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Blocked in a car who parked in my space

301 replies

2026baby · 28/02/2026 13:53

To be clear I own my flat and the parking space is part of my lease and is legally mine. If anyone wishes to use it they would need to have my permission as they would be trespassing otherwise. The space is on private land in a secure garage that requires fob access.

I have come home today from being away to find a random car parked in my space, I do not know who it belongs to. I paid to park on the street outside for an hour hoping they would move soon but no one did. Not wanting to spend any more money unnecessarily I have now parked in front of my parking space which has blocked them in. It is not impacting anyone else's space and allows free movement around the car park.

I have left a note on the car and put a message in the block's group chat but no one has responded. AIBU to block them in until I get a response?

I have nowhere else to park and I don't want to pay to park outside as its £4 an hour and I have no idea when they will move (So far it has been 3 hours that I am aware of). The managing agent is closed for the weekend but have been useless anyway when my neighbours have the same problem and as its a civil matter I can't call the police but according to google the car owner can call the police on me for blocking them in. I am also concerned in case they damage my car, again where would I stand legally if they did given that I have blocked them in?

OP posts:
everypageisempty · 01/03/2026 10:16

2026baby · 01/03/2026 08:14

Sorry if I wasn't clear - it was the neighbour who was banging on my door and mouthing off with the visitor sheepishly apologising in the background.

As I said there are 125 flats in our blocks, even if she had told me what flat she lived in, there would have been no way to know if she was telling me the truth unless I just happened to know someone who lived in that flat!

I wish you hadn't moved your car until they told you which neighbour told them to use it. I'd have refused to move the care until we'd gone back to that neighbour and had a conversation about it.

Isekaied · 01/03/2026 10:19

Catlady007007 · 01/03/2026 10:04

It’s the equivalent of somebody parking on your driveway. I can’t see why the police would want anything to do with it. It’s a civil matter.

When we lived in a similar set up, we paid £20K for the parking spot when we bought the apt and our management fees were higher then the apts who didn’t buy their car parking spots. When we sold, our annual mgt fees were £2.500 per annum which included maintenance of the private car park.

The neighbours who parked on the OP’s spot don’t have a leg to stand on.

OP contact the mgt company and find out who the private towing company is. This no. should be made available to all owners of parking spots.

The towed car then pays to retrieve their car.

Yeah

Someone.parked one mine.

I blocked them in and waited for them to knock on the door.

EleanorReally · 01/03/2026 10:31

your neighbour should have apologised op

SENDChaos · 01/03/2026 10:38

tinybeautiful · 01/03/2026 07:10

Would you prefer you had to live next to a skip full of accumulated shit forever more? I don't understand people like this. She asked, politely, you said no? What is she meant to do with the skip? Pointless negativity and unpleasantness.

OP, glad they are not still there now. Hopefully you won't have the same issue again and it was a genuine whoopsie on their part.

1- she hadn’t even bothered getting permission to use a parking bay for her skip
2- it’s not right outside my house
3- don’t wake me and my child up at 7am when k am CLEARLY ASLEEP and haven’t answered your calls
4- I suffer with insomnia which she knows so if I am asleep, it’s probably taken me most of the night to get asleep and I take heavy sedative meds to get me to sleep

ThisChirpyFox · 01/03/2026 10:43

2026baby · 01/03/2026 00:24

Nope! She also wouldn't tell me what flat she was from! I will be keeping an eye out for her from now on and put a message on the group chat but unfortunately not really much I can do except try to prevent future CFery!

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2026baby · 01/03/2026 10:44

everypageisempty · 01/03/2026 10:16

I wish you hadn't moved your car until they told you which neighbour told them to use it. I'd have refused to move the care until we'd gone back to that neighbour and had a conversation about it.

I wish people would read before commenting. I have said it was the neighbour who was being aggressive and banging on my door. The visitor was apologetic as it was the neighbour who said she could park there

OP posts:
AnotherChangeDay · 01/03/2026 10:45

ThisChirpyFox · 01/03/2026 10:43

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Edited

IT WAS THE NEIGHBOUR BANGING ON THE DOOR!

NeelyOHara · 01/03/2026 10:51

AnotherChangeDay · 01/03/2026 10:45

IT WAS THE NEIGHBOUR BANGING ON THE DOOR!

Yet she still moved her car, even though the neighbour was mouthing off at her, and then refused to tell her what number flat she lived in!

2026baby · 01/03/2026 11:05

NeelyOHara · 01/03/2026 10:51

Yet she still moved her car, even though the neighbour was mouthing off at her, and then refused to tell her what number flat she lived in!

