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Nearly 1m young people out of work

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Starfeesh · 26/02/2026 13:21

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

AIBU to be concerned that a life on benefits seems to be a viable option, and glad Labour are bringing in compulsory work placements?

A young man looks at his phone while sitting at a computer in his home. He looks weary.

Young people out of work, training and education edges closer to one million

People at the start of their careers are particularly affected by the UK's weak job market.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c62gzl2yl24o

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LunaDeBallona · 26/02/2026 16:32

SaulJunction · 26/02/2026 14:45

@LunaDeBallona I would dearly love to be able to come up with an idea that might help your daughter. Could you tell us what really interests her? What would she ideally like to do?

She has 7 gcse passes, including Maths and both English.
She went to college to do a level 3 BTec - she lasted 2 terms due to college promising that her (relatively simple) ‘reasonable adjustments’ were followed but teachers seemed to delight in ignoring the requests. She was utterly exhausted from masking constantly And coping with the terrible situations she was put in.
This knocked her confidence terribly and she has no desire to put herself through that again.
She loves animals but cannot do any ‘stable girl’ work due to spinal issues from falling off horses.
She even offered to volunteer with the animals at the RSPCA but all they wanted was someone to clean out cages and kennels -all the care/dog walking etc was done by the paid employees.
She can’t do anything on the phone .
She could work in a pub as long as they were prepared to train her -but nobody is.
Shes sensible, she drives, she has her own car. She’s intelligent and very witty.
Shes mature for her age.
She couldn’t be a cleaner as she doesn’t see ‘dirt’ in the same way a NT person does.
She can’t get a job as a delivery driver as they are all taken by the local ‘migrant’ hotel men - (please don’t say this isn’t the case as it most certainly is. The car park of the hotel has mopeds in it) the local takeaways have no interest in employing a white girl I'm afraid.
She couldn’t do McDonalds as it’s just too much - the lights, the beeping, the shout8mg, the smells , the constant ‘go faster’. She just couldn’t manage all of those things at once.
I have been to the job center about 20 times with her. She doesn’t need me EVERY time but I go with her to try and push the staff into helping her.
Shes dying to work. Dying to meet new people and to feel useful. She feels utterly useless and that she will be destined to beimg on benefits unless something changes . She doesn’t want to be a drain on society.
She just needs some understanding and she could fly -but no one will give her a Fucking chance and it breaks my heart.

edit . Thanks you @SaulJunction for your lovely post/offer. It made me cry

ohdelay · 26/02/2026 16:34

Prepare for it to get worse for entry level. Come April 2026 there will be "protections" in place for new employees covering sick leave, probation etc so you get day one entitlements. Companies have reacted by getting rid of entry level as they can't take the risk of a bad employee. Why hire someone without history that you can't get rid off. Bad news for grads (so much debt, no grad scheme), good news for contractors and experienced workers.

TallulahBetty · 26/02/2026 16:34

HelenHywater · 26/02/2026 16:25

oh goody, another benefit bashing thread.

Yeah well we're all pretty fed up tbf

Working our arses off and being taxed to the hilt

jojogwangwan · 26/02/2026 16:37

ohdelay · 26/02/2026 16:34

Prepare for it to get worse for entry level. Come April 2026 there will be "protections" in place for new employees covering sick leave, probation etc so you get day one entitlements. Companies have reacted by getting rid of entry level as they can't take the risk of a bad employee. Why hire someone without history that you can't get rid off. Bad news for grads (so much debt, no grad scheme), good news for contractors and experienced workers.

That’s crazy, hire someone who could be a total liability then you can’t sack them wtf?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 16:38

I’m already assuming my child won’t attend university as I’m not convinced it’s worth it. The plan is to try and find a work placement so he can work and get the qualification at the same time. It’s whether Ai is going to make the job even be there by the time he finishes his A levels. Right now no one knows what’s going to happen. I’d be very concerned about running up the uni debts and if the career will be available in the end.

MrsLizzieDarcy · 26/02/2026 16:39

Benefits should never give an equivalent lifestyle to working, and until we address that ... nothing will change.

Springisnearlyspring · 26/02/2026 16:39

@LunaDeBallona is there anything at all that might suit on local councils websites. If she ticks she has a disability it’s usually guaranteed interview if meet essential criteria. Having been private sector now local government it’s definitely a different environment and much more diverse workforce.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 16:39

TallulahBetty · 26/02/2026 16:34

Yeah well we're all pretty fed up tbf

Working our arses off and being taxed to the hilt

That’s the Labour effect 😎

LakieLady · 26/02/2026 16:40

Welfare is meant to be a cover for when people hit difficult times not a way of life.

