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Who invented the term spends or spenny?

51 replies

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:33

Spends for spending money

Spenny for expensive

I hear it and think 🤢

OP posts:
NigelFromAccounts · 21/02/2026 15:28

I hate "spends" or even worse, "spendies", for spending money 🤮

I call things spenny all the time though 😂

mrsgilfeathers · 21/02/2026 15:29

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:55

Does pench mean purse or pension- not heard this but will pull a face when I do 😅

It was about your pension…OP wanted to know (as I recall) ‘How much do you have in your pench?’ 🙄

titchy · 21/02/2026 15:32

Cozzilivs innit Grin

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/02/2026 15:35

I think Plattyjoobs was the worst of these.

Mumofteentwins · 21/02/2026 15:36

I once started a thread about spenny and got told IWBU. I can’t bear it. I see it on here all the time but never ever IRL.

muddyford · 21/02/2026 15:38

And 'lekky' . Makes me want to vomit.

Dollymylove · 21/02/2026 15:39

I can remember it from.being a kid. "Have you got your spends yet?"
What's so bad about that?

saraclara · 21/02/2026 15:42

I was born in 1955 and spends was what we got on holiday or on a school trip in the early sixties. We weren't remotely posh.

Catlover77 · 21/02/2026 15:44

Spends I have known since early childhood. Doesn’t sound strange to me.

On the other hand, spenny makes my toes curl

topcat2014 · 21/02/2026 15:46

I hate illiteracy and secretly judge. I know I shouldn't

FettleOfKish · 21/02/2026 15:47

AccidentallyPorked · 21/02/2026 14:37

I'm sure "spends" was in ancient boarding school stories I read as a child!

It was ‘spends’ for a school trip or a holiday when I was a kid 30+ years ago and we were the opposite end of the scale from boarding school. The OP mentions Harrogate, I have a county in common with that, is it a Yorkshire / Northern thing?

CaptainMyCaptain · 21/02/2026 15:48

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:55

Does pench mean purse or pension- not heard this but will pull a face when I do 😅

There was a whole thread on it. The poster was asking about her pension but most of the chat focused on 'pench'.

5128gap · 21/02/2026 15:57

Spends was used when I was a child in the 70s, when I was given holidays 'spends' by my Grandma. I've not come across 'spenny'. The team I hear used is 'spendy' as in 'I've had a spendy month' (spent a lot) and then used for things that require excess spending. Don't know who made it up. I've been hearing it for a decade maybe.

ilovesooty · 21/02/2026 16:03

1000StrawberryLollies · 21/02/2026 14:43

I've only ever seen 'spenny' on MN (and mostly on threads like this, where people are complaining about it. I totally agree it's annoying, but I've never heard anyone say it in real life!

Only ever seen it on here. Just lazy.

ilovesooty · 21/02/2026 16:04

mrsgilfeathers · 21/02/2026 14:47

Mind you, ‘How much do you have in your pench’ is surely a joint first!

Oh yes. That was excruciating.

maybethisyear · 21/02/2026 16:24

The first and only people I have encountered using the words ‘spenny’ were upper sixth boys from one of the poshest boarding schools in England. Both on text and spoken. That was in 2020. Thank the lord I have not heard it since.

ForLoveNotMoney · 21/02/2026 16:29

The same person who calls their husband ‘hubby’.

Saying that, I really dislike the DH, DC etc on here 🤢

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 21/02/2026 16:31

Newbie8918 · 21/02/2026 14:44

‘Spends’ has been around for decades. I remember my grandma giving me money for ‘spends’ for school trips and I’m 45.

Yes, spends has been around for years.

I keep hearing "I'm not mad about it" which means the opposite to what it should!

MoreMaths · 21/02/2026 16:38

It was almost certainly invented by a person who is ‘going on holibobs with hubby, my little prince, and the rest of the famalam’ and wants to know how much they’ll need in ‘spends’ despite not giving any information about where they are going and what they might want to do when they get there.

The countdown to the holiday will be measured in ‘sleeps’ and they will be having a couple of ‘cheeky’ drinks at the airport.

Ohpleeeease · 21/02/2026 16:46

Spends has been around for ever. Not heard of spenny. Have been known to refer to someone as a spendy Wendy but that may just be me.

MilanoCortina2026 · 21/02/2026 16:49

Whoinvented · 21/02/2026 14:54

Never heard this! Maybe its a cheery way to jazz up the weekly shop

Sainsbugs and Sainos annoy me.

WildLeader · 21/02/2026 16:50

Both are utterly ridiculous tbh, total cringe.

also for Lush 🙄

Dontcallmescarface · 21/02/2026 17:12

My lovely Great-Grandma would always give us money for our "holiday spends". She died 50 years ago aged 96 so it's not exactly a new thing.

Guerlinade · 21/02/2026 17:17

FTHC · 21/02/2026 14:49

My husband says Morribobs and I do wonder if it's grounds for divorce?😔

It's Sainsbobs round here!

Anyway if you must then use 'spendy' but don't ever say 'spenny' in my earshot as it infuriates me.

sprigatito · 21/02/2026 17:19

My 21yo says spenny…I loathe it! Spends is older, I think