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To be fine with the human race becoming extinct

126 replies

Designless · 25/02/2026 09:23

I mean ideally not while I'm around to see it but I assume it will happen eventually and I don't care at all.

I ask this became some people do seem to care and say things Iike "if we don't have more children our species will come to an end!"

...ok and?

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RainbowBagels · 25/02/2026 10:30

Tulipsriver · 25/02/2026 10:23

Presuming it happened after me and my children/potential grandchildren were gone, the issue for me wouldn't so much 'oh no, there aren't anymore humans around' (though this is a bit sad to consider). It's the other things that would accompany human extinction that really bother me.

I can't imagine a scenario where we just slowly and peacefully die out, so there's likely to be a lot of human suffering involved which I do care about. And it's unlikely that we'd carefully close down all our infrastructure and I imagine that would cause issues for animals? (I'm pretty sure abandoned nuclear power sites would be dangerous, I'm sure other human odds and ends left to collapse would be problematic too...though I'm not knowledgeable on all the ins and outs).

Then there's the dogs and other domesticated species. Surely a lot would starve and die, but would the ones that survived be able to build happy lives after so many years of domestication?

Domesticated animals would be eaten pretty quickly by stronger domesticated animals and then by wild animals. They wouldn't stand a chance.

MasterBeth · 25/02/2026 10:32

Designless · 25/02/2026 09:47

Well... I'm not a biologically driven creature to that extent. I don't mind if there are no more humans. (I do not want future humans I will never meet to suffer but collectively I don't think we are that important)

You don't want future humans you'll never meet to suffer and yet...

The only way humanity will become extinct is through mass and prolonged human suffering. Famine and war and disease and disaster. For hundreds and probably thousands of years.

So I think this is a pretty silly, sixth form conversation.

PollyBell · 25/02/2026 10:36

Having children shouldn't be a hobby

CurlewKate · 25/02/2026 10:37

I love my species. OK, so some of them are shit, but most are pretty amazing. No, I don’t want us to go extinct.

ThatSourGobstopper · 25/02/2026 10:39

I think it would be the best thing in the world if humans became extinct. It’s almost like the planet needs to blow up completely and start again from scratch.
Theres too much violence, destruction and depravity in this world. To name a few: Wars, Body Of German Woman, Paraded By Hamas, Found In Gaza.
Epstein and his associates, Lily Philips, Bonnie Blue and their customers, Plumpton College students sadistic killing of a sheep https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2g9e3q3gdo
Abusers, Murderers, Racists, Perpetrators of domestic violence, Peadophiles… etc, etc, etc. The list could go on and on and on.
What a horrible world we live in. How did it ever come to this?!
Human beings are the worst species on the planet!

Two young men in police mugshots looking straight at the camera

Former Plumpton College students detained for 'sadistic' killing of sheep

Leighton Ashby and Oakley Holland beat the animal to death, then inserted fireworks in its body.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2g9e3q3gdo

gannett · 25/02/2026 10:40

Does the specific idea of humanity going extinct actually keep anyone up at night? Obviously everyone cares about their loved ones and in a more abstract sense the things they love about human culture, but if you were told that yes, millennia from now humanity would be extinct, would you actually feel especially distressed?

gannett · 25/02/2026 10:42

adlitem · 25/02/2026 09:27

From an evolutionary perspective our one and only goal is to ensure the survival of our species. That's what all our biological drives aim towards.

Re children I'd be more worried about who is going to pay for our pensions and care if we don't have them than survival of the human race.

Oh bore off with the evolutionary perspective.

People who reduce everything down to our "biological drives" are TEDIOUS, insulting to the child-free and infertile, and homophobic to boot. And just plain wrong too.

SpottyPott · 25/02/2026 10:42

MidnightMeltdown · 25/02/2026 09:49

YANBU We will go extinct at some point. What does it matter whether it’s in a 100 years or 10,000 years?

100 years? Most people would mind, that’s out chidlren and grandchildren suffering

H34th · 25/02/2026 10:44

Well, I just spotted a very frail, elderly person taken into the doctors surgery and had the horrible, terrible thought that humans are not happier for living longer and if we all lived shorter lives, individual life quality and society overall would be better off.
But actually so much of science is focused on prolonging human life at the moment.

adlitem · 25/02/2026 10:46

gannett · 25/02/2026 10:42

Oh bore off with the evolutionary perspective.

