours of work. We were building a bloody app, not a sandcastle. Every section needed thousands of lines of code, the manual input time was a LOT. And sometimes it broke. The error needed screenshotting and feeding back into GPT to fix it. Undo it. Redo it. Frustrating, so frustrating.

We're both reasonably intelligent but basically, we were copy and pasters. The AI models are phenominal.

Anyone that refuses to use AI on principle then I hope you're close to retirement because you're unlikely to be employable in ten years if you refuse to learn.

WingingItSince1973 · 01/03/2026 11:30

I have used it recently and it was helpful. But, I'm realising that at age 52 I'm so glad I grew up in the era of manually searching for answers and using my own brain to find things out. It's a worrying trend that today's generation won't be improving their own brain power and just relying on instant answers. Yes it's a possible time saver but our brains need more than just the answers. We need to be researching things ourselves. It's really important for our brains to keep those pathways open and functioning.

No offence to the poster that has used it to plot their route etc through Turkey but surely the joy of travelling is to do all that yourself and learn more about the areas you're visiting rather than relying on a robot. Planning your own route via maps or published articles of the area. Also make sure the places it's suggesting are safe and have amenities should you need something.

Our brains are absolutely marvellous but they do need exercising and using properly. I love technology but surely it has it's place.

WTAFIsWrongWithPeople · 01/03/2026 11:31

Humans are officially fucked.

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 11:32

WingingItSince1973 · 01/03/2026 11:30

I have used it recently and it was helpful. But, I'm realising that at age 52 I'm so glad I grew up in the era of manually searching for answers and using my own brain to find things out. It's a worrying trend that today's generation won't be improving their own brain power and just relying on instant answers. Yes it's a possible time saver but our brains need more than just the answers. We need to be researching things ourselves. It's really important for our brains to keep those pathways open and functioning.

No offence to the poster that has used it to plot their route etc through Turkey but surely the joy of travelling is to do all that yourself and learn more about the areas you're visiting rather than relying on a robot. Planning your own route via maps or published articles of the area. Also make sure the places it's suggesting are safe and have amenities should you need something.

Our brains are absolutely marvellous but they do need exercising and using properly. I love technology but surely it has it's place.

This is a shift to exercising them a different way though isn’t it? Look what we’ve achieved in the 100 years pos Industrial Revolution vs the 100
years before- let tech take care of the non value add and humans can do what they do best

TragicMuse · 01/03/2026 11:40

It’s just a giant web-crawler. It’s doesn’t think for itself, it can’t create from new without prompts or references to other things. The internet has a lot of false information and AI can’t always tell which is true and reliable.

It hallucinates answers when it can’t find something, just to fill in a gap.

It’s also sexist and racist.

It’s shit at poetry! Which is satisfying for me as a poet!

It’s a tool, but it’s not always a reliable one. Take it with a pinch of salt and don’t ever rely on it for legal, technical or important things.

1457bloom · 01/03/2026 11:44

When you pay for professional advice, there may be a bias/ you may be guided towards financial/legal services that generate more fees for the professional, it’s just human nature. The LLM’s don’t have this bias and therefore, arguably, provide better, more objective responses. They are also available 247 and are free. However, you need to be intelligent to get the most out of them and spot the generally obvious mistakes. Of course, humans make mistakes too and they have mood swing, etc. so you can’t always rely on what they suggest. In the same away you shouldn’t rely on what a professional tells you, you need to integrate them and what they say.

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 11:51

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 11:24

To sound outraged by how useless chat gpt is?
Just for fun this is what it told me :

If you hadn’t had a period for a few months and now you’re bleeding, there are a few possible reasons. I’ll walk you through the most common ones so you can see what might fit your situation.
1️⃣ Irregular cycles (very common)
It’s normal for periods to skip for:

  • Stress
  • Major weight change
  • Illness
  • Travel
  • Big changes in routine
  • Intense exercise
When your body finally ovulates again, you get a period — sometimes it’s heavier or more painful than usual because the lining built up longer. 2️⃣ Pregnancy-related bleeding If you’ve had sex in the last few months, take a pregnancy test — even if you’re bleeding. Sometimes:
  • Early miscarriage can look like a late, heavy period.
  • Hormonal shifts in early pregnancy can cause bleeding.
If the bleeding is very heavy (soaking a pad/tampon every hour), or you have severe one-sided pain, dizziness, or shoulder pain — seek urgent care to rule out ectopic pregnancy. 3️⃣ Hormone imbalance Missing periods for months can be caused by:
  • PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome)
  • Thyroid problems
  • High prolactin levels
  • Coming off birth control
  • Perimenopause (if you’re 40+)
When hormones fluctuate, your period may suddenly return. 4️⃣ Birth control changes If you:
  • Stopped hormonal birth control
  • Missed pills
  • Switched methods
Your cycle can disappear for a few months and then restart. 🚩 When to see a doctor urgently Get medical help if you have:
  • Extremely heavy bleeding (soaking a pad every hour for 2+ hours)
  • Large clots bigger than a golf ball
  • Severe abdominal pain
  • Fever
  • Fainting or dizziness
💬 I need a bit more info to guide you better:
  • How old are you?
  • Have you had sex in the last few months?
  • Are you on birth control?
  • How heavy is the bleeding right now?
  • Are you having strong pain?
Tell me those and I’ll help you figure out what’s most likely going on ❤️

Similar to what it said to me but it also told me to go to hospital. I'm not hallucinating I promise! It's true the exact words I used might have been a bit different, but not by much. This was about a month ago.

Flutterbees · 01/03/2026 12:00

It guzzles resources, lies to you, takes your inputs and reuses them, and has just put thousands of people out of jobs where I live. Just use Google.

Itsmetheflamingo · 01/03/2026 12:01

BillieWiper · 01/03/2026 11:51

Similar to what it said to me but it also told me to go to hospital. I'm not hallucinating I promise! It's true the exact words I used might have been a bit different, but not by much. This was about a month ago.

Well if it told you to go to hospital under some circumstance as one point in a wall of well reasoned common sense advice that’s not really the same as “I told it I had my period and it told me to go to hospital” is it?

Yesitsmeimback · 01/03/2026 12:08

plentyofsunshine · 01/03/2026 10:26

I just tested your theory. It still came up with an AI response even after I put a swear word in.

And people say don't use ai it gets things wrong while confidently giving an incorrect answer 😂😂😂

Waitingfordoggo · 01/03/2026 12:14

@daisychain01 Seems a bit ironic to use it for help with environmental issues 😩😂

Heyhihobye · 01/03/2026 12:19

Loobyloolovesandypandy · 01/03/2026 09:32

It’s really good. We’re off to Turkey soon in our campervan. I asked ChatGPT to plot a printable route giving ‘things to see’ in each country on the route. Fabulous response.

I also tried this but just a heads up - it isn’t always accurate as people have said. It told
me to take the kids to Istanbul Legoland which has literally been shut down for years and I had to correct it.

OtherTemporaryUsername · 01/03/2026 12:23

The problem with wider societal arguments against AI, whilst enormously important, is that very few people care enough to change their own behaviour in order to be part of a societal shift. Like climate change generally.

People seemingly don't give a shit about their own data, or the very real potential of mass surveillance, which astonishes me. The growing use of facial recognition tech, plus AI should give pause, but usually doesn't. How many use use a VPN, Tor browser, or temporary email addresses to sign up to things?

The only arguments that people seem to hear are 'it will give you wrong answers' (true, but not always and perhaps just infrequently enough that we start believing it) and 'it does you personally damage'. Which not everyone seems to get. There is already evidence that having Google available (phone in your pocket, or a computer) makes people overestimate what they actually know or remember.

A huge danger of LLMs (and this is already happening, due to the internet generally) is growth of radical cynicism. When you can't trust previously-trusted forms of news or data or information, and we are completely bathed in endless streams of information, it becomes more likely that you believe and trust nothing. That way lies conspiracy mindedness and political radicalisation. Its not a new trend, but AI risks speeding this exponentially, as it does everything else.

The argument of 'if you don't use it, you'll be left behind' is insane. It is literally designed for dummies. You don't have to get 'good' at using it. You have to get good at critically analysing the output - and the skills for this aren't learnt by using AI.

MabelMarple · 01/03/2026 12:27

DH uses it to write code. He was computer programming in the 70s and started work writing programmes in binary. So he's very good at writing good prompts. Also the answer it gives in this kind of use can be verified and tested.

PinkLemonadee · 01/03/2026 12:29

It's making people stupid and lazy, not to mention the environmental cost.

MO0N · 01/03/2026 12:33

LLMs are constructed from the raw material of online human made content.
Because they are useful and popular LLMs are increasingly replacing human-made content.
You can see where this is going ... the LLMs are eating themselves and will disappear up their own arseholes.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/03/2026 12:35

I always eye roll when people are so ignorant towards the environmental impact. Instead of jumping on the trend like minions using valuable resources to pick your wallpaper.
I have the very basic in education skills yet it floors me that apparently intelligent educated people are so greedy and stupid.
The technology companies will be happily taking the profits from the minions.

