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To think that the overtime should be paid?

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SorcererGaheris · 25/02/2026 11:26

In the bookshop in which I volunteer, there are two paid employees - the FT manager and PT deputy manager. (It's a charity shop.)

I've been aware for a while that the charity does not pay the shop's employees for any overtime they do (which is probably the main reason that the deputy manager generally refuses to work more than her contracted hours.) But I assumed that since this was the case, they could therefore not expect employees to do overtime, since it's not paid.

However, the manager is under pressure to keep the shop open for longer during the week and to also keep the shop open on Sundays when the volunteer team for that day are unable to come in. Sunday is the one day when there is no paid member of staff in the shop and it's entirely volunteer led, but but occasionally there are times when the volunteers can't come in to do their shift and when that happens the shop is closed on that Sunday.

From a recent conversation I had with the manager, it seems that the charity does indeed expect her to do unpaid overtime, and there is so much pressure that it seems she is more or less almost forced into doing it.

Discussing this with other volunteers, I learned that the charity offers time off in lieu for unpaid overtime, and that it would be in the employment contract. Time off in lieu would be reasonable IF taking additional time off was usually a practical possibility, but given the nature of charity shops relying on a staff of majority volunteers, taking additional time off is often NOT a practical possibility.

So what seems to happen in practice is that the manager ends up doing overtime that is completely unrenumerated in any way.

This set-up seems unfair to me. In typical retail, I imagine time-off in lieu of payment for overtime would be more reasonable, because all the staff contractually have to be there, so there're more flexibility and consistent cover. This is not the case with charity shops.

Given the nature of charity shops, I think that the charity should either commit to paying any overtime they demand - or at the very least, they should not put pressure on their employees to do the overtime when they're aware that it can't really be compensated.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/03/2026 10:40

Are you the poster whose manager was a little short with you when she'd been working seven days a week for ages and was also dealing with a toilet the charity had failed to get fixed?

She is very much being forced to earn under minimum wage with those hours.

Oxfam are bullying and exploiting their lowest paid staff (because shop staff are absolutely the lowest in the food chain) in order to make higher profits. There may also be an element of sexism and ageism towards her in the bullying/pressure/exploitation because it makes her more vulnerable to it, as they are all aware that she may find it difficult to gain a similar role elsewhere.

SorcererGaheris · 03/03/2026 10:41

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/03/2026 10:40

Are you the poster whose manager was a little short with you when she'd been working seven days a week for ages and was also dealing with a toilet the charity had failed to get fixed?

She is very much being forced to earn under minimum wage with those hours.

Oxfam are bullying and exploiting their lowest paid staff (because shop staff are absolutely the lowest in the food chain) in order to make higher profits. There may also be an element of sexism and ageism towards her in the bullying/pressure/exploitation because it makes her more vulnerable to it, as they are all aware that she may find it difficult to gain a similar role elsewhere.

@NeverDropYourMooncup

Are you the poster whose manager was a little short with you when she'd been working seven days a week for ages and was also dealing with a toilet the charity had failed to get fixed?

Yes.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/03/2026 10:48

SorcererGaheris · 03/03/2026 10:41

@NeverDropYourMooncup

Are you the poster whose manager was a little short with you when she'd been working seven days a week for ages and was also dealing with a toilet the charity had failed to get fixed?

Yes.

Thought so, thank you.

It can be difficult when something you are doing for pleasure is also a place where somebody is subject to such treatment. The cognitive dissonance is clearly playing on your mind.

5foot5 · 03/03/2026 11:28

A different job might be better for her, but considering her age (she'll be 67 this year) and her health (I think she's a diabetic) I wonder if she doubts her chances of being accepted for another position?
@SorcererGaheris I know this isn't quite the point of the thread, but seeing as she is nearly state retirement age maybe she is just putting up with it for a little bit longer before she can stop altogether.

SorcererGaheris · 03/03/2026 11:30

5foot5 · 03/03/2026 11:28

A different job might be better for her, but considering her age (she'll be 67 this year) and her health (I think she's a diabetic) I wonder if she doubts her chances of being accepted for another position?
@SorcererGaheris I know this isn't quite the point of the thread, but seeing as she is nearly state retirement age maybe she is just putting up with it for a little bit longer before she can stop altogether.

@5foot5

Maybe - I do wonder whether she will end up taking retirement when she turns 67, though. She may feel she wants/needs to stay in paid employment, considering she has rent to pay as well as other bills, and would want some disposable income as well as that. Retiring would mean a significant drop in her income.

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AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 04/03/2026 19:36

SorcererGaheris · 03/03/2026 10:02

@AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment

I agree that it is partly a management issue, but I also blame the charity overall for choosing to use these kind of unreliable waste collection companies in the first place.

None of them would have allowed donated stock to be placed on the stairs down to the basement, not even for a moment. The trip and slip risk is blindingly obvious

This one is definitely on the shop's managers, I agree.

If your management was on the phone chasing it up every time the company failed to appear, the waste company would be keeping the booking.

Our manager does chase it up when the company fails to appear. Because of the contact system she has to use, she is not permitted to phone the waste collection company - but she emails the company to report that they haven't shown up (and emails every other week that they fail to show) as well as telephones Oxfam Waste Management and reports their failure to show up.

In this scenario, she does do what she can - she reports it consistently. I don't see what else she can do besides that.

Why is the shop still using this company when it doesn't turn up?

The shop doesn't have a choice. It's not the individual shops that choose the collection company, it's Oxfam as a charity, so the shops are stuck with whatever company they've hired until/unless the charity decides to change it.

Is this one a company that pays for good condition books, or one that your shop pays?

The company takes all our scrap stock to be thrown away (recycled) and it includes both culled stock and stock that was in too bad a condition to put out for sale in the first place.

Our individual shop doesn't pay the company - it's Oxfam as a charity that hires these companies and pays them. The individual shops don't have anything to do with it.

If the shop can't dispose of the old stock/rubbish, the shop needs to be placing a sign up at the door saying that you can't accept donations at the moment. It's what other charity shops do.

That does happen occasionally, although perhaps not as often as it should do. I think our manager is reluctant to turn newer donations away (even when our Scrap is starting to get out of hand) because she feels under pressure to meet sales targets, and turning newer donations away means potentially loss of sales.

Okay, you're right, I am being rather unfair to your manager. When I was last at Oxfam, managers were allowed more latitude to arrange waste collection independently. It wasn't a top-down national decision imposed upon shops at all.

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