Exactly how could I force the neighbour to tell me what flat she lived in?! Even if she came out and said number 120, how would I know she was telling the truth?! Should I have forced her to take me to her flat and let me in as well?

The person being punished by me blocking them in was the visitor who was apologetic and said the neighbour assured her she could park there NOT THE NEIGHBOUR WHO WAS THE ONE AT FAULT

OP posts:
AnotherChangeDay · 01/03/2026 11:07

NeelyOHara · 01/03/2026 10:51

Yet she still moved her car, even though the neighbour was mouthing off at her, and then refused to tell her what number flat she lived in!

Well unless OP followed the neighbour to the flat she would claim to live in, and actually SAW her put the key in the door and go in - how would she know the neighbour was telling her the truth?

I doubt many of us cba at that time of night to fart around like that (tempting and easy to be bolshy from behind a keyboard and say "I WOULD" - but in the real world would we?) it sounds like it is a huge block of flats

KiwiFall · 01/03/2026 11:38

I know you said you have a group WhatsApp so definitely put it in there. Is there also a management company you can report it to? Just to have it in writing in case it happens again. Neighbour was out of order banging on your door and being aggressive. That’s also worth reporting.

Purplebunnie · 01/03/2026 11:43

Perhaps this is a me thing but I would have gone and checked on my car during the day. It's all very well people saying the owner of the car space isn't there but it was a Saturday, the day when most people come back from places.

Aggressive neighbour is a CF

Watdidusay · 01/03/2026 11:53

2026baby · 01/03/2026 11:05

Exactly how could I force the neighbour to tell me what flat she lived in?! Even if she came out and said number 120, how would I know she was telling the truth?! Should I have forced her to take me to her flat and let me in as well?

The person being punished by me blocking them in was the visitor who was apologetic and said the neighbour assured her she could park there NOT THE NEIGHBOUR WHO WAS THE ONE AT FAULT

@2026baby do you have a property community group on WhatsApp or Facebook? Id report this to property management, talking about the person being aggressive at your door late at night. Share this with the community group as well if you have one. If you don't know where the neighbour lives then there is no evidence they actually really live there. I know they probably do but the whole system has failed here and needs to be called out.

olympicsrock · 01/03/2026 12:28

You are a pushover OP - you gave way to a rude person who would not even confirm their flat number.
They were just chancing it. Would have served their friend right to wait til the morning .

blenny23 · 01/03/2026 12:56

SENDChaos · 01/03/2026 02:51

I wouldn’t have moved my car!

my neighbour was having work done in her house and asked the day before if I could park my car somewhere else so her skip collision could be done. I said no BUT if I was awake/indoors when it was being collected I’d happily move my car for it to be done.

Well she was blowing my phone up at 7am, school holidays and THEN was banging on my front door like police!

I told her she could f right off!! I wasn’t moving my car for shit now! Banging on my door, walking my son up earlier then he gets up when he’s going to school! See ya later mate’

Our neighbour did this to me once - at 6AM.

I’d actually injured my foot not long before and was in so much pain it was keeping me awake all night, every night. I had finally just passed out around 5am after my husband had left for work.

At 6am my neighbour decided it was an appropriate time of day to knock. He did it a couple of times before I stirred properly (I was vaguely aware of it as I slept). I ignored it for a couple of minutes thinking it was an over-zealous delivery driver or postman who would surely go away. But no, neighbour then started pounding on the door and wouldn’t stop.

Took me ages to get out of bed and downstairs as I was extremely tired, in pain and still getting used to crutches. I opened the door, hair wild, in my pyjamas and probably doing my best impression of a zombie, and my neighbour just looked me up and down, clocked the crutches, and said “you need to move your car.”

No please, not even a question. I just looked at him for a second and then said, “I can’t drive at the moment….” and indicated my crutches. My brain was still trying to catch up to the situation.

Turns out he was getting a delivery of fence panels, posts, concrete etc as the builders were coming to put a fence up in his back garden. And I heard the guy shout that he could just deliver in the road but my neighbour was having none of it.

I said again that I can’t drive right now and went to close the door, which he BLOCKED and asked for my keys. I ended up giving them to him (he wasn’t someone we particularly liked - he would always stop us in the street to talk about his five different girlfriends and all the money he spent on them, that he’d gotten from both his mum’s and his wife’s deaths, which was honestly pretty boring!) but we did get on ok, as neighbours go, and he said he’d move it back again after. And I wasn’t really thinking straight on an hour’s sleep and really just wanted to go back to bed.

