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To think ROSPA should make it clear that Older Driver Assessments might result in a loss of license?

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sprucinitup · 22/02/2026 19:27

An elderly relative was recently diagnosed with a medical condition which does not result in automatic loss of driving license, but nevertheless, his GP recommended that he undertake a free Older Driver Assessment, saying he thought it might be "helpful". He gave my relative a leaflet which also described the assessment as "helpful". My relative booked an assessment. It consisted of online cognitive tests and a practical driving assessment. At the end of this, my relative was told he was driving too hesitantly. But rather than offering the "re-training" mentioned in the leaflet, they removed his license.

He is understandably very upset about this, because he wasn't warned that loss of license was a potential outcome.

This is the website: https://www.olderdrivers.org.uk/driver-assessment/ . If there is info on there about loss of license then it must be well buried because I can't see it.

He is very responsible, and will of course accept the decision, but aibu to think that there should be a more transparent process, so that elderly folk don't feel tricked into giving up their license by stealth?

Driver Assessment | Older Drivers

Advice for older drivers to help them drive safely for longer.

https://www.olderdrivers.org.uk/driver-assessment

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Barnbrack · 23/02/2026 21:55

JenniferBooth · 23/02/2026 21:35

Which makes it look even more like its targeting older drivers by stealth. I was going to be a bit facetious and ask if i as a non driver passed the online test could i then get behind the wheel? Obvs i know the answer to that but thats what you get when you flip reverse it.
I attempted to learn to drive when i was seventeen but i was so bloody nervous behind the wheel i knew that it wasnt for me.

If you passed the online test you would be perfectly entitled to consider yourself cognitively capable of learning to drive. What a silly silly point.

JenniferBooth · 23/02/2026 22:03

Barnbrack · 23/02/2026 21:55

If you passed the online test you would be perfectly entitled to consider yourself cognitively capable of learning to drive. What a silly silly point.

Can you not see how fucking dystopian it is to have an ONLINE test for a PHYSICAL action like driving. It IS silly which was my fucking point And as @StandingSideBySide has pointed out its bloody dangerous which is far far worse than silly silly

StandingSideBySide · 23/02/2026 22:19

Barnbrack · 23/02/2026 21:55

If you passed the online test you would be perfectly entitled to consider yourself cognitively capable of learning to drive. What a silly silly point.

The test is flawed through bias
RTFT

NotAnotherScarf · 23/02/2026 22:26

Have I missed something? He took an assessment to see if was safe to drive. He failed. Ergo he's not safe to drive.

It's like a person I met who "let" her elderly father drive, but only in the village because he's not really safe on the road!

In a day and age where mobility scooters are cheap and have a decent range, just accept that some elderly people are not capable of driving safely.

I worked for a couple of years in motor claims so I might have seen one too many accident caused by an elderly person being unable to stop their car and hitting their own garage door

JenniferBooth · 23/02/2026 22:30

NotAnotherScarf · 23/02/2026 22:26

Have I missed something? He took an assessment to see if was safe to drive. He failed. Ergo he's not safe to drive.

It's like a person I met who "let" her elderly father drive, but only in the village because he's not really safe on the road!

In a day and age where mobility scooters are cheap and have a decent range, just accept that some elderly people are not capable of driving safely.

I worked for a couple of years in motor claims so I might have seen one too many accident caused by an elderly person being unable to stop their car and hitting their own garage door

lol you are so going to regret bringing up mobility scooters DH has a mobility scooter. Back in twenty seventeen the housing association threatened to take it and destroy it. He now has a shed to store it in which he pays for. To save me writing a novel here is a thread

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3095770-to-worry-that-the-Grenfell-Tower-fire-is-now-being-used-as-an-excuse-to-bully-disabled-tenants

StandingSideBySide · 23/02/2026 23:29

NotAnotherScarf · 23/02/2026 22:26

Have I missed something? He took an assessment to see if was safe to drive. He failed. Ergo he's not safe to drive.

It's like a person I met who "let" her elderly father drive, but only in the village because he's not really safe on the road!

In a day and age where mobility scooters are cheap and have a decent range, just accept that some elderly people are not capable of driving safely.

I worked for a couple of years in motor claims so I might have seen one too many accident caused by an elderly person being unable to stop their car and hitting their own garage door

Re the assessment
Yes you’ve missed something RTT

FairKoala · 24/02/2026 03:45

SleafordSods · 23/02/2026 19:50

I would really recommend not doing this OP.

Someone who assesses the ability of others to drive has said that your DFIL is no longer safe to drive.

It must be upsetting for him and he does seem to feel tricked into this situation but the fact remains that he is not safe to drive and could end up killing or seriously injuring other people.

I do agree with the other posters saying that either something pretty major has been omitted in the story when it was told to you or your DILS no longer have the cognition to understand and relay information accurately.

Whichever it is, the fact remains that a professional has seen something during the test which they think makes him unsafe. He isn’t going to keep his licence by causing a fuss over wording. If it did result in him keeping his licence, well. I’m not sure I could live with my conscience if I had assisted him with that result.

But the issue is that no where does it say that taking an assessment can mean they could lose their licence

Using the word assessment means more about seeing where you are in terms of what you know. You shouldn’t be able to fail an assessment.