People who reduce everything down to our "biological drives" are TEDIOUS, insulting to the child-free and infertile, and homophobic to boot. And just plain wrong too.

🙄

Whether you like it or not, that is how evolution works. I am not reducing anything to anything, I am well aware that we are a (comparatively) sophisticated species and we have (thankfully) evolved beyond just these biological functions. It still doesn't change the fact that we - as a species, not as individuals - are designed to keep ourselves alive. That's basically what all our bodily functions exist for (and no, I am not just talking about reproduction).

AWedgeOfLemonAndASmartAnswerForEverything · 25/02/2026 10:56

SleepingStandingUp · 25/02/2026 09:51

Long term it's inevitable, so I think in that sense yanbu.

However do you mean once you're dead you're quite happy for some sort of apocalypse to kill off everyone else cos meh? Who cares about the long drawn out process that extinction would bring and the human misery it would cause? Then yabu.

Extinction in and of itself as a concept is one thing but it's the actual route to it that people don't wish on other people.

I assume you don't have kids. If everyone starting today made the same choice, what do you think society will look like in 30 years? The youngest people in the workforce will be 30. So unemployment for anyone who works in any sort of paediatric / child job.

I 50 years when those kids are.... 50! they will be the ones in jobs trying to support our generation in our dotage. We won't need houses, schools, colleges etc. altho the depleted job market may well balance out the depleted population.
20 years later, you've got a population in their elder years dying alone in their homes, likely lingering deaths as everyone else is at least as old as them.

Or the apocalypse route. Natural disaster / something worse than Covid wipes out millions. People deal with incredible losses and society crumbles as the infrastructure collapses. Those left can either try to build a rudimentary society or it all goes a bit 28 days Later.

Are those the scenarios you're cool with cos they won't directly affect you?

Won't someone think of the paediatric nurses!?

These threads are always stupid because people come up with nonsense scenarios where one thing changes (e.g. AI takes everyone's job), but nothing else does (people have no money, so everyone dies of starvation except a handful of tech bros).

MferMonsterSearchingForRedemption · 25/02/2026 11:04

WallaceinAnderland · 25/02/2026 10:25

Yes I'm ok with it. In fact I think the world would be a better place without humans.

Agreed.

Nodlikeyouwerelistening · 25/02/2026 11:11

I mean it’s not likely to be an overnight thing though, like every human goes to bed one night and doesn’t wake up. There’s either a catastrophic event with untold suffering to make that happen, or a slow population decline, which would mean lost knowledge like medicine and technology making life harder for those remaining. If it was something like fertility decreasing then some handmaids tale type scenario could happen before that, so again more suffering before the extinction.
And then eventually one or two people will be left in the entire world to slowly die alone. That thought makes me very sad to be honest. Especially if those last remaining were children.
Whilst I know humans do diabolical things in and to this world, not every human is bad. And I also know every species will die out or go exist at one time or another, but I don’t want to think how it will be for those last survivors.

JHound · 25/02/2026 11:13

Designless · 25/02/2026 09:23

I mean ideally not while I'm around to see it but I assume it will happen eventually and I don't care at all.

I ask this became some people do seem to care and say things Iike "if we don't have more children our species will come to an end!"

...ok and?

It will never come to an end but like you I truly don’t care about birth rates nor humanity ending.

We just need to change the way we do things in society.

user1492757084 · 25/02/2026 11:17

Humans have destroyed many beautiful natural habitats of other creatures.
Our over population risks more diseases to all living things. Our food is being grown further away - not locally, fresh and with few air miles.

Eventually humans will breed themselves to extinction or to drastic culling. We consume too much. Even now we think resources of water, land etc can be utilised to house data and grow AI. Construction teams envelop fields every hour.

Humanity has forgotten about the insects, animals, flowers and trees that need to exist in unison to keep the planet healthy.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 25/02/2026 11:19

I think it would be a huge shame if the only species that was attempting to work out the complexities of the earth's processes and the universe was wiped out.

