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Who invented the term spends or spenny?

51 replies

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:33

Spends for spending money

Spenny for expensive

I hear it and think 🤢

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youalright · 21/02/2026 14:35

Spends pisses me of. Thankfully have never heard spenny

AccidentallyPorked · 21/02/2026 14:37

I'm sure "spends" was in ancient boarding school stories I read as a child!

AWedgeOfLemonAndASmartAnswerForEverything · 21/02/2026 14:38

I doubt we'll ever know, because I'm sure whoever it was was put against a wall and shot, then their body quietly slipped into the sea, like Osama Bin Laden.

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:39

Whoever invented ‘holibobs’ - that’s who!

MrTwisterHasABlister · 21/02/2026 14:40

I’m with you OP, they are both awful abbreviations.

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 21/02/2026 14:41

Spenny. What fresh hell.

Spends is bad enough.

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:42

Nosejobnelly · 21/02/2026 14:39

Whoever invented ‘holibobs’ - that’s who!

🤣 absolutely!!!

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1000StrawberryLollies · 21/02/2026 14:43

I've only ever seen 'spenny' on MN (and mostly on threads like this, where people are complaining about it. I totally agree it's annoying, but I've never heard anyone say it in real life!

StrawberrySquash · 21/02/2026 14:43

Spendy was bad enough, bit when it lost its D...

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:43

Yes it’s my well to do friends as well who regularly use this term. Then today whilst in Harrogate at a fun fair - parents hang it all the time and their kids

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mrsgilfeathers · 21/02/2026 14:44

I don’t know, but I wish they hadn’t.

Newbie8918 · 21/02/2026 14:44

‘Spends’ has been around for decades. I remember my grandma giving me money for ‘spends’ for school trips and I’m 45.

gototogo · 21/02/2026 14:45

No idea, same person who invented holibobs too i expect, my dd says all three and it annoys me

AWedgeOfLemonAndASmartAnswerForEverything · 21/02/2026 14:45

AccidentallyPorked · 21/02/2026 14:37

I'm sure "spends" was in ancient boarding school stories I read as a child!

As if the elites haven't visited enough misery upon the world.

mrsgilfeathers · 21/02/2026 14:47

Mind you, ‘How much do you have in your pench’ is surely a joint first!

bunnypenny · 21/02/2026 14:47

Same person who invented putting money into different “pots”. So cringe.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/02/2026 14:49

I have heard/seen ‘spendy’ and I assume ‘spenny’ has developed (devolved) from that.

I remember spends, as a shortening of spending money, being used for ages, and it doesn’t bother me too much. Spendy is a bit twee, and spenny is unacceptable.

FTHC · 21/02/2026 14:49

gototogo · 21/02/2026 14:45

No idea, same person who invented holibobs too i expect, my dd says all three and it annoys me

My husband says Morribobs and I do wonder if it's grounds for divorce?😔

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/02/2026 14:50

It’s grounds for a new patio, imo, @FTHC!

AspiringChatBot · 21/02/2026 14:51

"Spend(s)" as a noun apparently goes back to the 17th century, in the context of household or company accounting - "a few big spends at Christmas put him over his annual budget". "Spenny" has been variously blamed on Australia and SE England, but it's unclear if it's a phonetic spelling of how some people pronounce "spendy" (US-originated, early 20th century - but originally describing a person who spends a lot of money, not expensive/overpriced items) or if it's its own cutesy shortening of expensive, along the lines of champers and cozzie livs.

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:53

Newbie8918 · 21/02/2026 14:44

‘Spends’ has been around for decades. I remember my grandma giving me money for ‘spends’ for school trips and I’m 45.

Ah So potentially it was your grandma it’s originated from… obviously a joke 😅

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Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:54

FTHC · 21/02/2026 14:49

My husband says Morribobs and I do wonder if it's grounds for divorce?😔

Never heard this! Maybe its a cheery way to jazz up the weekly shop

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Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:55

mrsgilfeathers · 21/02/2026 14:47

Mind you, ‘How much do you have in your pench’ is surely a joint first!

Does pench mean purse or pension- not heard this but will pull a face when I do 😅

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goz · 21/02/2026 14:58

Spenny doesn’t bother me, spends I’ve only ever heard from older women.

LottieMary · 21/02/2026 15:25

@mrsgilfeathersthat was a hilarious thread