Some people are permanently having "difficult times" though @Rainbow1901 .

My brother is bipolar and it is only controlled by monthly depot injections that turn him into a zombie for the first couple of weeks. Then he has a few days of being more or less ok until he starts to get delusional and hyper for the last week.

He's 60 and hasn't been able to work for decades. He last had a job in his late twenties or early 30s.

Mintearo7 · 26/02/2026 16:40

The employment landscape has changed massively, physical retail and hospitality are dying industries so why look for jobs there, and formal employment is never going to be the same for young people. People of our generation turn their nose up at kids wanting to be you tubers but tbh, I think good on those that are trying their luck, gaining skills in digital content creation, and earning some money. The advantage that young people have over what we did is online information and training at their fingertips. A lot of skills can be self-taught, including staying ahead of AI. Yes it might not lead to the perfect permanent job but I do think those who can demonstrate continuous self- learning and creativity network will eventually see success via a mixture of permanent and temporary opportunities.

Boomer55 · 26/02/2026 16:41

Ablondiebutagoody · 26/02/2026 13:32

Labour won't bring in compulsory work placements. All the shitty schemes in the World won't make a jot of difference when it now costs so much to employ young people.

The deal forever has been "yes, you are young, have no experience, will mess up, will take time to train.......but you are cheap so I will take you on and see how you go". That's not the case anymore. My company always took on school leavers but we haven't done that for years. Might as well employ somebody experienced. And the last thing I would want is some divvy who is forced to be here on a compulsory placement.

Over generous benefits don't help either. Welfare should be slashed.

This. The jobless figures would improve if people who have never paid in, weren't paid just to sit in their bums. 🙄

ohdelay · 26/02/2026 16:42

jojogwangwan · 26/02/2026 16:37

That’s crazy, hire someone who could be a total liability then you can’t sack them wtf?

They could swan off sick immediately and get sick pay. Sounded great when it was framed as worker rights but with a bit more thought this should have been easily forseeable. In fact it was, but they did it anyway.

Another2Cats · 26/02/2026 16:42

easysundaytea · 26/02/2026 14:20

My child is one of them. Applying every day for jobs, working in a charity shop three days a week. Not signing on. 7 months now

Might I say that not signing on is not a good idea at all.

As a single person, presumably living at home, they will get £316.98 per month. But, more than that, they will also get free prescriptions, free NHS dental treatment (if you can actually find an NHS dentist that is), free NHS eye tests and help with the cost of glasses or contact lenses.

Importantly, you are also credited for NI payments. What this means is that these credits count towards your pension eligilibility. I know that your DC won't be thinking about a state pension at the moment but it does help to have these extra NI credits.

The Job Centre can also help with things like paying towards interview clothing if they have nothing suitable or helping with the costs of travelling to an interview.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:43

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

I was pro lockdown though😬

They just needed support to reintegrate. But nothing happened.

Pointofsingularity · 26/02/2026 16:45

TallulahBetty · 26/02/2026 16:34

Yeah well we're all pretty fed up tbf

Working our arses off and being taxed to the hilt

Well said!

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:46

Maybe they are all just overeducated😱

BIossomtoes · 26/02/2026 16:46

MrsLizzieDarcy · 26/02/2026 16:39

Benefits should never give an equivalent lifestyle to working, and until we address that ... nothing will change.

Good thing they’re not the equivalent then. A single person gets £100 a week, that’s £5.2k. Minimum wage is over £26k.

Autumngirl5 · 26/02/2026 16:47

A family member of mine is almost 24 and has never worked. His girlfriend who has a child has also never worked. They both live on benefits and it’s hard to understand why they can collect benefits every year and no inventive to have a job. They are both healthy and well.

YourSassyPanda · 26/02/2026 16:47

I think this is so area dependent. My 16 year old is doing his GCSEs this year and did a fitness type qualification in the first half term after his birthday which cost a couple of hundred pounds. He then walked into a part time job a week later and has been offered several more since. Admittedly this won’t be his main career but he is at least able to make money through it and can work for himself if needs be. We need to help set our kids up where we can, especially if we know it’s grim out there.

frozendaisy · 26/02/2026 16:48

Mintearo7 · 26/02/2026 16:40

The employment landscape has changed massively, physical retail and hospitality are dying industries so why look for jobs there, and formal employment is never going to be the same for young people. People of our generation turn their nose up at kids wanting to be you tubers but tbh, I think good on those that are trying their luck, gaining skills in digital content creation, and earning some money. The advantage that young people have over what we did is online information and training at their fingertips. A lot of skills can be self-taught, including staying ahead of AI. Yes it might not lead to the perfect permanent job but I do think those who can demonstrate continuous self- learning and creativity network will eventually see success via a mixture of permanent and temporary opportunities.