He moved my car, and put it up on the pavement on the other side of the road further up the street, which I wasn’t happy about as people had been ticketed for that a week before. I’d assumed he would at least bring my keys back though, since my house keys were very clearly attached to them and I couldn’t lock my front door again without them so couldn’t even go back to bed! TWO HOURS LATER he finally reappeared with my keys and I was able to go and get some sleep again.

The builders had been working on his front driveway for about four months at that point, and took another three months to do the back garden. They were awful - they would kept right over into our garden (far beyond what they needed to) and trampled so many plants and I’d even find them sitting on the steps right outside my kitchen door when I opened it. They were rude to us all the time, they left food to go mouldy in our garden, and they always had a dog with them which they’d let poop in garden. They tried putting up an illegally high fence on our side and were horrible when I challenged them on it, and they undermined the fence of the neighbour on the other side and caused it to collapse. They then charged that neighbour to make sure the ‘good side’ of the replacement fence went up on their side, rather than just replacing it as it had been! Our neighbour also expected us to pay to have ‘our side’ of the wall for his driveway skimmed with concrete (the gardens slope on either side), which we refused.

The builders did such a bad job; everything was wonky, the fence had big gaps in it etc, and it was honestly ridiculous how much time it took them to complete everything. Our neighbour sheepishly admitted at one point that he’d hired them because they were cheap, but because they took so long so long to do everything he ended up having to pay them extra anyway. He’d go out all day to avoid the chaos (something I was unfortunately unable to do myself as I’m disabled and mostly housebound) so had no idea how much the builders were just sat around chatting and listening to loud music etc. We did try to tell him but what can you do. Apparently they also walked mud throughout his whole house as obviously they were using the bathroom, and there’s no alternative access to the back garden from the front so everything had to go through the house. They actually had the cheek to post us a business card, as if we’d ever hire them when we’d seen firsthand how bad they were haha.

But anyway. That neighbour would regularly knock at unreasonable hours because he thought the world revolved around him, and if you tried to ignore him he would simply continue. His lifestyle caught up with him as the pandemic loomed; all the girlfriends found out about each other and apparently only one of them was happy to keep seeing him. He eventually moved in with her and her daughter moved in next to use instead. She’s very quiet and polite and makes for a much better neighbour! Although her mum did once hit and damage our car and then pretended she hadn’t, but our CCTV had picked it up so she couldn’t dispute it any longer. 😂

blenny23 · 01/03/2026 12:56

SENDChaos · 01/03/2026 02:51

I wouldn’t have moved my car!

my neighbour was having work done in her house and asked the day before if I could park my car somewhere else so her skip collision could be done. I said no BUT if I was awake/indoors when it was being collected I’d happily move my car for it to be done.

Well she was blowing my phone up at 7am, school holidays and THEN was banging on my front door like police!

I told her she could f right off!! I wasn’t moving my car for shit now! Banging on my door, walking my son up earlier then he gets up when he’s going to school! See ya later mate’

Our neighbour did this to me once - at 6AM.

I’d actually injured my foot not long before and was in so much pain it was keeping me awake all night, every night. I had finally just passed out around 5am after my husband had left for work.

At 6am my neighbour decided it was an appropriate time of day to knock. He did it a couple of times before I stirred properly (I was vaguely aware of it as I slept). I ignored it for a couple of minutes thinking it was an over-zealous delivery driver or postman who would surely go away. But no, neighbour then started pounding on the door and wouldn’t stop.

Took me ages to get out of bed and downstairs as I was extremely tired, in pain and still getting used to crutches. I opened the door, hair wild, in my pyjamas and probably doing my best impression of a zombie, and my neighbour just looked me up and down, clocked the crutches, and said “you need to move your car.”

No please, not even a question. I just looked at him for a second and then said, “I can’t drive at the moment….” and indicated my crutches. My brain was still trying to catch up to the situation.

Turns out he was getting a delivery of fence panels, posts, concrete etc as the builders were coming to put a fence up in his back garden. And I heard the guy shout that he could just deliver in the road but my neighbour was having none of it.

I said again that I can’t drive right now and went to close the door, which he BLOCKED and asked for my keys. I ended up giving them to him (he wasn’t someone we particularly liked - he would always stop us in the street to talk about his five different girlfriends and all the money he spent on them, that he’d gotten from both his mum’s and his wife’s deaths, which was honestly pretty boring!) but we did get on ok, as neighbours go, and he said he’d move it back again after. And I wasn’t really thinking straight on an hour’s sleep and really just wanted to go back to bed.