Pearlmarmalade · 01/03/2026 12:39

ScarlettSarah · 01/03/2026 09:20

Hahaha... no. I work in employment law and it seems to tell everyone they have a valid claim for constructive dismissal. They almost never do. It's become a bit of an in-joke amongst my colleagues.

Snap.

It’s tiring advising on 25 page grievances which sound impressive but say absolutely nothing of any substance, and contain assertions that have no legal basis whatsoever.

How is in the best interests of anyone (employee included) to have to wade through reems of nonsense to try to work out what the actual complaint is.

I’ve heard of situations where employees get into grievance hearings, are asked about points in their letter, and know absolutely nothing about them.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/03/2026 12:41

Maia77 · 01/03/2026 10:58

It's not perfect, but it's pretty good. Obviously you can't believe everything it says, because it makes things up sometimes to fill the gaps. I asked it once to give me quotes from an ethical framework and it made them up. Luckily I recognised it and it apologised when pressed but it took quite a while to admit to it.

Hm, this makes me wonder, what is the effect when AI admits to a mistake? Does that affect what answers it gives later to simlar questions, to you or to others? Does that decrease its confidence in its response? Is it using reinforcement learning? So many questions....

Yourangduckie · 01/03/2026 12:45

Huge fan of Chatgbt use it for all sorts of things, find it so helpful.

Maia77 · 01/03/2026 12:49

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 01/03/2026 12:41

Hm, this makes me wonder, what is the effect when AI admits to a mistake? Does that affect what answers it gives later to simlar questions, to you or to others? Does that decrease its confidence in its response? Is it using reinforcement learning? So many questions....

I think it might have had some effect, as I asked it just now and it it's given me almost exact quotes but has chopped them up a little bit. When challenged it said it assumed I was looking for usable excerpts for discussion so it gave shortened quotations. Said it should have defaulted to verbatim quotations. So it assumes things, unless you repeatedly emphasise what you need.

Bjorkdidit · 01/03/2026 12:51

I’ve heard of situations where employees get into grievance hearings, are asked about points in their letter, and know absolutely nothing about them

This is what I don't understand. For the people who think that ChatGPT is a good idea for this sort of thing, wouldn't they at least sense check what it had written and whether it was a reasonable representation of what they wanted to say?

See also academic work. No-one is fooled that you used AI, it's blindly obvious to an expert when the content is nonsense so wouldn't you at least only submit what you actually understood?

ImWearingPantaloons · 01/03/2026 12:52

No it’s shite and will result in humans being a species incapable of independent thought.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 01/03/2026 12:58

SupremeGeneticBee · 01/03/2026 10:52

The problem with people who don't use AI and don't understand AI is that they re-hash things they hear on line...and they don't realise how silly they sound to those of us who do understand it.

It can't do 5 x 5!
It gave a solicitor wrong legal info!
It makes things up!

You're at least a year out of date, probably two. These were 2024 problems, problems that simply do not exist now except in the rarerst of tech glitches. If you're consistently getting wrong or made up stuff from Chat GPT then your prompts are the problem.

It's not Google and the output will be as good as the input.

If you'd like a real world example of what Chat GPT can do...dh and I have very recently published our first app. You can actually download it right now on the Apple and Play stores which still feels slightly surreal 😁
It took us nine weeks to build. Lots and lots of hours of work, late nights etc. Pulling apart code, deleting code, reinputting it etc. Thousands and thousands of lines of code, I was dreaming in it by the end.

I'm a risk manager. Dh owns a small transport company. We are NOT generally 'technical' and we have zero coding skills. BUT, I worked for DataAnnotation for a long time so I am skilled in getting the best out of a model and writing useful prompts which give a high value output. For our app...my prompt was about a thousand words.

Chat GPT wrote the code for our app. It took our concept and detailed idea and turned it into reality, giving us a step by step process to build it. It was our developer, tech expert, marketing manager and so much more all in one. We looked into this a couple of years ago when we first had the business idea and it would have cost circa £20k to get it built.

No, AI isn't yet perfect or infallible. It does need directing, reminding, checking. But if you know how to use it, it's mind-blowing.

Calling it 'predictive text' or 'Google' or saying it's incapable or useless is simply laughable. It makes me think of my great granny confidently telling us this Internet thing would never take off 😂

You must have some coding skills though? To be able to check that the code it wrote for you was correct? Did it also act as a tester to test that the app works as intended?