Are we not the only species that can comprehend the beauty of the whole earth and the universe and the only species to try to figure out how it all works?

In a hundred years we may even have a way to visit all parts of the universe. It would be such a shame to snuff that out!!!

So YABU if you can't feel excited about the possibilities of humans continuing to exist.

NotDavidTennant · 25/02/2026 11:25

People only say this because they're thinking of humanity in an abstract sense. If you thought of all the individual lives that would be snuffed out you wouldn't be so blasé about it.

JHound · 25/02/2026 11:43

NotDavidTennant · 25/02/2026 11:25

People only say this because they're thinking of humanity in an abstract sense. If you thought of all the individual lives that would be snuffed out you wouldn't be so blasé about it.

Everybody dies.

Maisey1991 · 25/02/2026 11:53

Designless · 25/02/2026 09:23

I mean ideally not while I'm around to see it but I assume it will happen eventually and I don't care at all.

I ask this became some people do seem to care and say things Iike "if we don't have more children our species will come to an end!"

...ok and?

I agree in principle- surely the planet will be glad of us when we are gone, however what worries me in how unstable and dangerous it will be for the ones left at the end, and when that might be. Probably in 200 years? Unfortunately due to greedy psychopathic tech companies and billionaires and the result of capitalism, humans will be at war over habitat loss due to climate change and water and food scarcity. Ideally we’d have a controlled and consented to, population decline (aka falling birth rates) and go back to living off the land in small communities. But that’s bad for capitalism so they won’t let us.

Maisey1991 · 25/02/2026 11:56

H34th · 25/02/2026 10:44

Well, I just spotted a very frail, elderly person taken into the doctors surgery and had the horrible, terrible thought that humans are not happier for living longer and if we all lived shorter lives, individual life quality and society overall would be better off.
But actually so much of science is focused on prolonging human life at the moment.

Edited

And I really believe that other than to prevent suffering of diseases the true reason of us living longer is to be worker bees for longer. I’m 34 and imagine I’ll “be allowed” to retire from the NHS at 70-75 at this rate. It’s currently 68 for me.

MidnightMeltdown · 25/02/2026 12:05

SpottyPott · 25/02/2026 10:42

100 years? Most people would mind, that’s out chidlren and grandchildren suffering

Edited

So it’s ok if it’s your great, great, great grandchildren, but not your grandchildren?

Why? Because you expect your genes to be more diluted by then?

MidnightMeltdown · 25/02/2026 12:12

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 25/02/2026 11:19

I think it would be a huge shame if the only species that was attempting to work out the complexities of the earth's processes and the universe was wiped out.

Are we not the only species that can comprehend the beauty of the whole earth and the universe and the only species to try to figure out how it all works?

In a hundred years we may even have a way to visit all parts of the universe. It would be such a shame to snuff that out!!!

So YABU if you can't feel excited about the possibilities of humans continuing to exist.

We are also the only species to create massive destruction to virtually every other species on the planet. Unfortunately, humans do a lot more harm than good. Even if we didn’t go extinct, the world would be significantly better off if our numbers were dramatically reduced.

MidnightMeltdown · 25/02/2026 12:15

H34th · 25/02/2026 10:44

Well, I just spotted a very frail, elderly person taken into the doctors surgery and had the horrible, terrible thought that humans are not happier for living longer and if we all lived shorter lives, individual life quality and society overall would be better off.
But actually so much of science is focused on prolonging human life at the moment.

Edited

Agree. I don’t think that we should be so focused on prolonging life at all costs.

BerthaFlapjack · 25/02/2026 12:18

I agree. Humans do not deserve this planet. We are the only species to have treated it with utter contempt.

Our selfishness, greed and ignorance would not be missed and nature has an amazing ability to regenerate over time.

Highstool · 25/02/2026 12:23

I don't "mind" about the abstract concept of there being no more humans. I can eveb recognise that it would be a good thing.

But if not while you're around, when OP? For your DC or Grandchildren? And it will be awful. It won't happen overnight, there'll be drought, famine, war. We've actually been trying to do it for a long time.

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