You can however fail an exam. But this wasn’t the word used.

If no where does it say that if deemed a fail you lose your licence then it would leave them open to being taken to court to apoeal

People might think that it is obvious that if someone fails they lose their licence but in court it is about what is written not what is assumed

Too many people don’t know the accurate meaning of words
Too many people don’t read the small print and accurately interpret what is written without putting their own assumptions and interpretations into the meaning

Womaninhouse17 · 24/02/2026 03:53

FairKoala · 24/02/2026 03:45

But the issue is that no where does it say that taking an assessment can mean they could lose their licence

Using the word assessment means more about seeing where you are in terms of what you know. You shouldn’t be able to fail an assessment.

You can however fail an exam. But this wasn’t the word used.

If no where does it say that if deemed a fail you lose your licence then it would leave them open to being taken to court to apoeal

People might think that it is obvious that if someone fails they lose their licence but in court it is about what is written not what is assumed

Too many people don’t know the accurate meaning of words
Too many people don’t read the small print and accurately interpret what is written without putting their own assumptions and interpretations into the meaning

It's not automatic that you lose your licence if you 'fail' the assessment. Your fitness for driving is assessed. If you are a danger to yourself or other road users, there are further steps which could lead to loss of licence. It's a driver's responsibility to ensure they are fit to drive. The assessment could help them to make changes (e.g. new glasses) or to make them realise they are not safe to drive - and should therefore give up their licence. I'm glad that there are mechanisms to prevent unsafe drivers from driving.

FairKoala · 24/02/2026 04:00

Barnbrack · 23/02/2026 12:53

This is a wild take. This was a driving assessment in light of what sounds like cognitive decline recommended by a GP who wouldn't recommend it if they didn't suspect it could be an issue. You want someone not fit to drive to be allowed to keep driving while continuing today ecline?

This wasn't a skills test like a normal driving test, this was a check of how a health condition is affecting driving capability

But it is an accurate take.

Assessment infers telling you where you are in relation to what you could concentrate on to improve and what tips you need

An exam is something you can fail. This wasn’t an exam

Amberlynnswashcloth · 24/02/2026 06:51

There's a difference between people who need to be disqualified on medical grounds (which would apply to any age group) and routine testing of older people just because they are older.

It might be worth pointing out that many people would fail if they had to retake their test. I'm a (mature) learner and have failed twice for things I see most drivers do every day.

SleafordSods · 24/02/2026 07:09

FairKoala · 24/02/2026 03:45

But the issue is that no where does it say that taking an assessment can mean they could lose their licence

Using the word assessment means more about seeing where you are in terms of what you know. You shouldn’t be able to fail an assessment.

You can however fail an exam. But this wasn’t the word used.

If no where does it say that if deemed a fail you lose your licence then it would leave them open to being taken to court to apoeal

People might think that it is obvious that if someone fails they lose their licence but in court it is about what is written not what is assumed

Too many people don’t know the accurate meaning of words
Too many people don’t read the small print and accurately interpret what is written without putting their own assumptions and interpretations into the meaning

No the issue is that a professional has seen something on the day that made them say he shoukd no longer be driving. Yes the wording may not be clear, yes you could talk about appealing. I’m just can’t see why you would want to in this case.

The OP does not have the full facts and if the DILs think they have given the full facts then they do not have enough cognition to understand fully what has happened and relay fully that information to the OP.

Whichever way you look at it her DFIL should not be driving and I wouldn’t be encouraging him to appeal. Like a PP said, you could frame it as a positive. He has found out that he is no longer safe to drive and hasn’t caused any accidents. Plus he’ll no longer have the expense of the car.

I don’t think the OP is coming back though.

Womaninhouse17 · 24/02/2026 08:21

FairKoala · 24/02/2026 04:00

But it is an accurate take.

Assessment infers telling you where you are in relation to what you could concentrate on to improve and what tips you need

An exam is something you can fail. This wasn’t an exam

You can't always improve eyesight or cognitive capabilities. You don't fail the assessment, you fail to reach the standard necessary to drive safely. If you can't improve, then you shouldn't be driving.

Letsbe · 24/02/2026 08:24

I think I would be saying to him its awful to have lost your licence but far better than dying or being injured in an accident. Thank goodness you are safer now.

SumUp · 24/02/2026 14:30

Womaninhouse17 · 23/02/2026 10:55

If it's a test of fitness to drive, surely it's obvious that one outcome could be that you're not fit to drive - in which case losing your licence is the best course?

It still needs to be communicated, in plain language.

All kinds of people drive, including those who struggle with literacy or for whom English is not their first language. Make the information transparent and as accessible as possible.

Womaninhouse17 · 24/02/2026 18:40

SumUp · 24/02/2026 14:30

It still needs to be communicated, in plain language.

All kinds of people drive, including those who struggle with literacy or for whom English is not their first language. Make the information transparent and as accessible as possible.

Not really. If you aren't safe to drive, you shouldn't have a licence so it doesn't really matter whether you expect you might lose it or not. Would you really prefer that unsafe drivers just kept quiet and carried on driving? A car can be a lethal weapon.

JenniferBooth · 19/04/2026 15:23

@sprucinitup how are things now Has he been able to use public transport or got an account with a taxi firm?

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