He moved my car, and put it up on the pavement on the other side of the road further up the street, which I wasn’t happy about as people had been ticketed for that a week before. I’d assumed he would at least bring my keys back though, since my house keys were very clearly attached to them and I couldn’t lock my front door again without them so couldn’t even go back to bed! TWO HOURS LATER he finally reappeared with my keys and I was able to go and get some sleep again.

The builders had been working on his front driveway for about four months at that point, and took another three months to do the back garden.

blenny23 · 01/03/2026 12:57

Sorry I’m not sure why my comment posted twice!

angela1952 · 01/03/2026 13:15

We live on a private estate (600 homes) most of which have some sort of allocated parking, though there is also some on-street parking. Our management company found a parking company who police the area - if someone parks illegally in your space they will get a ticket which will be enforced. The company don't charge for doing this, they make their money from the fines.

We are all also expected to register our cars with the management offices, give a phone number and display a card, that way if we find that our space has been used by a car that belongs to someone here we can get security to call them to move their car. I think the company is called NPC (not a typo though similar to the major company).

Shade17 · 01/03/2026 13:40

Catlady007007 · 01/03/2026 10:04

It’s the equivalent of somebody parking on your driveway. I can’t see why the police would want anything to do with it. It’s a civil matter.

When we lived in a similar set up, we paid £20K for the parking spot when we bought the apt and our management fees were higher then the apts who didn’t buy their car parking spots. When we sold, our annual mgt fees were £2.500 per annum which included maintenance of the private car park.

The neighbours who parked on the OP’s spot don’t have a leg to stand on.

OP contact the mgt company and find out who the private towing company is. This no. should be made available to all owners of parking spots.

The towed car then pays to retrieve their car.

No, the person in the space is a civil matter, the OP blocking them is a criminal offence. It’s exactly the same as clamping someone on private land.

blackcatclub25 · 01/03/2026 14:01

Upholstery · 28/02/2026 21:35

There's no difference in practical terms. You park your car, go home and get on with your day.

You can’t do that. Would you park on someone else’s drive because someone has parked on yours?
my parking space is part of my home/land

Portugal1987 · 01/03/2026 14:31

I’m pretty sure she won’t do it again now, and she knows what will happen when it does.

I’d get a sign that says they’re on camera (even if they aren’t) and their license plate will be reported (even it doesn’t say to who). Should be enough to get people to think twice!

2026baby · 01/03/2026 14:35

olympicsrock · 01/03/2026 12:28

You are a pushover OP - you gave way to a rude person who would not even confirm their flat number.
They were just chancing it. Would have served their friend right to wait til the morning .

So what would you have done? Prevented a young woman from being able to go home at midnight because her dick of a friend said she could park there? Personally I think it would be unreasonable for me to punish the driver who was not ar fault vs the neighbour.

Also who knows when she would have come back to move her car if I refused to move and she took a taxi home. We need the disabled space for my husband to get in and out of the car safely and that has to take priority over me being petty and actually preventing them from giving my space back to me. There would be no winners then!

OP posts:
Watdidusay · 01/03/2026 14:40

2026baby · 01/03/2026 14:35

So what would you have done? Prevented a young woman from being able to go home at midnight because her dick of a friend said she could park there? Personally I think it would be unreasonable for me to punish the driver who was not ar fault vs the neighbour.

Also who knows when she would have come back to move her car if I refused to move and she took a taxi home. We need the disabled space for my husband to get in and out of the car safely and that has to take priority over me being petty and actually preventing them from giving my space back to me. There would be no winners then!

Would your husband not have been able to put his car where yours was, continuing to block them in?

The neighbour did their friend and you wrong. You didn't do their friend wrong.

BuckChuckets · 01/03/2026 14:58

2026baby · 01/03/2026 14:35

So what would you have done? Prevented a young woman from being able to go home at midnight because her dick of a friend said she could park there? Personally I think it would be unreasonable for me to punish the driver who was not ar fault vs the neighbour.

Also who knows when she would have come back to move her car if I refused to move and she took a taxi home. We need the disabled space for my husband to get in and out of the car safely and that has to take priority over me being petty and actually preventing them from giving my space back to me. There would be no winners then!

Yes, let the dick of a friend put her up for the night and let her come back in the morning. That's what I'd have done, but either way I assume the neighbour won't offer up your space to anyone again, hopefully!

TroysMammy · 01/03/2026 15:02

Did you demand the £4 you had to pay to park elsewhere? 😀