But replace people going out drinking with gyms, instead of shopping many more people get beauty treatments.

Theatres are full, some restaurants still thrive, there is a huge rise in delivery food, people still need to make it.

Things change but there are still service jobs.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/02/2026 16:50

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

I don’t agree. One of the main reasons I don’t agree is I was educating my kids at home during covid while my partner went to work every day. Neither of us were Covid Walking Cunts aimlessly wandering through the countryside or riding a bloody Peloton or buying a dog or endlessly baking or whatever other ridiculous shit people were doing over that period.

As a result I have two kids who are completely unscathed by Covid. In fact it ended up doing me a huge favour as I realised how behind educationally my older child was and I was able to catch him up to the point that he’s now top sets and hopefully on his way to a decent set of exam results.

WhenWillItBeSpringAgain · 26/02/2026 16:51

It’s strange because I swear only a few years ago everyone was saying we need more and more immigration because we have no young people to do the jobs.

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:51

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 26/02/2026 16:43

I was pro lockdown though😬

They just needed support to reintegrate. But nothing happened.

My point isn’t a pro or anti lockdown post - it is what it is, and what happened, happened. My issue is that we have utterly failed young people, by just expecting them to pick back up where they left off. In many hundreds of thousands of cases, they watched their parents on furlough sit in the garden and get paid to do absolutely nothing for months on end, yet now we criticise them when they think they’re too good for an entry level role. That’s if they aren’t being criticised because their parents are on benefits so they are now too.
Kids learn what they live, and half the time they’ve turned out they way they have because their parents were not perhaps the role models they so often pat themselves on the back for. We owe it to them to demand much more from our leaders so they at least have half a chance of a life like we’ve had.

RhaenysRocks · 26/02/2026 16:52

PrismRain · 26/02/2026 15:00

I have two cousins aged 17 & 18, both studying, both working part time in B&Q. My niece is a student, also working part time in a bar. There are jobs out there if you put in the effort to get one. When I was a student I got two part time jobs by walking into shops and asking if they had any jobs going. I’m also diagnosed autistic and it was very difficult to do it but I needed money so I had to force myself to do it despite how uncomfortable and stressful it was. Initiative and genuine need to survive seems to have escaped a lot of young people nowadays. They are mollycoddled and have been raised with ridiculously unrealistic expectations about what they should expect from life at the launch stage.

The systems have changed. You've literally got people on here saying their young person is doing everything they can but just not getting anywhere. No sentence that starts 'young people today are all, or mostly are crap and lazy and entitled' is fair.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 26/02/2026 16:53

DrToothandtheElectricMayhem · 26/02/2026 16:23

I’m with you. We are a shitty generation of adults - and I’m talking about all the parents of children in their 40’s upwards - who have utterly let the next generation down. We protected the elderly - who, quite honestly, have had their time, and could protect themselves by isolating - but instead, locked everyone down and kept our kids at home for months and months. We sacrificed the wellbeing and development of a generation as a result. We now have a generation of kids who either can’t cope, won’t cope, or can’t work because there is none, even if they are resilient and want to work. We have set them up for that by taking them out of school, socially isolating them and then exposing them to stupid alarmist fucking news broadcasts on the number of rising deaths, played on repeat, day after day. And we have done fuck all of any value to really help them recover as a result. All those old people we protected in doing so died or will die anyway, but vast numbers of young people have a long life of uncertainty, borderline poverty and pessimism to look forward to. All while never moving out of home because they can’t afford it.
On top of that, they also have loads of middle aged people who had way more advantages and possibilities as a generation now telling them they’re all workshy and useless. And all this, largely from Gen X’ers, who are the first to wang on about how great we are as a generation, despite the fact we are the very generation that put mobile phones and iPads into our kids hands from a young age, yet now wonder why they can’t function like the generations before did 🙄

We should be ashamed, really.

And before some pro-lockdown person tells me how bad it all was, and how wrong I am, I worked front line. It was still a pile of shit, handled appallingly, which we sleepwalked into and the biggest losers were our kids.

Edited

If this is all true, what about the many "covid" young people who ARE working/contributing towards our society. They lived through this as well!!